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the problematics of motherhood in twentieth century women's fiction

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not relieve <strong>the</strong> mo<strong>the</strong>r <strong>of</strong> her responsibilities; it is <strong>the</strong><br />

psychological responsibility that makes <strong>the</strong> <strong>in</strong>tegration <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> mo<strong>the</strong>r role and worker role so difficult.<br />

With <strong>the</strong><br />

elim<strong>in</strong>ation <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> sexual divlsion <strong>of</strong> labour and <strong>the</strong> public<br />

/ privato dlchotorny, 'mo<strong>the</strong>rhood' extends to 'parenthood',<br />

no longer adher<strong>in</strong>g to gender-based roles.<br />

Thls chang<strong>in</strong>g<br />

Image 1s <strong>in</strong>creas<strong>in</strong>gly reflected In <strong>the</strong> med~a, most obviously<br />

<strong>in</strong> advertisements whlch have switched over from <strong>the</strong><br />

dellneatlon <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> devoted mo<strong>the</strong>r-at-home to <strong>the</strong> <strong>in</strong>dependent<br />

woman-at-work, and, conversely, from <strong>the</strong> macho image <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

man to a more 'homely' one - <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>r <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> kltchen,<br />

<strong>the</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>r wlth hls daughter, his son.<br />

6.4.1. Such a masslve change, especially with regard to<br />

notrons deeply embedded m <strong>the</strong> human psyche sxnce centuries,<br />

has not met wlth universal consent<br />

Even today, mo<strong>the</strong>rs<br />

cont<strong>in</strong>ue to be conf<strong>in</strong>ed to <strong>the</strong>lr home-bound responsibllltles<br />

which Includes twenty-four hour mo<strong>the</strong>r<strong>in</strong>g with little or<br />

absolutely no <strong>in</strong>volvement from <strong>the</strong>ir partners. Brlng<strong>in</strong>g men<br />

rnto <strong>the</strong> parent<strong>in</strong>g process and domestlc work has not been an<br />

easy task. Wantlng, and even demand<strong>in</strong>g, a partner's equal<br />

partlclpation, does not guarantee secur<strong>in</strong>g it. Lack <strong>of</strong> co-<br />

operation from <strong>the</strong>lr partners is what has made many mo<strong>the</strong>rs<br />

such as Morag <strong>of</strong> The Div<strong>in</strong>ers and Rosamund <strong>of</strong> The Millstone<br />

opt for s<strong>in</strong>gle parenthood<br />

Women like <strong>the</strong>m, who attempt to<br />

<strong>in</strong>tegrate work and mo<strong>the</strong>rhood, f<strong>in</strong>d it easier to do so

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