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just keep them stained and say that they will wash later.' That is a bad habit which she<br />

must not emulate.<br />

Respect. One instructress commented that 'Since your mother has not reported any bad<br />

behaviour from you, we know you are a well behaved girl, so keep it up and continue to<br />

respect your parents, and even children.' Respect is very important for it shows that the<br />

girl is obedient.<br />

Amayi busa concluded by cautioning the girl to pay heed to all that the women had said<br />

to her. People should see change in her and that will show them that the girl really met<br />

with the alangizi. She exhorted the girl to go to church. The warning was 'If you do not<br />

change, we will come again. We want to hear good reports about you!'<br />

Amayi busa closed with prayer. In her prayer she thanked God for the instructresses and<br />

said that God is the one who shall reward them for their commitment to the ministry of<br />

giving instruction. The instruction took just over thirty minutes.<br />

We went out of the room and one instructress went to report to the mother that the<br />

function was over. A meal together ended the whole ceremony.<br />

A uniform pattern, with a few variations, is observed in the two ceremonies from the<br />

rural churches. The parents did not inform the alangizi when their daughters experi­<br />

enced their first menses. Although the alangizi knew about it, they had no authority to<br />

arrange for chilangizo, until upon my request when they organised the ceremony to be<br />

performed for more than one initiate. The urban procedure resonates with the booklet<br />

instructions - the parent informs the alangizi upon the girl's first menses. The alangizi<br />

arrange with the mother for a day ofthe ceremony. Two or three instructresses together<br />

with the amayi busa, conduct the ceremony before the end of the menses. All the three<br />

ceremonies commenced with prayer, after which one instructress read the booklet<br />

(except at the urban church). After reading the women continued in turn to give oral<br />

counsel. No one read the Scriptures. A prayer ended each ceremony, and eating together<br />

ended the whole function.<br />

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