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Conversations with Avant-garde Sages - The Wizard LLC

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<strong>Conversations</strong> <strong>with</strong> <strong>Avant</strong>-<strong>garde</strong> <strong>Sages</strong><br />

they're at, and most of the time that means buying into their<br />

problem's definition, and working <strong>with</strong> that. I had a patient one<br />

time that was very skilled at helping people back in the '60s. She<br />

did a lot of speed, I mean a lot of LSD, and she said she became<br />

very adept to helping people get out of bad trips. And the way she<br />

did it was by entering into it <strong>with</strong> them, and then gradually talking<br />

them out of it from there. And that’s how it feels to me sometimes<br />

in therapy, I go into the bad trip <strong>with</strong> them, and then I try to<br />

gradually help them take steps towards a better or higher<br />

understanding about it.<br />

TRIP: How old are your kids?<br />

RICHARD YOUNG: My children are grown, they're 32 and 30.<br />

TRIP: Were you able to broach spirituality <strong>with</strong> them, say when<br />

they were in their teens?<br />

RICHARD YOUNG: Yes. We provided our children <strong>with</strong> what we<br />

felt was an important basic starting point, which was we took them<br />

to church, but even as we did that I was I was talking <strong>with</strong> them<br />

about some of these other understandings. I'll never forget one<br />

day when my then younger son, who was probably seven at the<br />

time, came back from Sunday School and he'd gotten in trouble I<br />

think <strong>with</strong> the teacher because he had shared something that the<br />

teacher didn't agree <strong>with</strong>. So he was running it by me, he said,<br />

"Dad, is it true that God loves everybody?" I said, "Yes, I think<br />

that's true, son". He goes, "Well then he must love the devil too".<br />

Of course my head's thinking is this the time to tell him there's no<br />

such thing as the devil, no, probably not. So I resisted the urge<br />

and I said, "Okay, yeah, I guess that's true, I guess God must love<br />

the devil too". He goes, "Okay, fine, that means that the devil will<br />

be in heaven <strong>with</strong> us". And off he went; he had puzzled that<br />

through that nobody gets left out. And then one time I was<br />

teaching a class on comparative religions at the church, the adult<br />

education program, and my then older son who was probably<br />

about 12 or 13 at the time he would sit in on those classes. And I<br />

was talking about the perennial philosophy and I was talking<br />

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