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A Dissertation by GRACE HUI-CHIN LIN Submitted to the Office of ...

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this happened very frequently, I perceived losing my face in front <strong>of</strong> my<br />

classmates.<br />

Jiun Sheng perceived losing face when he could not answer his classmate’s question.<br />

Jiun Sheng believed that most Taiwanese males would have <strong>the</strong> same face problem as<br />

he stated:<br />

Taiwanese males should have a very strong sense <strong>of</strong> self-respect. Hence,<br />

many <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>m did not like <strong>to</strong> ask <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>rs questions. They did not like <strong>to</strong><br />

have an impression that <strong>the</strong>y need <strong>to</strong> rely on <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>rs. For me, I preferred<br />

asking my teachers questions instead <strong>of</strong> asking my peers. I was not sure if my<br />

peers could give me a right answer when I appealed for assistance from <strong>the</strong>m.<br />

Therefore, I would appeal for assistance only from people whom I trusted.<br />

Jiun Sheng recounted what were <strong>the</strong> important characteristics that he needed <strong>to</strong><br />

maintain when taking a male role:<br />

I needed <strong>to</strong> talk more like a man. My speaking <strong>to</strong>ne needed <strong>to</strong> be stable and<br />

firm. The voice needed <strong>to</strong> be much louder than a woman. I should not argue<br />

for <strong>the</strong> trivial disagreements. Also, I tended not <strong>to</strong> impose a difficult task on<br />

my interlocu<strong>to</strong>rs, especially female partners.<br />

Jiun Sheng described why he intended <strong>to</strong> build a powerful male impression during<br />

talking; Jiun Sheng emphasized that he would not appeal for assistance, especially<br />

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