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the problematics of motherhood in twentieth century women's fiction

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out a change ln attitude towards mo<strong>the</strong>rhood wlth fa<strong>the</strong>rs<br />

participat<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> mo<strong>the</strong>r<strong>in</strong>g:<br />

It seems -- today -- although it is perhaps too<br />

soon to judge -- that <strong>the</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>r, hav<strong>in</strong>g cast <strong>of</strong>f<br />

his authoritarian image, identlf~es more and more<br />

closely with his wife -- that is, with <strong>the</strong> mo<strong>the</strong>r<br />

At <strong>the</strong> same time as women are "mas~ul<strong>in</strong>iz<strong>in</strong>g'~<br />

<strong>the</strong>mselves and distanc<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong>mselves from<br />

mo<strong>the</strong>rhood, young men <strong>in</strong> particular seem to be<br />

more and more <strong>in</strong>cllned taward mo<strong>the</strong>r<strong>in</strong>g, lf no'<br />

full-tlme mocherhood Not only do we see more and<br />

more dlvorced fa<strong>the</strong>rs asklng for custody <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>lr<br />

young chlldren but <strong>the</strong> most recent studies show<br />

young fa<strong>the</strong>rs exhibit<strong>in</strong>g attitudes, behaviour, and<br />

deslres traditionally characterized as maternal<br />

(1981 321<br />

After centuries <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>r's authority or absence, a new<br />

concept has come <strong>in</strong>to existence, fa<strong>the</strong>r love, <strong>the</strong> exact<br />

equivalent <strong>of</strong> mo<strong>the</strong>r love<br />

It is probable that this new<br />

experience <strong>of</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>rhood 1s largely attributable to <strong>the</strong><br />

Influence <strong>of</strong> women, who have demanded <strong>the</strong> sharlng <strong>of</strong> all<br />

aspects <strong>of</strong> mo<strong>the</strong>rhood<br />

3.7.1. In Marge Piercy's Woman On The Edge <strong>of</strong> Time,<br />

rno<strong>the</strong>rlng 1s extended to men also<br />

The men <strong>of</strong> Mattapolsett<br />

are not male-parents, but 'co-mo<strong>the</strong>rs' and 'kld-b<strong>in</strong>ders',<br />

<strong>the</strong> concept <strong>of</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>rhood 1s strangely lacklng here<br />

Mo<strong>the</strong>r<strong>in</strong>g, <strong>the</strong>refore, becomes a collective responslbllity<br />

with each chlld hav<strong>in</strong>g three co-mo<strong>the</strong>rs<br />

Thls naturally<br />

ellm<strong>in</strong>ates possessive parenthood, enabl<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> kld-blnders<br />

to cultivate a shared responsibility <strong>of</strong> mo<strong>the</strong>r<strong>in</strong>g, <strong>in</strong>stead

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