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<strong>Tha</strong><br />

Tamil lifestyle magazine from Great Britain<br />

<strong>Tha</strong>LIFESTYLE<br />

Nov - Dec 2013 • Vol 01 : Issue 01<br />

www.<strong>Tha</strong>-lifestyle.com<br />

Shop Saree<br />

Online<br />

Do we really know<br />

What our<br />

Children<br />

are going to be in<br />

the future?<br />

iPHONE<br />

GETS<br />

TAMIL<br />

TOUCH<br />

Simple Guide to<br />

Tamil Hindu<br />

Wedding<br />

Lego to<br />

Linux:<br />

Programming<br />

for Kids<br />

Recipe : Pineapple Chicken<br />

How Good<br />

are you in<br />

British Slangs?<br />

Also in this issue....<br />

• Newly launched Help t buy Scheme<br />

• Love your Pets? Then Care Them<br />

• Tamil Telecom Tycoon<br />

• Enters the Real Estate market<br />

LOOK INSIDE FOR MORE<br />

Tamil MI 7<br />

London Baba’s<br />

New release


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content<br />

06<br />

Iphone gets tamil touch<br />

How to get your Tamil keyboard with latest iOS7<br />

updated on apple devices<br />

07<br />

Newly launched ‘Help to Buy<br />

Scheme’<br />

Newly launched ‘Help to buy’ Schoeme by UK<br />

government. Learn more here<br />

08<br />

Love your pets? then care them<br />

Advice from veterinary surgeon on pet care for<br />

pet lovers<br />

16<br />

simple guide to tamil wedding<br />

Learn about Pre-wedding day customs and<br />

traditions of Tamil weddings<br />

12<br />

yoga for human excelence<br />

Simple Kundalini Yoga and its benefits<br />

14<br />

Starting your own business<br />

A guide to start a new businesss<br />

18<br />

Clicked<br />

Picture gallery from Tamil Photographers<br />

19<br />

Cinema corner<br />

Tamil movie times and reviews<br />

20<br />

why our children are under<br />

pressure?<br />

Experienced High School teacher analyses the<br />

pressure on Tamil children by parents<br />

05<br />

Tamil Telecom Tycoon<br />

Enters the Real Estate market<br />

Featured news about Lyca Mobile’s expansion<br />

into London’s prime real estate industry<br />

22<br />

28<br />

Parental engagement<br />

Experience of a young father and his views of a<br />

role of parents<br />

Child can be free from dental<br />

disease for life time<br />

Oral Health awarness series from a Dental<br />

Surgeon for your children<br />

31<br />

An archive for Sri Lankan Tamils<br />

in Expatriate countries<br />

01


tha lifestyle | EDITORIAL<br />

Editor’s wall<br />

Hello ! First step with fist bump…<br />

As the British Autumn arrives and leaves fall from the trees our magazine sprouts<br />

upwards like a seedling in Spring from bare land, shooting up to the sky. It has long been<br />

a dream of mine since I arrived in United Kingdom to create a forum where the many<br />

and varied lifestyles of the modern Tamil community could be reflected and captured,<br />

with voluntary contributions of stories and pictures from across our community,<br />

supported by successful ethical businesses.<br />

As a diaspora spread from the South Asian continent over the last few decades Tamils<br />

have settled in many countries, mingling and mixing with all communities, bringing<br />

their skills and traditional hardworking attitude and a desire to contribute. Our new<br />

generations collecting modern educations along the way are becoming a powerful<br />

nation.<br />

The huge changes in lifestyle for Tamils born in South Asian tropical lands, with its yearround<br />

supportive farming climate , coming to the industrial countries of the developed<br />

West have transformed our nation and ensured it will continue to prosper everywhere<br />

with time.<br />

As we look back on the changes in our lifestyle coming from Jaffna to London, we can<br />

all plot a steep learning curve of social, cultural and economic change. I have loved living<br />

and working in Great Britain for its tolerance and kindness and hospitality. And I see my<br />

friends, the people contributing to this magazine and all the other Tamil professionals<br />

and artists out there as role models who can inspire, educate and be the foundation of<br />

a great nation.<br />

We hope this effort from the team and all the voluntary contributors will be a magazine<br />

of our lifestyles to set an example and inform and entertain our readers. We want it<br />

to provide a platform for all ages to say something that expresses their feelings and<br />

aspirations. Our busy full time working lives are the very stories we wish to see and tell<br />

here every month in <strong>Tha</strong> Lifestyle.<br />

We begin this journey firmly believing that whether you are a pupil, a student or a<br />

teacher we want to hear from you all. No matter if you have a part-time or full time<br />

jobs or are self employed, an apprentice or a businessman, we want to hear from you all<br />

with your stories, and your pictures too if you have them.<br />

<strong>Tha</strong> Lifestyle is your magazine, your free platform to reach out through print and on the<br />

internet and eBook stores to tell your own Tamil story to millions of people<br />

Sujay<br />

Sujatharan<br />

<strong>Tha</strong> Editor<br />

<strong>Tha</strong> Team<br />

nimalan<br />

tharmalingam<br />

<strong>Tha</strong> Graphics manager<br />

Satheesan<br />

<strong>Tha</strong>nabalasundaram<br />

<strong>Tha</strong> Marketting Manager<br />

Bala<br />

<strong>Tha</strong>vapalan<br />

<strong>Tha</strong> IT Manager<br />

editor@tha-lifestyle.com submit@tha-lifestyle.com contact@tha-lifestyle.com info@tha-lifestyle.com<br />

