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Interviewing a Home Grown Ballet<br />

Celebrity: Alexis Branagan Interviews<br />

Stephen Campanella.<br />

What first attracted you to ballet and<br />

to Princeton Ballet School?<br />

At the age of 2, I saw a video of<br />

Baryshnikov dancing in The Nutcracker<br />

and was immediately captivated. I went<br />

to a local dance school at 3, and the<br />

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When did you begin performing in<br />

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I grew up in West Windsor and<br />

started performing in ARB’s Nutcracker<br />

at age 5. Over my childhood years, I was<br />

a mouse, the youngest boy in the party<br />

scene, and Fritz, Clara’s obnoxious<br />

younger brother; the last of those suited<br />

me perfectly. (Now he dances the role of<br />

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It is said that practice makes perfect,<br />

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In what ways do you think ARB’s Nutcracker<br />

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The Nutcracker forms a uniquely<br />

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origins of the story and the Franco-Russian<br />

origins of the ballet. Almost everywhere<br />

else in the world, The Nutcracker<br />

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ballet company’s repertory; only here is<br />

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4 THE JOURNAL NOVEMBER <strong>2012</strong><br />

MONMOUTH COUNTY EDITIONS<br />

The Colts Neck Journal<br />

The Holmdel Journal<br />

The Navesink Area Journal<br />

(Including Atlantic Highlands, Fair Haven, Lincroft, Little Silver, Locust,<br />

Middletown, Red Bank, Rumson, Shrewsbury, & Sea Bright)<br />

MERCER AND MIDDLESEX COUNTY EDITIONS<br />

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The Journal of South Brunswick<br />

(Including Kendall Park, Dayton, and Monmouth Junction)<br />

Vice President/General Manager Josh Gertzog<br />

Art Director (Monmouth) Debra McKenna<br />

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Mercer/Middlesex Editor Lori Draz<br />

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Robin Fields Jill Goldbach<br />

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Les Pierce MaryAnn Miano<br />

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Maria Prato<br />

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We Will Never Forget<br />

Each month, I use this column to extol the virtues of The<br />

Journal. This month, it’s a little different, because of a<br />

<strong>Nov</strong>ember event coming up. On <strong>Nov</strong>ember 6, <strong>2012</strong>, I<br />

