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BEHAVIORAL SCIENCES - Universitatea de Medicină şi Farmacie

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conversations at the same time, and frequent interruption by other speakerlisteners).<br />

The way of using the time language is correlated with:<br />

- time precision<br />

The time is something precious and personal and when somebody<br />

tries to organize out time it shows the status difference. To come in time or<br />

not to meeting shows the attitu<strong>de</strong> of the interlocutor in regards of the<br />

speaker or the subject, perception of the status and power, the respect and<br />

importance paid. The more people are ma<strong>de</strong> to wait, the more they feel<br />

humble and disrespected.<br />

In different cultures the punctuality means different times to come<br />

to a meeting or appointment. In some countries like China and Japan,<br />

punctuality is consi<strong>de</strong>red important and being late would be consi<strong>de</strong>red as<br />

an insult. However, in countries such as those of South America and the<br />

Middle East, being on time does not carry the same sense of urgency.<br />

Americans come earlier in or<strong>de</strong>r to accommodate themselves to<br />

the space and prepare for the discussion. British and Swedish come exactly<br />

in time in or<strong>de</strong>r to prove efficient time management, French come a little<br />

later in or<strong>de</strong>r to make the interlocutor a little nervous to be easier to<br />

manipulate.<br />

Thus the time language can be used consciously or not to control<br />

and subdue or to communicate respect and interest.<br />

- time lack<br />

The time is perceived as a personal scarce recourse therefore the<br />

way how the person allocates it to another person who requires a part of<br />

this recourse shows the attitu<strong>de</strong> of the subject regarding the <strong>de</strong>man<strong>de</strong>r.<br />

Miss-allocation of time for communication with a person is consi<strong>de</strong>red as<br />

miss- allocation of importance. Some sociological researches proved that a<br />

positive communication relation is built in direct proportion with the<br />

frequency.<br />

- time as symbol<br />

This aspect is related to certain usuality, like rhythm (for example<br />

we eat three times a day at a certain hour). Similarly seasons impose some<br />

certain activities and a certain life style. Holydays and rituals also are<br />

marked in time. Thus businessmen know that in the period of winter<br />

holidays people spend more money and work less.<br />

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