Stephen Jeyaseelan Gajanthy Gobiraj Johannes Shanmugam<br />

Nithiyananthan Partheepan Sachin Sakthivel Dr SS Balachandran<br />

Raguraj Anthuriya Rajan Bharathan Ariryaratnam<br />

Nimalan Balan <strong>Tha</strong>va Vani <strong>Tha</strong>vapalan<br />

Anton Gangakumaran Vara Suntharalingam Trisha Sundaralingam<br />

N.Selvarajah<br />

Parani <strong>Tha</strong>rmakularajah<br />

02


tha lifestyle | Business & Finance<br />

Tamil Telecom Tycoon<br />

Enters the Real Estate market<br />

The British Tamil Tycoon who is behind the world’s<br />

largest cheap international call network, Lycatel<br />

Chairman Subaskaran Allirajah, has purchased the 3.7-<br />

acre <strong>Tha</strong>mes Quay in Docklands from Columbus Capital<br />

Management in an £82 million deal. The move is his first<br />

entry into British real estate investment.<br />

The site currently holds four fully occupied<br />

office buildings and has very good potential for<br />

redevelopment.<br />

The Ceylon Tamil born, ex- British Telecom tycoon is<br />

ranked 434th in the Sunday Times Rich List with a<br />

£180m fortune, and he saw off competition from seven<br />

other bidders to secure the site.<br />

Architects Robin Partington has already designed<br />

four residential towers<br />

of up to 47 storeys,<br />

incorporating a 100,000<br />

sq ft hotel and a<br />

246,000 sq ft office<br />

building.<br />

The group’s main<br />

company Lycamobile,<br />

which is already based<br />

at <strong>Tha</strong>mes Quay owns<br />

Independent House,<br />

the ISIS building, the<br />

Walbrook building and<br />

197 Marsh Wall<br />

Subaskaran<br />

Allirajah<br />

Born : 2 March 1972 in Sri<br />

Lanka<br />

Group Founder and<br />

Chairman of the Lycatel<br />

and LycaMobile Groups of<br />

companies.<br />

Worth £180 million<br />

Lives in London Chigwell<br />

Lycamobile also bought Drewry House at 213<br />

Marsh Wall, which it plans to use as overflow<br />

space.<br />

Since Lycatel Group was founded in 2004 it<br />

has developed operations in 16 countries and<br />

a subscriber base of more than nine million<br />

customers.<br />

In an attempt to expand his business areas<br />

International MVNO Lycamobile has recently<br />

bought the Red Steel cricket team, which<br />

represents Trinidad and Tobago in the Caribbean<br />

Premier League.<br />

In an interview regarding the purchase<br />

Subaskaran Allirajah said: “We are incredibly<br />

excited to support the Trinidad<br />

and Tobago Red Steel team from<br />

the very beginning of their journey<br />

and look forward to growing<br />

with them through the exciting<br />

tournaments to come.”<br />

The Caribbean Premier League<br />

is an annual Twenty20 cricket<br />

tournament held in the Caribbean<br />

by the West Indies Cricket<br />

Board. It was created in 2013<br />

and replaced the Caribbean<br />

Twenty20 as the premier cricket<br />

competition in the Caribbean.<br />

03


tha lifestyle | INTERNET & TECHNOLOGY<br />

iPHONE GETS<br />

Upgrade to iOS7<br />

THE TAMIL TOUCH<br />

Apple’s latest operating<br />

system iOS7, could lead to a<br />

dramatic shift in the nature<br />

of user-generated content as<br />

it included the two in-system<br />

Tamil keyboards. The iPhone ,<br />

iPod and iPad users who<br />

upgraded to iOS7will enjoy<br />

the new user friendly Tamil<br />

Keyboard as they quickly<br />

change the keyboard by<br />

pressing the key .<br />

Already the Tamil keyboard is<br />

available in other smartphone<br />

platforms, most notably<br />

in some Android Devices.<br />

Apple’s inclusion of Tamil input<br />

keyboards is significant for the<br />

developer community who<br />

still view it as the preferred<br />

platform for publishing ‘paid-for’<br />

apps over others.<br />

The Hindu notes that Apple<br />

brought on an experienced<br />

maker of Tamil keyboards,<br />

Muthu Nedumaran, who’s<br />

known for making the Sellinam<br />

keyboard for Android and iOS.<br />

The iOS 7 upgrade will bring to<br />

eligible Apple mobile devices<br />

two keyboards ; ‘Tamil 99’<br />

which will display Tamil scripts<br />

and ‘Anjal’ a phonetic keyboard.<br />

Both of which are developed by<br />

the same team as ‘Sellinam’.<br />

This will enable users to type in<br />

Tamil directly. One of the areas<br />

it could improve dramatically<br />

would be ‘News Apps’ where<br />

users will be able to type in<br />

Tamil keywords. This should be<br />

a big boost for Tamil-speaking<br />

iOS users in India, Malaysia,<br />

Singapore and Sri Lanka.<br />

HOW SAFE ARE YOU ON<br />

FACEBOOK ?<br />

Who can see your Facebook<br />

updates ?<br />

Everytime you post a<br />

status update on your<br />

Facebook page, you have the<br />

ability to control who can see<br />

it.If you make it “Public” then<br />

that actually means you have<br />

made the status update not<br />

only viewable by everybodyon<br />

Facebook, but also everyone<br />

not on Facebook as well.<br />

Who can see your future<br />

and past posts ?<br />

You should also use Facebook’s<br />

privacy settings to adjust who<br />

can view your future posts,<br />

take the opportunity to review<br />

past Facebook posts you have<br />

made, and limit the audience<br />

for past posts that may have<br />

been accidentally shared with<br />

“Friends of Friends” or “Public”<br />

Which Apps can access your<br />

private information?<br />

Many Facebook users<br />

aren’t aware that – unless<br />

you have locked down your<br />

privacy settings correctly – the<br />

apps, games and websites<br />

that your *friends* use can also<br />

access your personal details,<br />

photos and updates.<br />

Why Post private stuff on<br />

Facebook?<br />

Facebook is going to find<br />

it a lot harder (although<br />

not impossible) to expose<br />

your personal and private<br />

information to others if you<br />

never share it with the social<br />

network in the first place.<br />

Who Can Tag you on Time Line?<br />

Facebook provides<br />

additional privacy settings<br />

which you should spend time<br />

checking to better protect<br />

yourself online.<br />

04


tha lifestyle | Business & Finance<br />

What is Help To Buy<br />

Scheme and Is it<br />

only for Newly Built<br />

Properties?<br />

The answer is NO. Help to buy<br />

scheme is designed for both<br />

pre owned and newly built<br />

properties.<br />

There are two kind of schemes<br />

a government equity loan of<br />

20% of the purchase price plus<br />

a traditional mortgage.<br />

Mortgage Guarantee: The UK<br />

government has extended<br />

its Help to Buy Scheme in<br />

October 2013 to make it<br />

possible to purchase any<br />

property whether newly built<br />

or pre owned with just 5%<br />

£600,000. Participating Banks:<br />

RBS/NatWest and the Halifax.<br />

Santander, HSBC, Virgin Money,<br />

Lloyds, TSB and Aldermore<br />

all saying that they will start<br />

offering products by the start<br />

of January 2014.<br />

Equity Loan: Currently only<br />

applicable for newly built<br />

Newly launched<br />

‘Help to Buy Scheme’<br />

have been introduced<br />

by the Government, and<br />

the Mortgage Guarantee<br />

Scheme is available for<br />

both pre owned and newly<br />

built properties. The two<br />

B Niranchan, MBA BSc<br />

Estate Agent and Founder of<br />

Touchwood Homes (UK)<br />

(T: 020 8574 0270)<br />

twhomes.co.uk<br />

properties with participating<br />

home builders and lenders only.<br />

In this scheme the Government<br />

will lend 20% of the property<br />

price as a long which is payable<br />

when you sell the property or<br />

available schemes in the market<br />

are,<br />

1.. Mortgage Guarantee -<br />

available on both pre-owned<br />

and new build properties with<br />

a standard mortgage of up to<br />

95% of the purchase price.<br />

2. Equity Loan - available on<br />

new build properties only using<br />

deposit. The government will<br />

make guarantee the 20% to<br />

the lender, and this scheme<br />

is currently possible through<br />

participating lenders only. This<br />

scheme is available to both<br />

existing home owners and firsttime<br />

buyers with a deposit of<br />

just 5% and available for both<br />

pre owned and newly built<br />

properties up to the value of<br />

when the mortgage comes to<br />

an end. You will need to arrange<br />

the mortgage of 75% LTV to<br />

cover the rest. You won’t be<br />

charged loan fees for the first<br />

5 years of owning your home<br />

but on the 6th year onwards a<br />

fee will be charged coupled with<br />

RPI.<br />

05


tha lifestyle | Pets & fAMILIES<br />

PET CARE SERIES : PART 1<br />

Love your Pets?<br />

Then care them<br />

Dr. S. S. Balachandran<br />

Former Director General at<br />

Department of Animal<br />

Production and Health, Sri Lanka<br />

Pets have become a very important part of our families.<br />

In many cases they have become as much a part of<br />

our lives as children or grandchildren. Pet dogs are usually<br />

companion dogs especially to elderly people. Recent<br />

studies also show that Pets can improve your mood,<br />

Control blood pressure better than drugs, Encourage you<br />

to get out and exercise, Stave Off loneliness and provide<br />

unconditional love, Can reduce stress, sometimes more<br />

than people etc.<br />

Therefore, it is the responsibility of the pet owners to<br />

keep their pets healthy and happy. So have to pay special<br />

attention in giving them proper food and in their health<br />

care..<br />

FEEDING<br />

Feeding your pet should be one of the easiest things you<br />

do. Pick a name brand that you are familiar with, feed<br />

puppy food to the young ones and adult foods to those<br />

generally over six months of age. Consult your Veterinarian<br />

on what to feed when they get past middle age. Most of<br />

the diets out there are fine and our pets seem to thrive<br />

well on nearly all of them.<br />

HEALTH CARE<br />

Vaccinations<br />

Vaccination protects your dog against various<br />

diseases which can cause pain, distress and are<br />

often become fatal. Vaccinating your dog will give<br />

you peace of mind knowing that you have provided<br />

protection to your pets. In addition to safeguarding<br />

your own pet from diseases, vaccination also<br />

prevents diseases from being passed on to other<br />

animals.<br />

The vaccines are commonly used to protect our<br />

pets from<br />

»»<br />

Canine parvovirus<br />

»»<br />

Canine distemper virus<br />

»»<br />

Leptospirosis<br />

»»<br />

Infectious canine hepatitis<br />

»»<br />

Rabies.<br />

Pets should receive a ‘primary’ vaccination course<br />

early in life, followed by ‘booster’ vaccinations<br />

throughout their life.<br />

Know the Law!<br />

Controlling your dog in public It’s against the law<br />

to let a dog be dangerously out of control:<br />

a) in a public place<br />

b) in a private place<br />

where the dog isn’t allowed to be (eg a<br />

neighbour’s house or garden without<br />

permission)<br />

The law applies to all dogs.<br />

Recent studies also show that Pets can improve<br />

your mood, Control blood pressure better than<br />

drugs, Encourage you to get out and exercise,<br />

Stave Off loneliness and provide unconditional<br />

love, Can reduce stress, sometimes more than<br />

people<br />

The primary vaccination course for dogs varies with<br />

the type of vaccine used.<br />

The first vaccine can sometimes be given as young<br />

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tha lifestyle | Pets & fAMILIES<br />

as six weeks of age, with the second usually given<br />

two to four weeks later.<br />

Booster vaccinations are needed because the<br />

body’s immune response gradually fades over a<br />

time. They are often given every year, depending on<br />

the type of vaccine.<br />

Puppies should be vaccinated before they mix with<br />

other animals.<br />

External and Internal parasites<br />

Internal parasites – Worms<br />

The most important internal parasites are<br />

Roundworms, Hookworms, Tapeworms and<br />

Heartworms. They have been known to cause<br />

blindness and, in rare cases, even death.<br />

Zoonosis is a medical term for diseases that can be<br />

transmitted directly from our pets to us. Therefore,<br />

be sure your pets and their environment are as<br />

worm free as possible.<br />

The most common way these worms get<br />

transmitted is when dogs defecate in garden beds<br />

or sandboxes, and children come in contact when<br />

playing, or adults when gardening. Beaches can be<br />

another source of these creatures. Tapeworms<br />

are transmitted via fleas, and heartworms can be<br />

transmitted by mosquitos.<br />

Therefore, make sure your pets are free of the<br />

parasites. Practice good hygiene; wear gloves when<br />

you are gardening and wash your hands thoroughly<br />

afterward. Keep the children out of sandboxes that<br />

may be used by stray animals.<br />

Dogs should be given regular medication (Deworming)<br />

to prevent them from suffering from<br />

worms infestations. It is important to follow the<br />

worming regime recommended by your Veterinarian<br />

External parasites – Ticks and Fleas<br />

Keep your pets flea and tick free. Fleas can cause<br />

itching, chewing and licking and the skin may<br />

become red and inflamed. Sometimes you might<br />

see fleas on your dog or you might see small dark<br />

flecks (flea “dirt”) in the fur and on the skin.<br />

If your dog has fleas, then it is important to treat<br />

the house, your dog and all other pets in the<br />

household. Your Veterinarian can recommend safe<br />

and effective products to use. The house should<br />

be treated with an effective household spray<br />

after vacuuming, because flea larvae and eggs<br />

live off the animal, in places like carpets and rugs.<br />

Particular attention should be paid to areas where<br />

your dog spends much of their time. Grooming also<br />

helps in the control of ticks and fleas.<br />

....continued in Next Issue<br />

BEST PET GADGET<br />

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PawTrax combines GPS with mobile technology<br />

to send updates of your pet’s whereabouts to<br />

your phone in the form of an SMS. Simply click<br />

on the link in the text to pinpoint your pet on<br />

Google maps.<br />

£125, pawtrax.co.uk<br />

DAY OUT FOR ANIMAL LOVERS IN LONDON<br />

Battersea Park<br />

Children’s Zoo<br />

www.batterseaparkzoo.co.uk<br />

Hackney City Farm<br />

www.hackneycityfarm.co.uk<br />

London Wetland Centres<br />

www.wwt.org.uk<br />

07


tha lifestyle | Business & Finance<br />

PROPERTY TAX<br />

Hi, I own two properties,<br />

? one is a three bedroom<br />

house which is my main<br />

residence and other is a one<br />

bed flat. I was made redundant<br />

last month so I am going to sell<br />

my main residence and move<br />

into the flat. Please can you tell<br />

me whether I have to pay any<br />

tax on gain?<br />

If you sell your main<br />

A<br />

residence, and if it has<br />

been your main residence<br />

during the entire period of<br />

ownership, then you do not<br />

pay any tax on gain as it will be<br />

covered by “private residence<br />

relief”.<br />

Tax tip: The day you move<br />

to your flat, and if you<br />

make it your main residence, all<br />

period then onwards would be<br />

covered by PRR relief.<br />

CAPITAL GAINS TAX<br />

My name is Sathees, and<br />

? this year I made more<br />

than 12,000 gain on buying<br />

and selling shares and can you<br />

please advise me how can I<br />

avoid paying tax?<br />

For 2013/14 tax year the<br />

A first £10,900 gains made<br />

on selling shares is exempt from<br />

tax and any gain made above<br />

this limit is taxable.<br />

Tax tip: If you buy and sell<br />

shares based on “Financial<br />

spread bet trading<br />

method” instead of the normal<br />

“certificated method” then any<br />

gain you make on buy and sell<br />

shares is fully exempt from tax<br />

TAX ON BANK INTEREST<br />

Q: My name is Kumar<br />

? and I am a higher rate tax<br />

payer and paying 40%<br />

tax on interest receive from my<br />

bank. Please can you advise me<br />

whether is it possible to transfer<br />

money to my son who is 12<br />

Ragu Dharmaratnam<br />

Head of finance for a UK group Firm and<br />

a financial journalist<br />

e: ragu.savetax@gmail.com<br />

years old and thereby saving<br />

tax on interest? Currently I<br />

am getting 3% interest on my<br />

savings account<br />

Income earned from gifts<br />

A from parents is exempt<br />

if less than £100 per<br />

annum. Otherwise the income is<br />

taxable as that of the parents.<br />

Tax tip: You may open a<br />

savings account under your<br />

son’s name (children account)<br />

and transfer £3300 , thereby<br />

your son will get £99 interest<br />

per year which is covered by the<br />

£100 exemption limit.<br />

CASH GIFT<br />

Hello, My father is a<br />

? UK national now lives<br />

in Canada, and he is<br />

sending me £30,000 to the UK<br />

to put a deposit towards buying<br />

a property. Do I have to pay any<br />

tax on the gift?<br />

Cash gifts are free of<br />

A tax in the hands of the<br />

recipient, this means you<br />

do not pay any tax. You father<br />

is a UK national then this gift<br />

will be regarded as “potentially<br />

MONEY<br />

DOCTOR<br />

exempt transfer” (PET) for<br />

inheritance tax purposes based<br />

on seven year rule. Please<br />

check with Canadian tax<br />

authorities for any local tax.<br />

Tax tip: Any gifts you<br />

make will be exempt from<br />

Inheritance tax as long as<br />

you live for seven years after<br />

making the gift.<br />

EMPLOYMENT<br />

My name is Jaffer and I<br />

? am 22 years old. Recently<br />

I went for a job interview at a<br />

local cash and carry shop and I<br />

was offered £6 per hour hour<br />

doing 35 hours a week. I was<br />

told by my friend that I should<br />

be offered a minimum wage by<br />

law. Is this true please advise?<br />

Under the “National<br />

A<br />

Minimum Wage” (NMW)<br />

legislation from October 2013 ,<br />

you should be offered at least<br />

£6.31 for hour . You have the<br />

right to ask your employer to<br />

match this figure and it is illegal<br />

for them to offer £6,<br />

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tha lifestyle | INTERESTS & HOBBIES<br />

