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A Dissertation by GRACE HUI-CHIN LIN Submitted to the Office of ...

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About <strong>the</strong> <strong>to</strong>pic avoidance strategy, it was a valuable strategy. However, it<br />

was important <strong>to</strong> find smaller <strong>to</strong>pics within a big scope. I did not think it was<br />

a good idea <strong>to</strong> change <strong>the</strong> main <strong>to</strong>pic <strong>to</strong>tally. We should find <strong>the</strong> related <strong>to</strong>pics<br />

and continue <strong>to</strong> talk, but not delete <strong>the</strong> <strong>to</strong>pic and discover a whole new one.<br />

We should discuss with our interlocu<strong>to</strong>rs a certain <strong>to</strong>pic thoroughly and<br />

finally tacitly agree that <strong>the</strong> <strong>to</strong>pic should go <strong>to</strong> an end.<br />

Jian Guo conveyed that selecting <strong>the</strong> right <strong>to</strong>pics in <strong>the</strong> beginning was a way <strong>to</strong><br />

prevent changing <strong>to</strong>pics:<br />

Selecting <strong>the</strong> right subjects <strong>to</strong> discuss was a good method because <strong>the</strong> <strong>to</strong>pic<br />

would not be changed. For example, I was interested in a Canadian musician,<br />

Mat<strong>the</strong>w Lien, who collected sounds <strong>of</strong> animals and natures in his album. If I<br />

talked about him with my friends from literature or art majors, <strong>the</strong>y should be<br />

interested in talking with me. However, if I mentioned this <strong>to</strong>pic <strong>to</strong> students<br />

from science majors, <strong>the</strong>y would be less motivated in talking with me.<br />

It was crucial <strong>to</strong> identify our partners’ backgrounds and experiences in order<br />

<strong>to</strong> select <strong>the</strong> fitting <strong>to</strong>pics during communication. I felt much more secure<br />

when talking about <strong>the</strong> right <strong>to</strong>pics and <strong>the</strong> right subjects. I knew <strong>the</strong> <strong>to</strong>pic<br />

should not be modified, and it could be continued <strong>by</strong> my partners. Selecting a<br />

right <strong>to</strong>pic in <strong>the</strong> very beginning became more appropriate than changing <strong>the</strong><br />

<strong>to</strong>pic in <strong>the</strong> middle <strong>of</strong> communication.<br />

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