RELATIONS OF DOMINANCE AND EQUALITY IN D. H. LAWRENCE

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life and he even apologizes to Gertrude for all the horrible
things she did to him in life.
That is what he tells her
relatives:
He had striven all his life to do what he could
for her, and he'd nothing to reproach himself with.
She was gone, but he'd done his best for her...
All his life he'd done his best for her (p.488).
The Crich family, except for Winifred, mourns falsely the
death of the father.
Gerald how turns to Gudrun as a way to
escape from the dark void he is in after his father died. Before
analysing this part which is the outcome of their relation, it
is necessary however to look back at the start of their
mutually exploitative affair.
1.3. Reversal of polarity: Gerald and Gudrun
Gudrun once told Ursula in a sarcastic way that she has
come back home perhaps to look for a'highly attractive individual
with sufficient means'.
However sarcastic she may have been,
the fact is that at the moment she sees Gerald at his sister's
wedding, she is immediately drawn to him: "There was something
northern about him that magnetised her" (p.9).
And so she feels
a fierce necessity, almost like pain, to know more about him.
The attraction she feels towards the man does not come in 'hot
waves' but in 'cold waves' of light as if the man had in
himself "a glisten like sunshine refracted through crystals of
ice" (ibid) which impelled Gudrun to him: "'Am I really' singled
out for him in some way, is there really some pale gold arctic
light that envelopes only us two?'" (ibid).
This cold attraction
Gerald exerts over Gudrun implies he is a man who contains death
within himself, pulling to him a woman who is also like him.