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B2 THE COAST NEWS<br />

NOV. 9, <strong>2012</strong><br />

Volunteer has golden touch<br />

By Christina Macone-Greene<br />

CARLSBAD — Maxine<br />

McIntosh eyes the numerous<br />

collectibles near her.<br />

No, she’s not in an<br />

antique store. Instead, she’s<br />

inside a mak eshift storage<br />

room located in her garage<br />

deciding which collectible<br />

will be listed next on eBay<br />

toward Hospice of the North<br />

<strong>Coast</strong> proceeds.<br />

To date, McIntosh, a<br />

Carlsbad resident and volunteer<br />

for Hospice of the North<br />

<strong>Coast</strong> Resale Shop, has raised<br />

more than $200,000 in the last<br />

decade on eBay.<br />

Fondly called the “eBay<br />

Queen,” McIntosh’s smart<br />

business ways has earned her<br />

the <strong>2012</strong> Volunteer of the<br />

Year award.<br />

McIntosh will be honored<br />

at the upcoming North<br />

County Philanthropy Council<br />

Luncheon in <strong>Nov</strong>ember.<br />

McIntosh is humbled by<br />

the recognition.<br />

“I was pleased, but really,<br />

I’m a private person and I<br />

don’t wave my flag,” she said.<br />

“I just like to work and help.”<br />

McIntosh has v olunteered<br />

with Hospice of the<br />

North <strong>Coast</strong> for 20 years.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y came into her life when<br />

her mother was terminally ill<br />

with cancer.<br />

“Hospice of the North<br />

<strong>Coast</strong> was wonderful because<br />

I had never been around anyone<br />

that was terminal,” said<br />

McIntosh, adding how the volunteers,<br />

nurses and social<br />

workers were fantastic.<br />

Instinctively, McIntosh<br />

knew she would volunteer for<br />

Maxine McIntosh, named <strong>2012</strong> Volunteer of the Year, stands next to her<br />

auctioned eBay items. She has raised more than $200,000 for Hospice<br />

of the North <strong>Coast</strong> and will be honored at this month’s North County<br />

Philanthropy Council Luncheon. Courtesy photo<br />

them one day. And she did.<br />

Jean Cole, the manager<br />

of the Hospice Resale Shop in<br />

Encinitas, said that McIntosh<br />

has served in a variety of roles<br />

at the shop since her volunteering<br />

started.<br />

In addition to manning<br />

the eBay site, she continues to<br />

work at the shop a couple<br />

days a week.<br />

“To me, Maxine has<br />

always been an inspiration,”<br />

Cole said. “She’s calm in a crisis,<br />

always willing to help, and<br />

a friend to all she meets.”<br />

When describing<br />

McIntosh, Cole said she’s<br />

energetic, enthusiastic,<br />

knowledgeable, kind and generous.<br />

McIntosh decided eBay<br />

was a perfect avenue to help<br />

raise more funds for Hospice<br />

of the North <strong>Coast</strong>.<br />

“I kept seeing these<br />

beautiful collectibles that we<br />

couldn’t sell at a resale shop<br />

for what they were worth,”<br />

she said, noting how Cole had<br />

opened an eBa y account<br />

months before but wasn’t<br />

used yet.<br />

Cole warned her that<br />

eBay would be a b ig job but<br />

McIntosh continued to beg<br />

her until she gave in.<br />

When she got the green<br />

light, McIntosh’s son, a computer<br />

analyst, came down<br />

from Oregon for an eBay tutorial.<br />

And she caught on in no<br />

time at all.<br />

On average, McIntosh<br />

spends about 20 to 25 hours<br />

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billing and shipping the<br />

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“For those who think<br />

retirement translates to resting<br />

on the couch and watching<br />

television, come meet<br />

Maxine,” Cole said.<br />

“Apparently, she didn’t<br />

receive that memo.”<br />

McIntosh has sold nearly<br />

4,000 items on eBay in the last<br />

decade. From Waterford,<br />

Lenox, Wedgewood, jewelry,<br />

St. John fashion, to limited<br />

editions, McIntosh knows this<br />

eBay business lik e no one<br />

else.<br />

Just recently, McIntosh<br />

said, she sold a 1902 Edison<br />

phonograph for over $1,500.<br />

“It doesn’t take a rocket<br />

science to see Maxine is an<br />

extraordinary woman,” said<br />

Yvette Williams, publicity<br />

and events manager at<br />

Hospice of the North <strong>Coast</strong>.<br />

“Her many years volunteering<br />

at our resale shop have<br />

been genuine, altruistic acts<br />

of kindness, and we are the<br />

better because of it.”<br />

McIntosh said she never<br />

dreamed the eBa y auction<br />

business would have become<br />

so profitable for Hospice of<br />

the North <strong>Coast</strong>.<br />

Modestly, she said volunteering<br />

has given her something<br />

to fill her time.<br />

“Hospice has given me<br />

more than I have ever given<br />

it,” McIntosh said.<br />

“It has given me a group<br />

of friends who are wonderful,<br />

caring people.”<br />

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Doctor to retire after 37 years<br />

By Tracy Moran<br />

ENCINITAS — Dr .<br />

James Quigley may have<br />

practiced medicine f or<br />

another dozen years if not<br />

for a conversation he had<br />

with an older dentist.<br />

“He asked me when I<br />

was going to r etire,” said<br />

Quigley. “I said I didn’ t<br />

know if I had enough<br />

money, and I’m gi ving him<br />

all these other r easons (to<br />

keep working) and he sa ys,<br />

‘Stop. If you don’t have<br />

enough money by now,<br />

shame on you. But probably<br />

whatever you have is<br />

enough.’”<br />

But what the dentist<br />

said next resonated with<br />

Quigley.<br />

“He told me, ‘What you<br />

don’t know is ho w much<br />

time you have.’” As Quigley<br />

recalled this statement, he<br />

became quiet. Late afternoon<br />

sunlight slanted<br />

through his office blinds at<br />

North <strong>Coast</strong> Family Medical<br />

Group.<br />

“He made me start<br />

thinking about it,” Quigley<br />

continued, “about how hard<br />

we work. But a lot of guys<br />

start changing physically.<br />

I’ll be 64 ne xt year and I<br />

keep thinking those next 10<br />

years are a big deal.”<br />

He wants to enjo y<br />

those years with his wife,<br />

Denise, his children and his<br />

granddaughter, he says,<br />

adding he would like to<br />

spend more time backpacking,<br />

biking and fl y fishing.<br />

He’d like to learn Spanish,<br />

take photography classes,<br />

travel. And, he said, “I’ve<br />

got a few IOUs to the Good<br />

Lord, so I’ll do some charity<br />

work.”<br />

So after 37 y ears as a<br />

doctor — 30 of those serving<br />

North County — Quigle y is<br />

retiring at the end of the<br />

year.<br />

“But I don’t think I’ll be<br />

sitting around watching<br />

daytime TV,” he joked. “If<br />

you just go fr om 50 to 60<br />

hours every week to z ero,<br />

that would not be good for a<br />

guy like me.” He’ll also be<br />

busy with the medical<br />

research company he<br />

opened in the 1990s,<br />

Encompass Medical<br />

Research North <strong>Coast</strong>.<br />

“I’m a principal investigator,”<br />

he explained,<br />

researching treatments for<br />

diseases like diabetes.<br />

While his schedule will<br />

be full, his patients will<br />

surely miss him, as they’ve<br />

already begun expressing to<br />

him. Shortly after Quigle y<br />

sent out the announcement<br />

of his retirement, calling it<br />

“the most challenging letter<br />

I have ever written in m y<br />

career,” he began receiving<br />

notes from his patients.<br />

“Thank you for all the<br />

help during the last 30<br />

years,” reads one. Others<br />

mention how much they<br />

value his a bility to listen<br />

and put them at ease.<br />

Tall and athletic with<br />

an easy smile, Quigley’s<br />

calm demeanor has r eassured<br />

generations of<br />

patients. And his car e for<br />

them is con veyed in that<br />

retirement letter: “I can<br />

never explain in w ords the<br />

honor it has been to care for<br />

Dr. James Quigley will be retiring at the end of the year after 37 years<br />

practicing medicine. He attributes his plan for retirement to a conversation<br />

he had with an older dentist. Photo by Tracy Moran<br />

each of you as patients and<br />

friends. You have shared<br />

your deepest secr ets and<br />

hardships, your best stories<br />

and funny moments, and<br />

most importantly, you have<br />

entrusted me with y our<br />

health. I have always taken<br />

that privilege and honor<br />

seriously and I am so v ery<br />

grateful for it all.”<br />

In addition to his<br />

patients, he’s served the<br />

medical community as<br />

chairman of the Physicians<br />

Health and Well-Being<br />

Committee at Scripps<br />

Memorial Hospital<br />

Encinitas since 1983. But<br />

he leaves a legac y beyond<br />

the medical comm unity.<br />

He’s also a businessman<br />

who was one of the<br />

What you<br />

don’t know is<br />

how much time<br />

you have.” Older dentist<br />

founders of the medical<br />

complex at 477 N. El<br />

Camino Real in Encinitas,<br />

an iconic comple x fondly<br />

known to many residents as<br />

the “brick buildings.”<br />

“I was one of thr ee<br />

managing partners for the<br />

group that built this, ” he<br />

says. “We had the vision for<br />

this center. We called it a<br />

hospital without beds …<br />

It’s got the sur gery center<br />

and full-service radiology,<br />

the pharmacist and all the<br />

primary care doctors, and<br />

lots of others.”<br />

Having that mind f or<br />

business is important f or<br />

doctors today within their<br />

medical practice, he says.<br />

“<strong>The</strong>re’s a business<br />

that doctors need to tak e<br />

into account,” he said.<br />

“Before it was more, ‘Let’s<br />

do whatever we can and<br />

figure out the pr oblem.’”<br />

That likely meant spending<br />

a lot of mone y. “So you<br />

have to be a ware of what<br />

you’re doing as f ar as how<br />

much you’re spending,<br />

which is good … Evidencebased<br />

medicine drives a lot<br />

of decisions now. That’s<br />

good and it’s bad.<br />

Sometimes it takes away<br />

the instinct to do a certain<br />

thing. But I’m pretty happy<br />

about where medicine is<br />

going right now. Would I<br />

recommend my children do<br />

it? I w ould. I love the job.<br />

It’s not like I’m lea ving<br />

with any unhappiness at<br />

all.”<br />

What other car eer, he<br />

wondered, would “allow a<br />

mailman’s son to spend his<br />

entire professional life listening<br />

to people’s most<br />

cherished and sometimes<br />

frightening stories and be<br />

asked to help find a solution<br />

to their problems?”<br />

Quigley admitted that<br />

“it was often a daunting<br />

task” in his early years.<br />

“It frequently left me<br />

with self-doubt if I was<br />

doing it right,” he added. “I<br />

guess as I look back, that<br />

fear is what kept me on my<br />

toes, keenly aware that I<br />

didn’t want to scr ew up<br />

because there was so much<br />

on the line for everyone. As<br />

the years passed that worry<br />

gave way to a sense of calm<br />

that is the confidence of<br />

having seen so much. I certainly<br />

gave it my best and I<br />

really do think most of m y<br />

patients and my fellow<br />

physicians feel the same<br />

way.”<br />

Certainly his friend<br />

and colleague of 30 y ears,<br />

Dr. James Hay, feels that<br />

way.<br />

“(Dr. Quigley) is one of<br />

the warmest and kindest<br />

men I know,” said Hay,<br />

adding that he consider s<br />

himself fortunate to ha ve<br />

Quigley as his personal<br />

physician. “He’s almost<br />

unflappable.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> strong bond the<br />

two share is appar ent in<br />

the way each speaks of the<br />

other, and it’s surely contributed<br />

to the success of<br />

the medical group they<br />

helped found, North <strong>Coast</strong><br />

Family Medical Group.<br />

Shortly, Quigley will<br />

embark on the ne xt phase<br />

of his life.<br />

“<strong>The</strong> career goes fast,”<br />

he said. “All of a sud den<br />

you turn around and it’s 30<br />

years later. But I just figure<br />

the next 10 or 20 years is<br />

going to go just as f ast, so<br />

I’ll grab hold of the ne xt<br />

stage of life and get going<br />

on it.”

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