Vets Gazette - August 2013 - STATES
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The<br />
<strong>Vets</strong> <strong>Gazette</strong><br />
<strong>August</strong> <strong>2013</strong><br />
Department of Human Services<br />
“Serving Rhode Island Veterans Since 1890”<br />
“Presented by the <strong>Vets</strong> for the <strong>Vets</strong>”<br />
Bristol, R.I.<br />
Quote<br />
How far you go in life depends on your<br />
being tender with the young,<br />
compassionate with the aged,<br />
sympathetic with the striving, and<br />
tolerant of the weak and strong, because<br />
someday in your life you will have been<br />
all of these.<br />
- George Burns –<br />
Contents<br />
Page 1 Resident Council<br />
Page 1 Remembrance<br />
Page 2 Welcome<br />
Page 6 An American Combat Hero<br />
Page 11 What's For Dinner?<br />
Page 12 Heard In The Corridors<br />
Page 15 Question Of The Month<br />
Page 16 Could Write A Book<br />
Page 19 Special Events<br />
480 Metacom Avenue, Bristol, R.I. 02809
RIVH Resident’s Council Meetings<br />
Resident Council Meetings are held on the<br />
second Friday of the month<br />
at 1:30 in the RI Room.<br />
September Meeting; Nomination for the New Resident Council Board<br />
President<br />
Vice President<br />
Sergeant in Arms<br />
October Meeting; ELECTION for the new Resident Council Board<br />
November Meeting; The Swearing in of the new Resident Council Board<br />
All resident s are invited and encouraged to attend.<br />
President: Leo Fuchs<br />
Vice President: Howard Lamont<br />
Sergeant in Arms: Jim Boylan<br />
David Rogers<br />
Age 81<br />
Passed July 27 th<br />
Served US Army<br />
During Korean<br />
William Jones<br />
Age 82<br />
Passed July 13 th<br />
Served US Navy<br />
During Korean / Vietnam<br />
John Small<br />
Age 88<br />
Passed <strong>August</strong> 18th<br />
Served Us Air Force<br />
During WWII<br />
Joseph Kowalczyk<br />
Age 83<br />
Passed July 30th<br />
Served US Army<br />
During Korean<br />
William Freeborn<br />
Age 86<br />
Passed <strong>August</strong> 11 th<br />
Served US Navy<br />
During Korean<br />
Charles Andoscia<br />
Age 85<br />
Passed <strong>August</strong> 6th<br />
Served US Army<br />
During Korean<br />
Alfred Copeland<br />
Age 94<br />
Passed <strong>August</strong> 12 th<br />
Served US Army<br />
During WWII<br />
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Welcome New Residents<br />
July <strong>2013</strong><br />
Joseph Quintel<br />
US Navy/ WWII<br />
Kevin Galligan<br />
US Navy / Vietnam<br />
Lawrence Voyer<br />
US Marine Corps / Korea<br />
Kenneth Andrew<br />
US Marine Corp/ WWII<br />
<strong>August</strong> <strong>2013</strong><br />
Eskil Lindl<br />
US Navy/ WWII<br />
Michael Brennan<br />
US Army/ Vietnam<br />
Robert Barry<br />
US Army/ Korea<br />
Nancy LePage<br />
US Air Force / Vietnam<br />
THE GUN AND THE MAN THAT SAVED<br />
BUNKER HILL<br />
During the period of pre-revolution, a young man named Ben Brown ran a bookstore on the<br />
outskirts of Boston. He took and interest in cannons and polled eastern and western nations as<br />
to their capabilities of acquiring cannon fire. Because he pushed these different nations for<br />
information on cannons fire, he then became known as an authority on cannons and cannon<br />
fire.<br />
At this time Washington had arrived in Boston to command the forces. The rebel faction<br />
clearly demonstrated the knowledge of how they could beat the British. On the top of Bunker<br />
Hill, they had stationed riflemen whose job it was to knock out the British. Brown saw that<br />
they had no cannon but remembered the British had left a cannon in an abandoned fort.<br />
Brown said to General Washington, "We will a have the cannon ready when you are." Twenty<br />
men then sailed up to Fort Ticonderoga. The men began the arduous task of getting the<br />
cannon from the fort to the top of Bunker Hill. When the cannon opened fire, the British,<br />
rather than lose any ships, abandoned the fields below. This was the first outright victory by<br />
the rebels. The cannon forced the British to evacuate Boston and leave the field to the rebels.<br />
General Washington won and saved Boston.<br />
Ultimately Ben established a casting machine to make cannons and bullets.<br />
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Ed Hanrahan