“<br />

We hope our Walk will<br />

encourage different<br />

communities to come together<br />

A charity walker from Gloucestershire,<br />

Johannes Shanmugam ,a British Tamil, will be<br />

walking his fourth year endless effort to raise<br />

fund for charities in Western English County in<br />

November. Showing in one hand a poppy and<br />

other hand Glory Lily, Johannes symbolise his<br />

message clearly to the Great Britain.<br />

He raises fund for ‘Help For Heroes’ and<br />

“Serendip Children’s Home” both UK based<br />

charities. Well known Help For Heroes formed<br />

to help those who have been wounded in<br />

Britain’s current conflicts while Serendib<br />

Children’s Home is supporting the war<br />

affected children in Sri Lanka.<br />

”<br />

In sharing his feelings<br />

Johannes said that he<br />

wanted to thank Great<br />

Britain for allowing Tamils<br />

to live in freedom with<br />

dignity and British People a<br />

great prosperity and care<br />

shown when Tamils came as<br />

refugees.<br />

Therefore as gratitude, he<br />

decided to support British<br />

soldiers who fought bravely<br />

and sacrificed their lives for<br />

the freedom that we enjoy<br />

here today.<br />

Four years and on …<br />

Heart to<br />

Heart<br />

Charity walk<br />

He also chose the “computers 4 schools”<br />

programme through “Serendip Children’s<br />

Home” in Sri Lanka is a great opportunity for<br />

us to support the war affected children, and<br />

to give them an education so that they can<br />

enjoy the same benefits as our children.<br />

He says “We hope our Walk will encourage<br />

different communities to come together,<br />

putting aside any differences and barriers.<br />

Those who wish to support Heart2heart charity<br />

walk can visit www.h2hwalk.org<br />

or contact E: joshan2505@msn.com<br />

T: 07815 496902<br />

Mr. Johannes Shanmugam<br />

Currently employed as Operations<br />

Assistant in a church Johannes<br />

is engaged in various fund<br />

raising events for the children<br />

impoverished by war.<br />

This is our fourth year, and we hope to raise<br />

sufficient funds as in the past three years. The<br />

5-day walk is to create awareness<br />

and to remind our younger<br />

generation of the sacrifices made by<br />

many, so that we can enjoy liberty<br />

and freedom today in the UK.”<br />

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Tamil lifestyle | Health & well being<br />

SELF-DEVELOPMENT<br />

Simplified Kundalini Yoga (SKY)<br />

Yoga for Human<br />

Excellence<br />

All people wish to lead a happy<br />

life. The almighty nature is<br />

beautifully performing and<br />

providing everything for a<br />

harmonious life. Science is<br />

well developed to remove<br />

drudgeries in material life so<br />

that man lives happily and<br />

peacefully. Even then, humanity<br />

in general continues to be<br />

in the grip of turmoil due to<br />

lack of wisdom in the field of<br />

physical health, mental health,<br />

spiritual health and social<br />

harmony.<br />

To retrieve mankind from<br />

these sufferings Swamiji<br />

Vethathiri Maharishi, a<br />

philosopher in Tamil Nadu,<br />

India, had formulated and<br />

designed a spiritual system of<br />

life education for all to attain<br />

physical, mental and social<br />

perfection leading to peace in<br />

individuals and in the world.<br />

This system comprises:<br />

Simplified Physical Exercises,<br />

Simplified Meditation Practices,<br />

Simplified Kaya kalpa Exercises,<br />

Introspection Courses and<br />

Brahmagnanam.<br />

Simplified Physical<br />

Exercises<br />

An effective package of<br />

simplified physical exercises<br />

is designed to regulate in the<br />

body the flow of air, water,<br />

heat and life force leading<br />

to good physical health:<br />

comprising hand exercise, leg<br />

exercise, breathing exercise,<br />

eye exercise, Makarasanam,<br />

acupressure,<br />

massage and<br />

relaxation exercises<br />

When we learn and practice<br />

the above exercises regularly,<br />

they help in curing diseases,<br />

prevent certain diseases,<br />

increase the strength of the<br />

body and help in long life,<br />

enhance physical appearance,<br />

remove laziness and keep one<br />

active.<br />

Simplified Kaya Kalpa<br />

Exercise<br />

It is a technique devised by<br />

’Siddhas’, the wise ancestral<br />

sages, to improve the<br />

qualities of sexual vital fluid<br />

thereby intensifying the life<br />

force in the body. It helps in<br />

postponing ageing process,<br />

minimizing disorders of old age,<br />

maintenance of youthfulness,<br />

develops resistance against<br />

diseases and helps in curing<br />

diseases, as the sexual vital<br />

fluid is purified and intensified,<br />

progeny of benefaction is<br />

possible.<br />

Simplified Meditation<br />

practices<br />

Normally the life energy is<br />

functioning at ‘Mooladhar’<br />

near the sex gland. Under this<br />

condition, the mind is more<br />

emotional in an accelerated<br />

and aggravated condition<br />

through sensory and physical<br />

activities. By changing the<br />

working centre to ‘Agna<br />

Chakra’, point between<br />

eyebrows and meditating<br />

there, the mental frequency is<br />

Dr. S. Letchoumanane<br />

Director,<br />

Research and Development,<br />

Temple of Consciousness,<br />

Aliyar - 642101, Pollachi TK<br />

Coimbatore DT<br />

E-mail: braintrust@vethathiri.edu.in<br />

Website: http://www.vethathiri.edu.in<br />

reduced to alpha wave level.<br />

Here, sharpness in intelligence<br />

and peace of mind sets in.<br />

In Thuria meditation, ‘Crown<br />

Chakra’, the brain wave is<br />

brought down to ‘Theta’<br />

range 5-7 cps. Sublimation of<br />

self through introspection is<br />

achieved at this level. Besides<br />

this, practices to amplify and<br />

intensify the bio-magnetism<br />

also are taught.<br />

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Tamil lifestyle | Health & well being<br />

DO WISH TO LEARN IN UK?<br />

Contact K Gangakumaran<br />

Mobile: 07766442273<br />

Email: skyuk@vethathiri.edu.in<br />

or skyogauk@aol.com<br />

Weekly class: Every Saturday 8:30 till 10:30am<br />

at Victoria Hall, Sheepcote Road, Harrow HA1 2JE<br />

Quotes<br />

Introspection Courses<br />

After a month of initiation<br />

of thuriyam meditation and<br />

proper practice, introspection<br />

courses are taught in four<br />

stages every month for 4<br />

months. Each stage consists of<br />

six sessions comprising special<br />

meditation and philosophies.<br />

For practical comprehension<br />

and experiences, introspection<br />

subjects like analysis of<br />

thought, moralization of desire,<br />

neutralization of anger and<br />

eradication of worries are<br />

explained. The great values<br />

of blessing others by saying,<br />

‘VAAZHGA VALAMUDAN’<br />

to maintain cordiality and<br />

compassion are also taught.<br />

Detailed knowledge about sins<br />

and salvations, life before birth<br />

and after death, astronomy<br />

and astrology, the unfailing law<br />

of nature - cause and effect<br />

system, karma yoga, purification<br />

of the genetic centre,<br />

differences among people,<br />

philosophy of magnetism,<br />

evolution of universe and living<br />

being are given.<br />

Benefits of Introspection<br />

courses<br />

Expansion of the mind leads<br />

to undue psychic attachments<br />

with men and materials, and<br />

thereon emotional illusions viz;<br />

ego, greed, anger, miserliness,<br />

immoral sex, inferioritysuperiority<br />

complex and<br />

vengeance. This transforms<br />

human life virtuous, peaceful<br />

and blissful.<br />

Brahmagnanam course leads in<br />

developing God consciousness<br />

and understanding the unfailing<br />

law of nature, “the cause and<br />

effect system” help to live a<br />

virtuous way of life and live<br />

in harmony with others and<br />

nature. This only will instill peace<br />

and bliss in the mind.<br />

Benefits of Meditation<br />

Improves the personality,<br />

insight and dexterity of mind<br />

Increases mental concentration,<br />

sharpness, honesty and<br />

peacefulness there by leading<br />

to a rational life<br />

Helps in withdrawing the mind<br />

from sensory emotions thereby<br />

saving the life energy and<br />

inculcating God Consciousness<br />

Improves perspicacity,<br />

receptivity, remembrance and<br />

normalizes the functioning of<br />

endocrine system there by good<br />

health<br />

Helps in self-realization and<br />

sublimation to enjoy everlasting<br />

peace and bills<br />

This system of yogic practices<br />

is taught to all, beyond the<br />

barriers of sex, religion etc.<br />

Students of both sex are<br />

also trained in this system for<br />

their successful career, happy<br />

and peaceful life. This service<br />

is rendered by the World<br />

Community Service Centre<br />

founded by Yogiraj Vethathiri<br />

Maharishi in the year 1958,<br />

through its affiliated trusts<br />

spread all over the world.<br />

“If you don’t build your dream,<br />

someone else will hire you to<br />

help them build theirs.”<br />

Dhirubhai Ambani<br />

Indian business tycoon who founded<br />

Reliance Industries<br />

“Great minds discuss ideas;<br />

average minds discuss events;<br />

small minds discuss people.”<br />

Eleanor Roosevelt<br />

Longest-serving First Lady of the<br />

United States<br />

”A successful man is one who<br />

can lay a firm foundation with<br />

the bricks others have thrown at<br />

him.”<br />

David Brinkle<br />

An American newscaster<br />

“Twenty years from now you will<br />

be more disappointed by the<br />

things that you didn’t do than by<br />

the ones you did do.”<br />

Mark Twain<br />

American author and humorist.<br />

“The difference between a<br />

successful person and others is<br />

not a lack of strength, not a lack<br />

of knowledge, but rather a lack<br />

of will.”<br />

Vince Lombardi<br />

American football player<br />

“Every great dream begins with<br />

a dreamer. Always remember,<br />

you have within you the<br />

strength, the patience, and the<br />

passion to reach for the stars to<br />

change the world.”<br />

Harriet Tubman<br />

African-American abolitionist<br />

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tha lifestyle | Business & Finance<br />

