RELATIONS OF DOMINANCE AND EQUALITY IN D. H. LAWRENCE
RELATIONS OF DOMINANCE AND EQUALITY IN D. H. LAWRENCE RELATIONS OF DOMINANCE AND EQUALITY IN D. H. LAWRENCE
vigorously his head and body implies the presence of a Nemesis, a strong conscience reminding him of his guilt, his compulsion to punish himself. So he drops asleep. That is, he consciously wants punishment otherwise he would look for a place to hide himself from the pain caused by being exposed to the sunlight. Helena looks for shade, i.e., she does not want self-punishment. (The curious thing is that in the beginning of the book, six months after Siegmund's suicide, Helena has her arm inflamed by the sun. This inflammation, according to the narrative, Helena has got in her holiday with Siegmund on the Isle of Wight). Being exposed to the sun leads Helena to feel more guilty for she thinks about the future as being beyond reach: 'No more sea, no more anything,' she thought dazedly, as she sat in the midst of this fierce welter of sunshine. It seemed to her as if all the lightness of her fance and her hope were being burned away in this tremendous furnace, leaving her, Helena, like a heavy piece of slag seamed with metal... 'It is impossible,' she said; 'it is impossible! What shall I be when I come out of this? I shall not come out, except as metal to be cast in another shape. No more the same Siegmund, no more the same life. What will become of us — what will happen?' (p.92). When Siegmund wakes up he tells Helena he is happy. She, although seeming very sad, decides not to spoil his mood of sunny happiness, the happiness of a victim. Again they are separate. He does not notice her preoccupation and she does not want to destroy his mood: She saw him lying in a royal case, his eyes naive as a boy's, his whole being careless. Although very glad to see him thus happy, for herself she felt very lonely. Being listless with sun weariness, and heavy with a sense of impending fate, she felt a great yearning for his sympathy, his.fellow suffering. Instead of receiving this, so as not to shrivel one petal of his flower, or spoil one minute of his consumate hour (p.93).
121 The idea which is implicit here is that Helena does not want to spoil the last day of happiness of her lover. That is why she hides her own sadness. It is a way to prevent him from knowing that she sees no future for them both. The idea of separateness is strong since Helena feels as if it were 'his consumate hour' not hers, too. Here she betrays all her resolve to get out of the affair alone,whether victorious or not, she does not say, but Lawrence implies that the woman will survive. The hot day goes on. Siegmund talks to Helena about his past. Beatrice, his wife, is seen by him as superior to him when they first met. Helena listens to him and expresses her feelings about marriage as something one cannot get out of. It is forever. This certainly implies her sense of guilt. Siegmund repeats he is a moral coward. Helena also talks about herself. This part of the book shows their vague knowledge of each other. Helena tells Siegmund about her difficulty in putting reality inside her mind. This emphasizes more her dreamlike quality, now confirmed in her own words. The sun keeps the couple at his mercy. Both lovers are morally wounded by its punishing rays and by self-reproach. Only Helena seems to feel this: "The heat had jaded her, so that physically she was full of discord, of dreariness that set her teeth on edge. Body and soul, she was out of tune" (p.99). This sense leads her to feel more at fault because of the affair: "Being a moralist rather than an artist, coming of fervent Wesleyan stock, she began to scourge herself. She had done wrong again" (ibid). Within herself she admits her destructive quality: "anyone she embraced she injured". This implies her consciousness of what will happen to Siegmund. She will destroy him since she does not do anything to control this power of
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121<br />
The idea which is implicit here is that Helena does not want to<br />
spoil the last day of happiness of her lover.<br />
That is why she<br />
hides her own sadness.<br />
It is a way to prevent him from knowing<br />
that she sees no future for them both.<br />
The idea of separateness<br />
is strong since Helena feels as if it were 'his consumate hour'<br />
not hers, too.<br />
Here she betrays all her resolve to get out of<br />
the affair alone,whether victorious or not, she does not say,<br />
but Lawrence implies that the woman will survive.<br />
The hot day goes on.<br />
Siegmund talks to Helena about his<br />
past.<br />
Beatrice, his wife, is seen by him as superior to him<br />
when they first met.<br />
Helena listens to him and expresses her<br />
feelings about marriage as something one cannot get out of. It<br />
is forever.<br />
This certainly implies her sense of guilt. Siegmund<br />
repeats he is a moral coward.<br />
Helena also talks about herself.<br />
This part of the book shows their vague knowledge of each other.<br />
Helena tells Siegmund about her difficulty in putting reality<br />
inside her mind.<br />
This emphasizes more her dreamlike quality,<br />
now confirmed in her own words.<br />
The sun keeps the couple at his mercy.<br />
Both lovers are<br />
morally wounded by its punishing rays and by self-reproach. Only<br />
Helena seems to feel this: "The heat had jaded her, so that<br />
physically she was full of discord, of dreariness that set her<br />
teeth on edge.<br />
Body and soul, she was out of tune" (p.99). This<br />
sense leads her to feel more at fault because of the affair:<br />
"Being a moralist rather than an artist, coming of fervent<br />
Wesleyan stock, she began to scourge herself.<br />
She had done<br />
wrong again" (ibid).<br />
Within herself she admits her destructive<br />
quality: "anyone she embraced she injured".<br />
This implies her<br />
consciousness of what will happen to Siegmund. She will destroy<br />
him since she does not do anything to control this power of