EVERYONE LOVES RAYMOND<br />
I GRILLED HIM AND HE CAME UP WITH A BANQUET<br />
Raymond Sienko was born in Bridgeport, Connecticut 78 years<br />
ago, and in recent years moved to Newport. During the Berlin<br />
crisis, he was called up from the Army Reserves. He was sent<br />
to Fort Bragg, North Carolina and became a sergeant assigned<br />
as mess steward in charge of meals for 200 men. In between<br />
meals Ray played the organ for his battalion. He spent ten years<br />
in the US Army during the Berlin crisis.<br />
The facilities available to Ray and his associates were barracks<br />
used to hold prisoners during WWII. The cooking equipment<br />
included coal stoves. In spite of the limitations caused by the<br />
outmoded cooking appliances, the food was basic and good.<br />
Pizza was not yet as popular as it is today, and this was not on<br />
the menu.<br />
When military duty ended, Ray went back to Newton, CT tor work as a cook at Raymond's,<br />
the family restaurant. He left this venue to seek something different and spent six years<br />
managing a department store section of jewelry, greeting cards and stationery items.<br />
Ray then went into food catering for three and a half years, serving as many as 250 people on<br />
some occasions. His last venture before coming to the RI Veterans Home was running the<br />
kitchen for seven years at Sisters of the Holy Family. This operation provided meals for 65<br />
Sisters during the week and as many as 250 meals on weekends. The food was prepared by<br />
Polish workers for polish sisters and Polish guests. The kitchen crew was Polish, too.<br />
Examples of the food served were pierogi, kielbasa, stuffed cabbage and borscht, and if that<br />
ain't Polish, what is? Ray produced Polish meals for 2500 people at lawn festivals. The meals<br />
involved sour cream and dill amongst other things, but never, let me repeat that, never did they<br />
use garlic.<br />
At one point in his experience, Ray owned and operated a florist shop, and during another<br />
time, he was an assistant kitchen manager of an assisted living home for sixty people.<br />
Currently Donna O'Donnell (Activities) has this to say, "Raymond is a delight to have in<br />
activities. He answers phone calls and when not doing so joins in card games with other<br />
residents."<br />
But can he cook? He sure can. With a capital C!<br />
Al Benharris<br />
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IT DOES EVERYTHING BUT FLY<br />
The Veterans Home - a simple little operation you say, eh? Sure – some medical, a kitchen,<br />
cleaners and what else – ah yes, our beloved activities. But that's not at all accurate. More<br />
precisely, the Veterans Home operation is made up of:<br />
Infection Control<br />
Credit Union<br />
Labor Department<br />
Maintenance<br />
Drivers<br />
Painters<br />
Stockroom<br />
Medical Equipment<br />
Laboratory Service<br />
Business Office<br />
Telephone Operators<br />
Staffing Services<br />
Ward Secretaries<br />
X-ray Department<br />
Computer Support<br />
Pharmacy<br />
Security<br />
Medical Records<br />
PT/OT<br />
Dental Services<br />
Barbershop<br />
Administrators<br />
Sanitary Department<br />
Social Services<br />
Activities<br />
Volunteers!!<br />
We are being provided with a large well-trained care and medical ensemble. There is more - no<br />
resident is left behind!!!<br />
And all this is functioning in a collage labeled a Veterans Home, constituted of patient quarters as<br />
well as many rooms unknown to the majority of residents stocked with equipment and records kept<br />
in above ground catacombs. The building itself is a marvel. Due to its shape, General Baccus refers<br />
to it as a starship. Sure he does. He's admittedly a Trekkie.<br />
Al Benharris<br />
SOUNDS OF SIMCHA<br />
The word simcha means happiness, enjoyment. Every Wednesday at 1:30 downstairs in our library,<br />
Stanley Freedman, the leader of the Sounds of Simcha band, along with pianist Anthony Pisano, join<br />
our own Harris Ullian in practicing and preparing for presentation of the music of "Harris and the<br />
Boyz."<br />
Stanley provides music for religious and commercial groups. A graduate of Brown University, he<br />
has studied saxophone, guitar, and it all started when he sat down and shared the piano with his piano<br />
