RELATIONS OF DOMINANCE AND EQUALITY IN D. H. LAWRENCE

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connotation in his mind) . In fact Siegmund, as well as Helena,
is a puritan (like Paul Morel and his mother). However, this
crisis is within the man.
He does not share it with his partner
since he talks to himself and not to her.
Even consciously he
is not aware of his emotional state.
Helena is hardly aware of
the man behind her.
She is living the ecstasy of walking under
the moonlight. She is not lost. There is another important
comment Siegmund makes to himself which shows that from within
he knows that Helena is killing him: "'I suppose,' he said to
himself for the last time, 'I suppose living too intensely kills
you, more or less'"(ibid).
This is directed to his love affair
with Helena and because of her he is dying gradually, day by day.
When Siegmund comes to reality, he continues following Helena and
watching the night and the moon.
Helena, delighted by the idea
of being lost, directs the way and continues to ignore Siegmund's
presence.
They are so separate that she dreams about dreaming
while they walk.
In this dream, she imagines
herself lying asleep in her room, while her own
dreams slid out down the moonbeams. She imagined
Siegmund sleeping in his room, while his dreams,
dark eyed, their blue eyes very dark and yearning
at night-time, came wandering over the grey grass
seeking her dreams (p.79).
Even here the lovers do not meet.
and it is his dream seeking hers.
They are in different rooms
Her dreams do not seek his.
In their search for the way home, a religious sign appears:
a chapel and Christ upon His cross. All the description seems
to be reminding the couple of sacrifice.
It is through
Siegmund that Lawrence places the burden of a new Christ in
sacrifice. The point is that Siegmund feels like a sacrifice
because of Helena.
But neither the author nor the character blames
the woman: