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10. THE ROLE OF THIRD PARTIES/MEDIATION IN MANAGING <strong>CONFLICT</strong> 303<br />

is a powerful method <strong>of</strong> moving disputing parties toward settlement<br />

(Levi, 1997). While transformative mediation has an intuitive appeal, it<br />

has received scholarly criticism. Specifically, Seul (1999) took issue with<br />

the idea that the mediator should take on the role <strong>of</strong> moral developer without<br />

any consideration given to the parties’ current stage <strong>of</strong> moral development.<br />

In a slightly different vein, Levi (1997) noted that, in the presence<br />

<strong>of</strong> a “bona fide” dispute, a simple “I’m sorry” may not rectify the emotional<br />

harm inflicted or moral m<strong>and</strong>ate that was infringed upon (Kohlberg,<br />

1981). Moreover, apologies may not always be sincere <strong>and</strong> disputants<br />

can use public recantations as “attitude structuring tactics” in hopes <strong>of</strong><br />

leveraging their positions against the opponent (Pruitt, 1981). Likewise,<br />

Gaynier (2005) contended that Bush <strong>and</strong> Folgers’s (1994) myopic dependence<br />

on empowerment <strong>and</strong> recognition lacked any sort <strong>of</strong> realization<br />

that resistance, <strong>conflict</strong>ing interests, <strong>and</strong> mediator self-awareness all play<br />

roles in the dispute resolution process. Finally, Kressel (2000) argued that<br />

transformative mediation is not actually a novel idea at all. He noted that<br />

the “hallmarks” <strong>of</strong> this type <strong>of</strong> mediation could be seen in mediators that<br />

espouse a problem-solving style <strong>of</strong> mediation. Specifically, mediators using<br />

a problem-solving style, as in the case <strong>of</strong> divorce mediation, can be characterized<br />

as nonjudgmental about the disputants’ decisions, impartial, <strong>and</strong><br />

encouraging open <strong>and</strong> honest communication. However, comparative<br />

studies examining clearly defined models have not yet been carried out.<br />

Future research in this area would no doubt be fruitful.<br />

To summarize, it is still unclear whether transformative mediation<br />

can produce its intended effects. Additionally, we know that mediation<br />

is not always the chosen dispute resolution tactic by both parties. Indeed,<br />

m<strong>and</strong>atory mediation is common <strong>and</strong> has its own set <strong>of</strong> implications surrounding<br />

the ability to change parties’ attitudes <strong>and</strong> reach settlement.<br />

Mediator Strategy<br />

Given the numerous stages during mediation <strong>and</strong> the distinct <strong>and</strong><br />

diversified subtypes <strong>of</strong> mediation, it is essential that mediators put thought<br />

into their strategies prior to sitting down with both parties. Carnevale<br />

(1986) laid out four possible strategies that could be selected by a mediator:<br />

(a) integration, which involves finding solutions based on common<br />

ground; (b) pressing, which involves encouraging parties to be less obdurate;<br />

(c) compensation, which involves giving something back to the<br />

party making concessions; <strong>and</strong> (d) inaction, which involves a laissez-faire<br />

approach to the problem (see Figure 10.4). Additionally, Carnevale (1986)<br />

outlined a model <strong>of</strong> mediator strategic choice based on five core assumptions:<br />

(a) Mediators desire an agreement between disputants; (b) mediators<br />

are able to use any <strong>of</strong> the four strategies; (c) mediators are willing <strong>and</strong><br />

driven to take action; (d) only one strategy can be utilized at a single point<br />

in time; <strong>and</strong> (e) mediators choose a strategy based on two variables—how

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