teacher mother.<br />
Stanley has done everything that he wanted to do in the musical field. He taught music and created a<br />
small band at Hope High School from 1965-1990. One of his students sang with Burt Bachrach and<br />
he played for three years at an assisted living facility.<br />
Anthony Pisano, Freedman's co-band member is a Providence College graduate. He was a teacher<br />
and a former principal of North Providence High School. He was discouraged by his father, a pianist<br />
himself, to play the piano, but he persisted and is still going strong. His father had been the top<br />
pianist with the band at the Warwick Tent, playing for the world's top show people.<br />
Stanley is always there offering his music. He also offers his religious knowledge<br />
which is very gratefully accepted.<br />
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What a Wonderful Performance we had on July 25 th<br />
by our very own<br />
Humming Strumming <strong>Vets</strong><br />
Who knew we had all this hidden talent here at the RIVH?<br />
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Amputee First to Pass Rigorous Course<br />
Sgt. 1 st Class Greg Robinson has become the first amputee to complete Army air assault school, a<br />
course so grueling his prosthetic leg broke twice over the 10 days spent rappelling down ropes,<br />
navigating obstacle courses and completing long road marches.<br />
Each year thousands of soldiers are physically and mentally tested to their limits at the Fort<br />
Campbell School. Instructors said Robinson accomplished everything other participants did and<br />
trainers cut him no slack even though he lost part of his right leg in a 2006 deployment to<br />
Afghanistan.<br />
When he joined his teammates at a brief graduation ceremony Monday at the Sabalauski Air<br />
Assault School, it was a testament to what can be achieved by amputees. War wounds from Iraq<br />
and Afghanistan and the recent bombing at the Boston Marathon have highlighted the challenges<br />
that amputee patients face to recover.<br />
An inspiration to the bombing victims? Robinson a 34-year-old noncommissioned officer from<br />
Elizabethtown, Ill., said his attitude was one of just wanting to complete the same program he<br />
sends soldiers to who are under his command.<br />
“Right now, I am a platoon sergeant,” Robinson told reporters after graduating. “I have roughly 30<br />
men in my platoon. As a leader, I didn’t want to tell my soldiers that they needed to go to air<br />
assault school, if I am not air assault qualified.”<br />
He even toughed out Monday’s 12-mile road march even after he had to repair his leg during the<br />
march. Earlier, he learned to rappel from a 34-foot tower and pushed through the strenuous<br />
obstacle course.<br />
Robinson was wounded in an attack during a major military operation in 2006. Robinson said his<br />
traumatic injury wasn’t going to prevent him from meeting some of the Army’s toughest<br />
standards.<br />
The 101 st Airborne Division, unlike other airborne units that use planes, uses helicopters to<br />
quickly drop troops into combat and move equipment around the battlefield.<br />
By Kristin M. Hall<br />
Associated Press<br />
Submitted by Dan Ernst; Presented to Pay Tribute to a Courageous, Persevering Brother.<br />
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Everyone Had A Great Time On The<br />
Outing To<br />
East Greenwich / Post 15<br />
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CREATIVE CORNER<br />
The Vet’s <strong>Gazette</strong> is looking for writers, short stories, poems, artwork and photos.<br />
You can submit your work to Pam or Alysa in activities or to the suggestion<br />
box opposite the chapel.<br />
Please be sure to include your name so we can give you credit for your great creations.<br />
Artwork by Jim Keyes<br />
Bird Bath<br />
While sitting out in my yard I watch all the many different kind, shape, color of birds, with their free and easy<br />
lifestyle. I have many bird feeders, enjoy learning from them. This one fine day I was really watching a bird<br />
taking his bath. I thought how wonderful, he is not concerned with what he is going to wear, who he feels he has<br />
to impress, where he has to go, who he may meet, or what the schedule of the day is "supposed to be". He was just<br />
