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The<br />

<strong>Vets</strong> <strong>Gazette</strong><br />

<strong>August</strong> <strong>2013</strong><br />

Department of Human Services<br />

“Serving Rhode Island Veterans Since 1890”<br />

“Presented by the <strong>Vets</strong> for the <strong>Vets</strong>”<br />

Bristol, R.I.<br />

Quote<br />

How far you go in life depends on your<br />

being tender with the young,<br />

compassionate with the aged,<br />

sympathetic with the striving, and<br />

tolerant of the weak and strong, because<br />

someday in your life you will have been<br />

all of these.<br />

- George Burns –<br />

Contents<br />

Page 1 Resident Council<br />

Page 1 Remembrance<br />

Page 2 Welcome<br />

Page 6 An American Combat Hero<br />

Page 11 What's For Dinner?<br />

Page 12 Heard In The Corridors<br />

Page 15 Question Of The Month<br />

Page 16 Could Write A Book<br />

Page 19 Special Events<br />

480 Metacom Avenue, Bristol, R.I. 02809


RIVH Resident’s Council Meetings<br />

Resident Council Meetings are held on the<br />

second Friday of the month<br />

at 1:30 in the RI Room.<br />

September Meeting; Nomination for the New Resident Council Board<br />

President<br />

Vice President<br />

Sergeant in Arms<br />

October Meeting; ELECTION for the new Resident Council Board<br />

November Meeting; The Swearing in of the new Resident Council Board<br />

All resident s are invited and encouraged to attend.<br />

President: Leo Fuchs<br />

Vice President: Howard Lamont<br />

Sergeant in Arms: Jim Boylan<br />

David Rogers<br />

Age 81<br />

Passed July 27 th<br />

Served US Army<br />

During Korean<br />

William Jones<br />

Age 82<br />

Passed July 13 th<br />

Served US Navy<br />

During Korean / Vietnam<br />

John Small<br />

Age 88<br />

Passed <strong>August</strong> 18th<br />

Served Us Air Force<br />

During WWII<br />

Joseph Kowalczyk<br />

Age 83<br />

Passed July 30th<br />

Served US Army<br />

During Korean<br />

William Freeborn<br />

Age 86<br />

Passed <strong>August</strong> 11 th<br />

Served US Navy<br />

During Korean<br />

Charles Andoscia<br />

Age 85<br />

Passed <strong>August</strong> 6th<br />

Served US Army<br />

During Korean<br />

Alfred Copeland<br />

Age 94<br />

Passed <strong>August</strong> 12 th<br />

Served US Army<br />

During WWII<br />

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Welcome New Residents<br />

July <strong>2013</strong><br />

Joseph Quintel<br />

US Navy/ WWII<br />

Kevin Galligan<br />

US Navy / Vietnam<br />

Lawrence Voyer<br />

US Marine Corps / Korea<br />

Kenneth Andrew<br />

US Marine Corp/ WWII<br />

<strong>August</strong> <strong>2013</strong><br />

Eskil Lindl<br />

US Navy/ WWII<br />

Michael Brennan<br />

US Army/ Vietnam<br />

Robert Barry<br />

US Army/ Korea<br />

Nancy LePage<br />

US Air Force / Vietnam<br />

THE GUN AND THE MAN THAT SAVED<br />

BUNKER HILL<br />

During the period of pre-revolution, a young man named Ben Brown ran a bookstore on the<br />

outskirts of Boston. He took and interest in cannons and polled eastern and western nations as<br />

to their capabilities of acquiring cannon fire. Because he pushed these different nations for<br />

information on cannons fire, he then became known as an authority on cannons and cannon<br />

fire.<br />

At this time Washington had arrived in Boston to command the forces. The rebel faction<br />

clearly demonstrated the knowledge of how they could beat the British. On the top of Bunker<br />

Hill, they had stationed riflemen whose job it was to knock out the British. Brown saw that<br />

they had no cannon but remembered the British had left a cannon in an abandoned fort.<br />

Brown said to General Washington, "We will a have the cannon ready when you are." Twenty<br />

men then sailed up to Fort Ticonderoga. The men began the arduous task of getting the<br />

cannon from the fort to the top of Bunker Hill. When the cannon opened fire, the British,<br />

rather than lose any ships, abandoned the fields below. This was the first outright victory by<br />

the rebels. The cannon forced the British to evacuate Boston and leave the field to the rebels.<br />

General Washington won and saved Boston.<br />

Ultimately Ben established a casting machine to make cannons and bullets.<br />

2<br />

Ed Hanrahan


EVERYONE LOVES RAYMOND<br />

I GRILLED HIM AND HE CAME UP WITH A BANQUET<br />

Raymond Sienko was born in Bridgeport, Connecticut 78 years<br />

ago, and in recent years moved to Newport. During the Berlin<br />

crisis, he was called up from the Army Reserves. He was sent<br />

to Fort Bragg, North Carolina and became a sergeant assigned<br />

as mess steward in charge of meals for 200 men. In between<br />

meals Ray played the organ for his battalion. He spent ten years<br />

in the US Army during the Berlin crisis.<br />

The facilities available to Ray and his associates were barracks<br />

used to hold prisoners during WWII. The cooking equipment<br />

included coal stoves. In spite of the limitations caused by the<br />

outmoded cooking appliances, the food was basic and good.<br />

Pizza was not yet as popular as it is today, and this was not on<br />

the menu.<br />

When military duty ended, Ray went back to Newton, CT tor work as a cook at Raymond's,<br />

the family restaurant. He left this venue to seek something different and spent six years<br />

managing a department store section of jewelry, greeting cards and stationery items.<br />

Ray then went into food catering for three and a half years, serving as many as 250 people on<br />

some occasions. His last venture before coming to the RI Veterans Home was running the<br />

kitchen for seven years at Sisters of the Holy Family. This operation provided meals for 65<br />

Sisters during the week and as many as 250 meals on weekends. The food was prepared by<br />

Polish workers for polish sisters and Polish guests. The kitchen crew was Polish, too.<br />

Examples of the food served were pierogi, kielbasa, stuffed cabbage and borscht, and if that<br />

ain't Polish, what is? Ray produced Polish meals for 2500 people at lawn festivals. The meals<br />

involved sour cream and dill amongst other things, but never, let me repeat that, never did they<br />

use garlic.<br />

At one point in his experience, Ray owned and operated a florist shop, and during another<br />

time, he was an assistant kitchen manager of an assisted living home for sixty people.<br />

Currently Donna O'Donnell (Activities) has this to say, "Raymond is a delight to have in<br />

activities. He answers phone calls and when not doing so joins in card games with other<br />

residents."<br />

But can he cook? He sure can. With a capital C!<br />

Al Benharris<br />

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IT DOES EVERYTHING BUT FLY<br />

The Veterans Home - a simple little operation you say, eh? Sure – some medical, a kitchen,<br />

cleaners and what else – ah yes, our beloved activities. But that's not at all accurate. More<br />

precisely, the Veterans Home operation is made up of:<br />

Infection Control<br />

Credit Union<br />

Labor Department<br />

Maintenance<br />

Drivers<br />

Painters<br />

Stockroom<br />

Medical Equipment<br />

Laboratory Service<br />

Business Office<br />

Telephone Operators<br />

Staffing Services<br />

Ward Secretaries<br />

X-ray Department<br />

Computer Support<br />

Pharmacy<br />

Security<br />

Medical Records<br />

PT/OT<br />

Dental Services<br />

Barbershop<br />

Administrators<br />

Sanitary Department<br />

Social Services<br />

Activities<br />

Volunteers!!<br />

We are being provided with a large well-trained care and medical ensemble. There is more - no<br />

resident is left behind!!!<br />

And all this is functioning in a collage labeled a Veterans Home, constituted of patient quarters as<br />

well as many rooms unknown to the majority of residents stocked with equipment and records kept<br />

in above ground catacombs. The building itself is a marvel. Due to its shape, General Baccus refers<br />

to it as a starship. Sure he does. He's admittedly a Trekkie.<br />

Al Benharris<br />

SOUNDS OF SIMCHA<br />

The word simcha means happiness, enjoyment. Every Wednesday at 1:30 downstairs in our library,<br />