am going to be doing something that even surpasses reading The<br />

Journal:<br />

Voting.<br />

To some of you, this is a “no brainer.” You<br />

vote in every election, you feel that it’s important<br />

to have your voice heard, and you are proud of<br />

the fact that you have the right to vote in<br />

“land of the free.”<br />

Some of you never vote. You<br />

say “nothing’s going to change,” or<br />

“the candidates are the same,” or,<br />

in some cases, “my vote just<br />

doesn’t matter.” I also hear a lot of<br />

“I don’t have time.”<br />

I have always subscribed to the theory<br />

that if you don’t vote, you lose your right to complain. And since<br />

almost everyone likes to complain, I think it makes sense to vote.<br />

So that’s the easy part. However, do you encourage your<br />

friends and family to vote? What if you know they have different<br />

opinions than you? Do you encourage them in that case?<br />

That’s a little harder. If you are voting for candidate A and<br />

you know your friend favors candidate B, do you still encourage<br />

them to vote? My answer is “yes.” As contrary as that may sound,<br />

I am more concerned about getting as many people as possible<br />

to vote than I am about who gets elected.<br />

The partisanship that pervades our country now makes this<br />

almost a crazy thought. We look at “the other candidate” as almost<br />

anti-American. Yet the fact that he or she is a candidate is<br />

exactly what makes them American. They are part of a free election,<br />

where majority actually rules. You can make your voice<br />

known by voting for one candidate or the other.<br />

Here’s my strategy on picking a candidate to vote for:<br />

1) Be selfish. Which candidates will fight for legislation that<br />

will help me as an individual?<br />

2) Be selfless. Which candidates will fight for legislation<br />

that will benefit the most people?<br />

3) Think about the past. What has worked in the past, and<br />

what might work again?<br />

4) Think about the future. What has changed in our society<br />

that makes the past obsolete no matter how attractive returning<br />

to those days might be?<br />

5) Go with your gut. After these other steps, picking the candidate<br />

is still an emotional choice. Do your homework,<br />

make some educated choices…but then go with what<br />

you feel is “right.” It will be a choice you can live with.<br />

But most importantly, vote. No matter what you think about<br />

the individual candidates of either…or both…major parties, not<br />

casting your vote is a true insult to those who fought to make this<br />

country great. Don’t insult them…and yourself…by staying out<br />

of the fray.<br />

See you at the polls on <strong>Nov</strong>ember 6.<br />

Josh Gertzog<br />

October <strong>2012</strong>


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THE JOURNAL NOVEMBER <strong>2012</strong> 7<br />

APOLLO LODGE #41 - CORNERSTONE LAYING CEREMONY<br />

By Annie Gonzales<br />

The Hightstown Apollo Masonic Lodge, also known as the<br />

Apollo Lodge #41, led by Worshipful Master Earl C.<br />

Groendyke, conducted their Cornerstone Installation on<br />

October 7. Many were in attendance, including Hightstown Mayor<br />

Steven Kirson and Grand Master of Masons, Most Worshipful Glenn<br />

R. Trautman. The procession was led by Grand Marshal RW Arnold<br />

T. ”Butch” Elliot.<br />

The cornerstone was donated by Corbin Steel and Stone. Engraving<br />

was done by A.L. Duryee & Son, a division of Sutphen Memorials,<br />

and the document box was provided by Michael Sheenan.<br />

Also in attendance were members of the Grange, Hightstown-<br />

East Windsor Lions Club, Rocky Brook Garden Club, and the Hightstown<br />

Bridge Commission. Wonderful live music was provided by<br />

Lauren and Katrina Bragat. For more information on the Apollo<br />

Lodge #41, visit www.nj-freemasons.org.<br />

Dignitaries assemble<br />

Procession Grand Master<br />

Allan White, Glenn R. Trautman,<br />

Earl C. Groendyke<br />

Symbolically applying cement<br />

Glenn R. Trautman, Earl C. Groendyke,<br />

Mayor Steven Kirson<br />

Plaque is placed<br />

Ceremony begins<br />

CRANBURY PUBLIC LIBRARY<br />

FOUNDATION REACHES $1<br />

MILLION MILESTONE<br />

The Cranbury Public Library Foundation reached a milestone<br />

in its capital campaign to raise funds for a new building.<br />

“We have officially crossed the million dollar mark in<br />

funds pledged and saved,” announced Foundation President Patricia<br />

Thomsson. “Residents are coming together as a philanthropic group<br />

to make this happen. About 70 individuals, families, groups, and<br />

businesses have contributed to the campaign so far, sending a message<br />

that Cranbury needs a new public library!”<br />

With two generous pledges committed in the same week, one<br />

from the Friends of the Cranbury Public Library and the other from<br />

1st Constitution Bank (of Cranbury), the funds for the project total<br />

$1,020,000 of the $3.2 million needed to build a new community<br />

library. The township has also shown its support by designating the<br />

land for the new building. In addition, the township committee<br />

passed a resolution endorsing the Foundation’s efforts.<br />

Kirstie Venanzi, Cranbury Public Library Foundation Campaign<br />

Chair, said, “With this project we have a chance to do what Andrew<br />

Carnegie called real and permanent good for our town.“<br />

Lorraine Sedor, acting president of the Friends of the Cranbury<br />

Public Library, said “The Friends support the library’s mission of providing<br />

