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<strong>COMMUNITY</strong> <strong>DIALOGUE</strong><br />

<strong>COMMUNITY</strong> MEETINGS<br />

Will Responsive Classrooms be discussed<br />

Did the SR&R Committee agree to the schedule? It's my understanding they specifically<br />

requested some of the meetings be held on weekends and/or at times other than evenings<br />

Will the dialogues be structured so that the community can speak directly to committee members,<br />

or will we talking to ourselves?<br />

PARENT NOTIFICATION<br />

I am a parent with three students currently enrolled at Lees Corner Elementary School. I am<br />

interested in how the review process is proceeding and would like to ask specifically about the<br />

discussion on the parental notification issue.<br />

I am in favor of requiring parental notification to the disciplinary process. I understand that the<br />

issue is complex, but feel strongly that parents are the key part of the discipline process.<br />

Are there any more public meetings that will address the issue, or should I compose a letter? Is<br />

there anyone specifically I should speak to? What resources are available on the web (or in other<br />

media) for me to review. Thank you for your assistance in this matter.<br />

Please feel free to contact me via the number below, should you like to discuss anything with me.<br />

While I can't attend the meeting, I thought I would share a parent's perspective on the policy that<br />

was in place in 2011. I don't know if it has changed since then, but I found it very concerning that<br />

before I received a phone call, my child and his property had been searched and he was told to<br />

confess and sign a statement based on an accusation of another child. Cooper Middle school had<br />

involved the police and not read him any rights, instead they told him it was in his best interest to<br />

confess to buying pot from another student. The first I knew about it was after he had written and<br />

signed something. I'm sure that was not in his best interest and seemed to go against his rights.<br />

Clearly the Principal and Vice Principal were authority figures and he did as he was told, but I<br />

don't think they should have that right with minors<br />

I would like to state that when children are accused of violating the rules beyond misbehaving, the<br />

parents must be notified immediately. Teachers/Counselors and Principals should not take on the<br />

job of "interrogating" the child without the parent's knowledge AND presence of the parents.<br />

School staff should be responsible for allowing the child to contact his/her parents to inform them<br />

about teh situation as well.<br />

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Bottom line, a child should not be confined without his parents to face the staff when a serious<br />

incident is on the table as this would have further implication on the child's psychological state adn<br />

how he perceives the school and the staff authority.<br />

SR&R<br />

Having had four children in FCPS, two already graduated and one about to graduate, I encourage<br />

you to add the following to your discipline policy so children are not marginalized and are given a<br />

chance to redeem any errors in judgment they might make. I believe a punitive approach to<br />

discipline is a failure in our school system because it marginalizes kids and doesn't give them a<br />

chance to improve. This has caused several suicides. This is unconscionable.<br />

I believe the following should be added to the SRR booklet:<br />

• Parent notification - Except in exigent circumstances (i.e., immediate danger to person or<br />

property) parents must be notified before students are questioned or asked to sign<br />

statements<br />

• Each individual school should be allowed to administer its discipline as it sees fit.<br />

Evidence-based disciplinary policies - Data shows, overwhelmingly, that punitive actions that push<br />

kids out of school do NOT work. School districts around the country are shifting from zerotolerance<br />

to prevention and intervention<br />

I am strongly opposed to zero tolerance disciplinary practices being used in FCPS, especially with<br />

regard to drugs or weapons. I believe that each incident should be resolved based on the<br />

circumstances of the specific case, and that parents should be brought into the process at the<br />

very beginning of any proceedings.<br />

I feel that the FCPS system is doing students and the community more harm than good when they<br />

summarily expel students discovered possessing any amount of any item that can be classified as<br />

a drug or weapon.<br />

My son went through this experience 3 years ago. He was banished to the Reston self learning<br />

site. Most of the kids there fell way behind. We were lucky, he finished two years of high school in<br />