Stanley Freedman, the leader of the Sounds of Simcha band, along with pianist Anthony Pisano, join<br />

our own Harris Ullian in practicing and preparing for presentation of the music of "Harris and the<br />

Boyz."<br />

Stanley provides music for religious and commercial groups. A graduate of Brown University, he<br />

has studied saxophone, guitar, and it all started when he sat down and shared the piano with his piano<br />

teacher mother.<br />

Stanley has done everything that he wanted to do in the musical field. He taught music and created a<br />

small band at Hope High School from 1965-1990. One of his students sang with Burt Bachrach and<br />

he played for three years at an assisted living facility.<br />

Anthony Pisano, Freedman's co-band member is a Providence College graduate. He was a teacher<br />

and a former principal of North Providence High School. He was discouraged by his father, a pianist<br />

himself, to play the piano, but he persisted and is still going strong. His father had been the top<br />

pianist with the band at the Warwick Tent, playing for the world's top show people.<br />

Stanley is always there offering his music. He also offers his religious knowledge<br />

which is very gratefully accepted.<br />

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What a Wonderful Performance we had on July 25 th<br />

by our very own<br />

Humming Strumming <strong>Vets</strong><br />

Who knew we had all this hidden talent here at the RIVH?<br />

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Amputee First to Pass Rigorous Course<br />

Sgt. 1 st Class Greg Robinson has become the first amputee to complete Army air assault school, a<br />

course so grueling his prosthetic leg broke twice over the 10 days spent rappelling down ropes,<br />

navigating obstacle courses and completing long road marches.<br />

Each year thousands of soldiers are physically and mentally tested to their limits at the Fort<br />

Campbell School. Instructors said Robinson accomplished everything other participants did and<br />

trainers cut him no slack even though he lost part of his right leg in a 2006 deployment to<br />

Afghanistan.<br />

When he joined his teammates at a brief graduation ceremony Monday at the Sabalauski Air<br />

Assault School, it was a testament to what can be achieved by amputees. War wounds from Iraq<br />

and Afghanistan and the recent bombing at the Boston Marathon have highlighted the challenges<br />

that amputee patients face to recover.<br />

An inspiration to the bombing victims? Robinson a 34-year-old noncommissioned officer from<br />

Elizabethtown, Ill., said his attitude was one of just wanting to complete the same program he<br />

sends soldiers to who are under his command.<br />

“Right now, I am a platoon sergeant,” Robinson told reporters after graduating. “I have roughly 30<br />

men in my platoon. As a leader, I didn’t want to tell my soldiers that they needed to go to air<br />

assault school, if I am not air assault qualified.”<br />

He even toughed out Monday’s 12-mile road march even after he had to repair his leg during the<br />

march. Earlier, he learned to rappel from a 34-foot tower and pushed through the strenuous<br />

obstacle course.<br />

Robinson was wounded in an attack during a major military operation in 2006. Robinson said his<br />

traumatic injury wasn’t going to prevent him from meeting some of the Army’s toughest<br />

standards.<br />

The 101 st Airborne Division, unlike other airborne units that use planes, uses helicopters to<br />

quickly drop troops into combat and move equipment around the battlefield.<br />

By Kristin M. Hall<br />

Associated Press<br />

Submitted by Dan Ernst; Presented to Pay Tribute to a Courageous, Persevering Brother.<br />

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Everyone Had A Great Time On The<br />

Outing To<br />

East Greenwich / Post 15<br />

7


CREATIVE CORNER<br />

The Vet’s <strong>Gazette</strong> is looking for writers, short stories, poems, artwork and photos.<br />

You can submit your work to Pam or Alysa in activities or to the suggestion<br />

box opposite the chapel.<br />

Please be sure to include your name so we can give you credit for your great creations.<br />

Artwork by Jim Keyes<br />

Bird Bath<br />

While sitting out in my yard I watch all the many different kind, shape, color of birds, with their free and easy<br />

lifestyle. I have many bird feeders, enjoy learning from them. This one fine day I was really watching a bird<br />

taking his bath. I thought how wonderful, he is not concerned with what he is going to wear, who he feels he has<br />

to impress, where he has to go, who he may meet, or what the schedule of the day is "supposed to be". He was just<br />

enjoying the moment and his bath. He was not in any hurry and picked every feather clean.<br />

I realized I wanted to "enjoy my bath".<br />

I close my eyes, look at my feet, where my feet are, get my head! Out of the yesterdays, out of the tomorrows, just<br />

do today, today! and enjoy the bath~<br />

When all else fails, just BREATHE!<br />

Debbie Lawrence, RN<br />

I'M A LUCKY GUY<br />

We will be starting a new section. We believe that there are some (maybe many) who feel very fortunate, one way<br />

or another, about their life. Tell us about your good luck. Submit written details as well as your name and room<br />

number in the suggestion box across from the chapel. Or give them to Al Benharris, unit 5 room 5-5A.<br />

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HARRIS AND THE BOYZ<br />

Harris and the Boyz, a local musical quintet that includes residents Harris Ullian and Gary<br />

Pelletier, performed in the North Dining Room of the Rhode Island Veterans Home on<br />

July 31, <strong>2013</strong>. The group played "Tennessee Waltz," "New York New York," "Hello Dolly,"<br />

"Imagination," "God Bless America," and other popular songs.<br />

Sue Perreira, an Activities worker, danced with residents Lewis Wagoner and Angelo Mascena.<br />

While the Quintet was performing, the staff served strawberry shortcake and beverages to<br />

everyone.<br />

Jim Boylan<br />

CLEANLINESS IS A MUST<br />

Walking down the hall, I noticed two cleaning department workers sprawled on the floor, arms<br />

stretched as far as they could reach moving their tools back and forth, cleaning behind the radiator.<br />

I am aware that proper cleaning requires extra effort, but this appeared to be above and beyond the<br />

requirements. So we investigated.<br />

You can eat off the floor (but don't). A staff of approximately 25, provided by Healthcare<br />

Services, a private company, are those who labor to keep us cleanly comfortable. I spoke with<br />

Tania Fermin as to the specific functions required to maintain high sanitation standards.<br />

Tania has worked here for five years. The department monitors are Luce Costa and Kayla Moniz.<br />

Each worker is required to contribute a solid five hour work period with a fifteen minute break.<br />

Every nook and cranny is overseen and attended to on a scheduled routine. Furniture and clutter<br />

are moved, the area cleaned, and all items returned to where they came from. Some items prove<br />

difficult to move. At night there are two men here, polishing floors and are available for<br />

emergencies.<br />

Tania is the designated trainer for newcomers to the Vet's Home group. She has two daughters,<br />

one of whom worked here but moved to Massachusetts and is now an assistant manager at the<br />

Milford Hotel. Tania's mother and a brother live in Providence. Her father lived in the United<br />

States for fifteen years before returning to the Dominican Republic. Before coming to work at the<br />

Veterans Home, Tania operated a fork lift for Ocean State Job Lot.<br />

Al Benharris<br />

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It was a perfect evening to enjoy<br />

the beautiful music of the East<br />

bay Summer Wind Ensemble.<br />

10


WHAT'S FOR DINNER?<br />

"AN ARMY MOVES ON IT'S STOMACH"<br />

SO DOES THE NAVY AND<br />

THE VETERANS HOME<br />

The above quote is attributed to the renowned French military leader<br />

Napoleon Bonaparte. Let's apply that thinking to our own lives as<br />

United States Military Service Veterans at the Rhode Island Veterans<br />

Home.Is the food here bad? Absolutely not. The food served to us is<br />

good. Is it great? No, but with a moderate amount of enthusiasm and<br />

effort, it could become great. In no way is this to say that the kitchen<br />

staff doesn't already work their butts off to please us. To finish<br />

Napoleon's quote, "There is no substitute like a good meal to bring<br />

about good morale." Thus said,<br />

where could these stomach enhancing moves be accomplished.<br />

Suggestion:<br />

More Omelets – there has to be an omelet making machine available<br />

A Recipe File – with 5 different chefs, you have 5 versionsof the same dish.<br />

