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this knowledge. Widow's, for example, shouldbe helped through logotherapy to find<br />

meaning in their suffering. They are temporarily in an existential vacuum.<br />

Levinson (1989) says that bereavement is not a mental disorder, rather it is a psycho­<br />

logically normal process oftransition and an opportunity to discovernew meanings.<br />

Onlywhenbereavement is prolonged, beyond what in a givensociety is considered<br />

as normal and prevents the individual from getting back to life, can we speak of<br />

depression. This situation necessitates a changeofattitude and this is where<br />

modification of attitudes can assist the sufferer.<br />

To find meaning in suffering, peoplemust transcendthemselves, detach themselves<br />

from theirpredicament and change their attitudestoward death, bereavement and<br />

self Rising above and beyond ourselves leads toward new meanings, goals and use<br />

ofpotential noeticpower inherent in all ofus. Thus, widows can be helped to turn<br />

their predicament into personaltriumph by usingtheir will to meaning to get out of<br />

their existential vacuum. This means that once people have taken responsibility for<br />

their own"situations", the healing process gets on its way.<br />

Identifying with their symptoms means-believing in a negative and unhealthy attitude<br />

to life. Thereis always the dangeroffixation on the symptom and the more one is<br />

fixated, the more it is difficult to break out ofthe vicious circle and gain distance<br />

from the symptom. The role ofthe logotherapist, Franklhas said, is to widen and<br />

broadenthe visual field ofthe patient so that the whole spectrum ofmeaningand<br />

valuesbecomesconscious and visible to him (Frankl1962:110 & Guttmann 1996:<br />

126). This means that the task ofthe therapistis to assist the client/patient in such a<br />

way that there can be a change in the attitudesand/orbehaviorofthe one who needs<br />

help.<br />

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