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<strong>Tha</strong><br />
Tamil lifestyle magazine from Great Britain<br />
<strong>Tha</strong>LIFESTYLE<br />
Nov - Dec 2013 • Vol 01 : Issue 01<br />
www.<strong>Tha</strong>-lifestyle.com<br />
Shop Saree<br />
Online<br />
Do we really know<br />
What our<br />
Children<br />
are going to be in<br />
the future?<br />
iPHONE<br />
GETS<br />
TAMIL<br />
TOUCH<br />
Simple Guide to<br />
Tamil Hindu<br />
Wedding<br />
Lego to<br />
Linux:<br />
Programming<br />
for Kids<br />
Recipe : Pineapple Chicken<br />
How Good<br />
are you in<br />
British Slangs?<br />
Also in this issue....<br />
• Newly launched Help t buy Scheme<br />
• Love your Pets? Then Care Them<br />
• Tamil Telecom Tycoon<br />
• Enters the Real Estate market<br />
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content<br />
06<br />
Iphone gets tamil touch<br />
How to get your Tamil keyboard with latest iOS7<br />
updated on apple devices<br />
07<br />
Newly launched ‘Help to Buy<br />
Scheme’<br />
Newly launched ‘Help to buy’ Schoeme by UK<br />
government. Learn more here<br />
08<br />
Love your pets? then care them<br />
Advice from veterinary surgeon on pet care for<br />
pet lovers<br />
16<br />
simple guide to tamil wedding<br />
Learn about Pre-wedding day customs and<br />
traditions of Tamil weddings<br />
12<br />
yoga for human excelence<br />
Simple Kundalini Yoga and its benefits<br />
14<br />
Starting your own business<br />
A guide to start a new businesss<br />
18<br />
Clicked<br />
Picture gallery from Tamil Photographers<br />
19<br />
Cinema corner<br />
Tamil movie times and reviews<br />
20<br />
why our children are under<br />
pressure?<br />
Experienced High School teacher analyses the<br />
pressure on Tamil children by parents<br />
05<br />
Tamil Telecom Tycoon<br />
Enters the Real Estate market<br />
Featured news about Lyca Mobile’s expansion<br />
into London’s prime real estate industry<br />
22<br />
28<br />
Parental engagement<br />
Experience of a young father and his views of a<br />
role of parents<br />
Child can be free from dental<br />
disease for life time<br />
Oral Health awarness series from a Dental<br />
Surgeon for your children<br />
31<br />
An archive for Sri Lankan Tamils<br />
in Expatriate countries<br />
01
tha lifestyle | EDITORIAL<br />
Editor’s wall<br />
Hello ! First step with fist bump…<br />
As the British Autumn arrives and leaves fall from the trees our magazine sprouts<br />
upwards like a seedling in Spring from bare land, shooting up to the sky. It has long been<br />
a dream of mine since I arrived in United Kingdom to create a forum where the many<br />
and varied lifestyles of the modern Tamil community could be reflected and captured,<br />
with voluntary contributions of stories and pictures from across our community,<br />
supported by successful ethical businesses.<br />
As a diaspora spread from the South Asian continent over the last few decades Tamils<br />
have settled in many countries, mingling and mixing with all communities, bringing<br />
their skills and traditional hardworking attitude and a desire to contribute. Our new<br />
generations collecting modern educations along the way are becoming a powerful<br />
nation.<br />
The huge changes in lifestyle for Tamils born in South Asian tropical lands, with its yearround<br />
supportive farming climate , coming to the industrial countries of the developed<br />
West have transformed our nation and ensured it will continue to prosper everywhere<br />
with time.<br />
As we look back on the changes in our lifestyle coming from Jaffna to London, we can<br />
all plot a steep learning curve of social, cultural and economic change. I have loved living<br />
and working in Great Britain for its tolerance and kindness and hospitality. And I see my<br />
friends, the people contributing to this magazine and all the other Tamil professionals<br />
and artists out there as role models who can inspire, educate and be the foundation of<br />
a great nation.<br />
We hope this effort from the team and all the voluntary contributors will be a magazine<br />
of our lifestyles to set an example and inform and entertain our readers. We want it<br />
to provide a platform for all ages to say something that expresses their feelings and<br />
aspirations. Our busy full time working lives are the very stories we wish to see and tell<br />
here every month in <strong>Tha</strong> Lifestyle.<br />
We begin this journey firmly believing that whether you are a pupil, a student or a<br />
teacher we want to hear from you all. No matter if you have a part-time or full time<br />
jobs or are self employed, an apprentice or a businessman, we want to hear from you all<br />
with your stories, and your pictures too if you have them.<br />
<strong>Tha</strong> Lifestyle is your magazine, your free platform to reach out through print and on the<br />
internet and eBook stores to tell your own Tamil story to millions of people<br />
Sujay<br />
Sujatharan<br />
<strong>Tha</strong> Editor<br />
<strong>Tha</strong> Team<br />
nimalan<br />
tharmalingam<br />
<strong>Tha</strong> Graphics manager<br />
Satheesan<br />
<strong>Tha</strong>nabalasundaram<br />
<strong>Tha</strong> Marketting Manager<br />
Bala<br />
<strong>Tha</strong>vapalan<br />
<strong>Tha</strong> IT Manager<br />
editor@tha-lifestyle.com submit@tha-lifestyle.com contact@tha-lifestyle.com info@tha-lifestyle.com<br />
Stephen Jeyaseelan Gajanthy Gobiraj Johannes Shanmugam<br />
Nithiyananthan Partheepan Sachin Sakthivel Dr SS Balachandran<br />
Raguraj Anthuriya Rajan Bharathan Ariryaratnam<br />
Nimalan Balan <strong>Tha</strong>va Vani <strong>Tha</strong>vapalan<br />
Anton Gangakumaran Vara Suntharalingam Trisha Sundaralingam<br />
N.Selvarajah<br />
Parani <strong>Tha</strong>rmakularajah<br />
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tha lifestyle | Business & Finance<br />
Tamil Telecom Tycoon<br />
Enters the Real Estate market<br />
The British Tamil Tycoon who is behind the world’s<br />
largest cheap international call network, Lycatel<br />
Chairman Subaskaran Allirajah, has purchased the 3.7-<br />
acre <strong>Tha</strong>mes Quay in Docklands from Columbus Capital<br />
Management in an £82 million deal. The move is his first<br />
entry into British real estate investment.<br />
The site currently holds four fully occupied<br />
office buildings and has very good potential for<br />
redevelopment.<br />
The Ceylon Tamil born, ex- British Telecom tycoon is<br />
ranked 434th in the Sunday Times Rich List with a<br />
£180m fortune, and he saw off competition from seven<br />
other bidders to secure the site.<br />
Architects Robin Partington has already designed<br />
four residential towers<br />
of up to 47 storeys,<br />
incorporating a 100,000<br />
sq ft hotel and a<br />
246,000 sq ft office<br />
building.<br />
The group’s main<br />
company Lycamobile,<br />
which is already based<br />
at <strong>Tha</strong>mes Quay owns<br />
Independent House,<br />
the ISIS building, the<br />
Walbrook building and<br />
197 Marsh Wall<br />
Subaskaran<br />
Allirajah<br />
Born : 2 March 1972 in Sri<br />
Lanka<br />
Group Founder and<br />
Chairman of the Lycatel<br />
and LycaMobile Groups of<br />
companies.<br />
Worth £180 million<br />
Lives in London Chigwell<br />
Lycamobile also bought Drewry House at 213<br />
Marsh Wall, which it plans to use as overflow<br />
space.<br />
Since Lycatel Group was founded in 2004 it<br />
has developed operations in 16 countries and<br />
a subscriber base of more than nine million<br />
customers.<br />
In an attempt to expand his business areas<br />
International MVNO Lycamobile has recently<br />
bought the Red Steel cricket team, which<br />
represents Trinidad and Tobago in the Caribbean<br />
Premier League.<br />
In an interview regarding the purchase<br />
Subaskaran Allirajah said: “We are incredibly<br />
excited to support the Trinidad<br />
and Tobago Red Steel team from<br />
the very beginning of their journey<br />
and look forward to growing<br />
with them through the exciting<br />
tournaments to come.”<br />
The Caribbean Premier League<br />
is an annual Twenty20 cricket<br />
tournament held in the Caribbean<br />
by the West Indies Cricket<br />
Board. It was created in 2013<br />
and replaced the Caribbean<br />
Twenty20 as the premier cricket<br />
competition in the Caribbean.<br />
03
tha lifestyle | INTERNET & TECHNOLOGY<br />
iPHONE GETS<br />
Upgrade to iOS7<br />
THE TAMIL TOUCH<br />
Apple’s latest operating<br />
system iOS7, could lead to a<br />
dramatic shift in the nature<br />
of user-generated content as<br />
it included the two in-system<br />
Tamil keyboards. The iPhone ,<br />
iPod and iPad users who<br />
upgraded to iOS7will enjoy<br />
the new user friendly Tamil<br />
Keyboard as they quickly<br />
change the keyboard by<br />
pressing the key .<br />
Already the Tamil keyboard is<br />
available in other smartphone<br />
platforms, most notably<br />
in some Android Devices.<br />
Apple’s inclusion of Tamil input<br />
keyboards is significant for the<br />
developer community who<br />
still view it as the preferred<br />
platform for publishing ‘paid-for’<br />
apps over others.<br />
The Hindu notes that Apple<br />
brought on an experienced<br />
maker of Tamil keyboards,<br />
Muthu Nedumaran, who’s<br />
known for making the Sellinam<br />
keyboard for Android and iOS.<br />
The iOS 7 upgrade will bring to<br />
eligible Apple mobile devices<br />
two keyboards ; ‘Tamil 99’<br />
which will display Tamil scripts<br />
and ‘Anjal’ a phonetic keyboard.<br />
Both of which are developed by<br />
the same team as ‘Sellinam’.<br />
This will enable users to type in<br />
Tamil directly. One of the areas<br />
it could improve dramatically<br />
would be ‘News Apps’ where<br />
users will be able to type in<br />
Tamil keywords. This should be<br />
a big boost for Tamil-speaking<br />
iOS users in India, Malaysia,<br />
Singapore and Sri Lanka.<br />
HOW SAFE ARE YOU ON<br />
FACEBOOK ?<br />
Who can see your Facebook<br />
updates ?<br />
Everytime you post a<br />
status update on your<br />
Facebook page, you have the<br />
ability to control who can see<br />
it.If you make it “Public” then<br />
that actually means you have<br />
made the status update not<br />
only viewable by everybodyon<br />
Facebook, but also everyone<br />
not on Facebook as well.<br />
Who can see your future<br />
and past posts ?<br />
You should also use Facebook’s<br />
privacy settings to adjust who<br />
can view your future posts,<br />
take the opportunity to review<br />
past Facebook posts you have<br />
made, and limit the audience<br />
for past posts that may have<br />
been accidentally shared with<br />
“Friends of Friends” or “Public”<br />
Which Apps can access your<br />
private information?<br />
Many Facebook users<br />
aren’t aware that – unless<br />
you have locked down your<br />
privacy settings correctly – the<br />
apps, games and websites<br />
that your *friends* use can also<br />
access your personal details,<br />
photos and updates.<br />
Why Post private stuff on<br />
Facebook?<br />
Facebook is going to find<br />
it a lot harder (although<br />
not impossible) to expose<br />
your personal and private<br />
information to others if you<br />
never share it with the social<br />
network in the first place.<br />
Who Can Tag you on Time Line?<br />
Facebook provides<br />
additional privacy settings<br />
which you should spend time<br />
checking to better protect<br />
yourself online.<br />
04
tha lifestyle | Business & Finance<br />
What is Help To Buy<br />
Scheme and Is it<br />
only for Newly Built<br />
Properties?<br />
The answer is NO. Help to buy<br />
scheme is designed for both<br />
pre owned and newly built<br />
properties.<br />
There are two kind of schemes<br />
a government equity loan of<br />
20% of the purchase price plus<br />
a traditional mortgage.<br />
Mortgage Guarantee: The UK<br />
government has extended<br />
its Help to Buy Scheme in<br />
October 2013 to make it<br />
possible to purchase any<br />
property whether newly built<br />
or pre owned with just 5%<br />
£600,000. Participating Banks:<br />
RBS/NatWest and the Halifax.<br />
Santander, HSBC, Virgin Money,<br />
Lloyds, TSB and Aldermore<br />
all saying that they will start<br />
