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CHAPTER 5. MONKEY MOUNTAIN<br />
talk about your grandchildren, because we are all grandmo<strong>the</strong>rs. Third, never talk about jewelry,<br />
because we all have precious jewelry purchased from <strong>the</strong> best of places, and fourthly, never talk<br />
about sex – what was, was!<br />
But everybody wants to talk about himself, his mink coats, his jewelry, his children, his sex. And<br />
everybody bores everybody else. And if you tolerate bores, you tolerate <strong>the</strong>m only because it is<br />
a mutual understanding: if he is boring you he will allow himself to be bored by you. You are just<br />
waiting – when he stops his display, you can start your own. And <strong>the</strong> whole of life be<strong>com</strong>es a false,<br />
a continued display. What do you achieve through it? Just a false feeling that you are important,<br />
extraordinary.<br />
How can one be<strong>com</strong>e extraordinary by having mink coats? How can one be<strong>com</strong>e extraordinary<br />
by owning valuable jewelry? How can one be<strong>com</strong>e extraordinary by doing this or that?<br />
Extraordinariness is not concerned with what you do, it is concerned with what you are. And you are<br />
already extraordinary, everyone is unique, <strong>the</strong>re is no need to prove it. If you try to prove it, you will<br />
just prove <strong>the</strong> opposite. If something is already <strong>the</strong> case, how can you prove it? If you try to prove it<br />
you simply show that you are not aware of <strong>the</strong> uniqueness that has already happened to you.<br />
So if you want to prove something it shows that you are doubtful about it. You want to destroy your<br />
doubt through o<strong>the</strong>rs’ eyes, through <strong>the</strong>ir opinions. You are not really convinced of your beautiful<br />
person, you would like o<strong>the</strong>rs to say that you are beautiful.<br />
In a small village it was <strong>the</strong> custom of <strong>the</strong> village priest that whenever he married somebody he<br />
would kiss <strong>the</strong> bride. It was an old tradition. One woman who was going to be married was very<br />
concerned. She thought herself very beautiful, as every woman does. It is womanly, it is nothing<br />
new. Really, every woman thinks so – even <strong>the</strong> ugliest. She thought herself very beautiful and she<br />
was very concerned and worried. She said again and again to <strong>the</strong> would-be husband, to <strong>the</strong> groom:<br />
Go and tell <strong>the</strong> priest that I don’t want to be kissed after <strong>the</strong> marriage.<br />
Just before <strong>the</strong> marriage, she again asked <strong>the</strong> groom: Have you been to <strong>the</strong> priest and told him?<br />
The groom very sadly said: Yes. The bride asked: Why are you so sad? The groom said: I told <strong>the</strong><br />
priest and he was very happy. He said: ’In that case I will charge only half <strong>the</strong> usual fee.’<br />
You may go on thinking yourself a beautiful person but nobody thinks that way about you because<br />
everybody is concerned with his own beauty, not with yours. And if anybody nods and says, ’Yes,<br />
you are beautiful’, he or she is just waiting for you to nod about his or her beauty. It is a mutual<br />
bargain: You fulfill my ego, I fulfill yours. I know well that you are not beautiful, you know well that I<br />
am not beautiful, but I fulfill your ego, so you fulfill mine.<br />
And everybody seems to have such a need to feel unique. That means you have not <strong>com</strong>e upon your<br />
own being which is unique without any need of proof. Proofs are needed only for lies – remember.<br />
That is why you cannot prove God – because he is <strong>the</strong> ultimate truth. Proofs are needed only for<br />
lies, truth needs no proof; it is – simply it is.<br />
And I tell you that you are unique, extraordinary. Don’t try to be so, it is ridiculous, you simply<br />
be<strong>com</strong>e a laughing stock and everybody smiles when you turn your back. If you are not convinced<br />
about your uniqueness who is going to be convinced about it? Conviction is beyond proof. And how<br />
does it <strong>com</strong>e? It <strong>com</strong>es through self knowledge.<br />
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