enjoying the moment and his bath. He was not in any hurry and picked every feather clean.<br />
I realized I wanted to "enjoy my bath".<br />
I close my eyes, look at my feet, where my feet are, get my head! Out of the yesterdays, out of the tomorrows, just<br />
do today, today! and enjoy the bath~<br />
When all else fails, just BREATHE!<br />
Debbie Lawrence, RN<br />
I'M A LUCKY GUY<br />
We will be starting a new section. We believe that there are some (maybe many) who feel very fortunate, one way<br />
or another, about their life. Tell us about your good luck. Submit written details as well as your name and room<br />
number in the suggestion box across from the chapel. Or give them to Al Benharris, unit 5 room 5-5A.<br />
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HARRIS AND THE BOYZ<br />
Harris and the Boyz, a local musical quintet that includes residents Harris Ullian and Gary<br />
Pelletier, performed in the North Dining Room of the Rhode Island Veterans Home on<br />
July 31, <strong>2013</strong>. The group played "Tennessee Waltz," "New York New York," "Hello Dolly,"<br />
"Imagination," "God Bless America," and other popular songs.<br />
Sue Perreira, an Activities worker, danced with residents Lewis Wagoner and Angelo Mascena.<br />
While the Quintet was performing, the staff served strawberry shortcake and beverages to<br />
everyone.<br />
Jim Boylan<br />
CLEANLINESS IS A MUST<br />
Walking down the hall, I noticed two cleaning department workers sprawled on the floor, arms<br />
stretched as far as they could reach moving their tools back and forth, cleaning behind the radiator.<br />
I am aware that proper cleaning requires extra effort, but this appeared to be above and beyond the<br />
requirements. So we investigated.<br />
You can eat off the floor (but don't). A staff of approximately 25, provided by Healthcare<br />
Services, a private company, are those who labor to keep us cleanly comfortable. I spoke with<br />
Tania Fermin as to the specific functions required to maintain high sanitation standards.<br />
Tania has worked here for five years. The department monitors are Luce Costa and Kayla Moniz.<br />
Each worker is required to contribute a solid five hour work period with a fifteen minute break.<br />
Every nook and cranny is overseen and attended to on a scheduled routine. Furniture and clutter<br />
are moved, the area cleaned, and all items returned to where they came from. Some items prove<br />
difficult to move. At night there are two men here, polishing floors and are available for<br />
emergencies.<br />
Tania is the designated trainer for newcomers to the Vet's Home group. She has two daughters,<br />
one of whom worked here but moved to Massachusetts and is now an assistant manager at the<br />
Milford Hotel. Tania's mother and a brother live in Providence. Her father lived in the United<br />
States for fifteen years before returning to the Dominican Republic. Before coming to work at the<br />
Veterans Home, Tania operated a fork lift for Ocean State Job Lot.<br />
Al Benharris<br />
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It was a perfect evening to enjoy<br />
the beautiful music of the East<br />
bay Summer Wind Ensemble.<br />
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WHAT'S FOR DINNER?<br />
"AN ARMY MOVES ON IT'S STOMACH"<br />
SO DOES THE NAVY AND<br />
THE VETERANS HOME<br />
The above quote is attributed to the renowned French military leader<br />
Napoleon Bonaparte. Let's apply that thinking to our own lives as<br />
United States Military Service Veterans at the Rhode Island Veterans<br />
Home.Is the food here bad? Absolutely not. The food served to us is<br />
good. Is it great? No, but with a moderate amount of enthusiasm and<br />
effort, it could become great. In no way is this to say that the kitchen<br />
staff doesn't already work their butts off to please us. To finish<br />
Napoleon's quote, "There is no substitute like a good meal to bring<br />
about good morale." Thus said,<br />
where could these stomach enhancing moves be accomplished.<br />
Suggestion:<br />
More Omelets – there has to be an omelet making machine available<br />
A Recipe File – with 5 different chefs, you have 5 versionsof the same dish.<br />
One of those is the most desirable.<br />
Use it. Put it on a recipe card.<br />