offering products by the start<br />
of January 2014.<br />
Equity Loan: Currently only<br />
applicable for newly built<br />
Newly launched<br />
‘Help to Buy Scheme’<br />
have been introduced<br />
by the Government, and<br />
the Mortgage Guarantee<br />
Scheme is available for<br />
both pre owned and newly<br />
built properties. The two<br />
B Niranchan, MBA BSc<br />
Estate Agent and Founder of<br />
Touchwood Homes (UK)<br />
(T: 020 8574 0270)<br />
twhomes.co.uk<br />
properties with participating<br />
home builders and lenders only.<br />
In this scheme the Government<br />
will lend 20% of the property<br />
price as a long which is payable<br />
when you sell the property or<br />
available schemes in the market<br />
are,<br />
1.. Mortgage Guarantee -<br />
available on both pre-owned<br />
and new build properties with<br />
a standard mortgage of up to<br />
95% of the purchase price.<br />
2. Equity Loan - available on<br />
new build properties only using<br />
deposit. The government will<br />
make guarantee the 20% to<br />
the lender, and this scheme<br />
is currently possible through<br />
participating lenders only. This<br />
scheme is available to both<br />
existing home owners and firsttime<br />
buyers with a deposit of<br />
just 5% and available for both<br />
pre owned and newly built<br />
properties up to the value of<br />
when the mortgage comes to<br />
an end. You will need to arrange<br />
the mortgage of 75% LTV to<br />
cover the rest. You won’t be<br />
charged loan fees for the first<br />
5 years of owning your home<br />
but on the 6th year onwards a<br />
fee will be charged coupled with<br />
RPI.<br />
05
tha lifestyle | Pets & fAMILIES<br />
PET CARE SERIES : PART 1<br />
Love your Pets?<br />
Then care them<br />
Dr. S. S. Balachandran<br />
Former Director General at<br />
Department of Animal<br />
Production and Health, Sri Lanka<br />
Pets have become a very important part of our families.<br />
In many cases they have become as much a part of<br />
our lives as children or grandchildren. Pet dogs are usually<br />
companion dogs especially to elderly people. Recent<br />
studies also show that Pets can improve your mood,<br />
Control blood pressure better than drugs, Encourage you<br />
to get out and exercise, Stave Off loneliness and provide<br />
unconditional love, Can reduce stress, sometimes more<br />
than people etc.<br />
Therefore, it is the responsibility of the pet owners to<br />
keep their pets healthy and happy. So have to pay special<br />
attention in giving them proper food and in their health<br />
care..<br />
FEEDING<br />
Feeding your pet should be one of the easiest things you<br />
do. Pick a name brand that you are familiar with, feed<br />
puppy food to the young ones and adult foods to those<br />
generally over six months of age. Consult your Veterinarian<br />
on what to feed when they get past middle age. Most of<br />
the diets out there are fine and our pets seem to thrive<br />
well on nearly all of them.<br />
HEALTH CARE<br />
Vaccinations<br />
Vaccination protects your dog against various<br />
diseases which can cause pain, distress and are<br />
often become fatal. Vaccinating your dog will give<br />
you peace of mind knowing that you have provided<br />
protection to your pets. In addition to safeguarding<br />
your own pet from diseases, vaccination also<br />
prevents diseases from being passed on to other<br />
animals.<br />
The vaccines are commonly used to protect our<br />
pets from<br />
»»<br />
Canine parvovirus<br />
»»<br />
Canine distemper virus<br />
»»<br />
Leptospirosis<br />
»»<br />
Infectious canine hepatitis<br />
»»<br />
Rabies.<br />
Pets should receive a ‘primary’ vaccination course<br />
early in life, followed by ‘booster’ vaccinations<br />
throughout their life.<br />
Know the Law!<br />
Controlling your dog in public It’s against the law<br />
to let a dog be dangerously out of control:<br />
a) in a public place<br />
b) in a private place<br />
where the dog isn’t allowed to be (eg a<br />
neighbour’s house or garden without<br />
permission)<br />
The law applies to all dogs.<br />
Recent studies also show that Pets can improve<br />
your mood, Control blood pressure better than<br />
drugs, Encourage you to get out and exercise,<br />
Stave Off loneliness and provide unconditional<br />
love, Can reduce stress, sometimes more than<br />
people<br />
The primary vaccination course for dogs varies with<br />
the type of vaccine used.<br />
The first vaccine can sometimes be given as young<br />
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tha lifestyle | Pets & fAMILIES<br />
as six weeks of age, with the second usually given<br />
two to four weeks later.<br />
Booster vaccinations are needed because the<br />
body’s immune response gradually fades over a<br />
time. They are often given every year, depending on<br />
the type of vaccine.<br />
Puppies should be vaccinated before they mix with<br />
other animals.<br />
External and Internal parasites<br />
Internal parasites – Worms<br />
The most important internal parasites are<br />
Roundworms, Hookworms, Tapeworms and<br />
Heartworms. They have been known to cause<br />
blindness and, in rare cases, even death.<br />
Zoonosis is a medical term for diseases that can be<br />
transmitted directly from our pets to us. Therefore,<br />
be sure your pets and their environment are as<br />
worm free as possible.<br />
The most common way these worms get<br />
transmitted is when dogs defecate in garden beds<br />
or sandboxes, and children come in contact when<br />
playing, or adults when gardening. Beaches can be<br />
another source of these creatures. Tapeworms<br />
are transmitted via fleas, and heartworms can be<br />
transmitted by mosquitos.<br />
Therefore, make sure your pets are free of the<br />
parasites. Practice good hygiene; wear gloves when<br />
you are gardening and wash your hands thoroughly<br />
afterward. Keep the children out of sandboxes that<br />
may be used by stray animals.<br />
Dogs should be given regular medication (Deworming)<br />
to prevent them from suffering from<br />
worms infestations. It is important to follow the<br />
worming regime recommended by your Veterinarian<br />
External parasites – Ticks and Fleas<br />
Keep your pets flea and tick free. Fleas can cause<br />
itching, chewing and licking and the skin may<br />
become red and inflamed. Sometimes you might<br />
see fleas on your dog or you might see small dark<br />
flecks (flea “dirt”) in the fur and on the skin.<br />
If your dog has fleas, then it is important to treat<br />
the house, your dog and all other pets in the<br />
household. Your Veterinarian can recommend safe<br />
and effective products to use. The house should<br />
be treated with an effective household spray<br />
after vacuuming, because flea larvae and eggs<br />
live off the animal, in places like carpets and rugs.<br />
Particular attention should be paid to areas where<br />
your dog spends much of their time. Grooming also<br />
helps in the control of ticks and fleas.<br />
....continued in Next Issue<br />
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DAY OUT FOR ANIMAL LOVERS IN LONDON<br />
Battersea Park<br />
Children’s Zoo<br />
www.batterseaparkzoo.co.uk<br />
Hackney City Farm<br />
www.hackneycityfarm.co.uk<br />
London Wetland Centres<br />
www.wwt.org.uk<br />
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tha lifestyle | Business & Finance<br />
PROPERTY TAX<br />
Hi, I own two properties,<br />
? one is a three bedroom<br />
house which is my main<br />
residence and other is a one<br />
bed flat. I was made redundant<br />
last month so I am going to sell<br />
my main residence and move<br />
into the flat. Please can you tell<br />
me whether I have to pay any<br />
tax on gain?<br />
If you sell your main<br />
A<br />
residence, and if it has<br />
been your main residence<br />
during the entire period of<br />
ownership, then you do not<br />
pay any tax on gain as it will be<br />
covered by “private residence<br />
relief”.<br />
Tax tip: The day you move<br />
to your flat, and if you<br />
make it your main residence, all<br />
period then onwards would be<br />
covered by PRR relief.<br />
CAPITAL GAINS TAX<br />
My name is Sathees, and<br />
? this year I made more<br />
than 12,000 gain on buying<br />
and selling shares and can you<br />
please advise me how can I<br />
avoid paying tax?<br />
For 2013/14 tax year the<br />
A first £10,900 gains made<br />
on selling shares is exempt from<br />
tax and any gain made above<br />
this limit is taxable.<br />
Tax tip: If you buy and sell<br />
shares based on “Financial<br />
spread bet trading<br />
method” instead of the normal<br />
“certificated method” then any<br />
gain you make on buy and sell<br />
shares is fully exempt from tax<br />
TAX ON BANK INTEREST<br />
Q: My name is Kumar<br />
? and I am a higher rate tax<br />
payer and paying 40%<br />
tax on interest receive from my<br />
bank. Please can you advise me<br />
whether is it possible to transfer<br />
money to my son who is 12<br />
Ragu Dharmaratnam<br />
Head of finance for a UK group Firm and<br />
a financial journalist<br />
e: ragu.savetax@gmail.com<br />
years old and thereby saving<br />
tax on interest? Currently I<br />
am getting 3% interest on my<br />
savings account<br />
Income earned from gifts<br />
A from parents is exempt<br />
if less than £100 per<br />
annum. Otherwise the income is<br />
taxable as that of the parents.<br />
Tax tip: You may open a<br />
savings account under your<br />
son’s name (children account)<br />
and transfer £3300 , thereby<br />
your son will get £99 interest<br />
per year which is covered by the<br />
£100 exemption limit.<br />
CASH GIFT<br />
Hello, My father is a<br />
? UK national now lives<br />
in Canada, and he is<br />
sending me £30,000 to the UK<br />
to put a deposit towards buying<br />
a property. Do I have to pay any<br />
tax on the gift?<br />
Cash gifts are free of<br />
A tax in the hands of the<br />
recipient, this means you<br />
do not pay any tax. You father<br />
is a UK national then this gift<br />
will be regarded as “potentially<br />
MONEY<br />
DOCTOR<br />
exempt transfer” (PET) for<br />
inheritance tax purposes based<br />
on seven year rule. Please<br />
check with Canadian tax<br />
authorities for any local tax.<br />
Tax tip: Any gifts you<br />
make will be exempt from<br />
Inheritance tax as long as<br />
you live for seven years after<br />
making the gift.<br />
EMPLOYMENT<br />
My name is Jaffer and I<br />
? am 22 years old. Recently<br />
I went for a job interview at a<br />
local cash and carry shop and I<br />
was offered £6 per hour hour<br />
doing 35 hours a week. I was<br />
told by my friend that I should<br />
be offered a minimum wage by<br />
law. Is this true please advise?<br />
Under the “National<br />
A<br />
Minimum Wage” (NMW)<br />
legislation from October 2013 ,<br />
you should be offered at least<br />
£6.31 for hour . You have the<br />
right to ask your employer to<br />
match this figure and it is illegal<br />
for them to offer £6,<br />
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tha lifestyle | INTERESTS & HOBBIES<br />
“<br />
We hope our Walk will<br />
encourage different<br />
communities to come together<br />
A charity walker from Gloucestershire,<br />
Johannes Shanmugam ,a British Tamil, will be<br />
walking his fourth year endless effort to raise<br />
fund for charities in Western English County in<br />
November. Showing in one hand a poppy and<br />
other hand Glory Lily, Johannes symbolise his<br />
message clearly to the Great Britain.<br />
He raises fund for ‘Help For Heroes’ and<br />
“Serendip Children’s Home” both UK based<br />
charities. Well known Help For Heroes formed<br />
to help those who have been wounded in<br />
Britain’s current conflicts while Serendib<br />
Children’s Home is supporting the war<br />
affected children in Sri Lanka.<br />
”<br />
In sharing his feelings<br />
Johannes said that he<br />
wanted to thank Great<br />
Britain for allowing Tamils<br />
to live in freedom with<br />
dignity and British People a<br />
great prosperity and care<br />
shown when Tamils came as<br />
refugees.<br />
Therefore as gratitude, he<br />
decided to support British<br />
soldiers who fought bravely<br />
and sacrificed their lives for<br />