6 months (tells another story) and went on to get a good job. However, to this day he is very bitter<br />

and feels like he missed his youth. While he made a mistake, he should have had to work hard to<br />

redeem himself, prove himself worthy of staying in his school and got some help. However, he<br />

was tossed aside. He was very honest when he was questioned by the school and admitted his<br />

mistake. His reward......an attack on his character at the "hearing" and expulsion. He even told<br />

them where the kids sell pot. They laughed at him and told him that was his perception. At that<br />

moment he decided never to trust anyone or admit his mistakes.<br />

Suspend the kids and set up an earn back program with check points each month on progress. If<br />

they miss to meet expectations twice, they are out. At least you give them hope and something to<br />

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work towards and provide a little support. Abolish that ridiculous "Hearing Board". All they do is<br />

impose the sentence after they express their opinions on your character. Waste of time and<br />

money.<br />

If this does not change I would strongly encourage every kid to memorize this: "I don't recall", Let<br />

me call my lawyer".<br />

I find that the SR and R is very well written. I have teenagers as well as younger children and my<br />

only comment (anonymously, please) is that, in particular to dress code, some of the high schools<br />

do not enforce this enough. There are girls with pencil skirts up to their bottoms and even<br />

teachers dressing inappropriately with low cut sweaters, etc. I would say that needs to be<br />

addressed within the schools themselves but as for the SR and R book, it's excellent.<br />

I will probably not be able to attend the upcoming meetings but wanted to express my concern for<br />

what I feel is too lenient of a punishment for bringing a gun to school. If I am reading the SR&R<br />

correctly, I walk away with the understanding that there is a required 10 day suspension with the<br />

recommendation for expulsion. (If I am not reading this correctly, please let me know). As a<br />

parent and alumni of Robinson where a student chose to bring a gun to school recently, it horrifies<br />

me that she could ever be allowed back at Robinson or any <strong>Fairfax</strong> <strong>County</strong> School. Bringing a<br />

loaded gun to school should be grounds for immediate, permanent expulsion. With all the daily<br />

shootings in America and attention that this issue is receiving, I would think this should be<br />

discussed and easily agreed upon. There should be no leniency for anyone who brings a gun to<br />

school.<br />

This is to say that the current policy is much improved over the previous, inflexible one. I had<br />

experience with the earlier one which I found very unsatisfactory and would not pass the<br />

ridiculous test.<br />

(My third grader was suspended for two days for a pencil poke that did not break the skin.) Thank<br />

you for changing it.<br />

When will the preliminary recommendations of the committee be available for review prior to the<br />

community dialogues?<br />

I wish to ask that the ad-hoc committee evaluate the current Student Rights<br />

and Responsibilities Handbook for the inclusion of teacher/student bullying. FCPS state that one<br />

of their missions is to provide a safe environment conducive to learning. The current handbook<br />

only mentions student/student bullying. There have been incidences where teachers have<br />

bullied/harassed students. The current handbook fails to address this situation. I believe that a<br />

simple look at other school systems, Baltimore <strong>County</strong> as an example, handbooks will show that<br />

teacher/student bullying has been specifically mentioned.<br />

I regret that I will not be able to attend the SR&R meetings but wanted to share my views and<br />

strong support for the following changes to Student Rights and responsibilities for FCPS. I<br />

strongly encourage FCPS to adopt the following:<br />

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Parent notification - Except in exigent circumstances (i.e., immediate danger to person or<br />

property) parents must be notified before students are questioned or asked to sign statements<br />

Student rights - Students have a constitutional right to remain silent, which should be stated<br />

outright in the SR&R. Any student who declines to answer questions about possible disciplinary<br />

infractions should not be declared insubordinate or disrespectful.<br />

Prevention first - Prevention, Intervention, Rehabilitation and Restoration (PIRR) efforts are<br />

preferred over punitive measures.<br />

Prevention is safer. Intervention is instructive. Rehabilitation and restorative justice turn negative<br />

situations into learning experiences that heal.<br />

Evidence-based disciplinary policies - Data shows, overwhelmingly, that punitive actions that push<br />

kids out of school do NOT work.<br />

School districts around the country are shifting from zero-tolerance to prevention and<br />

intervention.<br />

I have had personal experience with some of the current adverse SR&R and FCPS discipline<br />

policies and know that they have an extremely negative effect on FCPS students and their<br />

families. I am happy to share my experience if needed.<br />

This e-mail is submitted to the FCPS Ad Hoc Community Committee on Students Rights and<br />