One of those is the most desirable.<br />

Use it. Put it on a recipe card.<br />

An ultraviolet heat lamp setup should front the serving table thus keeping plates warm until<br />

served. There are often complaints of cold dinners.<br />

Do your best to cook what is on the menu. We look forward to certain meals. When it isn't<br />

served, it is demoralizing i.e. disappointing and discouraging.<br />

Al Benharris<br />

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HEARD IN THE CORRIDOR<br />

Lexophiles – a play on words<br />

In a democracy it's your vote that counts; in feudalism it's the count that votes.<br />

If you don't pay your exorcist, you can be repossessed.<br />

A calendar's days are numbered.<br />

Santa's helpers are subordinate clauses.<br />

Acupuncture – a jab well done.<br />

Marathon runners with bad shoes suffer the agony of de feet.<br />

She was only a whiskey maker but he loved her still.<br />

I thought I saw an eye doctor on an Alaskan Island but it turned out to be an optical Aleutian.<br />

No matter how much you push the envelope, it will still be stationery.<br />

A dog gave birth to puppies near the road and was cited for littering.<br />

Wisdoms – 16 year olds answer questions<br />

Question: Name a major disease associated with cigarettes.<br />

Answer: Premature death<br />

Question: what's the name of the most known birth control product?<br />

Answer: Condominium<br />

More Wisdoms<br />

Knowledge is knowing a tomato is a fruit. Wisdom is not using it in a fruit salad.<br />

My wife has a slight impediment in her speech. Every now and then she stops to breather.<br />

– Jimmy Durante –<br />

Only Irish coffee provides in a single cup all four essential food groups – alcohol, caffeine, sugar,<br />

and fat. –Alex Levine –<br />

What to expect when you get to your 70's: you can live without sex but not your glasses.<br />

Staff<br />

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Mark your calendars for September 15th<br />

Traffic News<br />

In order to protect our safety, every wheelchair should have a flag attached to it. The reason being,<br />

if someone is backing out of a parking spot it is difficult to see residents in wheelchairs that do not<br />

have a flag, and a car could potentially hit a resident. It is important to protect our safety, and flags<br />

would increase our safety.<br />

The pavilion is looking much cleaner now after recent changes. The “no parking” markers are very<br />

well marked, and people have stopped parking their cars where they are not allowed, which is very<br />

wonderful to see. Furthermore, the housekeeping staff is doing a great job keeping the building<br />

very clean, which is also a positive thing to see.<br />

Unfortunately, speeding and the running of stop signs is still a regular occurrence. The ambulance<br />

area also needs to be more clearly marked with “no parking” signs to prevent accident.<br />

J.J.D.<br />

Have you seen this<br />

on the RIVH<br />

grounds?<br />

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Colt<br />

State<br />

Park in<br />

July<br />

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QUESTION OF THE MONTH<br />

Recent legal decisions have brought about a questioning of the fairness of our<br />

legal system. What are your thoughts concerning this?<br />

Resident – Bubba Quade: The recent Florida Decision concerning the shooting of a young boy is<br />

a bad decision. If a man fires a gun once, he's capable of doing it again.<br />

Food Server – Mike Haskell: The laws relative to this type of situation should be altered. The<br />

decision should not have been based solely on innocent or guilty. It should have been on<br />

something between those two. Look into and modify the law.<br />

Kitchen Staff – Kathy Noonan: I honestly don't know what judgment I might have made in this<br />

situation.<br />

Resident – Harold Kitchin: Our laws worked. They were far better than no laws. Until<br />

something better is created, it's proper and intelligent to accept what we have resolved in the past.<br />