excellent library service to the residents of our town.”<br />

More than a decade ago, when the Friends group was chartered,<br />

our goal was to augment the Library’s already outstanding array of<br />

offerings. Everyone who has ever stopped by our used book sales,<br />

continued on page 15<br />

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HICKORY CORNER<br />

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Remember that best-seller<br />

you’ve been meaning to read<br />

or give as a gift? Now’s the<br />

time to get it! The Friends of the Hickory<br />

Corner Library, Inc., will be holding their<br />

fall book sale on Thursday, Saturday, and<br />

Sunday, <strong>Nov</strong>ember 15, 17, and 18, at the<br />

library at 138 Hickory Corner Road, in East Windsor.<br />

The opening two hours on Thursday, from 4:00 p.m. to 6:00<br />

p.m. will be open for members of the Friends of the Hickory Corner<br />

Library only. Then the general public will be welcomed for the rest<br />

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Browse through hundreds of new and gently-used adult, young<br />

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$1.50, and paperbacks are 50 cents to $1.00. Young adult and children’s<br />

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Proceeds are used to purchase new materials for the library and<br />

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THE JOURNAL NOVEMBER <strong>2012</strong> 9<br />

EW SCHOOL DISTRICT BOARD OF<br />

ED MEETING SEPTEMBER 24<br />

By Annie Gonzales<br />

Former Board Member Susan Lloyd was recognized at the September<br />

24 East Windsor School District Board of Education<br />

Meeting. Opening remarks were given by Superintendent Edward<br />

Forsthoffer, who described Lloyd as a “very diligent board member<br />

and consummate professional.” Board President Robert Laverty<br />

thanked Lloyd for 10 years of service on the board, “including the<br />

most tumultuous years ever seen.” Lloyd was then presented a plaque<br />

in grateful recognition of service from 2002 to <strong>2012</strong>.<br />

Lloyd thanked the members of the board. “I am proud of what<br />

the district has become.” She said her hard work was, “done all for<br />

the students. I am grateful to all for the support for the last two years.”<br />

Seven members of the district’s Transportation Department received<br />

special recognition for Perfect Attendance. Transportation Supervisor<br />

Ingrid Reitano stated, ”It takes true dedication. They’re at<br />

work before the lights are on and they’re the first people the children<br />

see.” The Perfect Attendance recipients were:<br />

Emmanuel Babin – Bus Driver<br />

Charles Burt – Bus Driver<br />

Karen De Angelis – Van Attendant<br />

Dianna Moore – Driver<br />

William Power – Bus Driver<br />

Jean Prophete – Bus Driver<br />

Donna Sweeney– Bus Driver<br />

Nine district staff members received special recognition for 25<br />

Years of Service. The recipients were introduced by their fellow teachers.<br />

Gayle Parker, Rogers School Principal, honored Mary Christensen<br />

of Grace N. Rogers Elementary School. Principal Parker said that<br />

Christensen, “created a safe, caring, and all-inclusive child-centered<br />

environment.” Principal Parker said it was an honor to work with a<br />

dedicated professional who is passionate about education.<br />

Principal Parker also honored Mary Ann Wherley of Grace N.<br />

Rogers Elementary School. “She is consistently recognized by all administrators<br />

as dedicated, enthusiastic, cooperative, and committed.”<br />

Lori Stein, Melvin H. Kreps Middle School Principal, honored Ellen<br />

Gertel of Kreps Middle School. “Ellen promotes well-being of the<br />

school community; she continues to be a compassionate counselor.”<br />

Principal Stein also honored Harold Cox of Kreps. “His love and<br />

passion for teaching science has inspired students. He remains current<br />

and incorporates new strategies. He inspires in science, and on the<br />

mat as the Wrestling Coach.”<br />

Robert Dias, Perry L. Drew School Principal, honored Lynn Marie<br />

Churchman of Perry L. Drew Elementary School. Churchman taught<br />

third and fourth grade and special education. Principal Dias said that<br />

Churchman “loves helping the children reach their best potential possible.”<br />

