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Conversations with Avant-garde Sages - The Wizard LLC

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<strong>Conversations</strong> <strong>with</strong> <strong>Avant</strong>-<strong>garde</strong> <strong>Sages</strong><br />

getting sucked into identifying whatever the thought form is in a<br />

positive way. And I watch you, you don't do that, you are open,<br />

and clean, and attentive, and you have a smile on your face, but<br />

you don't do that, you don't nod your head and say, yes, or<br />

whatever. That's a very unique way that you do that, and that's a<br />

really powerful way of being.<br />

WIZARD: <strong>The</strong>re is no mental movement in that process.<br />

PETER FENNER: Yes.<br />

TRIP: Okay. <strong>The</strong>n you also, and I think it's worth spending the<br />

time on this, you talk about pure speaking as well, I think that’s<br />

very powerful as well.<br />

PETER FENNER: Yes, in a way there are different types of pure<br />

speaking, but pure speaking for me relates to another concept that<br />

I write about and teach about called ongoing completion, being<br />

complete moment by moment, and not creating residues. So in<br />

our speaking it's easy to say things that it's not necessary for us to<br />

say, and then we create future regrets, like we wish that we hadn't<br />

said things, and then we have to get involved in either processing<br />

it internally, or what I call remedial communication, we have to go<br />

back and fix things up, hey, that's not exactly what I meant, I'm<br />

sorry to have said that, I see that you're offended. We have to get<br />

involved in those conversations that take us back in time and<br />

preclude us continuing just to be in this fresh moment, in the<br />

Now.<br />

So it relates to how to be on-goingly complete, so we don't say<br />

what we don't need to say, and we learn how to listen to the<br />

internal impact of what we're saying in our own minds. So ideally<br />

we don't have to ever think about what we've just been saying, we<br />

just continue to be in the moment, and we don't have to like go get<br />

into history, process what we've said. So that's one aspect of pure<br />

speaking.<br />

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