With Unemployment<br />

at record highs, one<br />

way for people to<br />

get a job, is to start their own<br />

business. It is certainly an<br />

ambition for many people to<br />

run their own business.<br />

Some may have been made<br />

redundant, and find themselves<br />

with spare time and financial<br />

resources, while others make<br />

the choice to begin a business<br />

to be more independent and<br />

gain the full financial reward for<br />

their hard work.<br />

It is no secret that running your<br />

own business is not an easy<br />

task. When those first few<br />

weeks of excitement and<br />

anticipation are a distant<br />

memory, getting to, and<br />

staying at the top of your<br />

game can be a constant<br />

battle especially during<br />

recession time.<br />

However, hard times are good<br />

times to start a business<br />

.The advantage of starting a<br />

business during a downturn<br />

is that things can only get<br />

better as the economic climate<br />

improves. By then, you will have<br />

learnt an awful lot during the<br />

difficult times which will then<br />

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take you through the easier<br />

ones.<br />

In order to make your business<br />

a success, you ought to<br />

consider some vital key factors.<br />

Most people go about finding<br />

their niche by using business<br />

school tools such as market<br />

analysis or sector research.<br />

This is good – however utilise<br />

what you are good at. Why<br />

not start a business, based on<br />

a need you have which is not<br />

properly addressed by existing<br />

suppliers. You experience the<br />

gap in the marketplace, and you<br />

fill it in.<br />

. Why not start a business, based on a need<br />

you have which is not properly addressed by<br />

existing suppliers.<br />

Don’t try to enter a competitive<br />

market that requires a great<br />

deal of capital and experience.<br />

Stick to something that you<br />

either know a lot about or<br />

something that really interests<br />

you so that you’ll want to find<br />

out a great deal about it. If you<br />

have got the need, and an idea,<br />

then become the operational<br />

problems. Now not to worry<br />

– these are less daunting than<br />

they ever used to be.<br />

You become like the people you<br />

associate with.<br />

Therefore, associate with<br />

people who are like minded.<br />

Join appropriate industry<br />

associations. These will also give<br />

you the lowdown on relevant<br />

industry threats, opportunities<br />

and legislation and the like.<br />

Starting a business is not like<br />

back in the days. Generally,<br />

you already have the tools that<br />

you need.<br />

Most homes are already<br />

equipped with quite a lot<br />

of the tools any business<br />

to reach a worldwide<br />

audience from day one.<br />

A laptop and a mobile<br />

phone are all the infrastructure<br />

a new business needs to get<br />

up and running. There are also<br />

so many social networking sites<br />

available for you to market<br />

your business. Join online<br />

networking groups and forums<br />

and start giving useful advice on<br />

areas directly relevant to your<br />

business.


tha lifestyle | Business & finance<br />

Starting your own<br />

business:<br />

The Sky is the Limit<br />

Sakthivel Sachithananthan<br />

Chartered Accountant<br />

Founder: Accountancy gateway<br />

www.accgateway.com<br />

This raises your profile in a<br />

positive way.<br />

Every business from its<br />

commencement and through<br />

its development and growth will<br />

need finance.<br />

But what type of finance is<br />

best suited to the business and<br />

who should you approach for<br />

funding?<br />

Start -up business funding<br />

should be from your saving,<br />

relatives or any of the other<br />

investors.<br />

When commencing a new<br />

business, very often the initial<br />

monies invested will come from<br />

the individual’s personal savings.<br />

Additional funding requires a<br />

commitment in terms of capital<br />

and interest payments.<br />

Embarking on this course of<br />

this action must therefore be<br />

planned carefully.<br />

Start small and keep overhead<br />

low. Don’t spend any more than<br />

you have to on your start-up.<br />

Many businesses start very<br />

small. For instance Laura<br />

Ashley began on her kitchen<br />

table while M&S started with<br />

a market stall. Look at where<br />

they are now!<br />

Starting a business is<br />

demanding. Commitment,<br />

determination and enthusiasm<br />

are essential.<br />

Are you running an Off-licence<br />

store? Then Check your figures!<br />

On Average Off-Licence must make<br />

17.5 % anual Gross Profit margin.<br />

Alcohol (Beer,wine & spirits) – 20%<br />

Snacks (Crisps, pea nuts, etc) – 30%<br />

Cigarettes, cigars and tobacco – 8%<br />

Looking for Off-licence on sale?<br />

www.businessesforsale.com<br />

www.offlicenceforsale.co.uk<br />

www.rightbiz.co.uk<br />

www.nationwidebusinesses.co.uk<br />

You will need managerial,<br />

financial, technical and<br />

marketing skills. If you feel<br />

that you do not have these<br />

expertises personally, they<br />

can be found in a partner or<br />

employee. If you feel that you<br />

are not ready to employ anyone<br />

or take on a partner, there are<br />

many courses out there to get<br />

you trained and get you on the<br />

go. Every Business should have<br />

a business plan. It is the key to<br />

success. As the saying goes: ‘If<br />

you fail to plan, you plan to fail’.<br />

Therefore preparing a business<br />

plan will help you to set clear<br />

objectives for your business and<br />

clarify your thinking. It will also<br />

help to set target for future<br />

performance and monitor<br />

finance and profitability.<br />

Keep your finances and records<br />

in order: everyone hates it- but<br />

it must be done.<br />

Speak to your accountant<br />

about how much you should put<br />

aside for your forthcoming tax<br />

bills.<br />

Keep good records of your<br />

incoming and outgoing<br />

revenues, your receipts and<br />

other related information.<br />

Running a business should<br />

be creative, satisfying and<br />

enjoyable. It’s a chance to<br />

express you, meet interesting<br />

and creative people, potentially<br />

make a lot of money and create<br />

a whole new life for yourself.<br />

So do everything you can to<br />

enjoy the process of being in<br />

business.<br />

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tha lifestyle | language & culture<br />

a simple guide to<br />

Tamil Hindu Wedding<br />

Pre-Wedding Events<br />

Pre Wedding<br />

Arrangements<br />

The marriage of a man and<br />

woman is such an important<br />

and unforgettable day in<br />

anyone’s life. Memories of a<br />

wedding are always recorded in<br />

family photographs and videos<br />

as people always want to<br />

remember and review the day<br />

of union between two souls.<br />

And In Tamil communities a<br />

wedding is more than the<br />

marriage of two individuals , it is<br />

also a coming together of two<br />

big families and all their friends.<br />

Tamil wedding customs date<br />

back four millenia and now<br />

there are local customs as well,<br />

based on newer geographic<br />

locations, not to mention how<br />

much change they have seen as<br />

Tamils have moved to western<br />

countries and adopted new<br />

styles. Some of the traditional<br />

procedures have been left<br />

behind by western Tamils as<br />

they grow into a new generation<br />

of British, Canadian, French and<br />

Australian Tamils, to name just<br />

a few.<br />

At the point of the<br />

transformations occur in British<br />

Tamil Community, the long<br />

historical traditional marriage<br />

procedures are vanishing<br />

with time. Traditional wedding<br />

custom can be retold under few<br />

headings. Even though custom<br />

is different in different parts of<br />

South India , North and East of<br />

Sri Lanka , Malaysia , Singapore<br />

and the newly growing Western<br />

Tamil Diaspora, the main<br />

aspects of traditional marriage<br />

are fairly common to most of<br />

them.<br />

Bride & Groom Seeking<br />

Usually Bride or Groom are<br />

sought by parents through their<br />

families and friends and based<br />

on age , jobs and background.<br />

Parents exchange the details<br />

and photos which includes the<br />

astrological charts which was<br />

written on birth.<br />

Jathaka Porutham<br />

- Astrology Chart<br />

Matching<br />

Once the parents exchange<br />

the charts they consult a<br />

astrological expert to find<br />

the matching. There are two<br />

systems the charts are based<br />

on called ‘Vakkiya Panchangam’<br />

which is based on empirical<br />

theory which has passed<br />

through generations and the<br />

other system which is called<br />

‘Thirukanitha Panchangam’,<br />

based on mathematical<br />

calculations.<br />

Tamil astrological system,<br />

used for analysing marriage<br />

compatibility is based on<br />

horoscopes of a man and<br />

woman. Horoscope matching in<br />

Tamil is known as ‘ten matching’;<br />

named as dinam, ganam, yoni,<br />

rasi, rasiyathipaty, rajju, vedha,<br />

vasya, mahendram and stree<br />

deergham.<br />

Ponnu Parthal - Bride meeting<br />

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Once the chart is matched<br />

, groom family will visit the<br />

brides house which will allow<br />

bride and groom to meet<br />

for the first time. They will<br />

be allowed to have a private<br />

chat to get each other<br />

understanding. In successful<br />

day this will give bride and<br />

groom a good opportunity to<br />

understand each other and be<br />

confident to go for marriage.<br />

Ponnurukku - Melting of<br />

Gold<br />

This is the official beginning<br />

of the wedding procedure.<br />

This occasion occurs a few<br />

days before the wedding is<br />

attended by close family at<br />

which the groom presents a<br />

gold coin to the goldsmith for<br />

its ritual meltdown to fashion<br />

the thaali – the bridal pendent.<br />

<strong>Tha</strong>ali is a symbol of marriage<br />

and must be worn all time by<br />

traditional married woman.<br />

After this occasion the bride<br />

and groom are not expected<br />

to meet each other until the<br />

wedding day.<br />

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Kanni kaal Planting –<br />

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On the same day a tree is<br />

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couple. Currently the traditional<br />

choice for this is a metre high<br />

cutting of Mulmurukku which is<br />

easy to propagate and signifies<br />

fertility and prosperity. Three<br />

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wedding day arrangements and<br />

customs.<br />

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tha lifestyle | Photography<br />

Clicked!<br />

A View of London Bridge from Waterloo Bridge<br />

© Bharathan Ariyaratnam<br />

fb/ Ariyam.Photography<br />

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Violet moments of honey bee<br />

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tha lifestyle |ENtertainment<br />