She was described as a “passionate gardener,” and she helped<br />

build the Drew School garden. “The result is a wonderful garden that<br />

is still up today,” Principal Dias said.<br />

Alix Arvizu, Hightstown High School Principal, honored Dr.<br />

David Williams of Hightstown High School. Principal Arvizu described<br />

Dr. Williams as “enthusiastically sharing his love for literature.<br />

He has an excellent rapport with students.”<br />

Tekalah Sherrod, Director of Student Services for the district, honored<br />

Iris Landau of Student Services. Sherrod described Landau as<br />

supporting students’ growth for independence and self-advocacy.”<br />

Also receiving awards for 25 Years of Service were Trudy Heisler in<br />

Administration and Maria Rodriguez of Grace N. Rogers Elementary<br />

School. Both were unable to attend the evening’s award presentation.<br />

Board Member Christine Harrington acknowledged the passing<br />

of Jacques A. “Doudou” Chancy, Music Teacher at Grace N. Rogers El-<br />

ementary School. Chancy passed away on September 16, from a heart<br />

attack. Board members described Chancy as a “beloved teacher”.<br />

Superintendent Forsthoffer said that the district received crisis<br />

management training last year to prepare for any unfortunate events.<br />

Superintendent Forsthoffer explained that they did not use the<br />

Chancy’s classroom for the first half of the day after the loss. They<br />

brought in a teacher to fill in, one who had worked in the school distrtict<br />

before. Students received counseling and he said that the staff<br />

and students were excellent.<br />

In lengthy discussion was the policy on Home Schooling and<br />

Equivalent Education Outside the Schools, also called Policy 5270.<br />

Board members posed questions on policy language. They also discussed<br />

policy for the appropriate intervention of the Superintendent<br />

when they receive reports of homeschooled children not receiving an<br />

education. Discussions of this policy will be continued at the next<br />

scheduled Board of Education meeting.<br />

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As the country looks<br />

ahead to next<br />

month’s presidential<br />

elections, this month’s Day<br />

Trip takes a look back at the<br />

lifestyle of a former president,<br />

Franklin Delano Roosevelt,<br />

and his hometown of<br />

Hyde Park, New York.<br />

Located in the northwest<br />

portion of Dutchess<br />

County, just north of Poughkeepsie,<br />

the town is the site<br />

of the FDR estate called<br />

Springwood, now officially<br />

named the Home of Franklin<br />

D. Roosevelt National Historic<br />

Site, which is maintained<br />

by the National Park<br />

Service. Once Roosevelt’s<br />

birthplace and lifelong residence<br />

where he often<br />

hosted distinguished guests<br />

from around the world, the<br />

house is now a popular museum<br />

that offers guests a<br />

glimpse into the wealthy and privileged upbringing<br />

of the future Democratic president. The Franklin<br />

D. Roosevelt Presidential Library and Museum,<br />

America’s first presidential library and the only one<br />

used by a sitting president, is also here in Hyde<br />

Park and is operated by the National Archives. It<br />

houses a vast collection of his personal papers,<br />

books, memorabilia, and other items assembled<br />

from a lifetime of public service. Both the 32nd<br />

U.S. President and his wife, Eleanor Roosevelt, are<br />

buried at Springwood, in the estate’s rose garden.<br />

The Home of Franklin D. Roosevelt National<br />

Historic Site is open all year, seven days a week (except<br />

Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s Day)<br />

from 9:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. Visitors are only able<br />

to see the Federal-style home itself by guided tour,<br />

but the expansive grounds, trails, and picturesque<br />

gardens are free and open from sunrise to sunset<br />

daily. The FDR Presidential Library and Museum,<br />

also included with admission to the estate, offers<br />

self-guided tours.<br />

Your visit will usually begin at the Henry A.<br />

Wallace Visitor and Education Center, where you<br />

(TOP LEFT) “Springwood,” The Home of Franklin D. Roosevelt National Historic Site<br />