the freedom that we enjoy<br />
here today.<br />
Four years and on …<br />
Heart to<br />
Heart<br />
Charity walk<br />
He also chose the “computers 4 schools”<br />
programme through “Serendip Children’s<br />
Home” in Sri Lanka is a great opportunity for<br />
us to support the war affected children, and<br />
to give them an education so that they can<br />
enjoy the same benefits as our children.<br />
He says “We hope our Walk will encourage<br />
different communities to come together,<br />
putting aside any differences and barriers.<br />
Those who wish to support Heart2heart charity<br />
walk can visit www.h2hwalk.org<br />
or contact E: joshan2505@msn.com<br />
T: 07815 496902<br />
Mr. Johannes Shanmugam<br />
Currently employed as Operations<br />
Assistant in a church Johannes<br />
is engaged in various fund<br />
raising events for the children<br />
impoverished by war.<br />
This is our fourth year, and we hope to raise<br />
sufficient funds as in the past three years. The<br />
5-day walk is to create awareness<br />
and to remind our younger<br />
generation of the sacrifices made by<br />
many, so that we can enjoy liberty<br />
and freedom today in the UK.”<br />
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Tamil lifestyle | Health & well being<br />
SELF-DEVELOPMENT<br />
Simplified Kundalini Yoga (SKY)<br />
Yoga for Human<br />
Excellence<br />
All people wish to lead a happy<br />
life. The almighty nature is<br />
beautifully performing and<br />
providing everything for a<br />
harmonious life. Science is<br />
well developed to remove<br />
drudgeries in material life so<br />
that man lives happily and<br />
peacefully. Even then, humanity<br />
in general continues to be<br />
in the grip of turmoil due to<br />
lack of wisdom in the field of<br />
physical health, mental health,<br />
spiritual health and social<br />
harmony.<br />
To retrieve mankind from<br />
these sufferings Swamiji<br />
Vethathiri Maharishi, a<br />
philosopher in Tamil Nadu,<br />
India, had formulated and<br />
designed a spiritual system of<br />
life education for all to attain<br />
physical, mental and social<br />
perfection leading to peace in<br />
individuals and in the world.<br />
This system comprises:<br />
Simplified Physical Exercises,<br />
Simplified Meditation Practices,<br />
Simplified Kaya kalpa Exercises,<br />
Introspection Courses and<br />
Brahmagnanam.<br />
Simplified Physical<br />
Exercises<br />
An effective package of<br />
simplified physical exercises<br />
is designed to regulate in the<br />
body the flow of air, water,<br />
heat and life force leading<br />
to good physical health:<br />
comprising hand exercise, leg<br />
exercise, breathing exercise,<br />
eye exercise, Makarasanam,<br />
acupressure,<br />
massage and<br />
relaxation exercises<br />
When we learn and practice<br />
the above exercises regularly,<br />
they help in curing diseases,<br />
prevent certain diseases,<br />
increase the strength of the<br />
body and help in long life,<br />
enhance physical appearance,<br />
remove laziness and keep one<br />
active.<br />
Simplified Kaya Kalpa<br />
Exercise<br />
It is a technique devised by<br />
’Siddhas’, the wise ancestral<br />
sages, to improve the<br />
qualities of sexual vital fluid<br />
thereby intensifying the life<br />
force in the body. It helps in<br />
postponing ageing process,<br />
minimizing disorders of old age,<br />
maintenance of youthfulness,<br />
develops resistance against<br />
diseases and helps in curing<br />
diseases, as the sexual vital<br />
fluid is purified and intensified,<br />
progeny of benefaction is<br />
possible.<br />
Simplified Meditation<br />
practices<br />
Normally the life energy is<br />
functioning at ‘Mooladhar’<br />
near the sex gland. Under this<br />
condition, the mind is more<br />
emotional in an accelerated<br />
and aggravated condition<br />
through sensory and physical<br />
activities. By changing the<br />
working centre to ‘Agna<br />
Chakra’, point between<br />
eyebrows and meditating<br />
there, the mental frequency is<br />
Dr. S. Letchoumanane<br />
Director,<br />
Research and Development,<br />
Temple of Consciousness,<br />
Aliyar - 642101, Pollachi TK<br />
Coimbatore DT<br />
E-mail: braintrust@vethathiri.edu.in<br />
Website: http://www.vethathiri.edu.in<br />
reduced to alpha wave level.<br />
Here, sharpness in intelligence<br />
and peace of mind sets in.<br />
In Thuria meditation, ‘Crown<br />
Chakra’, the brain wave is<br />
brought down to ‘Theta’<br />
range 5-7 cps. Sublimation of<br />
self through introspection is<br />
achieved at this level. Besides<br />
this, practices to amplify and<br />
intensify the bio-magnetism<br />
also are taught.<br />
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Tamil lifestyle | Health & well being<br />
DO WISH TO LEARN IN UK?<br />
Contact K Gangakumaran<br />
Mobile: 07766442273<br />
Email: skyuk@vethathiri.edu.in<br />
or skyogauk@aol.com<br />
Weekly class: Every Saturday 8:30 till 10:30am<br />
at Victoria Hall, Sheepcote Road, Harrow HA1 2JE<br />
Quotes<br />
Introspection Courses<br />
After a month of initiation<br />
of thuriyam meditation and<br />
proper practice, introspection<br />
courses are taught in four<br />
stages every month for 4<br />
months. Each stage consists of<br />
six sessions comprising special<br />
meditation and philosophies.<br />
For practical comprehension<br />
and experiences, introspection<br />
subjects like analysis of<br />
thought, moralization of desire,<br />
neutralization of anger and<br />
eradication of worries are<br />
explained. The great values<br />
of blessing others by saying,<br />
‘VAAZHGA VALAMUDAN’<br />
to maintain cordiality and<br />
compassion are also taught.<br />
Detailed knowledge about sins<br />
and salvations, life before birth<br />
and after death, astronomy<br />
and astrology, the unfailing law<br />
of nature - cause and effect<br />
system, karma yoga, purification<br />
of the genetic centre,<br />
differences among people,<br />
philosophy of magnetism,<br />
evolution of universe and living<br />
being are given.<br />
Benefits of Introspection<br />
courses<br />
Expansion of the mind leads<br />
to undue psychic attachments<br />
with men and materials, and<br />
thereon emotional illusions viz;<br />
ego, greed, anger, miserliness,<br />
immoral sex, inferioritysuperiority<br />
complex and<br />
vengeance. This transforms<br />
human life virtuous, peaceful<br />
and blissful.<br />
Brahmagnanam course leads in<br />
developing God consciousness<br />
and understanding the unfailing<br />
law of nature, “the cause and<br />
effect system” help to live a<br />
virtuous way of life and live<br />
in harmony with others and<br />
nature. This only will instill peace<br />
and bliss in the mind.<br />
Benefits of Meditation<br />
Improves the personality,<br />
insight and dexterity of mind<br />
Increases mental concentration,<br />
sharpness, honesty and<br />
peacefulness there by leading<br />
to a rational life<br />
Helps in withdrawing the mind<br />
from sensory emotions thereby<br />
saving the life energy and<br />
inculcating God Consciousness<br />
Improves perspicacity,<br />
receptivity, remembrance and<br />
normalizes the functioning of<br />
endocrine system there by good<br />
health<br />
Helps in self-realization and<br />
sublimation to enjoy everlasting<br />
peace and bills<br />
This system of yogic practices<br />
is taught to all, beyond the<br />
barriers of sex, religion etc.<br />
Students of both sex are<br />
also trained in this system for<br />
their successful career, happy<br />
and peaceful life. This service<br />
is rendered by the World<br />
Community Service Centre<br />
founded by Yogiraj Vethathiri<br />
Maharishi in the year 1958,<br />
through its affiliated trusts<br />
spread all over the world.<br />
“If you don’t build your dream,<br />
someone else will hire you to<br />
help them build theirs.”<br />
Dhirubhai Ambani<br />
Indian business tycoon who founded<br />
Reliance Industries<br />
“Great minds discuss ideas;<br />
average minds discuss events;<br />
small minds discuss people.”<br />
Eleanor Roosevelt<br />
Longest-serving First Lady of the<br />
United States<br />
”A successful man is one who<br />
can lay a firm foundation with<br />
the bricks others have thrown at<br />
him.”<br />
David Brinkle<br />
An American newscaster<br />
“Twenty years from now you will<br />
be more disappointed by the<br />
things that you didn’t do than by<br />
the ones you did do.”<br />
Mark Twain<br />
American author and humorist.<br />
“The difference between a<br />
successful person and others is<br />
not a lack of strength, not a lack<br />
of knowledge, but rather a lack<br />
of will.”<br />
Vince Lombardi<br />
American football player<br />
“Every great dream begins with<br />
a dreamer. Always remember,<br />
you have within you the<br />
strength, the patience, and the<br />
passion to reach for the stars to<br />
change the world.”<br />
Harriet Tubman<br />
African-American abolitionist<br />
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tha lifestyle | Business & Finance<br />
With Unemployment<br />
at record highs, one<br />
way for people to<br />
get a job, is to start their own<br />
business. It is certainly an<br />
ambition for many people to<br />
run their own business.<br />
Some may have been made<br />
redundant, and find themselves<br />
with spare time and financial<br />
resources, while others make<br />
the choice to begin a business<br />
to be more independent and<br />
gain the full financial reward for<br />
their hard work.<br />
It is no secret that running your<br />
own business is not an easy<br />
task. When those first few<br />
weeks of excitement and<br />
anticipation are a distant<br />
memory, getting to, and<br />
staying at the top of your<br />
game can be a constant<br />
battle especially during<br />
recession time.<br />
However, hard times are good<br />
times to start a business<br />
.The advantage of starting a<br />
business during a downturn<br />
is that things can only get<br />
better as the economic climate<br />
improves. By then, you will have<br />
learnt an awful lot during the<br />
difficult times which will then<br />
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take you through the easier<br />
ones.<br />
In order to make your business<br />
a success, you ought to<br />
consider some vital key factors.<br />
Most people go about finding<br />
their niche by using business<br />
school tools such as market<br />
analysis or sector research.<br />
This is good – however utilise<br />
what you are good at. Why<br />
not start a business, based on<br />
a need you have which is not<br />
properly addressed by existing<br />
suppliers. You experience the<br />
gap in the marketplace, and you<br />
fill it in.<br />
. Why not start a business, based on a need<br />
you have which is not properly addressed by<br />
existing suppliers.<br />
Don’t try to enter a competitive<br />
market that requires a great<br />
deal of capital and experience.<br />
Stick to something that you<br />
either know a lot about or<br />
something that really interests<br />
you so that you’ll want to find<br />
out a great deal about it. If you<br />
have got the need, and an idea,<br />
then become the operational<br />
problems. Now not to worry<br />
– these are less daunting than<br />
they ever used to be.<br />
You become like the people you<br />
associate with.<br />
Therefore, associate with<br />
people who are like minded.<br />
Join appropriate industry<br />
associations. These will also give<br />
you the lowdown on relevant<br />
industry threats, opportunities<br />
and legislation and the like.<br />
Starting a business is not like<br />
back in the days. Generally,<br />
you already have the tools that<br />
you need.<br />
Most homes are already<br />
equipped with quite a lot<br />
of the tools any business<br />
to reach a worldwide<br />
audience from day one.<br />
A laptop and a mobile<br />
phone are all the infrastructure<br />
a new business needs to get<br />
up and running. There are also<br />
so many social networking sites<br />
available for you to market<br />
your business. Join online<br />
networking groups and forums<br />
and start giving useful advice on<br />
areas directly relevant to your<br />
business.