TAMIL STYLE | ENTERTAINMENT<br />

movie review: raja rani<br />

Though the movie is incredibly refreshing, it does<br />

remind one of Mani Ratnam’s classic hit ‘Mouna<br />

Ragam’. Atlee has added his own dimension<br />

to the story, and has served it on an all new<br />

platter. The best thing about the film is that it<br />

satiates the cravings of every class of viewer<br />

and leaves nothing to complain about.<br />

The film is a neat entertainer. The entire<br />

team has given this film their best. Atlee, the<br />

debutant director has delivered his dream<br />

project flawlessly. His strong points seem to<br />

be character definitions and screenplay. He<br />

has carved his characters with utmost care to<br />

perfection and has selected his crew rather<br />

cautiously. The movie has three different<br />

stories, but the gripping screenplay keeps the<br />

audience glued to their seats.<br />

The let-downs however are the songs and<br />

editing. Given G V’s repute, the audience<br />

definitely expected something better -<br />

something hummable, and something more<br />

urban. Though the songs are a disappointment,<br />

he has done an excellent job scoring the<br />

background music in the first half.<br />

cinema corner‘Worth to Watch’<br />

Upcomming movies<br />

in cinemas<br />

Arambam<br />

Director Vishnuvardhan<br />

Starring Nayantara,<br />

Arya, Mahesh Manjrekar,<br />

Ajith Kumar,<br />

Genere Action comedy<br />

CINEWORLD, saffari<br />

Irandam Ulagam<br />

Director Selva Raghavan<br />

Starring Arya, Anushka<br />

Shetty<br />

Genere Romance<br />

Music Harris Jayaraj,<br />

Anirudh Ravi<br />

Endrendrum Punnagai<br />

Director Jananathan<br />

Starring Jiiva , Andrea<br />

Jeremiah, Santhanam<br />

Genere<br />

Music<br />

Romance<br />

Harrs<br />

Jayaraj<br />

Kochadaiyaan<br />

Director Soundarya R.<br />

Ashwin<br />

Starring Rajinikanth, R.<br />

Sarathkumar, Deepika<br />

Genere Epic fantasy<br />

Music A R Rahuman<br />

Naiyaandi<br />

Director A. Sarkunam<br />

Starring Dhanush,<br />

Nazriya Nazim<br />

Genere Comedy<br />

CINEWORLD<br />

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Our children in the United<br />

Kingdom are preparing<br />

for the 11 plus exams<br />

from the early age of 7 years<br />

in order secure a place in a<br />

grammar school or private<br />

school for their secondary<br />

education.<br />

Are we undermining<br />

the capabilities of<br />

state schools?<br />

The education system in the<br />

United Kingdom is undergoing<br />

important changes at present,<br />

where new types of schools<br />

known as ‘Free schools’ and<br />

‘Academies’ are emerging.<br />

My teaching experience in the<br />

UK education system started<br />

back in 1987. I began my journey<br />

working with Adults in Further<br />

Education and then moved to<br />

secondary school education<br />

in 2000. I have worked with<br />

students with varying academic<br />

levels including children with<br />

learning difficulties. For over a<br />

decade now, I have been working<br />

as a School Governor with one of<br />

ELEVEN PLUS & GRAMMAR SCHOOLS<br />

Why Our<br />

Children are<br />

under Pressure?<br />

Para Paramkumaran<br />

Teacher at high school<br />

Founder of<br />

North harrow tuition centre<br />

All parents have a strong belief<br />

that Grammar schools and<br />

Private schools are better<br />

equipped to provide the best<br />

opportunities for our children<br />

in comparison to state run<br />

schools.<br />

As we strive to achieve<br />

academic success for our<br />

children we work arduously<br />

to train them for the 11 plus<br />

examinations.<br />

These are new government<br />

initiatives to save money for the<br />

ministry of education with the<br />

recent financial crises.<br />

The entire league table system<br />

and the GCSE and Advance<br />

Levels exams are under scrutiny<br />

and will be assessed with<br />

different yard sticks. After 2014<br />

no child will be entered for their<br />

GCSE exam early unless they are<br />

absolutely ready and it will be<br />

recorded as their first attempt.<br />

the Brent Primary schools. During<br />

my lifetime I have seen extensive<br />

changes in learning and teaching<br />

methods and styles, including<br />

the changes brought in by the<br />

education watch dog OFSTED.<br />

At present I am also working with<br />

Primary school s to enhance<br />

early learning development with<br />

the ABACUS mental arithmetic<br />

program (MAP).<br />

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Why do our children<br />

feel such immense<br />

pressure to get<br />

into to a Grammar<br />

School?<br />

One typical story – A mother<br />

came to me: “My Son is not doing<br />

well in Maths, and his Grammar<br />

school is not allowing him to take<br />

Maths for his Advanced Levels.<br />

My dreams and my son’s dream<br />

to be an Economist is never<br />

going to come true, please<br />

help!” These were the words<br />

of a very disappointed mother<br />

of a teenager, who came to me<br />

asking for help.<br />

This is a common situation that<br />

arises frequently, especially in<br />

the British Tamil Community.<br />

We were forced to migrate here<br />

due to our many hardships, and<br />

the first generation British Tamil<br />

life style includes a hardworking<br />

father and child focused mother.<br />

In a world, where most fathers<br />

have chosen to work tirelessly,<br />

mainly as businessmen striving to<br />

establish their families on British<br />

soil they have limited the time<br />

they spend with their children.<br />

This has left the mother to guide<br />

children, looking after their every<br />

need, and bearing the most<br />

influence in the future of the<br />

child.<br />

The mother and the child spend<br />

a lot of time together, travelling<br />

in the car to all the educational<br />

and extra-curricular activities<br />

including Tamils School, Dance<br />

classes, Cricket, Football, Netball<br />

and private tuition classes.<br />

It is this precious time and the<br />

remaining time at home that<br />

allows the mother to the play a<br />

great role in establishing food<br />

habits and language fluency<br />

moulding the child’s future.<br />

What we fail to notice is that this<br />

influence can be over powering at<br />

times, especially when the mother<br />

begins to impose an undue impact<br />

on deciding the future career path<br />

of the child. There are mothers<br />

who decide the future of their<br />

children with traditional views,<br />

and can be quite dismissive of<br />

their child’s aspirations and any<br />

professional advice by teachers or<br />

tutors.<br />

I have personally dealt with many<br />

students who have been misguided<br />

through influential parents, away<br />

from their strengths and interests<br />

in order to fulfil parental dreams<br />

through their children.<br />

We fail to realise this at the<br />

time and this can lead to many<br />

problems in the future.<br />

Most Tamil parents feel that if they<br />

cannot afford a private school then<br />

it is essential that their child should<br />

attend a grammar school.<br />

They are under the impression that<br />

any other school would not allow<br />

the child to achieve the success<br />

they dream of.<br />

This pressure results in a huge<br />

amount of disappointment<br />

when a child does not achieve<br />

a place in a grammar school<br />

and the confidence of the child<br />

can be destroyed by the same<br />

parent, unintentionally.<br />

In such circumstances, these<br />

mothers who dedicate their lives<br />

to every need of their child, to<br />

ensure that they get the best<br />

education, can herself have a<br />

detrimental role in the future<br />

of the child if they do not get<br />

selected into a Grammar school.<br />

The future of our<br />

children lies in<br />

the hands of the<br />

parents.<br />

In my long career as teacher, I<br />

have witnessed many occasions<br />

when a child from an ordinary<br />

state school becomes a scholar<br />

and a student from private or<br />

grammar school ends up with<br />

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| <strong>Tha</strong> Style<br />

the unexpected undesired life they<br />

wanted.<br />

We need to realise that the ideal role<br />

for parents is to understand a child’s<br />

strengths and weakness, helping<br />

them to improve on their weakness<br />

whilst continuously encouraging them<br />

to develop their stronger skills and<br />

interests.<br />

A good parent will try to understand<br />

the teacher and work with them to<br />

enhance the future of their children.<br />

They will seek the teacher and learn<br />

the skill of a guide from teacher, by<br />

being an observer and support the<br />

teacher’s consultation.<br />

A good parent will defy the myth that<br />

the future of their child is determined<br />

by the school they attend. They<br />

realise that it is not the school, but<br />

a good teacher and guiding parent<br />

who can help determine the future<br />

prospects of these young souls.<br />

They will strive to understand the<br />

child’s skills, appreciate the extra<br />

ordinary talents that he/she posses,<br />

and support them to choose a path<br />

on their own. They will ensure the child<br />

is aware of the possible paths they<br />

can take by opening their minds to a<br />

wider world of opportunities.<br />

A child who has been influenced<br />

by a role model or passion and<br />

determination will work towards their<br />

goal naturally. This journey will not be<br />

affected by which school they attend,<br />

as long as a teacher identifies them<br />

and help to enhance them.<br />

A student may have weaknesses in<br />

certain areas but they will definitely<br />

have strengths elsewhere.<br />

As good parents we must try to<br />

identify these with the help of<br />

teachers or tutors. When a child is<br />

guided and supported by parents<br />

with this awareness, he/she is more<br />

likely to become a shining star. The<br />

mother who endeavours to fulfil her<br />

own dreams through her child might<br />

unintentionally cast a shadow over<br />

their future prospects.<br />

In this article, I will share<br />

with you some of my own<br />

experience in respect<br />

of parental engagement.<br />

They are based upon the<br />

Parental<br />

Engagement<br />

understanding of my son<br />

(19 months old), since we<br />

saw him from his first scan<br />

until now.<br />

Parental engagement has<br />

a large and positive impact<br />

on children’s learning and<br />

positive effect on their<br />

achievements. Majority of<br />

fathers are not significantly<br />

involved in their children’s<br />

education or at least<br />

spending time with them.<br />

Some fathers aspired to<br />

and had loving relationship<br />

with their children. Many<br />

distanced themselves<br />

from what they saw as<br />

a ‘typical Asian father’.<br />

Some fathers, however,<br />

expressed a heavy sense of<br />

responsibility and worried<br />

greatly about their children’s<br />

successful education.<br />

Some found personal care<br />

giving tiring and frustrating<br />

and felt pressured to<br />

provide significantly and<br />

find time for direct contact<br />

with children due to their<br />

workload and various personal<br />

activities.<br />

What I understand is, your<br />

baby’s familiarity with your<br />

Stephen Jeyaseelan<br />

IT network Systems Engineer<br />

Stephen is a IT network Systems<br />

Engineer lives in Sunbury-On-<strong>Tha</strong>mes,<br />

London.<br />

voice helps him/her quickly form<br />

an attachment to you once he/<br />

she’s born. One theory suggests<br />

that your baby’s hearing is well<br />

developed in the uterus to<br />

help him start to bond with you<br />

before he/she’s born. After<br />

birth, your newborn<br />

may also<br />

pay more<br />

attention to<br />

your voice<br />

than any<br />

other.<br />

Most children<br />

have two main educators in<br />

their lives their parents and<br />

their teachers. Parents are<br />

the prime educators until the<br />

child attends an early years<br />

setting or starts school and<br />

they remain a major influence<br />

on their children’s learning<br />

throughout school and beyond.<br />

If your child wanted to touch<br />

a leaf or piece of paper,<br />

please let them touch and feel.<br />

Because you may be seen that<br />

leaf or paper for million times<br />

in your life, but remember<br />

that is their first time they<br />

touch and explore the world.<br />

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If your child asks “Daddy, why<br />