(TOP RIGHT) Top Cottage (BOTTOM LEFT) A statue of President Franklin D. Roosevelt<br />

and his wife Eleanor greet guests arriving at the visitor center.<br />

(BOTTOM RIGHT) Vanderbilt Mansion National Historic Site<br />

can watch an introductory film and arrange for both<br />

the guided tours of the historic home – led by<br />

knowledgeable National Park Rangers – and selfguided<br />

tours of the library and museum. At the<br />

easternmost edge of the 300-acre estate is Top Cottage,<br />

a smaller, Dutch colonial-style home that Roosevelt<br />

built as a quiet retreat from the bustle of<br />

Springwood and where he would invite close friends<br />

and political allies to spend time with him. Top Cottage<br />

is open from May through October and is also<br />

available for tours, with shuttles departing from the<br />

visitor center. Val-Kill, a modest structure about two<br />

miles away, was used by Eleanor Roosevelt for her<br />

personal work and became her home after the president’s<br />

death. It is the only National Historic Site<br />

dedicated to a first lady. It is also open for guided<br />

tours from May through October, with the grounds<br />

open year-round from sunrise to sunset.<br />

Visitors are generally advised to plan a minimum<br />

of two and a half hours to tour Springwood, and another<br />

two hours to see Top Cottage. An additional<br />

90 minutes is suggested to devote to Val-Kill.<br />

The historic town of Hyde Park also includes<br />

HYDE PARK, NEW YORK<br />

By Joanne Colella<br />

other notable sites, one of<br />

the most impressive being<br />

the neighboring Vanderbilt<br />

Mansion National Historic<br />

Site. Established as a monument<br />

to an entire era – the<br />

so-called Gilded Age -- the<br />

stunning estate is one of the<br />

few remaining premier examples<br />

of the “country palaces”<br />

built by wealthy industrialists.<br />

Overlooking the east bank of<br />

the Hudson River, the site sits<br />

on 211 acres, with expansive<br />

views, formal gardens, grand<br />

landscaping, natural woodlands,<br />

and numerous structures.<br />

The centerpiece of the<br />

estate is the magnificent 54room<br />

mansion used by Frederick<br />

William Vanderbilt and<br />

his wife Louise as a seasonal<br />

country residence.<br />

Like its famous neighboring<br />

sites, the Vanderbilt<br />

Mansion is open for guided<br />

tours, seven days a week, from 9:00 a.m. to 5:00<br />

p.m. – although times are more limited from <strong>Nov</strong>ember<br />

through April and subject to change, so it’s<br />

wise to check schedules when you plan to visit.<br />

The mansion is closed on Thanksgiving, Christmas,<br />

and New Year’s Day. The surrounding grounds are<br />

open every day throughout the year from sunrise<br />

to sunset.<br />

The National Park Service maintains very informative<br />

websites about each of these always<br />

breathtaking, often inspiring destinations. There<br />

are even convenient itineraries available online, offering<br />

advice on how to easily and efficiently plan<br />

your day to take in the entire experience. Reasonably<br />

priced tickets allow access to multiple sites,<br />

and free shuttle buses are available to usher you to<br />

each location.<br />

For more details on how to take your own day<br />

trip back into history, check out these websites:<br />

www.nps.gov/hofr/index.htm,<br />

www.nps.gov/vama/index.htm, www.hydeparkchamber.org/tourism.htm#sites,<br />

and<br />

www.fdrlibrary.marist.edu/library/history.html.