Responsibilities as feedback on the committee's preliminary recommendations for changes to the<br />

SRR Handbook.<br />

I write as the parent of two children who attended and graduated from FCPS, one of whom taught<br />

for several years in several school systems, albeit not in FCPS. I draw on my personal<br />

experience observing my children's classes for one day each year in K through 8th grade, on my<br />

daughter's experience teaching in several school systems, on my many conversations with<br />

veteran teachers around the county, many first-person books by teachers and principals,<br />

and many comments by veteran teachers and principals on education websites and blogs.<br />

The SRR Handbook as well as the preliminary recommendations for changes largely focus on<br />

issues raised by serious misconduct.<br />

However, according to veteran teachers and principals -- particularly from low-SES-area schools -<br />

- the major obstacle to effective instruction is not serious misconduct but rather endemic minor<br />

misconduct. This misconduct constantly disrupts instruction, causes teacher burnout, and creates<br />

on-going peer pressure among students that perpetuates the endemic minor misconduct. Such<br />

minor misconduct includes, for example, momentary tardiness, talking to friends during class, not<br />

paying attention to instruction, asking superficially reasonable questions or making superficially<br />

reasonable requests solely to get attention or to "test" the teacher, moving around the classroom,<br />

rocking back and forth in the chair, dropping books or pens, fooling around on computers, making<br />

attention-getting noises or gestures, and ignoring or challenging routine teacher directives.<br />

It appears that in FCPS, as in most school systems, teachers and principals are pretty much on<br />

their own regarding such minor misconduct -- that is, there is no FCPS-endorsed approach to<br />

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classroom management or discipline policies at the teacher or principal level that<br />

directly addresses how best to prevent or remedy the minor misconduct. As a consequence, it is<br />

likely that some teachers condone minor misconduct that should not be tolerated and that some<br />

teachers react to minor misconduct with overly harsh or otherwise unproductive responses. It is<br />

similarly likely that principals vary widely regarding what they expect teachers to do when faced<br />

with minor misconduct as well as regarding the support -- or condemnation -- that principals<br />

provide to teachers who seek to establish and enforce appropriate behavior standards.<br />

The SRR Handbook (like media coverage of school discipline issues generally) promotes a<br />

legalistic/due-process approach to behavior and discipline issues. Such an approach may be<br />

appropriate when the alleged misconduct involves serious misconduct (guns, drugs, fighting) or<br />

raises serious constitutional issues (censorship, locker searches). However, a legalistic/dueprocess<br />

approach is inappropriate -- and counter-productive -- when the alleged misconduct<br />

involves routine day-in-day-out admittedly wrong but minor classroom disruptions. In these latter -<br />

- and much more common -- situations, the legalistic/due-process approach creates unnecessary<br />

obstacles to quick/efficient disciplinary consequences.<br />

It is time to put the discipline back in the hands of the teachers administrators. All students need<br />

to understand there are consequences to their actions! Not everyone gets a trophy, not everyone<br />

gets an A on the test....but work hard and good things will happen! Let's get back to the basics<br />

and teach kids how to think..... not what to think !!!<br />

" give a man a fish and feed him for a day....teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime "<br />

As a parent of two children who attend or attended FCPS, I would like to share some thoughts on<br />

student discipline:<br />

Principals should have fairly wide discretion about whether or not to report certain types of<br />

infractions to the police.<br />

Punishments should be meted out for undesirable behavior, but should probably be more<br />

creative than suspension from school. Suspension seems to make the problems that the<br />

student and his/her family are facing even worse.<br />

I think that suspension and expulsion should be used only when the safety of the students and<br />

faculty/admin are at risk because of the student’s behavior, or for chronic repeated offenses.<br />

