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David Mathew members of staff frightened. Far from reducing them to unproductive emotional jelly, cyberbullying is used as a means of lowering staff morale and robbing employees of belief in themselves and in their skills, which results in the employee working harder to prove his place. Counterintuitively, perhaps, the damage works in a fashion that increases the propensity for taking on extra tasks: to begin with, at least. After a while, the pressure builds, and the victim either crumples or tries to achieve against (deliberately) impossible goals as way of securing his manager's receding favour. The victim's inevitable submission to psychological impacts such as stress, anxiety, a failure of concentration, are used as spurs to induce more work. Physiological impacts such as heart rate increases, blood pressure changes, sweating, shortness of breath, headaches, and so on, are regarded as clear signs that the victim was not the equal of the challenge in the first place. Traditionally cyberbullying has taken the form of threats and intimidation, impersonation, stalking, defamation of character, rejection, and the unauthorised (and unwanted) publication of private material. The workplace cyberbully will not have such tactics at his or her disposal. Something more subtle, and arguably more insidious, must be employed. And while an email written in an exaggeratedly formal style that is completely out of character might not sound like cyberbullying, if the style of such a message is repeated fifteen times a day, from a manager who sits in the same office as the victim, and if the messages are copied to most of the senior management team, the cumulative impact constitutes a case of bullying. For although it is fair to say that bullying in general is a matter of impact and not intent (i.e. if I think I am being bullied then I am being bullied, irrespective of your original intentions), the case in question relied on such techniques to such an extent that the victim believed that nearly everyone had been turned against him through fear of the manager. Increasing anxiety makes the victim feel isolated among his peers. Inadvertently (perhaps), the bystanders of cyberbullying become perpetrators themselves, their collective misdemeanours compounded of ignorance and inaction. Before long it is entirely plausible that these accessories will enjoy the scapegoating of one individual as much as the originator of the offensive material does. The fact that scapegoating is generally interpreted as a defence against psychological distress in groups is therefore pertinent: in a failing team in a ‘poisoned department’, the respite from group anxiety takes the form of making fun of a figure of fresh hatred, whether or not he has done anything to upset anybody. His perceived tolerance of the accumulated ‘jokes’ and rebukes via email (for example) are sufficient provocation to continue. As Wilfred Bion (1961) writes in Experiences in Groups: ‘there is no way in which the individual can, in a group, “do nothing” – not even by doing nothing’ (p118). This is one way of paraphrasing part of Sigmund Freud’s Group Psychology and the Analysis of the Ego (1921), in which Freud explores group formation and the giving up of individual ego ideals for the group ideal. With reference to the emotional homogeneity of cyberbullying, one might argue that something analogous is taking place. Referencing Bion himself, in ‘The unconscious at work in groups and teams’ (1994), Jon Stokes describes such a ‘basic assumption dependency’ team (Bion 1961) perfectly: ‘there is little capability to bear frustration… and quick solutions are favoured… members have lost their capacity to stay in touch with reality and its demands. Other external realities are also ignored or denied… instead of seeking information, the group closes itself off from the outside world and retreats into paranoia. A questioning attitude is impossible; any who dare to do so are regarded as either foolish, mad or heretical’ (p22-23). Thus the question might be begged at this point: is there actually a need for bullying in the workplace? Perhaps the fact that cyberbullying becomes pandemic says more about the group than it does the bully (or the victim). In this case, does cyberbullying serve a function? Perhaps it helps contain workplace anxiety as well as create it? Even if these hypotheses are correct, however, they do not help the victims. And this being said, this is a good point to introduce Rob, who is the victim in the following case. 2. The wolf who cried boy? Rob is a thirty-five year old professional man who was subjected to eighteen months of systematic workplace bullying at an institution for further education. Before the bullying began, he had spent a contented year at the Institution; the change in the working dynamics between Rob and his older female manager changed gradually, from positive to negative, and followed no impetus of which Rob is aware. Not once in the past had Rob experienced problems with a manager. Rob is a hard worker and prides himself of being thought of favourably in the workplace; and while the manager had a reputation of being troubled by the greater intelligence of others, Rob had always assumed that although he was better educated, he and his manager had had a reasonable working relationship. However, as time progressed, the feedback that Rob received from his manager was increasingly 474