is the sky blue?”, then please<br />

answer them rather ignore their<br />

findings. You can answer them<br />

“because blue is beautiful and it<br />

reflects the sea”<br />

In my personal experience,<br />

the key to bond with your<br />

baby is actually a process of<br />

enjoyment. Simply enjoying<br />

your baby is what helps you<br />

bond with him/her and him/<br />

her with you. Babies fall in love<br />

with the people who enjoy<br />

them, and who help them enjoy<br />

themselves. These “first loves”<br />

aren’t simply the people who<br />

feed them they’re<br />

the people who come when<br />

they want help or company,<br />

who notice when they smile and<br />

stop to smile back, who listen<br />

to their babbling and babble<br />

right back at them, who play<br />

with them, and who bring little<br />

bits of the world for them to<br />

see. These are the things that<br />

matters to your baby.<br />

How can you find time when<br />

you feel you don’t have any<br />

to spend with your children?<br />

Please find the following tips:<br />

1-2-1 time: Alone time with your<br />

child is best when you are doing<br />

something you both enjoy. With<br />

one family it may be the time<br />

when Dad takes the baby so<br />

Mom can spend time cooking<br />

or spend time with the older<br />

child. This could mean going<br />

to a movie, going to the local<br />

theatre...Etc.<br />

Little helpers: Children<br />

love to help. Do you have<br />

a mailing to do? Have<br />

them put the stamps on<br />

the envelopes. Need to<br />

go shopping? Make grocery<br />

shopping “fun time”<br />

with you. Need<br />

to make<br />

dinner?<br />

Let<br />

greatest helpers and they will<br />

look back and remember that<br />

“before dinner” was always<br />

special time with you.<br />

Phantom Time: You can still let<br />

your children know that you<br />

care. Write notes and drop<br />

them into their lunch boxes. This<br />

was one of the top ten things<br />

children made them feel loved<br />

and cared for by their parent.<br />

Break time: Everyone is busy.<br />

Some parents are busier than<br />

others. Slide in a “break time”<br />

so that you and your children<br />

can spend 15 minutes or a half<br />

hour together. Set a timer if you<br />

need to so that everyone knows<br />

when “break time” starts and<br />

finishes.<br />

Spending time with your<br />

children provides them with<br />

opportunities to learn and<br />

to be heard. Most of all, it<br />

provides you and your children<br />

with time to connect. It’s these<br />

connections that make your<br />

children feel loved.<br />

It’s true what they say: “The<br />

dust bunnies and dirty dishes<br />

aren’t going anywhere. Take a<br />

break from the rat race and<br />

commit to cherishing the little<br />

moments with your kids.”<br />

them<br />

help you by<br />

contributing to<br />

the preparation<br />

process. While it<br />

might be messier<br />

and it may time<br />

more time in<br />

the beginning,<br />

you will see that<br />

the children will<br />

become your<br />

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Suresh Krishna (also known<br />

as “London Baba“) was<br />

born and brought up<br />

in the village of Nelliady, near<br />

Jaffna in the northern province<br />

of Sri Lanka.<br />

He moved to the<br />

United Kingdom<br />

to complete his<br />

higher education<br />

and completed his<br />

Bachelor of Arts<br />

degree at Middlesex<br />

University. In 1992<br />

he became a<br />

naturalised British<br />

Citizen and settled in<br />

Harrow, north-west<br />

London.<br />

He has worked in<br />

finance for Samsung<br />

Electronics for the last 8 ½<br />

years, but has not restricted his<br />

life purely to office work.<br />

Since 2002, he has also worked<br />

as an actor. He has played<br />

the lead role in three films<br />

(‘Theervu’, ‘Neerai Kaanaatha<br />

Veerkal’ and ‘Surya’) and his<br />

fourth film yet to be certified<br />

(‘Tamil MI-7’) which he stars<br />

in and directs. Under his<br />

performing name of London<br />

Baba, he is currently acting in a<br />

film called Thousand Dreams in<br />

united kingdom and Its Director<br />

Nantha, he has imitated the<br />

superstar Rajinikanth and<br />

released a video song album<br />

called ‘Singa Nadai’ and also<br />

wrote the song ‘Ulaga Tamila’<br />

with music Ravi Devendran,<br />

which was performed<br />

by SP Bala and<br />

released both as an<br />

audio and video single.<br />

Between 2000 and<br />

2006, he encouraged<br />

and promoted young<br />

developing performer<br />

(singers, dancers<br />

and announcers) on<br />

the Deepam Tamil<br />

TV channel. During<br />

this time he was<br />

a key supporter<br />

of the Kanakuyil<br />

singing competition<br />

programme, originated<br />

by Mrs Yoha Thillainathan to<br />

promote young singers.<br />

South Indian film Paradesi,<br />

an adaptation of Paul<br />

Harris Daniel’s book Red<br />

Tea , took two award at the<br />

London Film Festival, Best<br />

Costume Designer for Poornima<br />

‘Paradesi’ wins awards<br />

at London film festival<br />

Ramasamy and the second for<br />

cinematographer Chezhiyan.<br />

The film directed by filmmaker<br />

Bala, is on on the exploitation of<br />

Indian tea estate workers by the<br />

British in South India.<br />

“The film involved shooting<br />

in verdant landscapes of tea<br />

estates. And that’s where the<br />

challenge lay. We had to narrate<br />

a sorrowful story against<br />

this picturesque backdrop,”<br />

Chezhiyan , said in an interview.<br />

Paradesi is a sixth film for him<br />

as cinematographer.<br />

Chezhiyan was a civil engineer<br />

who pursued his passion for<br />

photography when he entered<br />

films as last assistant in<br />

famous Tamil film director Mani<br />

Ratnam’s Alaipayuthe.<br />

Poornima Ramasamy,<br />

costume designer of the movie<br />

who already won National<br />

Award in India said “I am still<br />

shocked,” Ramasamy is the<br />

granddaughter of late M.G.<br />

Naidu, founder of Naidu Hall,<br />

a well-known garment store<br />

in Chennai, and was assisting<br />

her father at the store before<br />

venturing into films.<br />

Ramasamy has since wrapped<br />

up French filmmaker Michel<br />

Spinosa’s upcoming film, Mon<br />

Espouse, which will be screened<br />

at the Berlin Film Festival in<br />

2014.<br />

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Lego to Linux:<br />

Programming for Kids<br />

Bala <strong>Tha</strong>va<br />

Bala is a software-geek, full time developer at<br />

Microsoft gold partner, passion of photography,<br />

fond of music and cinema.<br />

Kids can now test their creative skills on<br />

websites which helps them to develop<br />

simple games and applications.<br />

Scratch<br />

This is designed for kids where its help<br />

kids to develop animation, interactive<br />

stories and games by drag-and-drop.<br />

They can draw their own characters too,<br />

add action and sound to them. The work<br />

can be saved and shared with others.<br />

http://scratch.mit.edu/<br />

Hopscotch<br />

It’s an iPad app, which provides with<br />

the right number of keys and controls<br />

for kids to start up, which helps them<br />

to learn it by them self without any<br />

help.<br />

https://www.gethopscotch.com/<br />

Stencyl<br />

If you are looking for only game related<br />

development, with a payment then<br />

Stencyl will be the choice. On the other<br />

side it’s a cross platform application as<br />

build once and play anywhere.<br />

http://www.stencyl.com/<br />

Codecacademy<br />

This is another great resource to learn<br />

programming interactively.<br />

Kahn Academy<br />

This is a non-profit educational<br />

project by educator Salman Khan.<br />

Here you not only learn programming<br />

but also other important subjects.<br />

https://www.khanacademy.org/cs<br />

10<br />

Programming helps kids to express their perception<br />

on objects and events surrounding with creativity.<br />

But are we enough realized the need for<br />

programming skill as part of the children education;<br />

according to some people it’s important as the<br />

literacy and calculation skills.<br />

From ‘Lego’ to ‘Linux’, the base line of concept<br />

in programming is arranging the available blocks<br />

into a required or targeted design. By learning<br />

programming, kids learn to solve problems, get over<br />

the obstacles and collaborate with others, these<br />

are important life skills needed to prove them in any<br />

profession. As MIT professor Mitchel Resnick wrote,<br />

when kids ‘learn to code’, they also ‘code to learn’.<br />

On the other hand, many of us see the code as<br />

the endless lines of computer language. However, I<br />

look at programming as an expression which mixed<br />

up logic, techniques in form of modern art. So<br />

programming should be taught at an early stage<br />

of human life as the minds are not consumed by<br />

specific streams of knowledge - may be in kinder<br />

garden.<br />

So how we can teach programming to kids, there<br />

are number of web sites and projects are available<br />

both paid and free, but here I am listing a number<br />

of websites which helps you to learn from some<br />

code lines to a whole application. Have a try and<br />

find what suits you or your kids.<br />

I conclude this here with, as said by Naveen<br />

Selvadurai, co founder of Foursquare.<br />

- “What ever you do, learn to code”<br />

For more tech stuff and link stay turned with us.<br />

Mitchel Resnick : http://web.media.mit.edu/~mres/<br />

Naveen Selvadurai : https://twitter.com/naveen<br />

Khan Academy : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Salman_Khan_<br />

(educator)<br />

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Do we really kn<br />

our children ar<br />

to be in the futu<br />

Paraniharan <strong>Tha</strong>rmakularaja<br />

Tennis Coach<br />

David & Lloyds Sudbury Hill<br />

I<br />

am going to tell you a story<br />

about encouraging children<br />

and how encouragement<br />

makes them successful.<br />

There was a small town and in<br />

that town there were 3 kids who<br />

were very good friends.<br />

Theyalways went around the<br />

town after school to play cricket,<br />

football and basket ball. They<br />

were able to play all the games<br />

except from one game…TENNIS.<br />

In their town, they had 2 tennis<br />

courts that were used by<br />

the members of aclub. The<br />

members were engineers,<br />

doctors and lawyers. Every<br />

evening, they played for a<br />

couple of hours in the tennis<br />

courts.<br />

The 3 boys had a habit of<br />

watching and helping them by<br />

collecting the balls, if they flew<br />

out of the courts. These are the<br />

things we all do whenever we<br />

get a chance to play tennis.<br />

One day their sports teacher<br />

at school,went to them and<br />

said“We are going to start<br />

playing tennis at our school . Do<br />

you want to play?”<br />

The guys were filled withgreat<br />

joy and said “yes” to the Master.<br />

Older boys of their school went<br />

to America and encouraged the<br />

others bysending them tennis<br />

balls, rackets and Shoes.<br />

Because of that, the three boys<br />

started to play tennis and their<br />

dream came true. Many Boys<br />

joined themin their games. In<br />

two years time, they went to<br />

play at theNational Level School<br />

championships. They came third<br />

place out of 22 Schools. Great<br />

Performance, Great Joy and<br />

Great Success were following<br />

them because of their hard<br />

work and the help of the older<br />

boys of their School.<br />

At Present, one of them is<br />

aTennis programme developer<br />

in SriLanka.He has travelled<br />

more than 20 countries in<br />

the world and representing<br />

International Tennis<br />

federation(ITF) as a captain<br />

for the trip to Europefor many<br />

years. The other one became<br />

the National Tennis Centre<br />

Head coach for Sri Lanka and<br />

the third one is writing this<br />

article from London as a Junior<br />

& Adult Tennis Pro at David<br />

Lloyd Sudburyhill.<br />

Encourage the children<br />

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ow what<br />

e going<br />

re?<br />

and give them a chance to<br />

learnsomething that they don’t<br />

know.<br />

As we became successful, they<br />

will surely become successful in<br />

many things we didn’t know.<br />

As a Tennis coach, I encourage<br />

the Kids and I have seen that<br />

the kid who never listened and<br />

didn’t have any idea about tennis<br />

became the top player in the<br />

group.<br />

I hope you all understood<br />

how important to encourage<br />

the children. As a part of the<br />

encouragement, I will give some<br />

basic tips to learn Tennis and<br />

you all can share the tips among<br />

friends and you also can learn<br />

tennis.<br />

See you soon.<br />

Pineapple Chicken<br />

Ingredients:<br />

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Pineapple, cubed cooked with sugar 1/2 measures<br />