An ultraviolet heat lamp setup should front the serving table thus keeping plates warm until<br />
served. There are often complaints of cold dinners.<br />
Do your best to cook what is on the menu. We look forward to certain meals. When it isn't<br />
served, it is demoralizing i.e. disappointing and discouraging.<br />
Al Benharris<br />
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HEARD IN THE CORRIDOR<br />
Lexophiles – a play on words<br />
In a democracy it's your vote that counts; in feudalism it's the count that votes.<br />
If you don't pay your exorcist, you can be repossessed.<br />
A calendar's days are numbered.<br />
Santa's helpers are subordinate clauses.<br />
Acupuncture – a jab well done.<br />
Marathon runners with bad shoes suffer the agony of de feet.<br />
She was only a whiskey maker but he loved her still.<br />
I thought I saw an eye doctor on an Alaskan Island but it turned out to be an optical Aleutian.<br />
No matter how much you push the envelope, it will still be stationery.<br />
A dog gave birth to puppies near the road and was cited for littering.<br />
Wisdoms – 16 year olds answer questions<br />
Question: Name a major disease associated with cigarettes.<br />
Answer: Premature death<br />
Question: what's the name of the most known birth control product?<br />
Answer: Condominium<br />
More Wisdoms<br />
Knowledge is knowing a tomato is a fruit. Wisdom is not using it in a fruit salad.<br />
My wife has a slight impediment in her speech. Every now and then she stops to breather.<br />
– Jimmy Durante –<br />
Only Irish coffee provides in a single cup all four essential food groups – alcohol, caffeine, sugar,<br />
and fat. –Alex Levine –<br />
What to expect when you get to your 70's: you can live without sex but not your glasses.<br />
Staff<br />
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Mark your calendars for September 15th<br />
Traffic News<br />
In order to protect our safety, every wheelchair should have a flag attached to it. The reason being,<br />
if someone is backing out of a parking spot it is difficult to see residents in wheelchairs that do not<br />
have a flag, and a car could potentially hit a resident. It is important to protect our safety, and flags<br />
would increase our safety.<br />
The pavilion is looking much cleaner now after recent changes. The “no parking” markers are very<br />
well marked, and people have stopped parking their cars where they are not allowed, which is very<br />
wonderful to see. Furthermore, the housekeeping staff is doing a great job keeping the building<br />
very clean, which is also a positive thing to see.<br />
Unfortunately, speeding and the running of stop signs is still a regular occurrence. The ambulance<br />
area also needs to be more clearly marked with “no parking” signs to prevent accident.<br />
J.J.D.<br />
Have you seen this<br />
on the RIVH<br />
grounds?<br />
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Colt<br />
State<br />
Park in<br />
July<br />
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QUESTION OF THE MONTH<br />
Recent legal decisions have brought about a questioning of the fairness of our<br />
legal system. What are your thoughts concerning this?<br />
Resident – Bubba Quade: The recent Florida Decision concerning the shooting of a young boy is<br />
a bad decision. If a man fires a gun once, he's capable of doing it again.<br />
Food Server – Mike Haskell: The laws relative to this type of situation should be altered. The<br />
decision should not have been based solely on innocent or guilty. It should have been on<br />
something between those two. Look into and modify the law.<br />
Kitchen Staff – Kathy Noonan: I honestly don't know what judgment I might have made in this<br />
situation.<br />
Resident – Harold Kitchin: Our laws worked. They were far better than no laws. Until<br />
something better is created, it's proper and intelligent to accept what we have resolved in the past.<br />
Resident – Tom Lombardi: I'm not Republican although I am conservative. In the Zimmerman<br />
case I can understand his suspicion, but he acted too quickly. Also America must use whatever<br />
reasonable means to deter terrorism.<br />
Training Nurse Instructor – Jennifer Strollo: The police laws should be strengthened and then<br />