I would hope that principals and guidance depts., or other trained staff, attempt to uncover and<br />

address the cause of the student’s behavior. Sometimes the cause could be immaturity or<br />

boredom, but it could also be something that requires counseling or other services for the<br />

student and the family.<br />

I hope that you are soliciting comments from students, as well as from adults. Many times,<br />

students know better than we, exactly what is going on in the schools and why. They would<br />

also have ideas about what would be effective discipline.<br />

I live in Centreville zip 20121, Sully District, and have a son, 9 grader, in Centreville HS.<br />

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I recently had a real experience on how the school handled discipline and I would like to<br />

contribute my opinions to make our school system better.<br />

Purpose:<br />

School is the first place to show student the right things to do. Therefore, discipline authorized<br />

persons must fully investigate; understand a circumstance that leads to an incident. They must be<br />

fair and careful when judging student mistake before handing down a verdict.<br />

Suggestion:<br />

Student must have a right to contact parents before writing down a record at school officer<br />

request. The reason is that they are under 18, they are so soft, scare even panic while writing<br />

down anything that can later against them.<br />

All parties involved in the incident must be considered and evaluate fairness. All parties must<br />

know the level of discipline others. Avoid discrimination or cover up.<br />

Parents must be conferred to induce the first discipline to avoid school officer's subjective, not<br />

fully understand an incident and emotional decision.<br />

What are inside the package bring home to parents? Is there a student’s report on the incident?<br />

There must be a list of some must have items. Parents must fully acknowledge on what their child<br />

did and wrote.<br />

What if the school did not follow the standard procedure as listed in the handbook? For<br />

example, in the student handbook page 44 ( 2,c,1) notes school gives student a discipline<br />

decision and the right to appeal. However, school just said to student “ You got one day<br />

suspension” and that is it.<br />

It isn’t a common sense to appeal to the Principle about Assistant Principal’s discipline decision.<br />

They are the same system and the decision will be uphold. It costs time to parents; they leave<br />

work, lost income to appeal a not-good decision that affects to their child’s life. They sit, wait and<br />

hope then finally find out that the Principle did not even know their child’s name.<br />

My suggestion is having an independent board (parents, different school personnel or special<br />

board ) to review a appeal to avoid moving thing from left hand to right hand of the same person.<br />

If a review found that school officer did not follow the handbook procedure, the case will be<br />

dismissed.<br />

English is not my first language, so sorry if it confuses you. I can answer your questions if you<br />

want.<br />

I told my son is that “ I see in the screen many times, the police arrests an adult suspect with an<br />

announcement : you have the right to keep silent until you have a lawyer. In your case, a 14-yearold<br />

student was forced to write a report on what happened in panic without parents acknowledged<br />

and got an unilateral verdict without any mention – right to appeal. The other two who were<br />

involved in the same incident, one was not even mentioned and the other who directly triggered<br />

the incident got nothing.”<br />

School behavior should be a standard to everyone.<br />

Fairness and non-discrimination must be a standard in school.<br />

I never want anyone experience the same thing as I did so I write this email.<br />

This comment is for the Ad Hoc Committee that is reviewing <strong>Fairfax</strong> <strong>County</strong>’s school disciplinary<br />

practices and the Student Rights and Responsibilities Handbook. I have concerns about the<br />

implementation and enforcement of the dress code that is listed on page 14 of the current<br />

handbook. I don’t really have concerns about the published dress code itself. It seems to me a<br />

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reasonable response to an issue that is inherently difficult to codify.<br />

My experience as a parent, however, is that the schools’ the enforcement of the policy<br />

is confusing and inconsistent. The problem came to our attention last week, when I received a<br />

call at work from my tearful daughter (a sixth-grader at Kent Gardens Elementary) to say that she<br />

had been “dress-coded” by the principal because her shorts did not extend past her fingertips<br />

when her arm was extended, and that I needed to come to the school. I did so (from downtown<br />