tha lifestyle | Business & finance<br />
Starting your own<br />
business:<br />
The Sky is the Limit<br />
Sakthivel Sachithananthan<br />
Chartered Accountant<br />
Founder: Accountancy gateway<br />
www.accgateway.com<br />
This raises your profile in a<br />
positive way.<br />
Every business from its<br />
commencement and through<br />
its development and growth will<br />
need finance.<br />
But what type of finance is<br />
best suited to the business and<br />
who should you approach for<br />
funding?<br />
Start -up business funding<br />
should be from your saving,<br />
relatives or any of the other<br />
investors.<br />
When commencing a new<br />
business, very often the initial<br />
monies invested will come from<br />
the individual’s personal savings.<br />
Additional funding requires a<br />
commitment in terms of capital<br />
and interest payments.<br />
Embarking on this course of<br />
this action must therefore be<br />
planned carefully.<br />
Start small and keep overhead<br />
low. Don’t spend any more than<br />
you have to on your start-up.<br />
Many businesses start very<br />
small. For instance Laura<br />
Ashley began on her kitchen<br />
table while M&S started with<br />
a market stall. Look at where<br />
they are now!<br />
Starting a business is<br />
demanding. Commitment,<br />
determination and enthusiasm<br />
are essential.<br />
Are you running an Off-licence<br />
store? Then Check your figures!<br />
On Average Off-Licence must make<br />
17.5 % anual Gross Profit margin.<br />
Alcohol (Beer,wine & spirits) – 20%<br />
Snacks (Crisps, pea nuts, etc) – 30%<br />
Cigarettes, cigars and tobacco – 8%<br />
Looking for Off-licence on sale?<br />
www.businessesforsale.com<br />
www.offlicenceforsale.co.uk<br />
www.rightbiz.co.uk<br />
www.nationwidebusinesses.co.uk<br />
You will need managerial,<br />
financial, technical and<br />
marketing skills. If you feel<br />
that you do not have these<br />
expertises personally, they<br />
can be found in a partner or<br />
employee. If you feel that you<br />
are not ready to employ anyone<br />
or take on a partner, there are<br />
many courses out there to get<br />
you trained and get you on the<br />
go. Every Business should have<br />
a business plan. It is the key to<br />
success. As the saying goes: ‘If<br />
you fail to plan, you plan to fail’.<br />
Therefore preparing a business<br />
plan will help you to set clear<br />
objectives for your business and<br />
clarify your thinking. It will also<br />
help to set target for future<br />
performance and monitor<br />
finance and profitability.<br />
Keep your finances and records<br />
in order: everyone hates it- but<br />
it must be done.<br />
Speak to your accountant<br />
about how much you should put<br />
aside for your forthcoming tax<br />
bills.<br />
Keep good records of your<br />
incoming and outgoing<br />
revenues, your receipts and<br />
other related information.<br />
Running a business should<br />
be creative, satisfying and<br />
enjoyable. It’s a chance to<br />
express you, meet interesting<br />
and creative people, potentially<br />
make a lot of money and create<br />
a whole new life for yourself.<br />
So do everything you can to<br />
enjoy the process of being in<br />
business.<br />
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tha lifestyle | language & culture<br />
a simple guide to<br />
Tamil Hindu Wedding<br />
Pre-Wedding Events<br />
Pre Wedding<br />
Arrangements<br />
The marriage of a man and<br />
woman is such an important<br />
and unforgettable day in<br />
anyone’s life. Memories of a<br />
wedding are always recorded in<br />
family photographs and videos<br />
as people always want to<br />
remember and review the day<br />
of union between two souls.<br />
And In Tamil communities a<br />
wedding is more than the<br />
marriage of two individuals , it is<br />
also a coming together of two<br />
big families and all their friends.<br />
Tamil wedding customs date<br />
back four millenia and now<br />
there are local customs as well,<br />
based on newer geographic<br />
locations, not to mention how<br />
much change they have seen as<br />
Tamils have moved to western<br />
countries and adopted new<br />
styles. Some of the traditional<br />
procedures have been left<br />
behind by western Tamils as<br />
they grow into a new generation<br />
of British, Canadian, French and<br />
Australian Tamils, to name just<br />
a few.<br />
At the point of the<br />
transformations occur in British<br />
Tamil Community, the long<br />
historical traditional marriage<br />
procedures are vanishing<br />
with time. Traditional wedding<br />
custom can be retold under few<br />
headings. Even though custom<br />
is different in different parts of<br />
South India , North and East of<br />
Sri Lanka , Malaysia , Singapore<br />
and the newly growing Western<br />
Tamil Diaspora, the main<br />
aspects of traditional marriage<br />
are fairly common to most of<br />
them.<br />
Bride & Groom Seeking<br />
Usually Bride or Groom are<br />
sought by parents through their<br />
families and friends and based<br />
on age , jobs and background.<br />
Parents exchange the details<br />
and photos which includes the<br />
astrological charts which was<br />
written on birth.<br />
Jathaka Porutham<br />
- Astrology Chart<br />
Matching<br />
Once the parents exchange<br />
the charts they consult a<br />
astrological expert to find<br />
the matching. There are two<br />
systems the charts are based<br />
on called ‘Vakkiya Panchangam’<br />
which is based on empirical<br />
theory which has passed<br />
through generations and the<br />
other system which is called<br />
‘Thirukanitha Panchangam’,<br />
based on mathematical<br />
calculations.<br />
Tamil astrological system,<br />
used for analysing marriage<br />
compatibility is based on<br />
horoscopes of a man and<br />
woman. Horoscope matching in<br />
Tamil is known as ‘ten matching’;<br />
named as dinam, ganam, yoni,<br />
rasi, rasiyathipaty, rajju, vedha,<br />
vasya, mahendram and stree<br />
deergham.<br />
Ponnu Parthal - Bride meeting<br />
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Once the chart is matched<br />
, groom family will visit the<br />
brides house which will allow<br />
bride and groom to meet<br />
for the first time. They will<br />
be allowed to have a private<br />
chat to get each other<br />
understanding. In successful<br />
day this will give bride and<br />
groom a good opportunity to<br />
understand each other and be<br />
confident to go for marriage.<br />
Ponnurukku - Melting of<br />
Gold<br />
This is the official beginning<br />
of the wedding procedure.<br />
This occasion occurs a few<br />
days before the wedding is<br />
attended by close family at<br />
which the groom presents a<br />
gold coin to the goldsmith for<br />
its ritual meltdown to fashion<br />
the thaali – the bridal pendent.<br />
<strong>Tha</strong>ali is a symbol of marriage<br />
and must be worn all time by<br />
traditional married woman.<br />
After this occasion the bride<br />
and groom are not expected<br />
to meet each other until the<br />
wedding day.<br />
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Kanni kaal Planting –<br />
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On the same day a tree is<br />
planted in the homes of the<br />
couple. Currently the traditional<br />
choice for this is a metre high<br />
cutting of Mulmurukku which is<br />
easy to propagate and signifies<br />
fertility and prosperity. Three<br />
manure pots of nine grains are<br />
also planted to be sprouted<br />
and be used on the day of the<br />
wedding.<br />
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After above Pre-wedding<br />
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begin. Our next month edition<br />
will bring you the highlights of<br />
wedding day arrangements and<br />
customs.<br />
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tha lifestyle | Photography<br />
Clicked!<br />
A View of London Bridge from Waterloo Bridge<br />
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fb/ Ariyam.Photography<br />
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Violet moments of honey bee<br />
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tha lifestyle |ENtertainment<br />
TAMIL STYLE | ENTERTAINMENT<br />
movie review: raja rani<br />
Though the movie is incredibly refreshing, it does<br />
remind one of Mani Ratnam’s classic hit ‘Mouna<br />
Ragam’. Atlee has added his own dimension<br />
to the story, and has served it on an all new<br />
platter. The best thing about the film is that it<br />
satiates the cravings of every class of viewer<br />
and leaves nothing to complain about.<br />
The film is a neat entertainer. The entire<br />
team has given this film their best. Atlee, the<br />
debutant director has delivered his dream<br />
project flawlessly. His strong points seem to<br />
be character definitions and screenplay. He<br />
has carved his characters with utmost care to<br />
perfection and has selected his crew rather<br />
cautiously. The movie has three different<br />
stories, but the gripping screenplay keeps the<br />
audience glued to their seats.<br />
The let-downs however are the songs and<br />
editing. Given G V’s repute, the audience<br />
definitely expected something better -<br />
something hummable, and something more<br />
urban. Though the songs are a disappointment,<br />
he has done an excellent job scoring the<br />
background music in the first half.<br />
cinema corner‘Worth to Watch’<br />
Upcomming movies<br />
in cinemas<br />
Arambam<br />
Director Vishnuvardhan<br />
Starring Nayantara,<br />
Arya, Mahesh Manjrekar,<br />
Ajith Kumar,<br />
Genere Action comedy<br />
CINEWORLD, saffari<br />
Irandam Ulagam<br />
Director Selva Raghavan<br />
Starring Arya, Anushka<br />
Shetty<br />
Genere Romance<br />
Music Harris Jayaraj,<br />
Anirudh Ravi<br />
Endrendrum Punnagai<br />
Director Jananathan<br />
Starring Jiiva , Andrea<br />
Jeremiah, Santhanam<br />
Genere<br />
Music<br />
Romance<br />
Harrs<br />
Jayaraj<br />
Kochadaiyaan<br />
Director Soundarya R.<br />
Ashwin<br />
Starring Rajinikanth, R.<br />
Sarathkumar, Deepika<br />
Genere Epic fantasy<br />
Music A R Rahuman<br />
Naiyaandi<br />
Director A. Sarkunam<br />
Starring Dhanush,<br />
Nazriya Nazim<br />
Genere Comedy<br />
CINEWORLD<br />
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Our children in the United<br />
Kingdom are preparing<br />
for the 11 plus exams<br />
from the early age of 7 years<br />
in order secure a place in a<br />
grammar school or private<br />
school for their secondary<br />
education.<br />
Are we undermining<br />
the capabilities of<br />
state schools?<br />
The education system in the<br />
United Kingdom is undergoing<br />
important changes at present,<br />
where new types of schools<br />
known as ‘Free schools’ and<br />
‘Academies’ are emerging.<br />
My teaching experience in the<br />
UK education system started<br />
back in 1987. I began my journey<br />
working with Adults in Further<br />
