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CHAPTER 3. FLIGHT FROM THE SHADOW<br />
For example, if you feel angry, what will you do? The mind will say: Don’t be angry, take a vow.<br />
What will you do? You will suppress it and <strong>the</strong> more you suppress, <strong>the</strong> more <strong>the</strong> anger will move<br />
to <strong>the</strong> very roots of your being. Then you will not be sometimes angry and sometimes not angry;<br />
if you have suppressed too much you will be continuously angry, it will be<strong>com</strong>e your blood, it will<br />
be a poison all over. It will spread into all your relationships. Even if you are in love with someone,<br />
<strong>the</strong> anger will be <strong>the</strong>re and <strong>the</strong> love will be<strong>com</strong>e violent. Even if you try to help somebody, in that<br />
help <strong>the</strong>re will be poison because <strong>the</strong> poison is in you. And all your acts will carry it, <strong>the</strong>y will reflect<br />
you. <strong>When</strong> you feel this again, <strong>the</strong> mind will say: You have not been suppressing enough, suppress<br />
more. But anger is <strong>the</strong>re because of suppression, and <strong>the</strong> mind says: Suppress it more! Then <strong>the</strong>re<br />
will be more anger.<br />
Your mind is sexual because of suppression and <strong>the</strong> mind says: Suppress it more. Find new<br />
methods, and ways and means to suppress it more so BRAHMACHARYA will flower. But it cannot<br />
flower that way. Through suppression sex not only goes into <strong>the</strong> body, it goes into <strong>the</strong> mind, it<br />
be<strong>com</strong>es cerebral. Then a person goes on thinking about it, again and again. Hence so much<br />
pornographic literature in <strong>the</strong> world.<br />
Why do people like to see pictures of naked women? Are women not enough? They are, <strong>the</strong>y are<br />
more than enough! So what is <strong>the</strong> need? The picture is always more sexual than a real woman. A<br />
real woman has a body and a shadow, and her footsteps will be <strong>the</strong>re, and sound will be created. A<br />
photograph is a dream, it is absolutely mental, cerebral, and it has no shadow.<br />
A real woman will perspire and <strong>the</strong>re will be a smell of <strong>the</strong> body; a picture never perspires, and <strong>the</strong>re<br />
is no smell of <strong>the</strong> body. A real woman will be angry; a picture is never angry. A real woman will age,<br />
will be<strong>com</strong>e old; a picture always remains young and fresh. A picture is just mental. Those who<br />
suppress sex in <strong>the</strong> body be<strong>com</strong>e mentally sexual. Then <strong>the</strong>ir mind moves in sexuality, and <strong>the</strong>n it<br />
is a disease.<br />
If you feel hungry it is okay, eat But if you think about food continuously <strong>the</strong>n it is an obsession and<br />
a disease. <strong>When</strong> you feel hungry it is okay if you eat and are finished with it. But you are never<br />
finished with anything, and everything goes into <strong>the</strong> mind.<br />
Mulla Nasrudin’s wife was ill and she had been operated on. A few days earlier she had <strong>com</strong>e back<br />
home from <strong>the</strong> hospital, so I asked: How is your wife? Has she recovered from <strong>the</strong> operation? He<br />
said: No, she is still talking about it. If you are thinking about something, talking about something, it<br />
is <strong>the</strong>re. And now it is more dangerous because <strong>the</strong> body will recover, but <strong>the</strong> mind can go on and<br />
on and on – ad infinitum. The body may recover, but <strong>the</strong> mind will never recover.<br />
If you suppress hunger in <strong>the</strong> body, it goes into <strong>the</strong> mind. The problem has not been thrown out, it<br />
has been pushed in. Suppress anything and it goes to <strong>the</strong> roots. Then <strong>the</strong> mind will say that if you<br />
are not succeeding, something is wrong you are not making enough effort. Make more effort.<br />
THE METHOD HE HIT UPON WAS TO RUN AWAY FROM THEM.<br />
Mind has only two alternatives, fight or flight. <strong>When</strong>ever <strong>the</strong>re is a problem, <strong>the</strong> mind says ei<strong>the</strong>r<br />
fight it, or escape from it. And both are wrong. If you fight, you remain with <strong>the</strong> problem. If you<br />
fight, <strong>the</strong> problem will be <strong>the</strong>re continuously. If you fight, you are divided, because <strong>the</strong> problem is<br />
<strong>When</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Shoe</strong> <strong>Fits</strong> 38 Osho