D.C.). The principal told me that the shorts violated the “fingertip” rule – a rule she stated is<br />

countywide – and did not make any claim that the shorts are revealing or tight (they definitely are<br />

not). I pointed out that the shorts were in fact my daughter’s favorite pair and that she had worn<br />

them numerous times at Kent Gardens in the spring and fall, including in her school picture,<br />

without anybody at the school ever saying a word. In light of that history, we can only view the<br />

principal’s dress-coding action as arbitrary. The principal agreed that I had a valid point, but I’m<br />

not sure what she will do about it. The incident was certainly a problem for me because I missed<br />

work, but suggests an even bigger problem for the school system because Inconsistent<br />

enforcement creates confusion about what the rules actually are, and fosters disrespect for the<br />

rules and rule makers.<br />

This incident led me to have further discussions with my sixth-grade daughter and also my<br />

eight-grade daughter who attends Longfellow. They both reported various ways in which the<br />

dress code is enforced erratically or inconsistently. For example, they both said that some rules,<br />

such as the “fingertip” rule for shorts, are rarely enforced at all. My eighth-grader said there is<br />

more enforcement in general in middle school, although she said that some teachers enforce the<br />

rules more than others. In addition, there appears to be inconsistency in how the code is<br />

enforced. At Longfellow, offenders are usually told to change into their gym clothes, and parents<br />

are only contacted in the case of repeat offenders. Relatedly, my daughters noted that “first<br />

offenders” are often just warned – a reasonable approach that was not utilized with my sixthgrader.<br />

Whether or not my daughters’ observations/perceptions are correct, the bottom line is that<br />

they unfortunately view enforcement of the dress code as arbitrary and a way in which kids can be<br />

“unfairly” singled out for behavior that they thought was OK.<br />

Perhaps part of the problem is that some schools have grafted overly strict “rules” onto the<br />

dress code guidelines listed in the handbook. I don’t see the “fingertip” rule for shorts in the<br />

handbook, which only prohibits shorts that are actually revealing or indecent. The “fingertip” rule<br />

goes much further and, in fact, prohibits clothing that kids routinely wear in public and elsewhere.<br />

My guess is that this is why school staff simply are not willing to enforce it. And I applaud their<br />

common sense. Frankly, I think that the principal’s actions at Kent Gardens last week did more to<br />

bring attention to my daughter’s shorts than the shorts themselves have ever aroused. My<br />

daughter was truly embarrassed by being singled out, and I don’t see what purpose was served<br />

by the “dress-coding” action.<br />

Whatever the handbook says, my view is that inconsistent enforcement of the dress code is<br />

as bad as – if not worse than – no enforcement. Kids need to know what they can and cannot do,<br />

and they certainly have no respect for rules that are enforced only at the whim of teachers and<br />

administrators. I urge the Committee to consider not only how the handbook reads, but also how<br />

it is enforced on the ground at the schools. Thank you for receiving this comment.<br />

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MISCELLANEOUS<br />

I do not anticipate being able to attend the Community Dialogue meetings. Please accept my<br />

input below.<br />

I am strongly opposed to zero tolerance disciplinary practices being used in FCPS, especially with<br />

regard to drugs or weapons. I believe that each incident should be resolved based on the<br />

circumstances of the specific case, and that parents should be brought into the process at the<br />

very beginning of any proceedings.<br />

I feel that the FCPS system is doing students and the community more harm than good when they<br />

summarily expel students discovered possessing any amount of any item that can be classified as<br />

a drug or weapon.<br />

I'm writing because I recently graduated from the University of Virginia and wrote my senior thesis<br />

on the efficacy and morality of zero tolerance policies.<br />

I wanted you to know that I first became interested in this topic after reading about the tragic<br />

deaths of both Josh Anderson (whose sister was in my graduating class at TJHSST) as well as<br />

your son, Nick. Please know that I am so sorry for your loss. Having three younger siblings, I felt<br />

deeply for your family during that difficult time. Indeed, it is because of the Nick and Josh that I<br />

chose to research the topic of zero tolerance across the country and to produce my senior thesis.<br />

