Dawkins' God Delusion Divorced American ... - Biola University
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08 BIOLA BULLETIN BIOLA CONNECTIONS ❁ SPRING ’07<br />
<strong>Divorced</strong> <strong>American</strong> Film Explores<br />
the Emotional Pain of Divorce<br />
Alumnus Trevor Downie (’01) pauses on the Las Vegas Strip during the filming<br />
of <strong>Divorced</strong> <strong>American</strong>, directed by <strong>Biola</strong> film professor Michael Gonzales.<br />
Anew documentary about divorce was<br />
directed by <strong>Biola</strong> film professor<br />
Michael Gonzales and cast several<br />
<strong>Biola</strong>ns as experts. The film, <strong>Divorced</strong><br />
<strong>American</strong>, tells the story of former <strong>Biola</strong> student<br />
Trevor Downie (’01) as he searches for answers<br />
after going through a divorce.<br />
Produced by Love That Lasts, a non-profit<br />
organization that conducts marriage seminars,<br />
the feature-length documentary explores the<br />
question, “What happens to a person when his<br />
or her world is shattered by divorce?” according<br />
to Gonzales.<br />
Downie, 27, was divorced at 25. Regretful<br />
of his decisions — which included dating his<br />
girlfriend for only four months before getting<br />
engaged and ignoring problems that surfaced<br />
during their engagement — Downie allowed<br />
his story to be told so other people won’t<br />
repeat his mistakes.<br />
The documentary follows Downie, who<br />
lives in Hollywood, Calif., as he travels the<br />
country to find out what makes a successful<br />
marriage. He interviews religious leaders,<br />
psychologists, politicians and everyday people —<br />
including people with good marriages and<br />
broken ones. Along the way, Downie speaks<br />
candidly about the painful emotions he’s<br />
experienced after his divorce, like when he tells<br />
Dr. Keith Edwards, a professor in <strong>Biola</strong>’s<br />
Rosemead School of Psychology: “You can’t just<br />
start over. I mean, you’re supposed to, but I<br />
haven’t figured that out yet … This depression is<br />
with me every moment of the day.”<br />
The documentary stresses the importance<br />
of compatibility, communication, conflict resolution<br />
skills and commitment. Its inspiration<br />
came to Jay Kim — the founder and president of<br />
Love That Lasts — after seeing the popularity of<br />
the documentary Super Size Me — an exposé on the<br />
fast-food industry. Kim wondered if the same<br />
genre could be applied to a subject like divorce.<br />
He approached Gonzales with the idea, and the<br />
project grew from there. Other <strong>Biola</strong>ns featured<br />
as experts in the documentary include Dr. Tim<br />
Muelhoeff, a communication professor; Dr.<br />
Doretha O’Quinn, an education professor; and<br />
John Mosqueda (M.Div. ’81), a pastor from Las<br />
Vegas, Nev.<br />
Mosqueda says in his interview that he<br />
requires all couples he marries to take part in<br />
counseling, “so they can think through what it<br />
means and, if necessary, postpone the wedding<br />
or, at times, forget about the wedding.”<br />
Several <strong>Biola</strong> alumni and students also took<br />
part in filming and editing the documentary.<br />
Gonzales told <strong>Biola</strong> Connections it was<br />
“heartrending” to see Downie go through the<br />
grieving process. During the documentary,<br />
Downie, speaking of himself, turns to the<br />
camera and half-jokingly says, “It’s a new type of<br />
singleness: ‘Look out ladies, he’s got baggage.’”<br />
Gonzales said divorce has started to take on<br />
a normative role in <strong>American</strong> society. “The<br />
attitude has become, ‘Divorce is common.<br />
What’s the big deal?’ It’s now become part of our<br />
social fabric,” said Gonzales, who hopes the<br />
documentary will provoke discussion about an<br />
oft-ignored subject.<br />
<strong>Divorced</strong> <strong>American</strong> has been submitted to<br />
numerous film festivals where it awaits<br />
approval. But, according to Gonzales, it<br />
already has had positive effects. One film<br />
critic approached him after taking part in a<br />
selective screening and said that, after<br />
viewing it, she decided not to leave her<br />
husband. Gonzales believes the documentary<br />
has the potential to save more marriages.<br />
For more information on the documentary<br />
and to watch a trailer, visit the Web site:<br />
lovethatlasts.org/DA. — Joel Bergman<br />
Alumnus Locates Famed<br />
‘York Spot’ of World War I<br />
Kory O’Keefe (’88) — an independent contractor<br />
working with the military in Heidelberg,<br />
Germany — and three friends, on Oct. 21,<br />
located the exact place in France where Sgt.<br />
Alvin York performed his World War I exploits<br />
and became one of America’s greatest war<br />
heroes. The team’s find was featured in the New<br />
York Times on Oct. 26.<br />
On Oct. 8, 1918, York assumed command —<br />
after nine of 17 members of his unit were shot or<br />
killed — and led an attack on a German<br />
machine-gun position. As a result, York was<br />
credited with capturing 132 German soldiers,<br />
leading to the end of German occupation of the<br />
French Argonne Forest.<br />
York earned the Medal of Honor for his<br />
actions, and his story is told in Sergeant York —