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Notes on ttje iFainflff of "Bt WLoU A family of the early De Wolfs, probably one of the sons of Balthasar and his descendants, lived near the upper end of " the Street," on the east side. Their well still exists in the lot between the houses of Mr. J. P. Van Bergen and Mr. W. B. Tooker. Other members of the family owned all, or part, of the Meeting-house Hills, and hved on or near them. One of these was a Benjamin, probably the same as "Benjamin DeWolf" who in 1730-31 "acted as Society's clerk," and who "belonged to the committee to make arrangements for building a new Meeting-House in 1737 ;" who was also selected "to entertain the committee of the General Court to ascertain the place whereon to erect a new Meeting-House." In 1744 Rev. Mr. Parsons registers a vote of the church that the council agreed upon by the church and certain brethren may be entertained at Mr. Simeon De Wolf's, "provided he will take the trouble of it." These persons would not have been selected to entertain some of the leading men of the State, members of the General Court and pastors of churches, if they had not been men of good social standing, living in good-sized and well provided houses, in the vicinity of the meeting-house. In 1771 Stephen DeWolf, great grandfather of the present Lyme family, built a house four or five miles east of the village of Lyme, on land which belonged to his wife Theody Anderson ; and till recently the homes of the Lyme family have been in that house and another in the same neighborhood. It is impossible now, and probably always will be, to learn more than the few facts we have given in regard to Balthasar De Wolf and his imme- diate family. They were not among the large landholders, though the sales and bequests made by Balthasar and his sons and grandsons, of lands which had belonged to him, show that they had a good landed estate ; nor, so far as appears from the records, were they conspicuous in the affairs of the town. But there was some condition or quality, either in education, character, family respectability, personal attraction, or other " unknown quantity," which enabled them to marry into some of the best famihes in Lyme and the neighboring towns. The early settlers of Lyme brought 132

lO II 12, 13 Notes on U)t iFamtlj? of mt miolf with them English traditions and habits of social life : differences of social grade between the families were accepted from the first, and have been maintained ever since. This is another strong proof that Balthasar was not of any other nationality than their own : with their strong insular prejudices it is difficult to conceive that these families should have so soon received as one with themselves a foreigner and his family. Lieut. Thomas Lee, who by or before 1680 married Mary daughter of Balthasar De Wolf, was next to the first Matthew Grisvvold the largest landholder and most leading man in Lyme. As we have already said, she, when left a widow, became the second wife of the second Matthew Griswold, a man of good family and large estate, the principal man of the town. His son, afterwards Judge John Griswold, married her daughter Hannah Lee, who became the mother of Governor Matthew Griswold, and ancestress of all the Blackball line of Griswolds. The family-names of the wives of Edward and Stephen De Wolf and those of their sons are not recorded, except in one case, in which it is stated that Edward's son Benjamin^ married Susannah Douglass of New London, daughter of one of the most respectable early settlers. Fuller records of the names in Simon's family are given than of the other two brothers ; which may be accounted for by the fact that his mar- riage to Sarah Lay daughter of the second John Lay, one of the great landholders of the town, established his branch in easier circumstances than those of the other brothers. His daughter Phoebe ^ married Joseph Mather, son of Richard Mather of Lyme, great grandson of the dis- tinguished scholar and gentleman Rev. Richard Mather of England, who settled in Dorchester, Mass. Simon* son of his son Josiah^ married Lucy Calkins daughter of Deacon Hugh Calkins, a Deputy to the General Court and an influential man in New London. Simon's son Josiah married Anna daughter of Serg. Thomas Water- man, one of the original proprietors of Norwich, Conn., a man of sub- stance, whose wife Miriam Tracy, daughter- of Thomas Tracy, a wealthy 133

Notes on ttje iFainflff <strong>of</strong> "Bt WLoU<br />

A family <strong>of</strong> the early De Wolfs, probably one <strong>of</strong> the sons <strong>of</strong> Balthasar<br />

<strong>and</strong> his descendants, lived near the upper end <strong>of</strong> " the Street," on the east<br />

side. Their well still exists in the lot between the houses <strong>of</strong> Mr. J. P.<br />

Van Bergen <strong>and</strong> Mr. W. B. Tooker. Other members <strong>of</strong> the family owned<br />

all, or part, <strong>of</strong> the Meeting-house Hills, <strong>and</strong> hved on or near them. One<br />

<strong>of</strong> these was a Benjamin, probably the same as "Benjamin DeWolf"<br />

who in 1730-31 "acted as Society's clerk," <strong>and</strong> who "belonged to the<br />

committee to make arrangements for building a new Meeting-House in<br />

1737 ;" who was also selected "to entertain the committee <strong>of</strong> the General<br />

Court to ascertain the place whereon to erect a new Meeting-House." In<br />

1744 Rev. Mr. Parsons registers a vote <strong>of</strong> the church that the council<br />

agreed upon by the church <strong>and</strong> certain brethren may be entertained at<br />

Mr. Simeon De Wolf's, "provided he will take the trouble <strong>of</strong> it." These<br />

persons would not have been selected to entertain some <strong>of</strong> the leading men<br />

<strong>of</strong> the State, members <strong>of</strong> the General Court <strong>and</strong> pastors <strong>of</strong> churches, if<br />

they had not been men <strong>of</strong> good social st<strong>and</strong>ing, living in good-sized <strong>and</strong><br />

well provided houses, in the vicinity <strong>of</strong> the meeting-house. In 1771<br />

Stephen DeWolf, great gr<strong>and</strong>father <strong>of</strong> the present Lyme family, built a<br />

house four or five miles east <strong>of</strong> the village <strong>of</strong> Lyme, on l<strong>and</strong> which<br />

belonged to his wife Theody Anderson ;<br />

<strong>and</strong> till recently the homes <strong>of</strong> the<br />

Lyme family have been in that house <strong>and</strong> another in the same neighborhood.<br />

It is impossible now, <strong>and</strong> probably always will be, to learn more than<br />

the few facts we have given in regard to Balthasar De Wolf <strong>and</strong> his imme-<br />

diate family. They were not among the large l<strong>and</strong>holders, though the<br />

sales <strong>and</strong> bequests made by Balthasar <strong>and</strong> his sons <strong>and</strong> gr<strong>and</strong>sons, <strong>of</strong> l<strong>and</strong>s<br />

which had belonged to him, show that they had a good l<strong>and</strong>ed estate ; nor,<br />

so far as appears from the records, were they conspicuous in the affairs <strong>of</strong><br />

the town. But there was some condition or quality, either in education,<br />

character, family respectability, personal attraction, or other " unknown<br />

quantity," which enabled them to marry into some <strong>of</strong> the best famihes in<br />

Lyme <strong>and</strong> the neighboring towns. The early settlers <strong>of</strong> Lyme brought<br />

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