enforced. Then unannounced check-ups should take place.<br />
CWT Phone Co working on RIVH system – Mike Chase: As a US citizen, Congress and the<br />
President seem to be taking away our rights in the name of Homeland Security. Some changes are<br />
necessary in view of the current worldwide terrorism. They need to be better.<br />
Doctor Joseph Zibreda: How much time do I have?<br />
CNA – Don Harpin: At first it looks like we are losing our rights, but the world has changed so<br />
dramatically since 9/11. New measures were put in to protect our citizens. I believe we as<br />
Americans can adjust. Remember, other countries are far worse off than ours. The laws haven't<br />
kept up with technology.<br />
Volunteer – Ryan Edge: Yes, the government investigations in view of world chaos are necessary.<br />
Make necessary changes and do it properly.<br />
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IT'S MY BELIEF EVERYONE'S LIFE IS FULL OF REMARKABLE EXPERIENCES AND THAT<br />
EVERYONE COULD WRITE AN INTERESTING BOOK SO....I'M WRITING A BOOK<br />
As I said last month, if you are granted enough years of existence, you get to witness "live" many celebrated<br />
personalities. In the basketball world, I was blessed to see Bill Russell, Wilt Chamberlain, Michael Jordan, plus Joe<br />
Mullaney, and Bob Cousy, who played together at Holy Cross College. Elgin Baylor of the LA Lakers, scored 61<br />
points in a championship playoff game the night I saw him (a record that lasted many years until Michael Jordan scored<br />
63 in playoffs but his was in overtime).<br />
I was there in the RI Auditorium when Rocky Marciano knocked out Johnny Shkor, a 6 foot plus giant. Marciano had<br />
to punch upward to connect with his opponent's chin.<br />
In theater I was in the RI auditorium that was presenting a popular growing comedy team, Jerry Lewis and Dean<br />
Martin. And in 1941 at the Metropolitan Theatre (now long gone) on the corner of Empire and Weybosset streets in<br />
Providence, I enjoyed the presentation of an up and coming skinny kid named Frank Sinatra.<br />
I can still hear and see the tinkling piano of Barry Manilow's appearance that I attended, and I danced at Rhodes, the<br />
Totem Pole in Boston, and the Narragansett Casino while listening to the big bands - Glen Miller, Kay Kaiser (College<br />
of Musical Knowledge), Vaughn Monroe, Harry James, Tommy and Jimmy Dorsey, Artie Shaw, Gene Krupa, Buddy<br />
Rich, Russ Morgan, Vincent Lopez, Charlie Spivak, and many more. Miller played alongside Benny Goodman in an<br />
early band. One of their singers was a young crooner named Bing Crosby. Many a night their soft sweet music<br />
provided me with an opportunity to kiss my charming date.<br />
On Tuesday, January 22, <strong>2013</strong>, I participated in a small gathering, which I left believing an event had transpired here at<br />
the Veterans Home that, at that moment, could not be equaled. Ed Hanrahan in his earlier days had met Babe Ruth.<br />
Mike Duffy had attended Babe Ruth's funeral and Al Benharris had seen the Bambino play in two Major League<br />
Baseball games. For you unknowing youngsters, Babe Ruth is considered one of history's all-time greatest and most<br />
colorful athletes. His career ended in 1949 and here 63 years later sat three beings that had the good fortune to at least<br />
indirectly relate to him.<br />
In the early 1950's as an investment counselor, I discovered a company that was making a special steel. I had, since the<br />
time I was a youngster, visualized the ultimacy of space travel. I knew any space capsule would require special body<br />
fabrications. Jessop Steel was developing a unique firmament that might be useful in the future.<br />
I reviewed the company's financial position and determined to suggest my clients purchase shares. My presentation<br />
contained the premise that Jessop's product could be a revolutionary benefit in developing a space program. When I<br />
mentioned this futuristic foresight, I was met with considerable guffaws and snickers, and "Are you kidding, space<br />
travel?<br />
Since my recognition of the future's products manufactured by many corporations, their output has enabled us to reach<br />
the moon and beyond. Even I could not foresee the reach into space that we achieved. No, I was not kidding when I<br />
