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and behavlng well and you should and you shouldn't<br />

and you ought and you oughtn't Its a disease<br />

Well, sometlmes I th<strong>in</strong>k that's all it is (SBD :<br />

2161.<br />

3.4.5.3. LeSSlng pro~ects Mary F<strong>in</strong>chley, who "wasn't like<br />

o<strong>the</strong>r Women" (SBD ,2151 as a foll to Kate. Unllke Lesslng's<br />

conventional, self-sacrlficzng women, Mary refuses <strong>the</strong><br />

romanticisation <strong>of</strong> marrlage and mo<strong>the</strong>rhood<br />

To her,<br />

romance figures less promlnently In her decisions<br />

than reason she trades her freedom from economlc<br />

responslblllty for Bill's freedom from chlld -<br />

care res~onsibilitv Kate Brown f<strong>in</strong>ds <strong>the</strong> antlromantic-~ary<br />

~lnchley a flghten<strong>in</strong>g conundrum, one<br />

whlch she fears to solve [Andrews 1986 146)<br />

Mary is "what men descrlbe as a savage woman" (SBD 2121 --<br />

<strong>the</strong>y are scared <strong>of</strong> her but admlre her for it Never <strong>in</strong> love<br />

wlth anyone, Mary never<strong>the</strong>less carries on various affalrs<br />

Simultaneously Unllke Kate who thlnks, speaks, behaves and<br />

dresses as <strong>the</strong> society, her husband and chlldren would deem<br />

lt proper, Mary does what pleases her, unm<strong>in</strong>dful <strong>of</strong> what <strong>the</strong><br />

family or soclety thlnk Children, Mary considers a<br />

h<strong>in</strong>drance "Klds are all verf well, but <strong>the</strong>y cramp your<br />

style" (583 214) Ber <strong>in</strong>corrlglble, stubborn and adamant<br />

nature 1s compared to a dog that a man has spent years<br />

tra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g, and <strong>the</strong>n he says" "He's useless, noth<strong>in</strong>g takes"<br />

(SBD : 212). Cynical about <strong>the</strong> concepts <strong>of</strong> 'famlly', 'home',<br />

'mo<strong>the</strong>r', 'fa<strong>the</strong>r', Mary volces Less<strong>in</strong>g's disgust with <strong>the</strong>se<br />

<strong>in</strong>stitutions Though Mary is first presen-ed as a contrast

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