28.07.2013 Views

FROM CHINAMWALI TO CHILANGIZO:

FROM CHINAMWALI TO CHILANGIZO:

FROM CHINAMWALI TO CHILANGIZO:

SHOW MORE
SHOW LESS

Create successful ePaper yourself

Turn your PDF publications into a flip-book with our unique Google optimized e-Paper software.

78. Both Christian and non-Christian informants made this remark to me. In addition to remarks from the<br />

Baptist circles, one Presbyterian woman leader, Mrs. Mzandu, who is also a Women's Coordinator with<br />

the Evangelical Association of Malawi, remarked that she had witnessed more than two couples who<br />

divorced soon after marriage because the women did not have the elongated labia minora. She<br />

emphasized how serious the issue is in some ethnic groups in the country.<br />

However, in my field work, when I asked the Chewa women as to what they think about the ethnic groups<br />

who do female circumcision (like the Agikuyu in Kenya, [Hinga 1998: 168-179)), and those who do<br />

nothing to the labia minora; their reaction was that they thought elongation of the labia minora was a<br />

universal practice. They did not believe there is female circumcision.<br />

79. This communitas in Lilongwe Association is also evidenced in the women's weekly Bible Study<br />

groups, montWy meetings for fellowship, prayer and encouragement; in weddings; and in funerals.<br />

Women, more than men, show their solidarity in many ofthe social interactions.<br />

This will, to some degree, parallel the initiation of young girls before puberty as performed in Southern<br />

Malawi (see Banda 2001: 193-227).<br />

81. Pre-puberty instruction guide is given at the beginning ofthe second section.<br />

82. The churches can utilise programmes that are already in use in the churches to teach the young people<br />

sexual abstinence until marriage, such as TRUE LOVE WAITS programme.<br />

83. Banda (200 I) shows that in the Southern Malawi there is also a lot of instruction on sex in marriage<br />

in addition to purity before marriage. However, the Church needs to be sensitive here on sex education to<br />

the young women before marriage.<br />

84. Part of the ceremony was constructed by one of the alangizi groups and the rest is mine. It is in the<br />

process ofbeing developed. But it has not yet been used at the actual chinamwali.<br />

145

Hooray! Your file is uploaded and ready to be published.

Saved successfully!

Ooh no, something went wrong!