spoke of traveling far above and away from earth.<br />
On February 28, 1945 my ship went from the Caribbean Sea to the Pacific Ocean through the Panama Canal. It<br />
brought a feeling of closeness to history as you witnessed the water flow into or out of a lock, raising or lowering a<br />
ship. How memorable was that day! I can, to this day - 68 years later, tell you that I cooked pork chops for my crew's<br />
dinner. I prepared something that took little time so that I could go above deck and witness our unforgettable passage.<br />
After passing through the locks, we went on liberty in the city of Balboa. We were warned to travel in groups and<br />
avoid any disagreements with the generally short in height but not-to-be-messed-with tough police. Incidentally, when<br />
you exit the western end of the canal, you are at a high land area, and you see a long wide stretch of the Pacific water.<br />
Contrasted to the one wave after another Atlantic, each wave of the Pacific sprawls out for miles on either side of you.<br />
Prior to 1914 when the canal was completed, passage from the Atlantic to the Pacific was<br />
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practically impossible. Practically impossible, I say unless ( and this, rarely) you went many miles to the southern tip<br />
of South America. To the north above Canada has always been impossible because it's iced over. In the past couple of<br />
years that crossing has been accomplished due to global warming and the ice melting.<br />
Within a couple of days after the end of World War II, I was in New York City. I decided to attend a famous night club<br />
Leon and Eddie's. I sat at the bar (in uniform). A gentleman came over and introduced himself. He was one of the<br />
club owners. I can't recollect whether it was Leon or Eddie. He offered me a drink and I accepted. We chatted a few<br />
minutes and he left when the show came on.<br />
The particular details of the show evade me, probably because at one point during the performance, it was interrupted<br />
to bring out a soldier who, that day, had arrived from Europe aboard a transport ship. He was the famous comedian<br />
Red Buttons. Although primarily known for his wit, you might remember Buttons as the soldier in the renowned war<br />
movie The Longest Day who, during a parachute drop in Europe, was caught by his chute and dangled from a church<br />
clock.<br />
Red had imbibed a considerable number of alcoholic beverages and wasn't the least bit remiss about telling the club<br />
patrons how little they contributed to the war effort. A seasoned military police officer attempted to pull Red off the<br />
stage. The officer had many years of service and the arm of his uniform was covered with a considerable number of<br />
service stripes. Red's language was really rough, and when the MP touched him, he responded, calling the officer a<br />
zebra (all the stripes). I'll never forget what took place because that was the night I gave up what Navy life had taught<br />
me - drinking too many alcoholic beverages.<br />
Al Benharris<br />
THEY LIKE ME<br />
It's most natural when you are part of a large group, and you need assistance, and that aid is gently and sensitively and<br />
passionately provided, for one to feel that the provider likes you and is treating you special. He or she, you think, is<br />
showing you a particular quality of care attitude. Not so, at least not so, at the Rhode Island Veterans Home.<br />
Special care attitude is the order of the day, everyday. That's one of the reasons 480 Metacom Avenue, the Rhode<br />
Island Veterans Home, is now better known as the Miracle on Metacom.<br />
Those involved in the health care venture throughout our society are most often people of heart, people caring about<br />
people. The Veterans Home is just a touch different. The men and women being treated and cared for are people who<br />
in the past exposed their lives, many severely and frequently, to danger in order to protect the American way of life.<br />
So yes, I correct myself, not because they like you (which they do), but because you are the protector of the United<br />
States, because you are an American veteran and you deserve extra respect and attention and liking!<br />
The American Band<br />
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GOD GAVE ME MY SMILE<br />
