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Adopting the Christian faith, as Walls (1996:8) argues, did not erase the women's iden­<br />

tity as Africans; as African Christians they still carried their past with them. They did<br />

not start their new life 'in a vacuum,' or 'on a clean slate.' What they are actually asking<br />

is 'What about our past?' In other words, having been formed by their own 'culture and<br />

history,' their Christian mind continues to be influenced by their past, and the nature of<br />

the Gospel message also 'disturbed the core elements of their cultural beliefs' (Howell<br />

2001 :228) causing them to reflect upon their past and present status. Puberty is a crucial<br />

transition rite for the continuation of the community through the woman's bearing chil­<br />

dren, and to fulfill this need, chinamwali is the traditional mechanism for incorporating<br />

the girls into the Chewa community as well as maintaining their childbearing role. Since<br />

the 'old mechanism' has been condemned as 'pagan' or unchristian by the missionaries,<br />

the women are now searching for what Walls (1996:91) calls 'a key to conduct' or a<br />

'new rule oflife to act as an alternative' in their new faith.<br />

The first response from the missionary women was: 'It is the responsibility of every<br />

mother to teach her own children about facts of life' (Int. Amayi Phiri 13/7/01). The<br />

early missionaries confirmed that that was how they trained their children, 'a father<br />

talks with his son, while the mother talks with her daughter' (Int. Amayi Wester, Amayi<br />

Kingsley, 14/10/2001). Still another missionary also testified that 'when my daughter<br />

matured, I talked with her, and later I gave her a book that contained all that she needed<br />

to know about marriage, children, and so on. My mother was the one who also gave me<br />

the book' (Int. Amayi Scott). Realising how important their concern was, the Malawian<br />

women insisted that 'according to our culture, it is not the mother, but someone else<br />

who is supposed to advise the girl' (Int. Amayi Phiri, 13/7/01). The women's statement<br />

reflects their social and cultural situation with the emphasis on community as discussed<br />

in chapter 2.4. That is why it is not the mother who instructs the girl. Similarly, the mis­<br />

sionaries' statements reflect the individualism of western society as well as the empha­<br />

sis on reading things from books. Without understanding the significance of the<br />

women's concern for their children, especially girls, the missionaries, unintentionally,<br />

were tempted to impose what we may call their 'cultural-Christian' model on the young<br />

church. For a culture based on reading and writing, the temptation tends to be that all<br />

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