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Boneless chicken breasts, cubed 2<br />

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Cornflour/ corn starch 3 tablespoon<br />

»»<br />

Chopped 5 clove Garlic<br />

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Ginger chopped<br />

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Spring onion<br />

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Red capsicum small strips 1 medium<br />

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Green capsicum, 1 medium<br />

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Crushed red chillies 2 1/2 teaspoon<br />

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Chicken stock 1/2 cup<br />

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Spring onion greens, chopped 1 tablespoon<br />

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Soy sauce 2 teaspoon<br />

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Oil 1 tablespoon<br />

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Salt to taste<br />

Method:<br />

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Place the chicken pieces in a bowl; add salt, two<br />

tablespoons corn flour and one teaspoon soy<br />

sauce.<br />

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Mix well. Heat the oil in a non-stick pan.<br />

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Add the chicken pieces and sauté till light brown.<br />

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Add the garlic and ginger. Toss well.<br />

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Add the spring onions, red capsicum, green<br />

capsicum, and salt and pineapple pieces.<br />

»»<br />

Mix well and cook for two minutes.<br />

»»<br />

Add the remaining soy sauce, crushed red chillies,<br />

chicken stock and remaining cornflour dissolved in<br />

quarter cup of water.<br />

»»<br />

Stir to mix and simmer for one to one two<br />

minutes.<br />

»»<br />

Serve hot garnished with spring with spring onion<br />

greens.<br />

Vani Bala<br />

Vani is Passion on Food processing and<br />

homemade recipes, Nature Lover,<br />

Philosopher by qualification.<br />

Rulang Ladoo (Rava Ladoo)<br />

Ingredients:<br />

»»<br />

Semolina (Rulang) 2 cups<br />

»»<br />

Sugar ¾ cup (powdered)<br />

»»<br />

Ghee 1 cup<br />

»»<br />

Cardamom powder 1 teaspoon (fried)<br />

»»<br />

Raisins 1 teaspoon (fried with ghee)<br />

Method:<br />

»»<br />

Heat the 1 teaspoon ghee in a pan and dry<br />

roast the rava.<br />

»»<br />

Grind the rava and sugar in a fine powder.<br />

»»<br />

Heat the remaining ghee and add powdered<br />

rava, cashew nuts, raisins and cardamom<br />

powder<br />

»»<br />

Mix them thoroughly.<br />

»»<br />

While it’s warm, make into small sized balls.<br />

Cooking Time<br />

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tha lifestyle | Health & well being<br />

You Child can be<br />

free from<br />

dental disease<br />

for life time<br />

Children’s oral health is one of<br />

the foundations upon which<br />

preventive education and<br />

dental care must be built to<br />

enhance the opportunity for a<br />

lifetime free from preventable<br />

oral disease which includes<br />

preventive strategies, oral<br />

Dr Anthuria Rajan<br />

Anthuria is an overseas<br />

dentist from Sri Lanka<br />

currently living in South<br />

London.<br />

health risk assessment and<br />

therapeutic interventions<br />

Early childhood caries (ECC)<br />

begins soon after tooth<br />

eruption, develops on smooth<br />

surfaces, progress rapidly, and<br />

has a lasting detrimental impact<br />

on the dentition.<br />

This disease affects the general<br />

population but more likely to<br />

occur in infants who are of low<br />

socioeconomic status, who<br />

consume a diet high in sugar,<br />

and whose mothers have a low<br />

education level.<br />

Caries in primary teeth can<br />

affect children’s growth, result in<br />

significant pain and potentially<br />

life-threatening infection, and<br />

diminish overall quality of life.<br />

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tha lifestyle | Health & well being<br />

Dental caries is a common<br />

chronic infectious transmissible<br />

disease resulting from toothadherent<br />

specific bacteria,<br />

primarily mutans streptococci<br />

(MS), that metabolize sugars to<br />

produce acid which, over time,<br />

demineralises tooth structure.<br />

MS generally is considered<br />

to be the principal group of<br />

bacterial organisms responsible<br />

for the initiation of dental caries.<br />

MS colonization of an infant<br />

may occur from the time of<br />

birth.<br />

Significant colonization occurs<br />

after dental eruption as teeth<br />

provide non-shedding surfaces<br />

for adherence.<br />

Other surfaces also may<br />

harbour MS. For example, the<br />

furrows of the tongue appear<br />

to be an important ecological<br />

niche in harbouring the bacteria<br />

in predentate infants.<br />

Vertical transmission of MS<br />

from mother to infant is well<br />

documented.<br />

The higher the levels of<br />

maternal salivary MS, the<br />

greater the risk of the infant<br />

being colonized. Along with<br />

salivary levels of MS, mother’s<br />

oral hygiene, periodontal<br />

disease, snack frequency, and<br />

socioeconomic status also<br />

are associated with infant<br />

colonization. Reports indicate<br />

that horizontal transmission<br />

(i.e., transmission between<br />

members of a group such<br />

as siblings of a similar age or<br />

children in a day care centre)<br />

also may be of concern.<br />

Dental caries is a disease that<br />

generally is preventable. Early<br />

risk assessment allows for<br />

identification of parent-infant<br />

groups who are at risk for ECC<br />

and would benefit from early<br />

preventive intervention.<br />

The ultimate goal of early<br />

assessment is the timely<br />

delivery of educational<br />

information to populations at<br />

high risk for developing caries in<br />

order to prevent the need for<br />

later surgical intervention.<br />

Educating the parent on<br />

avoiding saliva-sharing<br />

behaviours (e.g., sharing spoons<br />

and other utensils, sharing cups,<br />

cleaning a dropped pacifier or<br />

toy with their mouth) can help<br />

prevent early colonization of MS<br />

in infants.<br />

A comprehensive oral<br />

examination and treatment<br />

during pregnancy is especially<br />

important for the mother.<br />

Routine professional dental<br />

care for the parent can help<br />

optimize oral health. Removal of<br />

active caries, with subsequent<br />

restoration of remaining tooth<br />

structure, in the parents<br />

suppresses the MS reservoir<br />

and minimizes the transfer<br />

of MS to the infant, thereby<br />

decreasing the infant’s risk of<br />

developing ECC.<br />

Maintaining acceptable level of<br />

oral hygiene such as brushing<br />

with fluoridated toothpaste<br />

and flossing by the parent are<br />

important to help dislodge food<br />

and reduce bacterial plaque<br />

levels.<br />

Dietary education for<br />

the parents includes the<br />

carcinogenicity (causing<br />

caries)of certain foods<br />

and beverages, role of<br />

frequency of consumption<br />

of these substances, and<br />

the demineralization/<br />

remineralisation process.<br />

Using a fluoridated toothpaste<br />

and rinsing with an alcoholfree,<br />

over-the-counter mouth<br />

rinse containing 0.05 percent<br />

sodium fluoride once a day or<br />

0.02 percent sodium fluoride<br />

rinse twice a day have been<br />

suggested to help reduce<br />

plaque levels and promote<br />

enamel remineralisation.<br />

Evidence suggests that the use<br />

of xylitol chewing gum (at least<br />

two to three times a day by the<br />

mother) has a significant impact<br />

on mother-child transmission of<br />

MS and decreasing the child’s<br />

caries rate.<br />

Look out for our December<br />

edition for continuation<br />

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tha lifestyle | internet & technology<br />

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IN YOURHANDS<br />

Iphone 5s , Apple’s seventhgeneration<br />

iPhone is indeed a<br />

major evolutionary step for the<br />

iPhone.<br />

It’s the first smartphone where<br />

the hardware and software<br />

feel truly cohesive, fun and<br />

effortless.<br />

With newly launched iOS 7,<br />

a new camera system and a<br />

high-tech fingerprint sensor,<br />

iPhone 5s offer much more to<br />

the smart phone users.<br />

VERY FAST<br />

64-bit architecture with quad-core A7 brings you the faster than<br />

iphone 4 s<br />

FINGER SCAN<br />

Unlock the phone and purchase<br />

in the iTunes store by scanning<br />

your finger<br />

SHOOTS IN SLO-MO<br />

It can shoot at 120 fps but also<br />

can play the footage back in 30<br />

fps, slowing your movie for view<br />

WATCHES MOVE<br />

With M7 a’motion coprocessor’<br />

chip it can sense your move<br />

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tha lifestyle | Launguage & culture<br />

The lives of Sri Lankan<br />

Tamils in their home<br />

country and expatriate<br />

countries are seen by many<br />

with particular interest in the<br />

light of the liberation struggle<br />

and the war desolation our kith<br />

an kin face back home. In the<br />

view of the world, the attention<br />

gatherings, readings and<br />

writings representing the Sri<br />

Lankan Tamils are being looked<br />

upon with an interest primarily<br />

focused on the art of war.<br />

Many important matters have<br />

been overlooked due to the<br />

above attitude. It is obvious that<br />

this would eventually create a<br />

negative impact on Sri Lankan<br />

Tamils. It is a fact that we, the<br />

expatriate Tamils, do not have<br />

any institutionalized resources<br />

to fulfil the needs of Tamils<br />

or others coming forward to<br />

engage in researches and<br />

studies on subjects related<br />

to Sri Lankan Tamils’ life,<br />

politics, literature and other<br />

matters. We who consider us<br />

intellectuals are obliged to ask<br />

ourselves whether we have<br />

done anything constructive<br />

towards this issue.<br />

The collections and works<br />

related to Sri Lankan<br />

Tamils found in the<br />

libraries of educational<br />

institutions like The School<br />

of Oriental and African<br />

Studies,<br />

of the<br />

University of London (SOAS),<br />

British Library and the<br />

Indian Section of Cambridge<br />

University, are limited in their<br />

utility because of the general<br />

absence of Tamil speaking<br />

personnel working in these<br />

institutions.<br />

Young researchers of the<br />

universities of the world, who<br />

wish to engage in studies<br />

An archive for<br />

Sri Lankan Tamils<br />

in Expatriate countries<br />

related to Sri Lankan Tamils,<br />

invariably turn their attention to<br />

other subjects related to Tamils<br />

in Tamil Nadu. This is because<br />

of the lack of accessible data<br />

and information and due to the<br />

risks of travelling to Sri Lanka<br />

because of the war. This has<br />

robbed Sri Lankan Tamils<br />

of<br />

of<br />

N.Selvarajah<br />

Co-ordinator-ETDRC<br />

Tel : 00 44 (0) 158 270 3786<br />

Fax : 00 44 (0) 208 908 0452<br />

E.mail : etdrc2009@yahoo.com<br />

Website: www.vethathiri.edu.in<br />

valuable works<br />

research and<br />

studies which<br />

would have been published, had<br />

a favourable situation existed.<br />

Should we ask ourselves as to<br />

why Tamil libraries, archives<br />

and book shops have not been<br />

established and developed as<br />

much as temples and shops<br />

have proliferated in expatriate<br />

countries, the answer would<br />

be only one. It is because that<br />

libraries, archives and book<br />

shops do not bring in<br />

as much money as<br />

temples and other<br />

commercial ventures<br />

would. Though this<br />

sounds bitter, it is the<br />

truth!<br />

Wishing to usher in a<br />

change in this situation<br />

at least at this juncture<br />

we have recently<br />

created the ‘European<br />

Tamil Documentation<br />

and Research Centre’ –<br />

ETDRC in London.<br />

Though this is a small<br />

step we are certain<br />

that this institution<br />

will create meaningful<br />

development in the intellectual<br />

lives of the expatriate Tamils in<br />

the future.<br />

We have taken necessary steps<br />

to register this institution as<br />

a Tamil Research Centre with<br />

the Charity Commission in the<br />

United Kingdom. (Registered<br />

Charity No. 1127365)<br />

As the next stage in this project<br />

we have begun to identify<br />

individuals who show keen<br />

interest in the sphere<br />

of Sri Lankan Tamils<br />

and to invite them<br />

into our institution;<br />

we are also collecting<br />

books, documents<br />

and other written<br />

works on this subject.<br />

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tha lifestyle | lnguage & culture<br />