Education and then moved to<br />
secondary school education<br />
in 2000. I have worked with<br />
students with varying academic<br />
levels including children with<br />
learning difficulties. For over a<br />
decade now, I have been working<br />
as a School Governor with one of<br />
ELEVEN PLUS & GRAMMAR SCHOOLS<br />
Why Our<br />
Children are<br />
under Pressure?<br />
Para Paramkumaran<br />
Teacher at high school<br />
Founder of<br />
North harrow tuition centre<br />
All parents have a strong belief<br />
that Grammar schools and<br />
Private schools are better<br />
equipped to provide the best<br />
opportunities for our children<br />
in comparison to state run<br />
schools.<br />
As we strive to achieve<br />
academic success for our<br />
children we work arduously<br />
to train them for the 11 plus<br />
examinations.<br />
These are new government<br />
initiatives to save money for the<br />
ministry of education with the<br />
recent financial crises.<br />
The entire league table system<br />
and the GCSE and Advance<br />
Levels exams are under scrutiny<br />
and will be assessed with<br />
different yard sticks. After 2014<br />
no child will be entered for their<br />
GCSE exam early unless they are<br />
absolutely ready and it will be<br />
recorded as their first attempt.<br />
the Brent Primary schools. During<br />
my lifetime I have seen extensive<br />
changes in learning and teaching<br />
methods and styles, including<br />
the changes brought in by the<br />
education watch dog OFSTED.<br />
At present I am also working with<br />
Primary school s to enhance<br />
early learning development with<br />
the ABACUS mental arithmetic<br />
program (MAP).<br />
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Why do our children<br />
feel such immense<br />
pressure to get<br />
into to a Grammar<br />
School?<br />
One typical story – A mother<br />
came to me: “My Son is not doing<br />
well in Maths, and his Grammar<br />
school is not allowing him to take<br />
Maths for his Advanced Levels.<br />
My dreams and my son’s dream<br />
to be an Economist is never<br />
going to come true, please<br />
help!” These were the words<br />
of a very disappointed mother<br />
of a teenager, who came to me<br />
asking for help.<br />
This is a common situation that<br />
arises frequently, especially in<br />
the British Tamil Community.<br />
We were forced to migrate here<br />
due to our many hardships, and<br />
the first generation British Tamil<br />
life style includes a hardworking<br />
father and child focused mother.<br />
In a world, where most fathers<br />
have chosen to work tirelessly,<br />
mainly as businessmen striving to<br />
establish their families on British<br />
soil they have limited the time<br />
they spend with their children.<br />
This has left the mother to guide<br />
children, looking after their every<br />
need, and bearing the most<br />
influence in the future of the<br />
child.<br />
The mother and the child spend<br />
a lot of time together, travelling<br />
in the car to all the educational<br />
and extra-curricular activities<br />
including Tamils School, Dance<br />
classes, Cricket, Football, Netball<br />
and private tuition classes.<br />
It is this precious time and the<br />
remaining time at home that<br />
allows the mother to the play a<br />
great role in establishing food<br />
habits and language fluency<br />
moulding the child’s future.<br />
What we fail to notice is that this<br />
influence can be over powering at<br />
times, especially when the mother<br />
begins to impose an undue impact<br />
on deciding the future career path<br />
of the child. There are mothers<br />
who decide the future of their<br />
children with traditional views,<br />
and can be quite dismissive of<br />
their child’s aspirations and any<br />
professional advice by teachers or<br />
tutors.<br />
I have personally dealt with many<br />
students who have been misguided<br />
through influential parents, away<br />
from their strengths and interests<br />
in order to fulfil parental dreams<br />
through their children.<br />
We fail to realise this at the<br />
time and this can lead to many<br />
problems in the future.<br />
Most Tamil parents feel that if they<br />
cannot afford a private school then<br />
it is essential that their child should<br />
attend a grammar school.<br />
They are under the impression that<br />
any other school would not allow<br />
the child to achieve the success<br />
they dream of.<br />
This pressure results in a huge<br />
amount of disappointment<br />
when a child does not achieve<br />
a place in a grammar school<br />
and the confidence of the child<br />
can be destroyed by the same<br />
parent, unintentionally.<br />
In such circumstances, these<br />
mothers who dedicate their lives<br />
to every need of their child, to<br />
ensure that they get the best<br />
education, can herself have a<br />
detrimental role in the future<br />
of the child if they do not get<br />
selected into a Grammar school.<br />
The future of our<br />
children lies in<br />
the hands of the<br />
parents.<br />
In my long career as teacher, I<br />
have witnessed many occasions<br />
when a child from an ordinary<br />
state school becomes a scholar<br />
and a student from private or<br />
grammar school ends up with<br />
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the unexpected undesired life they<br />
wanted.<br />
We need to realise that the ideal role<br />
for parents is to understand a child’s<br />
strengths and weakness, helping<br />
them to improve on their weakness<br />
whilst continuously encouraging them<br />
to develop their stronger skills and<br />
interests.<br />
A good parent will try to understand<br />
the teacher and work with them to<br />
enhance the future of their children.<br />
They will seek the teacher and learn<br />
the skill of a guide from teacher, by<br />
being an observer and support the<br />
teacher’s consultation.<br />
A good parent will defy the myth that<br />
the future of their child is determined<br />
by the school they attend. They<br />
realise that it is not the school, but<br />
a good teacher and guiding parent<br />
who can help determine the future<br />
prospects of these young souls.<br />
They will strive to understand the<br />
child’s skills, appreciate the extra<br />
ordinary talents that he/she posses,<br />
and support them to choose a path<br />
on their own. They will ensure the child<br />
is aware of the possible paths they<br />
can take by opening their minds to a<br />
wider world of opportunities.<br />
A child who has been influenced<br />
by a role model or passion and<br />
determination will work towards their<br />
goal naturally. This journey will not be<br />
affected by which school they attend,<br />
as long as a teacher identifies them<br />
and help to enhance them.<br />
A student may have weaknesses in<br />
certain areas but they will definitely<br />
have strengths elsewhere.<br />
As good parents we must try to<br />
identify these with the help of<br />
teachers or tutors. When a child is<br />
guided and supported by parents<br />
with this awareness, he/she is more<br />
likely to become a shining star. The<br />
mother who endeavours to fulfil her<br />
own dreams through her child might<br />
unintentionally cast a shadow over<br />
their future prospects.<br />
In this article, I will share<br />
with you some of my own<br />
experience in respect<br />
of parental engagement.<br />
They are based upon the<br />
Parental<br />
Engagement<br />
understanding of my son<br />
(19 months old), since we<br />
saw him from his first scan<br />
until now.<br />
Parental engagement has<br />
a large and positive impact<br />
on children’s learning and<br />
positive effect on their<br />
achievements. Majority of<br />
fathers are not significantly<br />
involved in their children’s<br />
education or at least<br />
spending time with them.<br />
Some fathers aspired to<br />
and had loving relationship<br />
with their children. Many<br />
distanced themselves<br />
from what they saw as<br />
a ‘typical Asian father’.<br />
Some fathers, however,<br />
expressed a heavy sense of<br />
responsibility and worried<br />
greatly about their children’s<br />
successful education.<br />
Some found personal care<br />
giving tiring and frustrating<br />
and felt pressured to<br />
provide significantly and<br />
find time for direct contact<br />
with children due to their<br />
workload and various personal<br />
activities.<br />
What I understand is, your<br />
baby’s familiarity with your<br />
Stephen Jeyaseelan<br />
IT network Systems Engineer<br />
Stephen is a IT network Systems<br />
Engineer lives in Sunbury-On-<strong>Tha</strong>mes,<br />
London.<br />
voice helps him/her quickly form<br />
an attachment to you once he/<br />
she’s born. One theory suggests<br />
that your baby’s hearing is well<br />
developed in the uterus to<br />
help him start to bond with you<br />
before he/she’s born. After<br />
birth, your newborn<br />
may also<br />
pay more<br />
attention to<br />
your voice<br />
than any<br />
other.<br />
Most children<br />
have two main educators in<br />
their lives their parents and<br />
their teachers. Parents are<br />
the prime educators until the<br />
child attends an early years<br />
setting or starts school and<br />
they remain a major influence<br />
on their children’s learning<br />
throughout school and beyond.<br />
If your child wanted to touch<br />
a leaf or piece of paper,<br />
please let them touch and feel.<br />
Because you may be seen that<br />
leaf or paper for million times<br />
in your life, but remember<br />
that is their first time they<br />
touch and explore the world.<br />
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If your child asks “Daddy, why<br />
is the sky blue?”, then please<br />
answer them rather ignore their<br />
findings. You can answer them<br />
“because blue is beautiful and it<br />
reflects the sea”<br />
In my personal experience,<br />
the key to bond with your<br />
baby is actually a process of<br />
enjoyment. Simply enjoying<br />
your baby is what helps you<br />
bond with him/her and him/<br />
her with you. Babies fall in love<br />
with the people who enjoy<br />
them, and who help them enjoy<br />
themselves. These “first loves”<br />
aren’t simply the people who<br />
feed them they’re<br />
the people who come when<br />
they want help or company,<br />
who notice when they smile and<br />
stop to smile back, who listen<br />
to their babbling and babble<br />
right back at them, who play<br />
with them, and who bring little<br />
bits of the world for them to<br />
see. These are the things that<br />
matters to your baby.<br />
How can you find time when<br />
you feel you don’t have any<br />
to spend with your children?<br />
Please find the following tips:<br />
1-2-1 time: Alone time with your<br />
child is best when you are doing<br />
something you both enjoy. With<br />
one family it may be the time<br />
when Dad takes the baby so<br />
