Christian Theology - Media Sabda Org

producing causes of the great majority of matrimonial alliances. How
then can such turbid and bitter fountains send forth pure and sweet
waters?
Unfitness of minds, more than circumstances, is what in general mars
the marriage union. Where minds are suited, means of happiness and
contentment are ever within reach.
I scruple not to say that those who marry for money are committing
adultery as long as they live.
A conversation on board ship between Leith and Lerwick.—"How is
it," says one, "that the most simple and unadorned rings are used in the
matrimonial ceremony?"—"Because, I believe, the canon law requires
that no other should be used."—A. C. "I am not aware, that there is any
law on this part of the subject. The law states that a metal ring shall be
used, and not one of leather, straw, thread, &c.; and the reason to me
appears to be this:—The ring itself points out the duration of the union;
it is without end in reference to the natural lives of the parties. Metal is
less liable to destruction than flax, leather, straw, &c. Gold is generally
preferred, not only because it is the most precious, but the most perfect
of metals, being less liable to destruction or deterioration by oxydisement.
Life will wear out by labours, trials, &c.; and so will gold by attrition,
frequent use, &c. Therefore, life and the metal shadow forth each other,
properly enough. As to the ring being simple and unadorned, I think it has
its reason in the case itself, and in the feelings and apprehension of the
spouse who produces it. He has chosen, according to his feelings, one
whom he esteems the most perfect of her kind: she is to him superior to
every other female, adorned with every charm. To use then, in this state
of the case, any ornament, would be a tacit confession that her person was
defective, and needed something to set it off, and must be more or less
dependant on the feeble aid of dress."—Mrs. Frembly. "But, sir, there is
soon added what is called a guard; and this is, if circumstances will
admit, highly ornamented with pearls or brilliants."—A. C. "True,
madam; and this is not without much signification. The unadorned ring