Resident – Tom Lombardi: I'm not Republican although I am conservative. In the Zimmerman<br />

case I can understand his suspicion, but he acted too quickly. Also America must use whatever<br />

reasonable means to deter terrorism.<br />

Training Nurse Instructor – Jennifer Strollo: The police laws should be strengthened and then<br />

enforced. Then unannounced check-ups should take place.<br />

CWT Phone Co working on RIVH system – Mike Chase: As a US citizen, Congress and the<br />

President seem to be taking away our rights in the name of Homeland Security. Some changes are<br />

necessary in view of the current worldwide terrorism. They need to be better.<br />

Doctor Joseph Zibreda: How much time do I have?<br />

CNA – Don Harpin: At first it looks like we are losing our rights, but the world has changed so<br />

dramatically since 9/11. New measures were put in to protect our citizens. I believe we as<br />

Americans can adjust. Remember, other countries are far worse off than ours. The laws haven't<br />

kept up with technology.<br />

Volunteer – Ryan Edge: Yes, the government investigations in view of world chaos are necessary.<br />

Make necessary changes and do it properly.<br />

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IT'S MY BELIEF EVERYONE'S LIFE IS FULL OF REMARKABLE EXPERIENCES AND THAT<br />

EVERYONE COULD WRITE AN INTERESTING BOOK SO....I'M WRITING A BOOK<br />

As I said last month, if you are granted enough years of existence, you get to witness "live" many celebrated<br />

personalities. In the basketball world, I was blessed to see Bill Russell, Wilt Chamberlain, Michael Jordan, plus Joe<br />

Mullaney, and Bob Cousy, who played together at Holy Cross College. Elgin Baylor of the LA Lakers, scored 61<br />

points in a championship playoff game the night I saw him (a record that lasted many years until Michael Jordan scored<br />

63 in playoffs but his was in overtime).<br />

I was there in the RI Auditorium when Rocky Marciano knocked out Johnny Shkor, a 6 foot plus giant. Marciano had<br />

to punch upward to connect with his opponent's chin.<br />

In theater I was in the RI auditorium that was presenting a popular growing comedy team, Jerry Lewis and Dean<br />

Martin. And in 1941 at the Metropolitan Theatre (now long gone) on the corner of Empire and Weybosset streets in<br />

Providence, I enjoyed the presentation of an up and coming skinny kid named Frank Sinatra.<br />

I can still hear and see the tinkling piano of Barry Manilow's appearance that I attended, and I danced at Rhodes, the<br />

Totem Pole in Boston, and the Narragansett Casino while listening to the big bands - Glen Miller, Kay Kaiser (College<br />

of Musical Knowledge), Vaughn Monroe, Harry James, Tommy and Jimmy Dorsey, Artie Shaw, Gene Krupa, Buddy<br />

Rich, Russ Morgan, Vincent Lopez, Charlie Spivak, and many more. Miller played alongside Benny Goodman in an<br />

early band. One of their singers was a young crooner named Bing Crosby. Many a night their soft sweet music<br />

provided me with an opportunity to kiss my charming date.<br />

On Tuesday, January 22, <strong>2013</strong>, I participated in a small gathering, which I left believing an event had transpired here at<br />

the Veterans Home that, at that moment, could not be equaled. Ed Hanrahan in his earlier days had met Babe Ruth.<br />

Mike Duffy had attended Babe Ruth's funeral and Al Benharris had seen the Bambino play in two Major League<br />

Baseball games. For you unknowing youngsters, Babe Ruth is considered one of history's all-time greatest and most<br />

colorful athletes. His career ended in 1949 and here 63 years later sat three beings that had the good fortune to at least<br />

indirectly relate to him.<br />

In the early 1950's as an investment counselor, I discovered a company that was making a special steel. I had, since the<br />

time I was a youngster, visualized the ultimacy of space travel. I knew any space capsule would require special body<br />

fabrications. Jessop Steel was developing a unique firmament that might be useful in the future.<br />

