RELATIONS OF DOMINANCE AND EQUALITY IN D. H. LAWRENCE

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mutual acceptance between them.
Paul identifies with his
mother. Everything done means pleasure. They are always
pleasing each other.
They accept each other as a normal rule.
There is no ruler in the strict sense.
reader's knowledge of what is going on;
Only there is the
Mrs Morel is 'punishing'
herself for not having loved Paul since he was conceived.
Thus
she must commit herself (with pleasure) to her love for the boy.
Mrs Morel even thinks aloud near her son and it is as if he were
not her son but a part of herself in front of her, like a mirror:
So she talked to her son, almost as if she were
thinking aloud to him, and he took it as best as
he could, by sharing her trouble to lighten it.
And in the end she shared almost everything with
him without knowing (p.111).
Life has always been hard for lower class people.
It is an
old practice for poor families to throw their children into the
world early in their teens, so that they can help at home.
The
Morel family is not different.
William is the first one who gets
a job in town, then goes away to London and, for a while,
sends money to his mother. However, as soon as Gypsy appears
in his life he stops supporting his family.
Now Paul, at the age
of fourteen, is thrown into the world to work in order to help
his family. He applies for a job at the Jordan's office (a
factory which deals with surgical appliances) and gets it.
The
most interesting point in this passage of the novel is that Paul
applies for the job and it is his mother who guides him into this
business.
She feels responsible for her son's first job,
therefore, she must command his initial steps otherwise her poor
child will feel lost.
Before Paul enters Mr Jordan's room where
he will be interviewed, a very funny scene occurs.
Paul follows
his mother shyly as if afraid of being 'punished' for his
application.
Mrs Morel looks like an enormous chicken protecting