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Maddalena, was chosen. In this way I came to know the family and Gemma. My stepmother asked me if I<br />

would undertake to teach the children their prayers and catechism. I then began to teach Gemma and her<br />

brother Tonino the catechism, after which I used to bring Gemma to the Church to visit the Blessed<br />

Sacrament and say the Rosary and the other prayers I knew . Nothing seemed as pleasing to Gemma as to<br />

go to the Church to say her prayers. She never grew tired. When she had said an Our Father, Hail Mary and<br />

Glory be to the Father in honour <strong>of</strong> her Angel Guardian, she used to turn to me and say, "To whom should I<br />

pray now?" If I told her a pious story she always wanted another one and said repeatedly, " Tell me more, tell<br />

me more." Although so very young, when she was in the Church she always remained kneeling with her<br />

hands joined, and she was quite recollected.'<br />

The evidence <strong>of</strong> the Vallini sisters completes the picture <strong>of</strong> Gemma and her family, given by Elisa Galgani<br />

and Isabella Bastiani.<br />

‘Our family had a villa and some property in the neighborhood <strong>of</strong> Porcari about six miles from Lucca, and in<br />

consequence we formed a close friendship with Carlo Galgani, the district doctor. On the Feast <strong>of</strong> St. Michael<br />

to whom our Church was dedicated, he and his wife and children used to dine with us, and we returned the<br />

visits. In the course <strong>of</strong> time Carlo Galgani's son, Enrico, came to live at Lucca, and knowing that we kept a<br />

school there, with his wife's consent willingly entrusted to us his five little children, the second <strong>of</strong> whom was<br />

Gemma, then not more than two years <strong>of</strong> age.' [Elisa Galgani said that Gemma was three years <strong>of</strong> age when<br />

she first went to school, and since she was usually most exact in her statement she is not likely to be wrong<br />

on this occasion.]<br />

Even at this tender age Gemma had reached the use <strong>of</strong> reason and her intellect was prematurely developed.<br />

We could teach her prayers that lasted twenty-five minutes without her ever growing tired. At five she could<br />

read the Breviary like an experienced person. She was assiduous at her work and learned all that was taught<br />

to her. She was loved by all her companions for these good qualities. All the time she was with us, we had no<br />

occasion to punish her; a word <strong>of</strong> repro<strong>of</strong> was enough for the defects inseparable from her age. Her two<br />

brothers and two sisters were with her at school, but never once was she known to be angry with them. She<br />

allowed them to select the best fruit, and at dinner she was always contented, whatever she had, the smile<br />

that played on her lips being the only sign that she was pleased or displeased.'<br />

EARLY GROWTH IN HOLINESS<br />

If Gemma's good qualities were pleasing to all who knew her, they were certainly a source <strong>of</strong> great<br />

consolation to her parents. To her father she was , the light <strong>of</strong> his eyes.' He seemed unable to do without her,<br />

his first question on returning home always being: 'Where's Gemma?' He used to say that he had only two<br />

children, Gemma and Gino. Gino was two years older than Gemma and was her rival in virtue. Of him<br />

Gemma wrote in her Autobiography: 'I really loved him more than all the others, and we were always<br />

together. During the holidays we used to amuse ourselves by making little altars. . . .' [Autobiographia, p, 26]<br />

Enrico Galgani's preference for his eldest daughter reminds one <strong>of</strong> the particular affection between St<br />

Therese <strong>of</strong> Lisieux and her father. Her clothes had to come from the best shops. She very frequently<br />

accompanied him and whenever they were in the city at the dinner hour, it was made evident that in his<br />

opinion the best hotel was her due.<br />

This favoritism did not altogether please her: she seems to have recognized the friction and jealousy it might<br />

cause. 'Am I your only child? ' she asked her father one day. 'I love all the children,' he answered, 'but<br />

remember, you are my eldest daughter.' When he took her on his knees to caress her, she used to break<br />

away from him crying: , Papa, do not touch me.' 'But I am your father,' he would expostulate. ' Yes, Papa, but<br />

I do not want anyone to touch me.' Enrico, puzzled but not displeased, used to say: ' I wonder what will<br />

become <strong>of</strong> my Gemma! '<br />

So great indeed was her objection to being touched in any way by anyone that she even preferred to wash<br />

herself rather than permit her Aunt Elisa to do so. Once, when she was only six or seven, a cousin who came<br />

on horseback to deliver a parcel at her home, paid dearly for trying to kiss her, as she ran to take the parcel<br />

from him. He held her outstretched hand and bent down to caress her, but she repulsed him so violently that<br />

he lost his balance and, falling <strong>of</strong>f the horse, hurt himself. Gemma was punished for this conduct by having<br />

her hands tied behind her back for a whole day.<br />

Her mother's love, though not less tender, was certainly more solid. She, too, preferred Gemma. Was she<br />

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