I applied for grants from the University and spent three weeks last summer driving through the<br />

Midwest and interviewing school administrators to gauge how they understand and implement<br />

zero tolerance policies. As I'm sure you know, these policies are in place in almost every school<br />

district across the country in some form but, as I discovered through my research, the term "zero<br />

tolerance" is not clearly defined and administrators vary widely in the ways in which they choose<br />

to implement these policies. Indeed, some administrators are quietly rebelling against policies that<br />

they see as unjust by choosing not to implement them.<br />

I'm sure you have plenty of people who know much more than me that are advising you on the Ad<br />

Hoc Community Advisory Committee on the SR&R, but I wanted to reach out and express my<br />

condolences as well as to offer any help. I would be happy to send along a copy of my thesis or to<br />

speak with you about my experiences researching zero tolerance if you feel I could be of any help.<br />

I feel very strongly about this topic and cannot tell you how relieved and excited I am to see some<br />

real progress being made in this area. <strong>Fairfax</strong> <strong>County</strong>'s disciplinary process was in serious need<br />

of reform and I'm glad to hear that someone has taken up the mantle.<br />

I was unable to make the community dialogues but wanted to register my opinion for any changes<br />

to the SR&R. I believe that:<br />

1) students have a right not to self-incriminate,<br />

2) parents have a right to be notified before their kids are questioned,<br />

3) the SR&R should delete punitive practices and implement proven preventive and<br />

intervention approaches,<br />

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4) we should adopt a Second Chance program for first-time marijuana users, and<br />

5) we need to implement later HS start times to reduce sleep deprivation to improve<br />

student reasoning abilities which will reduce bad behavior choices.<br />

I hope that you can honor these requests since I know they are the same as the<br />

recommendations of<br />

<strong>Fairfax</strong> Zero Tolerance Reform so many, many FCPS parents support these changes.<br />

I have two children currently in FCPS elementary schools and was closely involved with a niece<br />

who attended FCPS K-12 graduating in 2009. As a concerned parent I ask that you please<br />

consider the following points as FCPS reviews it's discipline policy and revises the SR&R:<br />

FIRST: Adopt and Anti-Bullying Program<br />

FCPS does not have an anti-bullying program. FCPS has a definition of bullying, an empty<br />

statement that bullying is not tolerated, and a day where kids wear red shirts and make posters<br />

that say “Say NO to drugs and bullying”. Bullying awareness is so mainstream these days and yet<br />

FCPS, which considers itself a nationwide leader, is very far behind the ball. The current ‘policy’<br />

is lip service and the result is that FCPS encourages aggressive behavior by its lack of action<br />

against it.<br />

It is time for FCPS to turn to an outside source with proven bullying expertise. One I know of from<br />

reading, and also from a friend whose school district (in Seven Fields, PA) just adopted it, is<br />

based on the research of Dan Olweus. I’m sure there are others and that it would be easy to form<br />

a committee to research options for FCPS to consider.<br />

The effort to revisit and re-vamp the SR&R handbook is incomplete to a point of negligence if it<br />

does not finally address bullying in <strong>Fairfax</strong> <strong>County</strong> <strong>Schools</strong>!<br />

The current SR&R doesn’t say what the schools are responsible to do to protect children whose<br />

rights are violated by other students. This document needs to state clear consequences for<br />

SR&R violations. Students, parents and school administrators need to be on the same page from<br />

the start for any program to work.<br />

FCPS does not currently provide administrators with effective means to deal with today’s<br />

problems. A bully’s right to public education should not trump other’s rights to safety and an<br />

environment conducive to learning but in FCPS it currently does.<br />

SECOND: Decrease FCPS involvement regarding student’s illegal actions<br />

The handbook has a lot to say about students bringing illegal drugs, weapons, etc to school. It<br />

has more to say about that than about expected behavior and consequences of violating SR&R.<br />

