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women repeated most of what had been said by the instructresses. One woman<br />

commenting on the existing good relationship within the family encouraged the girls to<br />

maintain the same. Another woman encouraged them to be hard working in helping<br />

their parents' in house chores.<br />

After instructing the girls, women counselled each other. Following the same pattern, a<br />

woman would give money to the one she was addressing and either rebuke or commend<br />

her. The money was in very small denominations of lOt and 20t coins, but the women<br />

seemed to enjoy this bit. It took another fifteen minutes.<br />

One instructress thanked all the women and apologized to me for having taken so long<br />

to finish. She then prayed. The money was counted and given to the girls. I did not hear<br />

the total amounts. They were told to go and buy soap to keep their clothes clean.<br />

Then food was served and since it was a bigger room, the girls shared their food with<br />

the instructresses; I shared with the pastor's wife, and the rest of the women sat outside<br />

to have their meal. The whole chilangizo ceremony took about two and a half hours<br />

from the bathing ritual to the end ofthe meal.<br />

6.3 <strong>CHILANGIZO</strong> CEREMONY AT MPHINDO BAPTIST CHURCH 69<br />

Mphindo Baptist Church is a rural church about ten kilometres from the city, off the<br />

main road towards the southern part of the country in the area of Traditional Authority<br />

Chadza (see Map B).<br />

I arrived at the pastor's home about eleven in the morning. One instructress welcomed<br />

me together with the amayi busa. They took me to a smaller house, belonging to one of<br />

the pastor's daughters. We sat on an already laid mat. The room was quite small. Soon<br />

two more instructresses came in. For the next hour, the instructresses went in and out of<br />

the room which provided me with an opportunity to ask them some questions. Finally,<br />

the pastor sent a message to remind them that time was running out.<br />

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