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the problematics of motherhood in twentieth century women's fiction

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for which only o<strong>the</strong>rworldly punishment is appropriate, while<br />

from ano<strong>the</strong>r viewpo<strong>in</strong>t, love appears to be <strong>the</strong> chief motive<br />

that spurs <strong>the</strong> mo<strong>the</strong>r to kill her child ra<strong>the</strong>r than remand<br />

her to slavery<br />

2.7.0. The cultural separation between care and anger,<br />

care and self-<strong>in</strong>terest, makes lt lmpossible for mo<strong>the</strong>rs to<br />

<strong>in</strong>tegrate anger Into <strong>the</strong>lr act~vity <strong>of</strong> mo<strong>the</strong>r<strong>in</strong>g. In Greek<br />

mythology, Medea and Clytemnestra were consldered non-<br />

maternal because <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>lr anger.<br />

7 6<br />

The mo<strong>the</strong>r's anger is<br />

consldered lllegltlmate, anger is <strong>the</strong> anti<strong>the</strong>sis <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

maternal.<br />

Belng angry creates breaks and dlsruptlons <strong>in</strong><br />

relationships that challenge soclal structures. Mo<strong>the</strong>r-love<br />

is <strong>the</strong>refore supposed to be cont~nuous and unconditional.<br />

As Rich expresses lt, "Love and anger cannot coexlst<br />

Female anger<br />

threatens <strong>the</strong> lnstltutlon <strong>of</strong> mo<strong>the</strong>rhood"<br />

(1976 46) Marrlane Hlrsch shares thls vlew<br />

A mo<strong>the</strong>r cannot articulate anger as a mo<strong>the</strong>r, to<br />

do so she must step out <strong>of</strong> a culturally<br />

clrcumscrlbed role which commands mo<strong>the</strong>rs to be<br />

carlng and nurturrng to o<strong>the</strong>rs, even at <strong>the</strong><br />

expense <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>mselves. (1989 170)<br />

Should she rebel and express her anger, she would cease to<br />

be maternal, for <strong>the</strong> essence <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> 'maternal' accord<strong>in</strong>g to<br />

Soclal strictures and psychoanalytic dogma lies <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

service to <strong>the</strong> <strong>in</strong>terests <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> child. Hence, to be angry<br />

2s to assert one's own self, not to subord<strong>in</strong>ate it to <strong>the</strong><br />

development <strong>of</strong> ano<strong>the</strong>r's self

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