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Gujaratis marrying Gujaratis, Punjabis marrying Punjabis)<br />

because then the tradition, language, culture, etc. will be<br />

familiar and similar. It is easier to travel along the journey<br />

of life if our partner shares a similar background,<br />

language, culture, and tradition. However, this is not<br />

essential. Parents should be flexible about marriage<br />

partners as long as they are within the Indian, Hindu<br />

community.<br />

Also, though, this tendency should be inculcated in our<br />

children from a very young age. We should infuse our<br />

culture, traditions, rituals and heritage in them so<br />

beautifully that they automatically look to marry someone<br />

who shares this same culture.<br />

3. Caste based social organisations are formed<br />

strictly on the basis of caste by Indians living in<br />

foreign countries. Do you think this is a welcome<br />

and necessary trend in the 21 st Century? Should<br />

such organisations be allowed to continue? Should<br />

these be replaced by other alternatives? If so, how?<br />

Gujarati Samaj or the Punjabi association, etc.<br />

4. Caste-system was at the root of the differences<br />

in the social levels among Hindus as individuals.<br />

Many social reformers struggled during their<br />

lifetime to rid society of the evils of the caste-system.<br />

And yet, these evils do persist even today. What do<br />

you think could be done to eradicate this evil?<br />

Yes, the problems exist, but these great souls have also had<br />

an effect. The effect is there. Change is there. People are<br />

changing. However, more has to be done. We must keep<br />

working to eradicate this problem.<br />

One of the reasons that it has not yet been eradicated within<br />

India is that politicians have used the caste divisions for<br />

their own sake. But this must stop. The time has come for<br />

everyone to realize that it is weakening our communities.<br />

5. ‘What caste do you belong to?’ is the first<br />

question many Indians believing in the castesystem<br />

ask whenever they happen to meet one<br />

another! Would you consider this kind of<br />

questioning appropriate in these days? We shall<br />

appreciate to know of a ‘strong rebuttal’ to the<br />

questioner so that he would refrain from asking<br />

such questions in the future!<br />

We should overcome these things. They are outdated.<br />

Particularly, living abroad, Indian Hindus should be<br />

focused on being Indian Hindus rather than being so<br />

concerned with being a part of their particular caste. Being<br />

Indian should be our identity living abroad. In that way<br />

we can be united.<br />

This is not a good question at all. Originally, as I mentioned,<br />

the caste was just a division of labor, a division of jobs. So,<br />

Organizations can certainly exist within the Indian Hindu<br />

really it would be more proper and more in keeping with<br />

community, but they should be based on language and<br />

the true meaning of “caste” if we ask each other “what is<br />

culture rather than caste. So for example, there is the<br />

your job?”<br />

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