RELATIONS OF DOMINANCE AND EQUALITY IN D. H. LAWRENCE
RELATIONS OF DOMINANCE AND EQUALITY IN D. H. LAWRENCE RELATIONS OF DOMINANCE AND EQUALITY IN D. H. LAWRENCE
110 This self adoration seems, when it comes to the surface of Siegmund's conscience, to become a kind of sin which must be cleaned. However, the attitude he takes in rubbing his body, touching his flesh, instead of diminishing his sense of sin, amplifies it because he expands his self-love in the touch. After Helena actually becomes Siegmund's lover (the night in which she offers herself as a sacrifice) the idea of their separateness still persists. Helena still thinks that love is better when Siegmund is not near her, touching her. has her 'purification' after the night of passion. She also In bathing in the sea, she compares her lover with sea: "... the sea was a great lover, like Siegmund, but more impersonal, who would receive her when Siegmund could not. She rejoiced momentarily in the fact" (p.63). The momentariness of this joy means that she cannot live thoroughly in her dreaming world. He exists and is present near her. Siegmund is a living creature. Therefore, she must wake up and turn to him if only to explore the surroundings of their island. I said previously that this couple does not exist for the outside world. They exist in their shell, abstracted from the rest. Even in relation to one another, they hardly matter. Each one has his/her own sphere of self-love which seems much more important than the union of them both. The moonlight nights which follow their first real sexual intercourse imply love making. On one of these nights Helena seems possessed by strange desires and recites poetry in German. This is the first of a series of demonic love-scenes in Lawrence where the moon symbolizes the destructive power of the woman. She kisses her lover in the throat, like a vampire, leaving him somehow "afraid of the strange ecstasy she concentrated on him" (p.73). The moon is up in the sky and the woman lays on Siegmund as if possessing him and, at the same time, being possessed by
Ill the moon:"Rocked thus on his strength, she swooned lightly into unconsciousness" (ibid). When Helena comes to herself she says she has "'been beyond life. I have been a little way into death!'". What is strange is that she does not direct this to the man under her, but to her own soul which may imply that Helena has once again rejected the real presence of Siegmund to play with her own selfish dreaming mind. The presence of the moon, as always in Lawrence's works, is a symbol for the domineering female. That may be why Helena becomes aware that "she must be slowly weighing down the life of Siegmund" (ibid). This moment seems to make the man go insane, for he is aware of her possession and domination of him: "some other consciousness inside him murmured: 1Hawwa-Eve-Mother!'" (p.74). Now Lawrence states that Helena "tall and pale, drooping with the strength of her compassion, seemed stable, immortal, not a fragile human being, but a personification of the great motherhood of women" (ibid). This statement places Helena among the almighty goddesses who are the Magna Maters. Here the contrast between Helena and Mrs Morel is severely traced: Mrs Morel is really an earthly creature. Helena is not. She is beyond human defects. That is why she exerts such a powerful influence over the dependent child that Siegmund proclaims himself to be. In his own words: "'I am her child too'". Siegmund accepts his inferiority towards the mother-goddess Helena. In presenting this idea Lawrence indeed differs from his later novels, especially Sons and Lovers,because later protagonists are not like this foolish baby. Siegmund is not at all criticized. He is no hero. He is more of a victim of Lawrence's immature and uncritical early style. In trying to return home after the love scene under the moonlight, the couple loses the trail. Helena does not really care about being lost. She does not lose control over herself.
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110<br />
This self adoration seems, when it comes to the surface of<br />
Siegmund's conscience, to become a kind of sin which must be<br />
cleaned.<br />
However, the attitude he takes in rubbing his body,<br />
touching his flesh, instead of diminishing his sense of sin,<br />
amplifies it because he expands his self-love in the touch.<br />
After Helena actually becomes Siegmund's lover (the night<br />
in which she offers herself as a sacrifice) the idea of their<br />
separateness still persists.<br />
Helena still thinks that love is<br />
better when Siegmund is not near her, touching her.<br />
has her 'purification' after the night of passion.<br />
She also<br />
In bathing in<br />
the sea, she compares her lover with sea: "... the sea was a great<br />
lover, like Siegmund, but more impersonal, who would receive her<br />
when Siegmund could not.<br />
She rejoiced momentarily in the fact"<br />
(p.63).<br />
The momentariness of this joy means that she cannot live<br />
thoroughly in her dreaming world.<br />
He exists and is present near her.<br />
Siegmund is a living creature.<br />
Therefore, she must wake up<br />
and turn to him if only to explore the surroundings of their<br />
island.<br />
I said previously that this couple does not exist for<br />
the outside world.<br />
They exist in their shell, abstracted from<br />
the rest.<br />
Even in relation to one another, they hardly matter.<br />
Each one has his/her own sphere of self-love which seems much<br />
more important than the union of them both.<br />
The moonlight nights which follow their first real sexual<br />
intercourse imply love making.<br />
On one of these nights Helena<br />
seems possessed by strange desires and recites poetry in German.<br />
This is the first of a series of demonic love-scenes in Lawrence<br />
where the moon symbolizes the destructive power of the woman. She<br />
kisses her lover in the throat, like a vampire, leaving him<br />
somehow "afraid of the strange ecstasy she concentrated on him"<br />
(p.73). The moon is up in the sky and the woman lays on Siegmund<br />
as if possessing him and, at the same time, being possessed by