I reviewed the company's financial position and determined to suggest my clients purchase shares. My presentation<br />

contained the premise that Jessop's product could be a revolutionary benefit in developing a space program. When I<br />

mentioned this futuristic foresight, I was met with considerable guffaws and snickers, and "Are you kidding, space<br />

travel?<br />

Since my recognition of the future's products manufactured by many corporations, their output has enabled us to reach<br />

the moon and beyond. Even I could not foresee the reach into space that we achieved. No, I was not kidding when I<br />

spoke of traveling far above and away from earth.<br />

On February 28, 1945 my ship went from the Caribbean Sea to the Pacific Ocean through the Panama Canal. It<br />

brought a feeling of closeness to history as you witnessed the water flow into or out of a lock, raising or lowering a<br />

ship. How memorable was that day! I can, to this day - 68 years later, tell you that I cooked pork chops for my crew's<br />

dinner. I prepared something that took little time so that I could go above deck and witness our unforgettable passage.<br />

After passing through the locks, we went on liberty in the city of Balboa. We were warned to travel in groups and<br />

avoid any disagreements with the generally short in height but not-to-be-messed-with tough police. Incidentally, when<br />

you exit the western end of the canal, you are at a high land area, and you see a long wide stretch of the Pacific water.<br />

Contrasted to the one wave after another Atlantic, each wave of the Pacific sprawls out for miles on either side of you.<br />

Prior to 1914 when the canal was completed, passage from the Atlantic to the Pacific was<br />

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practically impossible. Practically impossible, I say unless ( and this, rarely) you went many miles to the southern tip<br />

of South America. To the north above Canada has always been impossible because it's iced over. In the past couple of<br />

years that crossing has been accomplished due to global warming and the ice melting.<br />

Within a couple of days after the end of World War II, I was in New York City. I decided to attend a famous night club<br />

Leon and Eddie's. I sat at the bar (in uniform). A gentleman came over and introduced himself. He was one of the<br />

club owners. I can't recollect whether it was Leon or Eddie. He offered me a drink and I accepted. We chatted a few<br />

minutes and he left when the show came on.<br />

The particular details of the show evade me, probably because at one point during the performance, it was interrupted<br />

to bring out a soldier who, that day, had arrived from Europe aboard a transport ship. He was the famous comedian<br />

Red Buttons. Although primarily known for his wit, you might remember Buttons as the soldier in the renowned war<br />

movie The Longest Day who, during a parachute drop in Europe, was caught by his chute and dangled from a church<br />

clock.<br />

Red had imbibed a considerable number of alcoholic beverages and wasn't the least bit remiss about telling the club<br />

patrons how little they contributed to the war effort. A seasoned military police officer attempted to pull Red off the<br />

stage. The officer had many years of service and the arm of his uniform was covered with a considerable number of<br />

service stripes. Red's language was really rough, and when the MP touched him, he responded, calling the officer a<br />

zebra (all the stripes). I'll never forget what took place because that was the night I gave up what Navy life had taught<br />

me - drinking too many alcoholic beverages.<br />

Al Benharris<br />

THEY LIKE ME<br />

It's most natural when you are part of a large group, and you need assistance, and that aid is gently and sensitively and<br />

passionately provided, for one to feel that the provider likes you and is treating you special. He or she, you think, is<br />

showing you a particular quality of care attitude. Not so, at least not so, at the Rhode Island Veterans Home.<br />

Special care attitude is the order of the day, everyday. That's one of the reasons 480 Metacom Avenue, the Rhode<br />

Island Veterans Home, is now better known as the Miracle on Metacom.<br />

Those involved in the health care venture throughout our society are most often people of heart, people caring about<br />

people. The Veterans Home is just a touch different. The men and women being treated and cared for are people who<br />

in the past exposed their lives, many severely and frequently, to danger in order to protect the American way of life.<br />

So yes, I correct myself, not because they like you (which they do), but because you are the protector of the United<br />

States, because you are an American veteran and you deserve extra respect and attention and liking!<br />