So says CNA Gery Ayele, who was born in Eritrea, East Africa. The language spoken in Eritrea is Tigrigna. Gery<br />
goes to school to improve his English. He came to RI under the refugee program in 2010. We asked, "How did you<br />
come to the decision to seek a home in the United States." His response, "God directed me." Assistance came from the<br />
National Refugee Institution.<br />
In Eritrea Gery had eleven years of education. In some countries you pay for your education. This was the case in<br />
Eritrea. Prior to coming to America, he had worked as a medical assistant in various places. Gery is employed by the<br />
pool and has been a CNA for six months. Still in Eritrea are his mother an five brothers and sisters.<br />
If a smile were your umbrella on a rainy day, Gery's smile would cover New York City; no, make that New York State.<br />
The first time I encountered his smile (I was awakening), he made the room so bright, I thought somebody had turned<br />
the light switch on. I couldn't be my miserable morning self.<br />
Bells rang, mirrors cracked, so help me, I heard beautiful chimes<br />
(that hasn't happened since I last spoke with a sweet and charming lassie) Gery leaves you with the impression of a<br />
remarkable, beautiful smile. Enjoy this lad with me. He's what it's all about. Keep on smiling, Gery!<br />
Al Benharris<br />
CITIZEN MATTHEW DAYUGAR<br />
You start an interview, and you end up getting an education. Interviewing CNA Matthew Dayugar has taught me so<br />
much about America's wonderfully and compassionate immigration system.<br />
This May, before a large audience, Matthew Dayugar was accepted as a scholarship student at RI College of Education.<br />
He was born in Liberia, West Africa. Matt came to the United States in the year 2000 after three years of education in<br />
his native country where he studied Business Management. His entire thirteen years since arriving here have been<br />
spent in Rhode Island.<br />
To be accepted in this country required designated papers and a declaration that you would be available for work.<br />
Matthew's journey here was sponsored by his mother, a participant in an adult literary program, who had make the<br />
transition fourteen years earlier.<br />
Matt's aunt had been the force behind his mother's move to this country. In each case a big part of the motivation was<br />
to get away from a strife torn environment. Civil eruption had long been a part of Liberian history. Once here, while<br />
participating in training programs, you carry a green card. The next step is citizenship with the learning involved<br />
provided by an outreach program.<br />
Matthew's previous education had given him the ability to speak articulately. He has spoken at the State House and at<br />
school symposiums. His lectures have to do with the economics and history of Liberia. Matt does not use notes. He is<br />
well-acquainted with his native country's history. In Liberia, whatever education you receive, you pay for. His<br />
personal desire is to obtain a totally well-rounded education.<br />
Matthew has two sons and a daughter. The boys are in school and the daughter is in training to become a CNA. He<br />
has been at the Veterans Home eight years. He appreciates the bureaucratic system, has great respect for the RIVH and<br />
the opportunities it offers workers. He respects the veterans whom he feels have done so much for their country. Matt<br />
is a very appreciative gentleman citizen.<br />
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Coming Events Summer <strong>2013</strong><br />
Wednesday, September 11 th<br />
Thursday, September 12 th<br />
Friday, September 13 th<br />
Sunday, September 15 th<br />
Thursday, September 26 th<br />
Sunday, September 22 nd<br />
Saturday, October 5 th<br />
Friday, October 18 th<br />
Rosh Hashanah Service<br />
RIVH Cookout<br />
Pizza & Card Party<br />
3rd Annual War Veterans Tribute<br />
Cruise In<br />
Car & Bike Show<br />
Clam Boil Tiverton VFW<br />
Autumn Begins<br />
Outing to Bristol Elks<br />
Pizza, Bingo & Card Night<br />
Vet’s <strong>Gazette</strong><br />
Produced by:<br />
Resident Advisor<br />
Al Benharris<br />
Jim Boylan<br />
Dan Ernst<br />
John Durkin<br />
Ed Hanrahan<br />
Howard Lamont<br />
Michael Thomson<br />
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