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• Get bullies to think about their actions • Making friends<br />

• Being inclusive • Friends with everybody<br />

• Have better friends • Imaginary friends • Friends take care <strong>of</strong> each other<br />

• Reciprocal treatment (Golden Rule) • Can make a better club<br />

• Being inclusive<br />

• Talk through the problem – find a solution<br />

• Advice about solving the problem • Better way to resolve problem<br />

• Social status/influence • Use Peer pressure (positive)<br />

• Make a better club • Being loyal<br />

• Friends stick together • Laughing at self<br />

• Being nice • Nice thing to do<br />

• Do better work • Knowing self<br />

• Self help /encouragement • Being persistence<br />

• Achieving / Performing • Being Honest<br />

• Admitting a mistake<br />

• Reciprocal treatment / Do unto others (Golden Rule)<br />

Empathy/Caring/Concern for Others/Identify Feelings & Emotions<br />

• Not alone • Feel better if gets help • Need help<br />

• Kind thing to do • Comfort/consoling • Caring for a friend<br />

• Hurt/pain – feeling, physical • Tired <strong>of</strong> mistreatment / Fed up • Victim is afraid<br />

• Affirm victim • Victim has courage<br />

• Nothing wrong with being smart • Don’t want to be left out<br />

• Not bring me down • Resilience • Not giving up<br />

• I’m a nice person • Getting over the hurt • Not afraid/scared<br />

• I get nervous when … • Peer pressure • Social stress<br />

• Mean • Not nice • Don’t like it<br />

• Really won’t want to be their friend • No big deal<br />

• Words can’t hurt • <strong>The</strong>y don’t want me • <strong>The</strong>y hurt me<br />

• Can’t hurt me. I don’t care. • <strong>The</strong>y won’t let me sit with them • Doesn’t bother me<br />

• Everybody is different – not the same • Leaving friend out<br />

Aggressive / Negative Criticism<br />

3. Aggressive/Antisocial<br />

• Getting even • <strong>The</strong>y do it to me • Want them to feel like I do<br />

• Angry, mad emotions • “Kids was kids.” • Teach the bullies a lesson<br />

• <strong>The</strong>y will think twice next time • “I said so!” • “<strong>The</strong>y are just jerks!”<br />

• “<strong>The</strong>y deserve it” • “He’s a punk!”<br />

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