THE JOURNAL NOVEMBER <strong>2012</strong> 11<br />

A.F.E.W. FRIENDS NEW YOU<br />

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Dallas is a little shy and very<br />

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and a little aloof, but let him get<br />

to know you. Dallas has a very<br />

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Casey<br />

Dexter<br />

Casey is a happy, energetic,<br />

friendly, very playful dog who doesn’t take his eyes off his handler<br />

while walking. He’s a quick command learner and tends to be very<br />

excitable around other dogs.<br />

Maribel<br />

Maribel, approximately three years old, had been in shelter for<br />

eight months before being put in a foster home. Maribel loves to follow<br />

you around the house, find a place to sit, and watch everything<br />

you do. She’s more of a sit-next-to-you cat rather than a lap cat who<br />

loves a good belly rub and a good stretch. Maribel has a unique feature,<br />

a triangle “goatee” of fur growing out from under her chin.<br />

Snickers<br />

Snickers is a little over five years old, and loves people, kids, and<br />

TV and will sit on the couch or your lap and hang out. Snicker loves<br />

his bed and puts himself into it on his own. He also loves to be<br />

walked and hugged; he loves to run free (on a long leash).<br />

Dexter<br />

Dexter is an eight-year-old golden mix who’s neutered and microchipped.<br />

When his owners separated, the husband took the dog<br />

to South Carolina. Last year a rescue in South Carolina found Dexter<br />

45 miles from the wive’s home…emaciated, attacked, and in need<br />

of stitches. The wife paid to have him taken care of down there and<br />

drove down to bring him home. His former owner is now remarried<br />

with new twins and 3 other children in a small house on a busy road<br />

with no fence. Can you give Dexter the love and attention she feels<br />

she can’t? A nice yard with an area for exercise would be great. He’s<br />

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There are many animals up for adoption at Animal Friends for<br />

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your family. Interested in adopting a pet? Call (609) 448-5322 or<br />

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12 THE JOURNAL NOVEMBER <strong>2012</strong><br />

DAVID COOK AND JAY TAYLOR SEEK RE-ELECTION<br />

By Pravin J. Philip, Biz4NJ<br />

Dave Cook, Cranbury’s mayor, and Jay Taylor, incumbent<br />

township committee member, are hoping the voters will reelect<br />

them to another term on the Cranbury Township<br />

Committee.<br />

Cook was elected to the mayor position unanimously by his<br />

Democratic and Republican peers. Jay Taylor was first elected as a Republican<br />

and now stands for re-election on the Democratic ticket.<br />

Over the last term, he has served as liaison to a variety of departments,<br />

which, according to him, accounted for 33 percent of Cranbury’s<br />

budget. Jay recently had to retire as the township’s liaison to the Fire<br />

Department after joining the Fire Department.<br />

Mayor Cook: <strong>2012</strong> Version<br />

A financial advisor by trade, Cook had a baptism by fire, when<br />

first elected to the township committee in 2009. In his first year as<br />

mayor, Cranbury’s ratable had shrunk by a sixth. The $300 million in<br />

reduced ratable that fell off the town’s books was a rude awakening.<br />

Given these difficult circumstances and the need for bipartisan<br />

management, Mayor Cook says that he “created an environment for<br />

decision making” that shaved $500,000 off Cranbury’s operating expenses<br />

in three years. He said he did this by looking at fiscal policy,<br />

capital projects, as well as expanding the town’s commercial zones,<br />

and diversifying beyond warehouses, within the framework of Cranbury’s<br />

Master Plan as last updated in 2010. The township committee<br />

he led was also able to preserve 250 acres of open space. The mayor<br />

points out that “open space reduces the need for infrastructure” even<br />

as it “improves quality of life.”<br />

His advice to Cranburians was to “attend budget meetings” even<br />

if it seems like “watching paint dry.” While presiding over two consecutive<br />