David Mathew negative, to the point that not a single thing that Rob completed remained unscathed from the manager’s weak editing skills; and the shift in his manager’s attitudes towards him were confusing. Although the two parties shared an office of twenty employees, and sat no more than five metres from one another, the manager stopped talking to Rob directly, even in team meetings, unless she specifically had to. If Rob asked a question of the manager while in company, the manager either brushed it away or immediately asked Rob a question in return, sometimes the very same question. The manager made fun of Rob when the chance arose, for example referring to his childless status with the comment: ‘He hasn’t even started yet’ when she was discussing children with another manager… Rob became nervous of approaching the manager’s desk: the manager would sometimes make him wait a minute while finishing off an email or a piece of work, pretending that it was inconceivable that she could be interuupted at this crucial moment, even though others had interrupted her in the previous minute. Rob was the only member of the team not to be invited to the pub for occasional drinks after work, or to the Christmas dinner; the only member of the team not to be invited to share an infrequent lunch together in the canteen. When the manager stopped addressing Rob directly and started using email for every communication, Rob was baffled and started to feel anxious. At this point it did not occur to him that this constituted cyberbullying, but he was aware that it was peculiar behaviour (by anyone’s standards) and that it was behaviour that had been reserved for him alone. Before long, every message that the manager sent to Rob was also copied to most of the senior management team; what was worse than the feeling that this action created that he was being ‘watched’ for reasons that he did not understand was the sensation that he experienced that the contents of the messages were becoming increasingly (and deliberately) unclear. Rob believes that the emails were written in such a vague way that he would have no choice but to ask for clarification of the task that he had been given, or even of the topic in question. The clarification would then be seen in any subsequent emails by the same people that were observing the proceedings. After months of this sort of intensive scrutiny, interspersed by entire weeks in which the manager refused to communicate with Rob in any fashion at all, leaving several of his projects in the air, the resultant effect on Rob’s nerves and emotional condition was severe. In the meantime, Rob’s applications for the same training that other members had been accepted for were turned down; although other team members were allowed flexible working conditions, Rob was told that he must report in at 9 a.m. and finish at 5 p.m. – even though the department had long since had a guideline of ‘early in, early home’ or ‘late in, late to leave’ for people with external responsibilities. Up to this point, Rob had always favoured an arrival at work an hour earlier than his colleagues as he had a long commute home. With this new ‘rule’ that was imposed only on him, his working day stretched by an extra three hours as he was no longer able to catch his usual train home and had to wait some time for the next one. After ten months of bullying, Rob went off sick. The treatment drove him to a recourse to medication and a prolonged spell away from work (during which the subject saw more than one message that confirmed that he would not be returning to work, even though he had stated nothing for the kind). He admits to feeling anxious that the department was discussing him; unbeknownst to Rob, his colleagues had been told by his manager not to ‘bother’ him with any messages of goodwill or any Get Well Soon cards. A regular appointment with a counselling service was swiftly arranged via Rob’s G.P. The counsellor, who had worked for this particular NHS Trust, later stated that Rob’s was one of the worst examples of bullying that she had ever seen. And yet, throughout all of this, Rob clung to the vanishing hope that things would eventually get better without any form of legal intervention. It was around this time that Rob started getting texts on his mobile phone from a number that he did not recognise. The messages were unambiguous but nevertheless perplexing: ‘Failure’, ‘Lonely?’, ‘What did you want NOT to talk to me about?’ At first he deleted them, still attempting to convince himself that he was looking at the whole matter incorrectly, and that things would get better soon. He put the texts down to a simple coincidence, and his manager’s former and current silence down to her own pressures in the workplace. (Not once did the manager call Rob to ask after his welfare. He was off sick for nearly a third of a year.) As the texts kept coming, sometimes after midnight, Rob began to suspect that not all was well psychologically and mentally with his manager, and though he knew that steps can be taken to trace a mobile owner’s details, he also knew that the mobile operator can only 475

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members of staff frightened. Far from reducing them to unproductive emotional jelly, cyberbullying is<br />

used as a means of lowering staff morale and robbing employees of belief in themselves and in their<br />

skills, which results in the employee working harder to prove his place. Counterintuitively, perhaps,<br />

the damage works in a fashion that increases the propensity for taking on extra tasks: to begin with, at<br />

least. After a while, the pressure builds, and the victim either crumples or tries to achieve against<br />

