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184 <strong>Creating</strong> <strong>Circles</strong> & <strong>Ceremonies</strong><br />

yard, <strong>and</strong> you launch yourself at full speed towards it. But be<strong>for</strong>e you cover half the distance,<br />

you stumble in mid-careen, as another tiny light blinks on just to one side. Oh my gosh! The<br />

lightning bugs have come! The first of the year! This is magick, pure <strong>and</strong> simple, <strong>and</strong> as good as it gets!<br />

Now if you were a sensible kid, the ritual has begun. Step one is to head to the house or<br />

garage in search of an empty, clear jar, with a screw-on metal lid soft enough to poke little holes<br />

in <strong>for</strong> air to pass through. (Because this involves using something sharp, like an ice pick, it’s best<br />

to have an adult supervise or per<strong>for</strong>m this step.) Next, pull up some fresh grass <strong>and</strong> drop it into<br />

the bottom of your jar, then lightly sprinkle the grass with droplets of water. With your jar ready,<br />

it’s time to catch as many lightning bugs as possible. Since we are good Pagan children <strong>and</strong><br />

deeply respect all life, we take great care not to hurt them as we snatch them from the air <strong>and</strong><br />

transfer them to the jar. (Remember how gently G<strong>and</strong>alf caught the moth?)<br />

When your jar is full enough to be all a-twinkle, carry it back into your house <strong>and</strong> turn<br />

off all the lights. Carry the jar to each of the main rooms of your house, <strong>and</strong> sit in silence in<br />

each room until the lightning bugs begin their patterned blinking. As they do, say:<br />

Blessings be upon thee, oh creatures of light! Tiny lanterns of the Goddess! Please<br />

bestow upon our house the fairy-light glow of your blessings. Just as your tiny lanterns<br />

invite love <strong>and</strong> health <strong>and</strong> regeneration, let that same invitation reside within our house<br />

this whole year through.<br />

When all the main rooms have been similarly blessed, take the jar back outside <strong>and</strong> put it in<br />

some undisturbed spot, removing the lid to allow the lightning bugs to fly away home. Be<br />

sure to check the jar the following morning. For each living lightning bug that has remained,<br />

you may be granted an additional wish <strong>for</strong> the year. Gently shake any remaining lightning<br />

bugs into some undisturbed tall grass, <strong>and</strong> save the jar <strong>for</strong> next year.<br />

T he First Snowflake of Winter<br />

The waning months of the year are often very busy ones. There never seems to be enough<br />

time to get everything accomplished, from winterizing your car <strong>and</strong> house to preparing <strong>for</strong> the<br />

holidays, getting ready to host friend <strong>and</strong> family gatherings, buying gifts, while juggling all the<br />

usual responsibilities of business <strong>and</strong> domestic life. Yet sometime in the middle of it, unheralded<br />

by anything but the weatherman’s dubious report of a “slight possibility,”you will see it! It will<br />

come wafting down out of the leaden-grey sky, falling through space in utter silence <strong>and</strong> solitude.<br />

The first snowflake of the year! You may then glance around <strong>and</strong> notice other flakes<br />

dancing on the air, but that first one is the special one. It is your own personal beginning of<br />

winter <strong>and</strong> it belongs to no one else. That means it should be celebrated.<br />

As quickly as you are able, finish whatever you were doing <strong>and</strong> retire to your favorite spot<br />

<strong>for</strong> meditation, perhaps at the little altar in your bedroom. There, turn out all the lights <strong>and</strong> light<br />

some c<strong>and</strong>les <strong>and</strong> incense, <strong>and</strong> meditate on the coming of winter. If you keep a diary or journal,<br />

you may want to note the date <strong>for</strong> this first snowflake of the year <strong>and</strong> highlight it so you can<br />

compare it to other years. You may also want to jot down other impressions as they come to<br />

you. The role of winter in the great Wheel of the Year. What it means to you <strong>and</strong> your family <strong>and</strong><br />

friends. What it means to the furry <strong>and</strong> feathered creatures of the <strong>for</strong>est <strong>and</strong> plains. The hardships<br />

it may bring to them <strong>and</strong> the little things that you might be able to do to help them through this<br />

time of hardship (perhaps a well-stocked bird-feeder <strong>for</strong> your yard?). Meditate on winter’s majesty.<br />

Think of a virgin snowfall <strong>and</strong> how it seems to unify the l<strong>and</strong>, the single white mantle<br />

erasing curb lines <strong>and</strong> sidewalks <strong>and</strong> streets, yards <strong>and</strong> fields, turning it all into a single, unsullied<br />

oneness, bringing out the connectedness that lies hidden there on most other days. And finally,<br />

think once more upon that first snowflake of winter, so tiny <strong>and</strong> yet the harbinger of it all.<br />

When you have finished your meditation, extinguish your c<strong>and</strong>les <strong>and</strong> incense, <strong>and</strong> continue<br />

with your day’s planned activities. But as you do, know that you have taken the time to<br />

honor that first snowflake, <strong>and</strong> so have grounded yourself more completely into the rhythm<br />

of the year’s turning.

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