budgets that gradually raised taxes, the mayor was, in his words,<br />

Re-elect DAVE COOK<br />

and JAY TAYLOR<br />

Cranbury Township Committee<br />

Success and Experience<br />

• 247 acres of farmland preserved with the<br />

town paying only 17.6 % of the purchase<br />

price<br />

• Decreased budget by half a million dollars<br />

since 2009<br />

• $2 million in debt reduction since 2009<br />

• Sponsored purchase of traffic safety<br />

equipment providing additional driver<br />

and pedestrian safety for residents<br />

Paid for by the Cranbury Democratic Committee<br />

We Will Never Forget<br />

forced to look at the “sacred cows,” looking for savings through attrition<br />

in the Police Department as well as reductions in the Municipal<br />

Alliance budget.<br />

In response to charges that taxes were still too high, Cook points<br />

out, “our job is not to come in with a machete and start hacking.”<br />

Jay Taylor Looks to the Political Middle<br />

Like David Cook, Jay Taylor grew up in Cranbury. Unlike the<br />

mayor, however, Jay was elected to township committee on the Republican<br />

ticket. Jay soon developed a bi-partisan view that prompted<br />

him to change party alliances.<br />

“I had some philosophical differences with the Republican Party,”<br />

recounted Jay. “They moved away from me,” not the other way<br />

around. Moving across the aisle, in Jay’s words, was not easy, as his<br />

family had been traditionally Republican. Jay’s father served in the<br />

90’s served on Cranbury’s Township Committee as a Republican.<br />

Cook and Taylor cite other measures they’ve taken to reduce<br />

costs, like merging the positions of Township Administrator and<br />

CFO, renegotiating police contracts, and putting together a 911 contract<br />

with Hightstown that purportedly saved $80,000 per year. Jay<br />

and David also assert that they have achieved even more savings by<br />

reducing an employee in the construction department, removing<br />

medical benefits for future township employees who retire, and consolidating<br />

suppliers.<br />

Both men have taken heat for approving the construction of a<br />

shed, budgeted at over $300,000, to house Public Works Department<br />

vehicles. This is making it harder for future administrations to merge<br />

PWD functions with nearby townships or outsource them to for-profit<br />

providers. Their defense is that the shed will extend the life of expensive<br />

vehicles and allow the township to purchase and store supplies<br />

in greater bulk. It is worth noting that the decision to construct the<br />

shed was opposed by township committee member Dan Mulligan, a<br />

Republican.<br />

Unlike their challengers, both Democratic candidates are not in<br />

favor of outsourcing any more functions of the Public Works Department.<br />

They point out that two Public Works employees currently volunteer<br />

with the Fire Department for an extra dollar per hour added to<br />

their wages. This is especially useful because the township is, according<br />

to them, saving an estimated $125,000 for each employee they would<br />

need to hire to address a recurrent shortage of Fire Department volunteers.<br />

Candidates on both sides have paid lip service to the need to<br />

encourage residents to stay on after their children are educated. The<br />

Republicans talk about reducing costs, and the Democrats have<br />

talked about finding ways to provide more services to seniors. Township<br />

Committee Member Glenn Johnson and Dan Mulligan, the<br />

township committee’s liaison to the Human Services Commission,<br />

are into adding some of the administrative services needed by seniors<br />

to the Recreation Department, which has a part-time employee<br />

who can help.<br />

The inexplicable disconnect here is that while it is the older more<br />

long-term citizens of Cranbury who vote in higher numbers, the township<br />

seems to spend far more of its resources on a school system that<br />

increasingly serves a younger, more transient population. One step in<br />

the right direction is an emerging effort by Cranbury School to engage<br />

more seniors as mentors.<br />

The people of Cranbury, the School Board, and both parties need<br />

to find ways to incentivize families who have benefited from Cranbury’s<br />

schools to put down deeper roots despite the higher taxes.<br />

As Mayor David Cook said, “at the end of the day we’re all Cranburians.”


