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“Takes matters into own hands” – no description<br />

Negative Coercion<br />

• Engages in verbal/psychological coercion over the victim<br />

• Verbally retaliate/reprimand the victim for having been bullied<br />

• Threaten future punishment if victim gets bullied again – “toughen him/her up.”<br />

• Engages in coercion over the victim<br />

• Refuses to be friends or to support the victim without discussing the reasons for being<br />

bullied<br />

• Pick on victim for having been bullied<br />

• Physically hitting, pushing, shoving, etc. or threaten to use physical aggression<br />

• Victim, in turn, bullies others who are smaller, weaker or have less power<br />

• Withhold support for or avoid the victim<br />

• Put victim in “harm’s way” by advising the victim to make friends with the bully<br />

Harm • Suicide “Kill yourself” • Homicide “Blow them away”<br />

Negative Teaching Moment<br />

• Don’t worry about it.<br />

• Don’t worry about it • Just blow it <strong>of</strong>f<br />

• Deal with it • Just don’t care about it • It doesn’t matter<br />

Justice<br />

JUSTIFICATION CODES<br />

1. Justice: Fairness, Equality, Personal Interests<br />

• Right thing to do • Wrong to do that • Factual / Pro<strong>of</strong><br />

• True / not true • Prove them wrong • Show them I can …<br />

• Fair / equitable • Not fair • Rule-oriented<br />

• Keep out <strong>of</strong> trouble • Getting into trouble • Social responsibility/duty<br />

• Proving the truth • Personal interests • Personal rights<br />

• Can’t keep her out • Safety • Stop the action<br />

• Prevent violence • Balance <strong>of</strong> Power • Greater numbers, groups<br />

• Respect for power • Being picked on • Adult attention/monitor<br />

• Protection<br />

2. _Prosocial: Caring/Empathy<br />

Prosocial – Concrete Responses<br />

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