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the problematics of motherhood in twentieth century women's fiction

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<strong>the</strong>m for <strong>the</strong>ir good qualities ra<strong>the</strong>r than<br />

denigrat<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong>m for <strong>the</strong> lack <strong>of</strong> maternal<br />

aptitude? Or structure mo<strong>the</strong>rhood <strong>in</strong> a more<br />

congenial fashlon? l1974:35)<br />

The fem<strong>in</strong>ist agenda f<strong>in</strong>ally aims at remov<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> stigma from<br />

non-mo<strong>the</strong>rhood and giv<strong>in</strong>g it a positive, valued and<br />

desirable status, thus creatlng free, uncoerced, genu<strong>in</strong>e<br />

choices between mo<strong>the</strong>rhood and o<strong>the</strong>r llfe-patterns. ~ o all t<br />

fem<strong>in</strong>ists underplay <strong>the</strong> role <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> mo<strong>the</strong>r.<br />

What many<br />

object to is <strong>the</strong> <strong>in</strong>sistence that all women must become<br />

mo<strong>the</strong>rs, that mo<strong>the</strong>rhood is every' woman's destlny, that only<br />

through bear~ng children can women flnd fulfilment<br />

Fem<strong>in</strong>rsts f<strong>in</strong>ally polnt to a world <strong>in</strong> which mo<strong>the</strong>rhood,<br />

strlpped <strong>of</strong> its mythlc compulsions, will be Infused with as<br />

much declsion and conscious lntelllgence as any o<strong>the</strong>r<br />

dlff~cult and freely chosen work<br />

In such a world, <strong>the</strong>y<br />

emphasrze, maternal affection w ~ll become all <strong>the</strong> more<br />

rlcher and steadier because it wlll be a decision freely<br />

taken<br />

6.3.0. As Meridian, Saru, Kate, Morag and Rosamund begln<br />

to ask if self-realizat~on by way <strong>of</strong> work or career 1s <strong>in</strong><br />

any way Inferlor to self-realizatron by way <strong>of</strong> mo<strong>the</strong>rhood,<br />

Or what is so sacred about self-sacrifice or noble about<br />

want<strong>in</strong>g children, <strong>the</strong> concept that is be<strong>in</strong>g repeatedly torn<br />

apart is that mo<strong>the</strong>r-love 16 natural and every woman 1s born<br />

with <strong>the</strong> maternal <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct.<br />

As mo<strong>the</strong>r-love is no more

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