The American Band<br />

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GOD GAVE ME MY SMILE<br />

So says CNA Gery Ayele, who was born in Eritrea, East Africa. The language spoken in Eritrea is Tigrigna. Gery<br />

goes to school to improve his English. He came to RI under the refugee program in 2010. We asked, "How did you<br />

come to the decision to seek a home in the United States." His response, "God directed me." Assistance came from the<br />

National Refugee Institution.<br />

In Eritrea Gery had eleven years of education. In some countries you pay for your education. This was the case in<br />

Eritrea. Prior to coming to America, he had worked as a medical assistant in various places. Gery is employed by the<br />

pool and has been a CNA for six months. Still in Eritrea are his mother an five brothers and sisters.<br />

If a smile were your umbrella on a rainy day, Gery's smile would cover New York City; no, make that New York State.<br />

The first time I encountered his smile (I was awakening), he made the room so bright, I thought somebody had turned<br />

the light switch on. I couldn't be my miserable morning self.<br />

Bells rang, mirrors cracked, so help me, I heard beautiful chimes<br />

(that hasn't happened since I last spoke with a sweet and charming lassie) Gery leaves you with the impression of a<br />

remarkable, beautiful smile. Enjoy this lad with me. He's what it's all about. Keep on smiling, Gery!<br />

Al Benharris<br />

CITIZEN MATTHEW DAYUGAR<br />

You start an interview, and you end up getting an education. Interviewing CNA Matthew Dayugar has taught me so<br />

much about America's wonderfully and compassionate immigration system.<br />

This May, before a large audience, Matthew Dayugar was accepted as a scholarship student at RI College of Education.<br />

He was born in Liberia, West Africa. Matt came to the United States in the year 2000 after three years of education in<br />

his native country where he studied Business Management. His entire thirteen years since arriving here have been<br />

spent in Rhode Island.<br />

To be accepted in this country required designated papers and a declaration that you would be available for work.<br />

Matthew's journey here was sponsored by his mother, a participant in an adult literary program, who had make the<br />

transition fourteen years earlier.<br />

Matt's aunt had been the force behind his mother's move to this country. In each case a big part of the motivation was<br />

to get away from a strife torn environment. Civil eruption had long been a part of Liberian history. Once here, while<br />

participating in training programs, you carry a green card. The next step is citizenship with the learning involved<br />

provided by an outreach program.<br />

Matthew's previous education had given him the ability to speak articulately. He has spoken at the State House and at<br />

school symposiums. His lectures have to do with the economics and history of Liberia. Matt does not use notes. He is<br />

well-acquainted with his native country's history. In Liberia, whatever education you receive, you pay for. His<br />

personal desire is to obtain a totally well-rounded education.<br />

Matthew has two sons and a daughter. The boys are in school and the daughter is in training to become a CNA. He<br />

has been at the Veterans Home eight years. He appreciates the bureaucratic system, has great respect for the RIVH and<br />

the opportunities it offers workers. He respects the veterans whom he feels have done so much for their country. Matt<br />

is a very appreciative gentleman citizen.<br />

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Coming Events Summer <strong>2013</strong><br />

Wednesday, September 11 th<br />

Thursday, September 12 th<br />

Friday, September 13 th<br />

Sunday, September 15 th<br />

Thursday, September 26 th<br />

Sunday, September 22 nd<br />

Saturday, October 5 th<br />

Friday, October 18 th<br />

Rosh Hashanah Service<br />

RIVH Cookout<br />

Pizza & Card Party<br />

3rd Annual War Veterans Tribute<br />

Cruise In<br />

Car & Bike Show<br />

Clam Boil Tiverton VFW<br />

Autumn Begins<br />

Outing to Bristol Elks<br />

Pizza, Bingo & Card Night<br />

Vet’s <strong>Gazette</strong><br />

Produced by:<br />

Resident Advisor<br />

Al Benharris<br />

Jim Boylan<br />

Dan Ernst<br />

John Durkin<br />

Ed Hanrahan<br />

Howard Lamont<br />

Michael Thomson<br />

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