Mom can spend time cooking<br />
or spend time with the older<br />
child. This could mean going<br />
to a movie, going to the local<br />
theatre...Etc.<br />
Little helpers: Children<br />
love to help. Do you have<br />
a mailing to do? Have<br />
them put the stamps on<br />
the envelopes. Need to<br />
go shopping? Make grocery<br />
shopping “fun time”<br />
with you. Need<br />
to make<br />
dinner?<br />
Let<br />
greatest helpers and they will<br />
look back and remember that<br />
“before dinner” was always<br />
special time with you.<br />
Phantom Time: You can still let<br />
your children know that you<br />
care. Write notes and drop<br />
them into their lunch boxes. This<br />
was one of the top ten things<br />
children made them feel loved<br />
and cared for by their parent.<br />
Break time: Everyone is busy.<br />
Some parents are busier than<br />
others. Slide in a “break time”<br />
so that you and your children<br />
can spend 15 minutes or a half<br />
hour together. Set a timer if you<br />
need to so that everyone knows<br />
when “break time” starts and<br />
finishes.<br />
Spending time with your<br />
children provides them with<br />
opportunities to learn and<br />
to be heard. Most of all, it<br />
provides you and your children<br />
with time to connect. It’s these<br />
connections that make your<br />
children feel loved.<br />
It’s true what they say: “The<br />
dust bunnies and dirty dishes<br />
aren’t going anywhere. Take a<br />
break from the rat race and<br />
commit to cherishing the little<br />
moments with your kids.”<br />
them<br />
help you by<br />
contributing to<br />
the preparation<br />
process. While it<br />
might be messier<br />
and it may time<br />
more time in<br />
the beginning,<br />
you will see that<br />
the children will<br />
become your<br />
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Suresh Krishna (also known<br />
as “London Baba“) was<br />
born and brought up<br />
in the village of Nelliady, near<br />
Jaffna in the northern province<br />
of Sri Lanka.<br />
He moved to the<br />
United Kingdom<br />
to complete his<br />
higher education<br />
and completed his<br />
Bachelor of Arts<br />
degree at Middlesex<br />
University. In 1992<br />
he became a<br />
naturalised British<br />
Citizen and settled in<br />
Harrow, north-west<br />
London.<br />
He has worked in<br />
finance for Samsung<br />
Electronics for the last 8 ½<br />
years, but has not restricted his<br />
life purely to office work.<br />
Since 2002, he has also worked<br />
as an actor. He has played<br />
the lead role in three films<br />
(‘Theervu’, ‘Neerai Kaanaatha<br />
Veerkal’ and ‘Surya’) and his<br />
fourth film yet to be certified<br />
(‘Tamil MI-7’) which he stars<br />
in and directs. Under his<br />
performing name of London<br />
Baba, he is currently acting in a<br />
film called Thousand Dreams in<br />
united kingdom and Its Director<br />
Nantha, he has imitated the<br />
superstar Rajinikanth and<br />
released a video song album<br />
called ‘Singa Nadai’ and also<br />
wrote the song ‘Ulaga Tamila’<br />
with music Ravi Devendran,<br />
which was performed<br />
by SP Bala and<br />
released both as an<br />
audio and video single.<br />
Between 2000 and<br />
2006, he encouraged<br />
and promoted young<br />
developing performer<br />
(singers, dancers<br />
and announcers) on<br />
the Deepam Tamil<br />
TV channel. During<br />
this time he was<br />
a key supporter<br />
of the Kanakuyil<br />
singing competition<br />
programme, originated<br />
by Mrs Yoha Thillainathan to<br />
promote young singers.<br />
South Indian film Paradesi,<br />
an adaptation of Paul<br />
Harris Daniel’s book Red<br />
Tea , took two award at the<br />
London Film Festival, Best<br />
Costume Designer for Poornima<br />
‘Paradesi’ wins awards<br />
at London film festival<br />
Ramasamy and the second for<br />
cinematographer Chezhiyan.<br />
The film directed by filmmaker<br />
Bala, is on on the exploitation of<br />
Indian tea estate workers by the<br />
British in South India.<br />
“The film involved shooting<br />
in verdant landscapes of tea<br />
estates. And that’s where the<br />
challenge lay. We had to narrate<br />
a sorrowful story against<br />
this picturesque backdrop,”<br />
Chezhiyan , said in an interview.<br />
Paradesi is a sixth film for him<br />
as cinematographer.<br />
Chezhiyan was a civil engineer<br />
who pursued his passion for<br />
photography when he entered<br />
films as last assistant in<br />
famous Tamil film director Mani<br />
Ratnam’s Alaipayuthe.<br />
Poornima Ramasamy,<br />
costume designer of the movie<br />
who already won National<br />
Award in India said “I am still<br />
shocked,” Ramasamy is the<br />
granddaughter of late M.G.<br />
Naidu, founder of Naidu Hall,<br />
a well-known garment store<br />
in Chennai, and was assisting<br />
her father at the store before<br />
venturing into films.<br />
Ramasamy has since wrapped<br />
up French filmmaker Michel<br />
Spinosa’s upcoming film, Mon<br />
Espouse, which will be screened<br />
at the Berlin Film Festival in<br />
2014.<br />
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Lego to Linux:<br />
Programming for Kids<br />
Bala <strong>Tha</strong>va<br />
Bala is a software-geek, full time developer at<br />
Microsoft gold partner, passion of photography,<br />
fond of music and cinema.<br />
Kids can now test their creative skills on<br />
websites which helps them to develop<br />
simple games and applications.<br />
Scratch<br />
This is designed for kids where its help<br />
kids to develop animation, interactive<br />
stories and games by drag-and-drop.<br />
They can draw their own characters too,<br />
add action and sound to them. The work<br />
can be saved and shared with others.<br />
http://scratch.mit.edu/<br />
Hopscotch<br />
It’s an iPad app, which provides with<br />
the right number of keys and controls<br />
for kids to start up, which helps them<br />
to learn it by them self without any<br />
help.<br />
https://www.gethopscotch.com/<br />
Stencyl<br />
If you are looking for only game related<br />
development, with a payment then<br />
Stencyl will be the choice. On the other<br />
side it’s a cross platform application as<br />
build once and play anywhere.<br />
http://www.stencyl.com/<br />
Codecacademy<br />
This is another great resource to learn<br />
programming interactively.<br />
Kahn Academy<br />
This is a non-profit educational<br />
project by educator Salman Khan.<br />
Here you not only learn programming<br />
but also other important subjects.<br />
https://www.khanacademy.org/cs<br />
10<br />
Programming helps kids to express their perception<br />
on objects and events surrounding with creativity.<br />
But are we enough realized the need for<br />
programming skill as part of the children education;<br />
according to some people it’s important as the<br />
literacy and calculation skills.<br />
From ‘Lego’ to ‘Linux’, the base line of concept<br />
in programming is arranging the available blocks<br />
into a required or targeted design. By learning<br />
programming, kids learn to solve problems, get over<br />
the obstacles and collaborate with others, these<br />
are important life skills needed to prove them in any<br />
profession. As MIT professor Mitchel Resnick wrote,<br />
when kids ‘learn to code’, they also ‘code to learn’.<br />
On the other hand, many of us see the code as<br />
the endless lines of computer language. However, I<br />
look at programming as an expression which mixed<br />
up logic, techniques in form of modern art. So<br />
programming should be taught at an early stage<br />
of human life as the minds are not consumed by<br />
specific streams of knowledge - may be in kinder<br />
garden.<br />
So how we can teach programming to kids, there<br />
are number of web sites and projects are available<br />
both paid and free, but here I am listing a number<br />
of websites which helps you to learn from some<br />
code lines to a whole application. Have a try and<br />
find what suits you or your kids.<br />
I conclude this here with, as said by Naveen<br />
Selvadurai, co founder of Foursquare.<br />
- “What ever you do, learn to code”<br />
For more tech stuff and link stay turned with us.<br />
Mitchel Resnick : http://web.media.mit.edu/~mres/<br />
Naveen Selvadurai : https://twitter.com/naveen<br />
Khan Academy : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Salman_Khan_<br />
(educator)<br />
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Do we really kn<br />
our children ar<br />
to be in the futu<br />
Paraniharan <strong>Tha</strong>rmakularaja<br />
Tennis Coach<br />
David & Lloyds Sudbury Hill<br />
I<br />
am going to tell you a story<br />
about encouraging children<br />
and how encouragement<br />
makes them successful.<br />
There was a small town and in<br />
that town there were 3 kids who<br />
were very good friends.<br />
Theyalways went around the<br />
town after school to play cricket,<br />
football and basket ball. They<br />
were able to play all the games<br />
except from one game…TENNIS.<br />
In their town, they had 2 tennis<br />
courts that were used by<br />
the members of aclub. The<br />
members were engineers,<br />
doctors and lawyers. Every<br />
evening, they played for a<br />
couple of hours in the tennis<br />
courts.<br />
The 3 boys had a habit of<br />
watching and helping them by<br />
collecting the balls, if they flew<br />
out of the courts. These are the<br />
things we all do whenever we<br />
get a chance to play tennis.<br />
One day their sports teacher<br />
at school,went to them and<br />
said“We are going to start<br />
playing tennis at our school . Do<br />
you want to play?”<br />
The guys were filled withgreat<br />
joy and said “yes” to the Master.<br />
Older boys of their school went<br />
to America and encouraged the<br />
others bysending them tennis<br />
balls, rackets and Shoes.<br />
Because of that, the three boys<br />
started to play tennis and their<br />
dream came true. Many Boys<br />
joined themin their games. In<br />
two years time, they went to<br />
play at theNational Level School<br />
championships. They came third<br />
place out of 22 Schools. Great<br />
Performance, Great Joy and<br />
Great Success were following<br />
them because of their hard<br />
work and the help of the older<br />
boys of their School.<br />
At Present, one of them is<br />
aTennis programme developer<br />
in SriLanka.He has travelled<br />
more than 20 countries in<br />
the world and representing<br />
International Tennis<br />
federation(ITF) as a captain<br />
for the trip to Europefor many<br />
years. The other one became<br />
the National Tennis Centre<br />
Head coach for Sri Lanka and<br />
the third one is writing this<br />
article from London as a Junior<br />
& Adult Tennis Pro at David<br />
Lloyd Sudburyhill.<br />
Encourage the children<br />
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ow what<br />
e going<br />
re?<br />
and give them a chance to<br />
learnsomething that they don’t<br />
know.<br />