(deliberately) impossible goals as way of securing his manager's receding favour. The victim's<br />

inevitable submission to psychological impacts such as stress, anxiety, a failure of concentration, are<br />

used as spurs to induce more work. Physiological impacts such as heart rate increases, blood<br />

pressure changes, sweating, shortness of breath, headaches, and so on, are regarded as clear signs<br />

that the victim was not the equal of the challenge in the first place.<br />

Traditionally cyberbullying has taken the form of threats and intimidation, impersonation, stalking,<br />

defamation of character, rejection, and the unauthorised (and unwanted) publication of private<br />

material. The workplace cyberbully will not have such tactics at his or her disposal. Something more<br />

subtle, and arguably more insidious, must be employed. And while an email written in an<br />

exaggeratedly formal style that is completely out of character might not sound like cyberbullying, if the<br />

style of such a message is repeated fifteen times a day, from a manager who sits in the same office<br />

as the victim, and if the messages are copied to most of the senior management team, the cumulative<br />

impact constitutes a case of bullying. For although it is fair to say that bullying in general is a matter of<br />

impact and not intent (i.e. if I think I am being bullied then I am being bullied, irrespective of your<br />

original intentions), the case in question relied on such techniques to such an extent that the victim<br />

believed that nearly everyone had been turned against him through fear of the manager.<br />

Increasing anxiety makes the victim feel isolated among his peers. Inadvertently (perhaps), the<br />

bystanders of cyberbullying become perpetrators themselves, their collective misdemeanours<br />

compounded of ignorance and inaction. Before long it is entirely plausible that these accessories will<br />

enjoy the scapegoating of one individual as much as the originator of the offensive material does. The<br />

fact that scapegoating is generally interpreted as a defence against psychological distress in groups is<br />

therefore pertinent: in a failing team in a ‘poisoned department’, the respite from group anxiety takes<br />

the form of making fun of a figure of fresh hatred, whether or not he has done anything to upset<br />

anybody. His perceived tolerance of the accumulated ‘jokes’ and rebukes via email (for example) are<br />

sufficient provocation to continue. As Wilfred Bion (1961) writes in Experiences in Groups: ‘there is<br />

no way in which the individual can, in a group, “do nothing” – not even by doing nothing’ (p118).<br />

This is one way of paraphrasing part of Sigmund Freud’s Group Psychology and the Analysis of the<br />

Ego (1921), in which Freud explores group formation and the giving up of individual ego ideals for the<br />

group ideal. With reference to the emotional homogeneity of cyberbullying, one might argue that<br />

something analogous is taking place. Referencing Bion himself, in ‘The unconscious at work in groups<br />

and teams’ (1994), Jon Stokes describes such a ‘basic assumption dependency’ team (Bion 1961)<br />

perfectly: ‘there is little capability to bear frustration… and quick solutions are favoured… members<br />

have lost their capacity to stay in touch with reality and its demands. Other external realities are also<br />

ignored or denied… instead of seeking information, the group closes itself off from the outside world<br />

and retreats into paranoia. A questioning attitude is impossible; any who dare to do so are regarded<br />

as either foolish, mad or heretical’ (p22-23). Thus the question might be begged at this point: is there<br />

actually a need for bullying in the workplace? Perhaps the fact that cyberbullying becomes pandemic<br />

says more about the group than it does the bully (or the victim). In this case, does cyberbullying serve<br />

a function? Perhaps it helps contain workplace anxiety as well as create it? Even if these hypotheses<br />

are correct, however, they do not help the victims. And this being said, this is a good point to<br />

introduce Rob, who is the victim in the following case.<br />

2. The wolf who cried boy?<br />

Rob is a thirty-five year old professional man who was subjected to eighteen months of systematic<br />

workplace bullying at an institution for further education. Before the bullying began, he had spent a<br />

contented year at the Institution; the change in the working dynamics between Rob and his older<br />

female manager changed gradually, from positive to negative, and followed no impetus of which Rob<br />

is aware. Not once in the past had Rob experienced problems with a manager. Rob is a hard worker<br />

and prides himself of being thought of favourably in the workplace; and while the manager had a<br />

reputation of being troubled by the greater intelligence of others, Rob had always assumed that<br />

although he was better educated, he and his manager had had a reasonable working relationship.<br />

However, as time progressed, the feedback that Rob received from his manager was increasingly<br />

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