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there with your same degree; there will be thousands of people doing what you want to do for a living. But you will be the only person alive who has sole custody of your life. Your particular life. Your entire life. Not just your life at a desk, or your life on a bus, or in a car, or at the computer. Not just the life of your mind, but the life of your heart. Not just your bank account, but your soul. People don’t talk about the soul very much anymore. It’s so much easier to write a resume than to craft a spirit. But a resume is a cold comfort on a winter night, or when you’re sad, or broke, or lonely, or when you’ve gotten back the test results and they’re not so good. Here is my resume: I am a good mother to three children. I have tried never to let my profession stand in the way of being a good parent. I no longer consider myself the center of the universe. I show up. I listen. I try to laugh. I am a good friend to my husband. I have tried to make marriage vows mean what they say. I am a good friend to my friends, and they to me. Without them, there would be nothing to say to you today, because I would be a cardboard cutout. But I call them on the phone, and I meet them for lunch. I would be rotten, or at best mediocre at my job, if those other things were not true. You cannot be really first rate at your work if your work is all you are. So here’s what I wanted to tell you today: Get a life. A real life, not a manic pursuit of the next promotion, the bigger paycheck, the larger house. Do you think you’d care so very much about those things if you blew an aneurysm one afternoon, or found a lump in your breast? Get a life in which you notice the smell of salt water push- DROPS DROPS OF OF OF NECT NECTAR NECT NECTAR AR 288 ing itself on a breeze over Seaside Heights, a life in which you stop and watch how a red tailed hawk circles over the water or the way a baby scowls with concentration when she tries to pick up a Cheerio with her thumb and first finger. Get a life in which you are not alone. Find people you love, and who love you. And remember that love is not leisure, it is work. Pick up the phone. Send an e-mail. Write a letter. Get a life in which you are generous. And realize that life is the best thing ever, and that you have no business taking it for granted. Care so deeply about its goodness that you want to spread it around. Take money you would have spent on beers and give it to charity. Work in a soup kitchen. Be a big brother or sister. All of you want to do well. But if you do not do good too, then doing well will never be enough. It is so easy to waste our lives, our days, our hours, our minutes. It is so easy to take for granted the color of our kids’ eyes, the way the melody in a symphony rises and falls and disappears and rises again. It is so easy to exist instead of to live. I learned to live many years ago. Something really, really bad happened to me, something that changed my life in ways that, if I had my druthers, it would never have been changed at all. And what I learned from it is what, today, seems to be the hardest lesson of all. I learned to love the journey, not the destination. I learned that it is not a dress rehearsal, and that today is the only guarantee you get. I learned to look at all the good in the world and try to give some of it back because I believed in it, completely and utterly. And I tried to do that, in part, by telling others what I had learned. By telling them this: DROPS DROPS OF OF OF NECT NECTAR NECT NECTAR AR 289
Consider the lilies of the field. Look at the fuzz on a baby’s ear. Read in the backyard with the sun on your face. Learn to be happy . And think of life as a terminal illness, because if you do, you will live it with joy and passion as it ought to be lived. DROPS DROPS OF OF OF NECT NECTAR NECT NECTAR AR 290 AUDRE UDRE UDREY UDRE Y HEPBURN’S HEPBURN’S BEA BEAUT BEA BEA UT UTY UT SECRETS SECRETS SECRETS For attractive lips, speak words of kindness. For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people. For a lovely figure, share your food with the hungry. For beautiful hair, let a child run his or her fingers through it once a day. For poise, walk with the knowledge that you'll never walk alone. People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed and redeemed. Never throw out anybody. Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you'll find one at the end of your arm. As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, and one for helping others. The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes, Because that is the doorway to her heart. The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole, But true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows, and the beauty of a woman with passing years only grows! DROPS DROPS OF OF OF NECT NECTAR NECT NECTAR AR 291
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Drops of Nectar Fourth Edition A Co
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Swami Chidanand Saraswati,2004, Dro
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Pieces Sent by Others Give, by Kahl
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Thus, in these pages you will find
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INTRODUCTION I have been blessed be
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face, I knew that what He was going
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SEPTEMBER 11, 2001 - ITS MEANING, I
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and that our ears can process the s
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We must look deeper than treaties,
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consumption are raised distinctly d
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those hormones (which are the same
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a great risk of developing infectio
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in the middle of the room, closing
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of everything unto Me, you will be
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attaining God realization. As an an
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Yes, of course, souls can come back
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However, it is crucial to pause and
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take fruit, nuts and milk without l
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with sumptuous, cooked meals prepar
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not, similarly these moral and ethi
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principles and laws. Remember what
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There was once a huge elephant cros
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So, then, the root to success in li
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found not in the acquisition, but r
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poverty to you. But, if you look a
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in a boat to cross the water and sp
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is what is needed. There is a beaut
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MEIN TO KAB SE TERI SHARAN MEIN HUN
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should be a minute to minute, momen
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says, “Bhagwad Gita Kinchidadhita
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KUMBHA MELA - FESTIVAL OF THE NECTA
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than Jayant and they pursued him re
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mother, this means treating her wit
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However, the library is silent. It
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His work is flowing through you, wh
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What do I want out of life? What is
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e to carry a gun to protect himself
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They are the chains of our attachme
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CORPORAL PUNISHMENT Corporal punish
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understand. Instead, she would simp
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There is a story that goes as follo
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Gujaratis marrying Gujaratis, Punja
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We have seen that everyone wants to
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do our sadhana, perform our duties
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THE DANGER OF ANGER There was once
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So many times in life we read spiri
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pathy and charity make us feel like
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