As we became successful, they<br />
will surely become successful in<br />
many things we didn’t know.<br />
As a Tennis coach, I encourage<br />
the Kids and I have seen that<br />
the kid who never listened and<br />
didn’t have any idea about tennis<br />
became the top player in the<br />
group.<br />
I hope you all understood<br />
how important to encourage<br />
the children. As a part of the<br />
encouragement, I will give some<br />
basic tips to learn Tennis and<br />
you all can share the tips among<br />
friends and you also can learn<br />
tennis.<br />
See you soon.<br />
Pineapple Chicken<br />
Ingredients:<br />
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Pineapple, cubed cooked with sugar 1/2 measures<br />
»»<br />
Boneless chicken breasts, cubed 2<br />
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Cornflour/ corn starch 3 tablespoon<br />
»»<br />
Chopped 5 clove Garlic<br />
»»<br />
Ginger chopped<br />
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Spring onion<br />
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Red capsicum small strips 1 medium<br />
»»<br />
Green capsicum, 1 medium<br />
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Crushed red chillies 2 1/2 teaspoon<br />
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Chicken stock 1/2 cup<br />
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Spring onion greens, chopped 1 tablespoon<br />
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Soy sauce 2 teaspoon<br />
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Oil 1 tablespoon<br />
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Salt to taste<br />
Method:<br />
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Place the chicken pieces in a bowl; add salt, two<br />
tablespoons corn flour and one teaspoon soy<br />
sauce.<br />
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Mix well. Heat the oil in a non-stick pan.<br />
»»<br />
Add the chicken pieces and sauté till light brown.<br />
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Add the garlic and ginger. Toss well.<br />
»»<br />
Add the spring onions, red capsicum, green<br />
capsicum, and salt and pineapple pieces.<br />
»»<br />
Mix well and cook for two minutes.<br />
»»<br />
Add the remaining soy sauce, crushed red chillies,<br />
chicken stock and remaining cornflour dissolved in<br />
quarter cup of water.<br />
»»<br />
Stir to mix and simmer for one to one two<br />
minutes.<br />
»»<br />
Serve hot garnished with spring with spring onion<br />
greens.<br />
Vani Bala<br />
Vani is Passion on Food processing and<br />
homemade recipes, Nature Lover,<br />
Philosopher by qualification.<br />
Rulang Ladoo (Rava Ladoo)<br />
Ingredients:<br />
»»<br />
Semolina (Rulang) 2 cups<br />
»»<br />
Sugar ¾ cup (powdered)<br />
»»<br />
Ghee 1 cup<br />
»»<br />
Cardamom powder 1 teaspoon (fried)<br />
»»<br />
Raisins 1 teaspoon (fried with ghee)<br />
Method:<br />
»»<br />
Heat the 1 teaspoon ghee in a pan and dry<br />
roast the rava.<br />
»»<br />
Grind the rava and sugar in a fine powder.<br />
»»<br />
Heat the remaining ghee and add powdered<br />
rava, cashew nuts, raisins and cardamom<br />
powder<br />
»»<br />
Mix them thoroughly.<br />
»»<br />
While it’s warm, make into small sized balls.<br />
Cooking Time<br />
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tha lifestyle | Health & well being<br />
You Child can be<br />
free from<br />
dental disease<br />
for life time<br />
Children’s oral health is one of<br />
the foundations upon which<br />
preventive education and<br />
dental care must be built to<br />
enhance the opportunity for a<br />
lifetime free from preventable<br />
oral disease which includes<br />
preventive strategies, oral<br />
Dr Anthuria Rajan<br />
Anthuria is an overseas<br />
dentist from Sri Lanka<br />
currently living in South<br />
London.<br />
health risk assessment and<br />
therapeutic interventions<br />
Early childhood caries (ECC)<br />
begins soon after tooth<br />
eruption, develops on smooth<br />
surfaces, progress rapidly, and<br />
has a lasting detrimental impact<br />
on the dentition.<br />
This disease affects the general<br />
population but more likely to<br />
occur in infants who are of low<br />
socioeconomic status, who<br />
consume a diet high in sugar,<br />
and whose mothers have a low<br />
education level.<br />
Caries in primary teeth can<br />
affect children’s growth, result in<br />
significant pain and potentially<br />
life-threatening infection, and<br />
diminish overall quality of life.<br />
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tha lifestyle | Health & well being<br />
Dental caries is a common<br />
chronic infectious transmissible<br />
disease resulting from toothadherent<br />
specific bacteria,<br />
primarily mutans streptococci<br />
(MS), that metabolize sugars to<br />
produce acid which, over time,<br />
demineralises tooth structure.<br />
MS generally is considered<br />
to be the principal group of<br />
bacterial organisms responsible<br />
for the initiation of dental caries.<br />
MS colonization of an infant<br />
may occur from the time of<br />
birth.<br />
Significant colonization occurs<br />
after dental eruption as teeth<br />
provide non-shedding surfaces<br />
for adherence.<br />
Other surfaces also may<br />
harbour MS. For example, the<br />
furrows of the tongue appear<br />
to be an important ecological<br />
niche in harbouring the bacteria<br />
in predentate infants.<br />
Vertical transmission of MS<br />
from mother to infant is well<br />
documented.<br />
The higher the levels of<br />
maternal salivary MS, the<br />
greater the risk of the infant<br />
being colonized. Along with<br />
salivary levels of MS, mother’s<br />
oral hygiene, periodontal<br />
disease, snack frequency, and<br />
socioeconomic status also<br />
are associated with infant<br />
colonization. Reports indicate<br />
that horizontal transmission<br />
(i.e., transmission between<br />
members of a group such<br />
as siblings of a similar age or<br />
children in a day care centre)<br />
also may be of concern.<br />
Dental caries is a disease that<br />
generally is preventable. Early<br />
risk assessment allows for<br />
identification of parent-infant<br />
groups who are at risk for ECC<br />
and would benefit from early<br />
preventive intervention.<br />
The ultimate goal of early<br />
assessment is the timely<br />
delivery of educational<br />
information to populations at<br />
high risk for developing caries in<br />
order to prevent the need for<br />
later surgical intervention.<br />
Educating the parent on<br />
avoiding saliva-sharing<br />
behaviours (e.g., sharing spoons<br />
and other utensils, sharing cups,<br />
cleaning a dropped pacifier or<br />
toy with their mouth) can help<br />
prevent early colonization of MS<br />
in infants.<br />
A comprehensive oral<br />
examination and treatment<br />
during pregnancy is especially<br />
important for the mother.<br />
Routine professional dental<br />
care for the parent can help<br />
optimize oral health. Removal of<br />
active caries, with subsequent<br />
restoration of remaining tooth<br />
structure, in the parents<br />
suppresses the MS reservoir<br />
and minimizes the transfer<br />
of MS to the infant, thereby<br />
decreasing the infant’s risk of<br />
developing ECC.<br />
Maintaining acceptable level of<br />
oral hygiene such as brushing<br />
with fluoridated toothpaste<br />
and flossing by the parent are<br />
important to help dislodge food<br />
and reduce bacterial plaque<br />
levels.<br />
Dietary education for<br />
the parents includes the<br />
carcinogenicity (causing<br />
caries)of certain foods<br />
and beverages, role of<br />
frequency of consumption<br />
of these substances, and<br />
the demineralization/<br />
remineralisation process.<br />
Using a fluoridated toothpaste<br />
and rinsing with an alcoholfree,<br />
over-the-counter mouth<br />
rinse containing 0.05 percent<br />
sodium fluoride once a day or<br />
0.02 percent sodium fluoride<br />
rinse twice a day have been<br />
suggested to help reduce<br />
plaque levels and promote<br />
enamel remineralisation.<br />
Evidence suggests that the use<br />
of xylitol chewing gum (at least<br />
two to three times a day by the<br />
mother) has a significant impact<br />
on mother-child transmission of<br />
MS and decreasing the child’s<br />
caries rate.<br />
Look out for our December<br />
edition for continuation<br />
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tha lifestyle | internet & technology<br />
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Iphone 5s , Apple’s seventhgeneration<br />
iPhone is indeed a<br />
major evolutionary step for the<br />
iPhone.<br />
It’s the first smartphone where<br />
the hardware and software<br />
feel truly cohesive, fun and<br />
effortless.<br />
With newly launched iOS 7,<br />
a new camera system and a<br />
high-tech fingerprint sensor,<br />
iPhone 5s offer much more to<br />
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It can shoot at 120 fps but also<br />
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tha lifestyle | Launguage & culture<br />
The lives of Sri Lankan<br />
Tamils in their home<br />
country and expatriate<br />
countries are seen by many<br />
with particular interest in the<br />
light of the liberation struggle<br />
and the war desolation our kith<br />
an kin face back home. In the<br />
view of the world, the attention<br />
gatherings, readings and<br />
writings representing the Sri<br />
Lankan Tamils are being looked<br />
upon with an interest primarily<br />
focused on the art of war.<br />
Many important matters have<br />
been overlooked due to the<br />
above attitude. It is obvious that<br />
this would eventually create a<br />
negative impact on Sri Lankan<br />
Tamils. It is a fact that we, the<br />
expatriate Tamils, do not have<br />
any institutionalized resources<br />
to fulfil the needs of Tamils<br />
or others coming forward to<br />
engage in researches and<br />
studies on subjects related<br />
to Sri Lankan Tamils’ life,<br />
politics, literature and other<br />
matters. We who consider us<br />
intellectuals are obliged to ask<br />
ourselves whether we have<br />
done anything constructive<br />
towards this issue.<br />
The collections and works<br />
related to Sri Lankan<br />
Tamils found in the<br />
libraries of educational<br />
institutions like The School<br />
of Oriental and African<br />
Studies,<br />
of the<br />
University of London (SOAS),<br />
British Library and the<br />
Indian Section of Cambridge<br />
University, are limited in their<br />
utility because of the general<br />
absence of Tamil speaking<br />
personnel working in these<br />
institutions.<br />
Young researchers of the<br />
universities of the world, who<br />
wish to engage in studies<br />
An archive for<br />
Sri Lankan Tamils<br />
in Expatriate countries<br />
related to Sri Lankan Tamils,<br />
invariably turn their attention to<br />
other subjects related to Tamils<br />
in Tamil Nadu. This is because<br />