Apart from this project, I have<br />

recorded 5000 books in 5<br />

volumes of my Nool Thettam<br />

collections in Tamil Language.<br />

A volume of Nool Thettam<br />

containing around 600 pages<br />

is published annually since the<br />

year 2002. The 6th volume<br />

is being compiled now and is<br />

expected to be published in<br />

early 2010.<br />

I have donated all the books<br />

I get in connection with the<br />

compiling of Nool Thettam<br />

as an initial resource to the<br />

‘European Tamil Documentation<br />

and Research Centre’. These<br />

3000 books are not enough<br />

to develop our archive; we<br />

need books and work related<br />

to Tamil language from all over<br />

the world besides books and<br />

works authored by Sri Lankan,<br />

Malaysian and Singaporean<br />

Tamils.<br />

We would be grateful should<br />

those in possession of personal<br />

collections come forward and<br />

donate at least some books<br />

from their collections for public<br />

use. Many people are now<br />

giving us a helping hand for the<br />

ETDRC so that it would be of<br />

great service as the archive of<br />

the expatriate Sri Lankan Tamils<br />

and of the works of Singapore<br />

and Malaysian Tamils, in the<br />

future.<br />

Yet, ETDRC is in need of more<br />

and more books and financial<br />

support. We are engaged in the<br />

task of sourcing them. I appeal<br />

to you in the hope that you will<br />

come forward to preserve and<br />

maintain the books you have on<br />

Sri Lankan studies and those<br />

written by Sri Lankan Tamils in<br />

Tamil and English languages with<br />

ETDRC.<br />

I sincerely believe that this<br />

ambitious project would<br />

certainly be a useful source of<br />

data and information for the<br />

researchers on Tamil living in the<br />

European countries and also for<br />

the next expatriate generation<br />

and their needs of researches<br />

and studies.<br />

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TAMIL lifestyle | MOTOR<br />

Car Tax Bands<br />

What You Need to Know<br />

One of the key factor car buyers are<br />

concerned with is car tax or road tax.<br />

Buyers have to pay the tax every year, but<br />

it is easy to work out how much a new car is likely to<br />

cost you in tax over the years.<br />

The car tax bands are based on the carbon dioxide<br />

(CO2) emissions that your car puts out over one<br />

kilometre called ‘CO2 emission rate’.<br />

Road Tax ( officially called Vehicle Excise Duty<br />

(VED)) , has two elements which are main tax rate,<br />

which is based on the emissions, and a first year’s<br />

rate, which can be more or less , expensive than<br />

the normal rate.<br />

If they emit less than 100g/km of CO2, then the<br />

car is completely tax free and also all cars that<br />

produce up to 130g/km are free to tax for the first<br />

year.<br />

If you buy an car which is manufactured before<br />

2001 , then the tax is based on engine size instead.<br />

Cars under 1549cc (1.55 litres) cost £140 per year<br />

to tax, while everything above 1549cc costs £225<br />

per year.<br />

CO2 Emissions First year rate Annual rate<br />

(g/km)<br />

Up to 100 £0 £0<br />

101-110 £0 £20<br />

111-120 £0 £30<br />

121-130 £0 £105<br />

131-140 £125 £125<br />

141-150 £140 £140<br />

151-165 £175 £175<br />

166-175 £285 £200<br />

176-185 £335 £220<br />

186-200 £475 £260<br />

201-225 £620 £280<br />

226-255 £840 £475<br />

Over 255 £1,065 £490<br />

Following table applies to cars manufactured after<br />

2001.<br />

Some Cars that have zero tax<br />

Kia Picanto 1<br />

Volkswagen Golf hatchback<br />

Peugeot 207 Oxygo<br />

Citroën C3 1.4 HDI<br />

Ford Fiesta Econetic<br />

Price: £7,795<br />

CO2 emissions: 95g/km<br />

Combined fuel economy:<br />

67.3 mpg<br />

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TAMIL lifestyle | lnguage & culture<br />

How Good<br />

are you<br />

in British<br />

Slangs?<br />

Fagged: disturbed, bothered<br />

or interrupted (Example: If one<br />

were studying for a test, one<br />

would not want to be “fagged.”)<br />

Fit: hot or sexually desirable.<br />

The Full Monty: going all the way<br />

with it, going big instead of going<br />

home.<br />

“Get stuffed!”: “Beat it” or<br />

“Scram!”<br />

Gobby: loudly opinionated,<br />

offensive or prickish. (See:<br />

Donald Trump.)<br />

As Tamil Community emigrated<br />

from former British Colonial<br />

South Asian Countries, most of<br />

them were mostly familiarised<br />

with their own version and own<br />

English style which were close to<br />

Queens English.<br />

So for some people British<br />

Slangs were new, therefore we<br />

researched into some famous<br />

British Slangs. As British Tamil<br />

become part for greater British<br />

Nation, these slangs will help<br />

them to mingle with other<br />

communities. Here the list of<br />

few famous slangs<br />

Any road: used in place of “any<br />

way,” primarily used in the north<br />

of Britain.<br />

Baccy: shortened word for<br />

“tobacco;” also, “wacky backy”<br />

means marijuana.<br />

Barmy: crazy, insane; always<br />

derogatory.<br />

Biggie: term children might<br />

use to describe feces; also, an<br />

erection.<br />

Bits ‘n Bobs: various things.<br />

(Example: “My mother has a<br />

lot of Bits ‘n Bobs around the<br />

house.”)<br />

“Bob’s your uncle!”: “There you<br />

go! You’ve got it!”<br />

Bollocks: technically means<br />

“balls,” but often describes<br />

something seen as extremely<br />

negative or lacking in value; e.g.<br />

“total shit.”<br />

“Bugger off!”: “Go away!”<br />

or “Leave me alone!” (Note:<br />

Bugger, used on its own, is akin<br />

to “Shit!” or swearing)<br />

Chav: white trash.<br />

Cheeky: to be not respectful of<br />

something, having a flippant or<br />

facetious attitude.<br />

Chin Wag: to have a chat with<br />

someone.<br />

Collywobbles: extreme<br />

queasiness or stomach<br />

pain brought on by stress,<br />

nervousness or anxiety.<br />

Crusty Dragon: a piece of snot<br />

or booger.<br />

Daft Cow: a very stupid person<br />

(See also: “Wazzock.”)<br />

Dog’s Bollocks: extremely good<br />

or favorable, great<br />

Dog’s Dinner: to be dressed<br />

nicely or look dapper.<br />

Donkey’s Years: ages, as in “I<br />

haven’t seen you in ages!”<br />

Gobsmacked: amazed or awed<br />

by something.<br />

Gormless: completely clueless,<br />

like Alicia Silverstone in the 90s<br />

film.<br />

To Have A Butcher’s: to take a<br />

look at something or someone.<br />

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TAMIL lifestyle | lnguage & culture<br />

Her Majesty’s Pleasure: being<br />

incarcerated or put in prison.<br />

“How’s Your Father?”:<br />

euphemism for sex (Example:<br />

“Have you and your wife had<br />

any of the ol’ ‘How’s your<br />

father?’ recently?”)<br />

“I’m Off To Bedfordshire!”: “I’m<br />

hitting the hay!”<br />

“It’s Monkeys Outside!”: “Wow,<br />

it’s very cold out!”<br />

Knackered: phrase meaning<br />

“extremely tired,” often uttered<br />

after a long, exhausting day;<br />

also see: “zonked.”<br />

Knees Up: A term for a mixer<br />

or a dance party (Example: “I<br />

went to this wild knees up this<br />

weekend. I wish you could have<br />

been there.”)<br />

Legless: totally, completely<br />

hammered.<br />

Lose The Plot: to go “crazy” or<br />

become mentally unstable.<br />

Lurgy: sick or under the<br />

weather.<br />

Made Redundant: to be fired or<br />

let go from one’s position.<br />

Minted: to be extremely rich.<br />

Off One’s Trolley: mad, out of<br />

one’s mind.<br />

On The Piss: binge drinking<br />

solely for the purpose of getting<br />

totally smashed.<br />

Pavement Pizza: euphemism for<br />

puke or vomit.<br />

“Pip pip!”: archaic, out-of-use<br />

phrase used to say goodbye.<br />

Plonk: a pejorative word used<br />

to describe red wine of poor<br />

quality, usually purchased at<br />

little expensive.<br />

Ponce: a poser.<br />

Porkies: old Cockney rhyming<br />

word used to mean “lies.”<br />

(Example: If one is “telling<br />

porkies,” you’re telling lies.)<br />

Comes from “pork pies,” which<br />

rhymes with lies.<br />

Puff: a fart.<br />

See A Man About a Dog: what<br />

you say as an excuse for<br />

leaving, in order to hide your<br />

destination; also, to excuse<br />

oneself to take a giant shit.<br />

Shambolic: in a total state of<br />

bedlam, chaos or dismay.<br />

Shirty: ill-tempered, insolent.<br />

Skive: a character deemed<br />

particularly lazy or incapable of<br />

being of use.<br />

Slap And Tickle: making out or<br />

heavy petting.<br />

Spend A Penny: to use the<br />

restroom.<br />

did you<br />

know?<br />

The most commonly used<br />

letter in the alphabet is E<br />

The least used letter in the<br />

alphabet is Q<br />

The sentence “the quick<br />

brown fox jumps over the<br />

lazy dog” uses every letter<br />

in the English alphabet<br />

The word ‘rhythm’ is the<br />

longest word without a<br />

vowel<br />

The letter W is the only<br />

letter in the alphabet that<br />

has 3 syllables<br />

14<br />

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