My opinion is that the schools should call the police and stay out of it when an illegal action<br />

happens on a school campus. Police departments should be capable of handling issues involving<br />

minors with discretion, etc. <strong>Schools</strong> have enough to do without enforcing the law. FCPS could<br />

simply cite illegal activity on campus as a violation of SR&R, albeit one of the highest, and treat it<br />

the same as any other activity which could cause equal harm to others.<br />

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LAST: Create an Alternative School to handle serious SR&R violators<br />

I think students who are aggressive to the point of physically or mentally harming others (via<br />

bullying, physically harming, threatening, bringing illegal drugs to school with intent to sell,<br />

bringing weapons to school) should be removed from the main school system and placed in an<br />

alternative public school staffed by people specially trained to deal with these problems. There<br />

should be an opportunity to return to general FCPS schools depending on the severity of the harm<br />

caused to another student, and the degree to which the student demonstrates appropriate<br />

behavior consistent with SR&R. Yes, I’m talking about some sort of public reform school with a<br />

parole option. I understand that this is old school and not politically correct. However, it would be<br />

more effective and cognizant of the general student body’s rights than what is happening now.<br />

I would like to express my opinion that the list of what kids can not do in school has gotten way<br />

out of hand. Almost every day my 5-year old comes home with another account of something that<br />

is forbidden. I find the school atmosphere not encouraging but stifling and heavy-handed. The<br />

public school mantra is heavy on how each child is "special" and "individual", but the reality seems<br />

to be an attempt to control every move a child makes from kindergarten on, and to create a<br />

lockstep classroom. Some examples: children cannot run on the playground; children cannot<br />

play chase or tag; children cannot bang their play cars together; children cannot touch each other.<br />

When I was a youngster, teachers would report to the parent if a child was hitting or pushing; in<br />

this crazy down the rabbithole universe of public school today, I get reports that my child is<br />

"touching" other children and I do not even know what kind of touching it is- apparantly, any<br />

touching is verboten, even a hug. I have a very negative view of the public school system at this<br />

time, and have even considered homeschooling. I also look at the scowl on a teacher who is<br />

recounting my child's misdemeanors and I wonder, where is the joy? Just a few thoughts<br />

Here is a recent case that presented itself to me and brings to mind the disastrous effect of a lack<br />

of notification of parents and zero tolerance policy.<br />

A 7th grade student at Robinson Secondary (name withheld for confidentiality), was talking to a<br />

friend at a table, ironically enough, in a peer mediation class. It was the day of the Mayan Doom<br />

prediction. They were talking about a popular video game that most boys this age play. They were<br />

discussing ways to kill zombies, combined with the idea that the world might come to an end this<br />

day. They were discussing various fantasy weapons when another student overheard and then<br />

reported it to the teacher, who was young and inexperienced. She reported it to an administrator<br />

who sent it up the line. This was first period. The student was grilled for at least four hours without<br />

his parent there, who I would hope, would tell him to say nothing. The student like most, thinking<br />

that all they needed to do was tell the truth, did so, with catastrophic effect. The counselor and<br />

various other intimidating school officials swarmed the student. By the time that the parent was<br />

called this student was being referred for a psych evaluation. His locker had been searched as<br />

well. The parent resisted (good parenting) and said that she would take the student to a local<br />

facility herself. She took the student to Dominion and even though the student was never seen by<br />

a mental health professional for an evaluation, it was determined that he must stay overnight for<br />

observation. (he would, of course, be drugged as well) The parent was told that she could not take<br />

her student home, even though it was plainly stated on the intake the it was "voluntary". The<br />

parent declined and took the student to the local emergency room the next day. As a result<br />

Dominion called Child Protective Services. The psychiatrist at the emergency room gave this<br />

student a full clean release and said that he was ready to go back to school. This was not good<br />

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enough for CPS who demanded that the mother take her student to an independent practitioner,<br />

which is where I met them. The family went on a short trip that weekend and when they got back<br />

the neighbors reported that the police were looking for them. CPS had called the police.<br />

The family is now at risk in this system. The student was not allowed to return to the class and<br />

they sit in a room by themselves for a block period every other day.<br />

This is the definition of insanity. Disgusting.<br />

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