of the lack of accessible data<br />
and information and due to the<br />
risks of travelling to Sri Lanka<br />
because of the war. This has<br />
robbed Sri Lankan Tamils<br />
of<br />
of<br />
N.Selvarajah<br />
Co-ordinator-ETDRC<br />
Tel : 00 44 (0) 158 270 3786<br />
Fax : 00 44 (0) 208 908 0452<br />
E.mail : etdrc2009@yahoo.com<br />
Website: www.vethathiri.edu.in<br />
valuable works<br />
research and<br />
studies which<br />
would have been published, had<br />
a favourable situation existed.<br />
Should we ask ourselves as to<br />
why Tamil libraries, archives<br />
and book shops have not been<br />
established and developed as<br />
much as temples and shops<br />
have proliferated in expatriate<br />
countries, the answer would<br />
be only one. It is because that<br />
libraries, archives and book<br />
shops do not bring in<br />
as much money as<br />
temples and other<br />
commercial ventures<br />
would. Though this<br />
sounds bitter, it is the<br />
truth!<br />
Wishing to usher in a<br />
change in this situation<br />
at least at this juncture<br />
we have recently<br />
created the ‘European<br />
Tamil Documentation<br />
and Research Centre’ –<br />
ETDRC in London.<br />
Though this is a small<br />
step we are certain<br />
that this institution<br />
will create meaningful<br />
development in the intellectual<br />
lives of the expatriate Tamils in<br />
the future.<br />
We have taken necessary steps<br />
to register this institution as<br />
a Tamil Research Centre with<br />
the Charity Commission in the<br />
United Kingdom. (Registered<br />
Charity No. 1127365)<br />
As the next stage in this project<br />
we have begun to identify<br />
individuals who show keen<br />
interest in the sphere<br />
of Sri Lankan Tamils<br />
and to invite them<br />
into our institution;<br />
we are also collecting<br />
books, documents<br />
and other written<br />
works on this subject.<br />
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tha lifestyle | lnguage & culture<br />
Apart from this project, I have<br />
recorded 5000 books in 5<br />
volumes of my Nool Thettam<br />
collections in Tamil Language.<br />
A volume of Nool Thettam<br />
containing around 600 pages<br />
is published annually since the<br />
year 2002. The 6th volume<br />
is being compiled now and is<br />
expected to be published in<br />
early 2010.<br />
I have donated all the books<br />
I get in connection with the<br />
compiling of Nool Thettam<br />
as an initial resource to the<br />
‘European Tamil Documentation<br />
and Research Centre’. These<br />
3000 books are not enough<br />
to develop our archive; we<br />
need books and work related<br />
to Tamil language from all over<br />
the world besides books and<br />
works authored by Sri Lankan,<br />
Malaysian and Singaporean<br />
Tamils.<br />
We would be grateful should<br />
those in possession of personal<br />
collections come forward and<br />
donate at least some books<br />
from their collections for public<br />
use. Many people are now<br />
giving us a helping hand for the<br />
ETDRC so that it would be of<br />
great service as the archive of<br />
the expatriate Sri Lankan Tamils<br />
and of the works of Singapore<br />
and Malaysian Tamils, in the<br />
future.<br />
Yet, ETDRC is in need of more<br />
and more books and financial<br />
support. We are engaged in the<br />
task of sourcing them. I appeal<br />
to you in the hope that you will<br />
come forward to preserve and<br />
maintain the books you have on<br />
Sri Lankan studies and those<br />
written by Sri Lankan Tamils in<br />
Tamil and English languages with<br />
ETDRC.<br />
I sincerely believe that this<br />
ambitious project would<br />
certainly be a useful source of<br />
data and information for the<br />
researchers on Tamil living in the<br />
European countries and also for<br />
the next expatriate generation<br />
and their needs of researches<br />
and studies.<br />
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TAMIL lifestyle | MOTOR<br />
Car Tax Bands<br />
What You Need to Know<br />
One of the key factor car buyers are<br />
concerned with is car tax or road tax.<br />
Buyers have to pay the tax every year, but<br />
it is easy to work out how much a new car is likely to<br />
cost you in tax over the years.<br />
The car tax bands are based on the carbon dioxide<br />
(CO2) emissions that your car puts out over one<br />
kilometre called ‘CO2 emission rate’.<br />
Road Tax ( officially called Vehicle Excise Duty<br />
(VED)) , has two elements which are main tax rate,<br />
which is based on the emissions, and a first year’s<br />
rate, which can be more or less , expensive than<br />
the normal rate.<br />
If they emit less than 100g/km of CO2, then the<br />
car is completely tax free and also all cars that<br />
produce up to 130g/km are free to tax for the first<br />
year.<br />
If you buy an car which is manufactured before<br />
2001 , then the tax is based on engine size instead.<br />
Cars under 1549cc (1.55 litres) cost £140 per year<br />
to tax, while everything above 1549cc costs £225<br />
per year.<br />
CO2 Emissions First year rate Annual rate<br />
(g/km)<br />
Up to 100 £0 £0<br />
101-110 £0 £20<br />
111-120 £0 £30<br />
121-130 £0 £105<br />
131-140 £125 £125<br />
141-150 £140 £140<br />
151-165 £175 £175<br />
166-175 £285 £200<br />
176-185 £335 £220<br />
186-200 £475 £260<br />
201-225 £620 £280<br />
226-255 £840 £475<br />
Over 255 £1,065 £490<br />
Following table applies to cars manufactured after<br />
2001.<br />
Some Cars that have zero tax<br />
Kia Picanto 1<br />
Volkswagen Golf hatchback<br />
Peugeot 207 Oxygo<br />
Citroën C3 1.4 HDI<br />
Ford Fiesta Econetic<br />
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CO2 emissions: 95g/km<br />
Combined fuel economy:<br />
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TAMIL lifestyle | lnguage & culture<br />
How Good<br />
are you<br />
in British<br />
Slangs?<br />
Fagged: disturbed, bothered<br />
or interrupted (Example: If one<br />
were studying for a test, one<br />
would not want to be “fagged.”)<br />
Fit: hot or sexually desirable.<br />
The Full Monty: going all the way<br />
with it, going big instead of going<br />
home.<br />
“Get stuffed!”: “Beat it” or<br />
“Scram!”<br />
Gobby: loudly opinionated,<br />
offensive or prickish. (See:<br />
Donald Trump.)<br />
As Tamil Community emigrated<br />
from former British Colonial<br />
South Asian Countries, most of<br />
them were mostly familiarised<br />
with their own version and own<br />
English style which were close to<br />
Queens English.<br />
So for some people British<br />
Slangs were new, therefore we<br />
researched into some famous<br />
British Slangs. As British Tamil<br />
become part for greater British<br />
Nation, these slangs will help<br />
them to mingle with other<br />
communities. Here the list of<br />
few famous slangs<br />
Any road: used in place of “any<br />
way,” primarily used in the north<br />
of Britain.<br />
Baccy: shortened word for<br />
“tobacco;” also, “wacky backy”<br />
means marijuana.<br />
Barmy: crazy, insane; always<br />
derogatory.<br />
Biggie: term children might<br />
use to describe feces; also, an<br />
erection.<br />
Bits ‘n Bobs: various things.<br />
(Example: “My mother has a<br />
lot of Bits ‘n Bobs around the<br />
house.”)<br />
“Bob’s your uncle!”: “There you<br />
go! You’ve got it!”<br />
Bollocks: technically means<br />
“balls,” but often describes<br />
something seen as extremely<br />
negative or lacking in value; e.g.<br />
“total shit.”<br />
“Bugger off!”: “Go away!”<br />
or “Leave me alone!” (Note:<br />
Bugger, used on its own, is akin<br />
to “Shit!” or swearing)<br />
Chav: white trash.<br />
Cheeky: to be not respectful of<br />
something, having a flippant or<br />
facetious attitude.<br />
Chin Wag: to have a chat with<br />
someone.<br />
Collywobbles: extreme<br />
queasiness or stomach<br />
pain brought on by stress,<br />
nervousness or anxiety.<br />
Crusty Dragon: a piece of snot<br />
or booger.<br />
Daft Cow: a very stupid person<br />
(See also: “Wazzock.”)<br />
Dog’s Bollocks: extremely good<br />
or favorable, great<br />
Dog’s Dinner: to be dressed<br />
nicely or look dapper.<br />
Donkey’s Years: ages, as in “I<br />
haven’t seen you in ages!”<br />
Gobsmacked: amazed or awed<br />
by something.<br />
Gormless: completely clueless,<br />
like Alicia Silverstone in the 90s<br />
film.<br />
To Have A Butcher’s: to take a<br />
look at something or someone.<br />
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Her Majesty’s Pleasure: being<br />
incarcerated or put in prison.<br />
“How’s Your Father?”:<br />
euphemism for sex (Example:<br />
“Have you and your wife had<br />
any of the ol’ ‘How’s your<br />
father?’ recently?”)<br />
“I’m Off To Bedfordshire!”: “I’m<br />
hitting the hay!”<br />
“It’s Monkeys Outside!”: “Wow,<br />
it’s very cold out!”<br />
Knackered: phrase meaning<br />
“extremely tired,” often uttered<br />
after a long, exhausting day;<br />
also see: “zonked.”<br />
Knees Up: A term for a mixer<br />
or a dance party (Example: “I<br />
went to this wild knees up this<br />
weekend. I wish you could have<br />
been there.”)<br />
Legless: totally, completely<br />
hammered.<br />
Lose The Plot: to go “crazy” or<br />
become mentally unstable.<br />
Lurgy: sick or under the<br />
weather.<br />
Made Redundant: to be fired or<br />
let go from one’s position.<br />
Minted: to be extremely rich.<br />
Off One’s Trolley: mad, out of<br />
one’s mind.<br />
On The Piss: binge drinking<br />
solely for the purpose of getting<br />
totally smashed.<br />
Pavement Pizza: euphemism for<br />
puke or vomit.<br />
“Pip pip!”: archaic, out-of-use<br />
phrase used to say goodbye.<br />
Plonk: a pejorative word used<br />
to describe red wine of poor<br />
quality, usually purchased at<br />
little expensive.<br />
Ponce: a poser.<br />
Porkies: old Cockney rhyming<br />
word used to mean “lies.”<br />
(Example: If one is “telling<br />
porkies,” you’re telling lies.)<br />
Comes from “pork pies,” which<br />
rhymes with lies.<br />
Puff: a fart.<br />
See A Man About a Dog: what<br />
you say as an excuse for<br />
leaving, in order to hide your<br />
destination; also, to excuse<br />
oneself to take a giant shit.<br />
Shambolic: in a total state of<br />
bedlam, chaos or dismay.<br />
Shirty: ill-tempered, insolent.<br />
Skive: a character deemed<br />
particularly lazy or incapable of<br />
being of use.<br />
Slap And Tickle: making out or<br />
heavy petting.<br />
Spend A Penny: to use the<br />
restroom.<br />
did you<br />
know?<br />
The most commonly used<br />
letter in the alphabet is E<br />
The least used letter in the<br />
alphabet is Q<br />
The sentence “the quick<br />
brown fox jumps over the<br />
lazy dog” uses every letter<br />
in the English alphabet<br />
The word ‘rhythm’ is the<br />
longest word without a<br />
vowel<br />
The letter W is the only<br />
letter in the alphabet that<br />
has 3 syllables<br />
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