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the literature of our times, but from the standard English classics, who them-<br />

selves drew from the deeper, purer 'wells of English undefiled." Under such<br />

<strong>in</strong>fluences she grew up to early girlliood, lov<strong>in</strong>g all th<strong>in</strong>gs beautiful and ijright.<br />

and enter<strong>in</strong>g with eager zest upon the somewhat larger life which was opened<br />

to her, when at the age of seventeen or eighteen, she made a visit to her<br />

mother's sister, Mrs. Gen. Joseph Kirkland, of Utica. N. V.. who then and<br />

dur<strong>in</strong>g her life formed a bright and attractive feature of the social and reli-<br />

gious circles of Central New York.<br />

" Miss Cogswell was now <strong>in</strong> the first blush and freshness of early woman-<br />

hood. Most attractive <strong>in</strong> person and <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d, she speedily drew around her,<br />

by the fasc<strong>in</strong>ation of her manner and the brilliancy of her wit, a host of ardent,<br />

admir<strong>in</strong>g friends, who were ready to avow- their sentiments of knightly devo-<br />

tion or more sober regard. After reject<strong>in</strong>g many allur<strong>in</strong>g, and <strong>in</strong> a worldly<br />

sense, most advantageous offers of marriage, her young affections at length<br />

centred upon one well worthy of her love, and at the age of twenty she was<br />

afTianced to Major Douglas \V. Sloane, of Williamstown. Mass. He came of<br />

good l<strong>in</strong>eage, be<strong>in</strong>g the only son of Gen. Samuel Sloane of Revolutionary<br />

stock, and the owner of a large and valuable real estate <strong>in</strong> that region and the<br />

neighbor<strong>in</strong>g town. For his son, he built at Williamstown, on a beautiful site,<br />

opposite the college edifices, what for that day, and <strong>in</strong>deed now, is a large<br />

and noble mansion. On its completion Douglas Sloane. with his youthful<br />

bride, took possession of this house. <strong>The</strong>re they spent many happy years <strong>in</strong><br />

easy competence, and all of their eight children were born and reared <strong>in</strong> a<br />

model New England home, under all the desirable and blessed <strong>in</strong>fluences<br />

which such a home imparts. In 1834 they left \A'<strong>in</strong>ianistown, and removed<br />

to Cleveland. Ohio. From the first, Mrs. Sloane took a high positio\i <strong>in</strong> the<br />

social and religious life of that then young city. She entered with character-<br />

istic zeal and enthusiasm <strong>in</strong>to every good work and benevolent e\iterprise.<br />

orig<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>g the l^Iaternal Association, the effort to rescue and raise the fallen<br />

<strong>in</strong> the Magdalen Association, and co-operat<strong>in</strong>g cheerfully and most helpfully<br />

<strong>in</strong> every organized effort to <strong>in</strong>struct the ignorant, help the poor and depressed,<br />

and elevate the standard of social and religious life. With warm sympathies,<br />

she was s<strong>in</strong>gularly <strong>in</strong>dependent and outspoken <strong>in</strong> her op<strong>in</strong>ions, and unyield<strong>in</strong>g<br />

<strong>in</strong> her views of what she esteemed to be right and <strong>in</strong> accord with Christian<br />

duty and pr<strong>in</strong>ciple. Dur<strong>in</strong>g lier residence <strong>in</strong> Cleveland she passed through<br />

deep domestic afflictions. Death <strong>in</strong>vaded the devoted family circle, and four<br />

lovely and gifted daughters and her only son, a noble, promis<strong>in</strong>g young man<br />

of twenty years, were one after the other taken from her. Bereavement and<br />

sorrow culm<strong>in</strong>ated <strong>in</strong> the death of her husband. She bore up under it all.<br />

with the most heroic fortitude, and was ever ready to say.<br />

' <strong>The</strong> Lord gave,<br />

mill the Lonf hath taken away ; blessed be the name of the Lord.' After her hus-<br />

band's death she divided her time between her two rema<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g daughters. She<br />

died on the 9th of Jan., 1870. <strong>in</strong> the city of New York, at the age of seventy-<br />

eight. She departed after a brief illness, <strong>in</strong> great peace and quietness, after a<br />

life of many vicissitudes, but of em<strong>in</strong>ent usefulness, all life's duties and

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