THE JOURNAL NOVEMBER <strong>2012</strong> 13<br />

CRANBURY’S REPUBLICANS MOUNT CHALLENGE<br />

FOR TOWNSHIP COMMITTEE By Pravin J.Philip<br />

Challengers Cindy Smithers<br />

and Tom Connolly are campaigning<br />

for seats on Cranbury’s<br />

Township Committee. They<br />

promote the national Republican<br />

platform of lower taxes, less regulation,<br />

and more efforts to increase<br />

business opportunities, and thereby<br />

the tax base. As Tom Connolly said at<br />

a recent community meeting, “the<br />

only way we know that the government<br />

is not going to waste your<br />

money, is not to give it to them in the<br />

first place.”<br />

Partisan Affiliations Prevail<br />

At a recent “Meet the Candidate’s”<br />

event on October 10, Phylissanne<br />

Stehn, the Chairperson of the<br />

Republican Party in Cranbury, pointed<br />

out that this year’s younger Republican candidates deserved more encouragement.<br />

However, she observed that it was the older, more partisan<br />

voters, who attended political meetings for the community.<br />

According to the Township Clerk Kathleen Cunnigham, some<br />

1,208, or 44.4, percent of Cranbury’s 2,716 voting worthies are unaffiliated.<br />

Of those with affiliations, 826 identify themselves as Democratic<br />

and 680 say they are Republican. The 5.4 percent advantage the<br />

Democrats have on paper is negligible, given the size of the unaffiliated<br />

voter group.<br />

Also, if primary participation is an indication, the Republicans<br />

appear to have a more enthusiastic base. According to data received<br />

from Tom Connolly, candidates racked up 267 votes together, while<br />

the Democrats had 171 votes between them.<br />

Cindy Smithers<br />

Cindy is a Penn State Graduate with a BS in Labor Relations. She<br />

is a product manager for testing software and publishing reviews of<br />

them. She served as Republican Committeewoman for District One<br />

(of three) in Cranbury. She has lived in Cranbury for over 10 years,<br />

had two children in the school system, and volunteered at various<br />

positions for the Boy Scouts, school, and township. Her husband,<br />

Rob, recently returned from an armed forces tour in Iraq.<br />

Though she supports Republican positions, she is “not looking<br />

at who is Republican or Democrat.”<br />

When asked what changes she would like to make in the way<br />

Cranbury was run, Cindy said, “I will work hard to bring more businesses<br />

into town.” She cited three parcels of commercial property that<br />

have been vacant for a long time. She wants to work harder at finding<br />

businesses that could use vacant properties like that. She feels it is<br />

harder than it should be for businesses to come in, particularly as<br />

variances are difficult.<br />

“I’m business friendly with a fresh perspective.” She also said she<br />

was in favor of “zero-based budgeting,” which questions all expense<br />

heads and builds the budget up from scratch. When asked if she<br />

thought the township committee was doing a bad job, she said, “We<br />

may disagree on specifics, but we are all friends here.”<br />

She was not overly critical of Jay Taylor’s decision to switch parties.<br />

“Jay must have had his reasons for switching,” she says.<br />

She feels that the township needs more female representation,<br />

Cindy Smithers and Tom Connolly<br />

as Susan Goetz is the sole female representative<br />

on the township committee.<br />

She made her point with a slow<br />

smile, “It would be nice to have another<br />

woman on board.”<br />

Tom Connolly<br />

Cindy’s co-challenger is all of 25<br />

years old. He is a graduate of James<br />

Madison University Business School<br />

with a Bachelor’s in Business Administration.<br />

During his student days,<br />

Tom says he founded and led the<br />

local chapter of “Adopt a Platoon,”<br />

which supported troops by sending<br />

them care packages.<br />

Tom has lived in Cranbury for 22<br />

years and is a product of the local<br />

school district. He is a manager at the<br />

Westminster Hotel, which he describes<br />

as a “AAA Four Diamond property.” When pressed about his<br />

youth, Connolly pointed out that Abraham Lincoln was elected to<br />

the Illinois General Assembly when he was 25.<br />

Asked what he would do differently if he were elected, Tom said<br />

he “would televise township committee meetings to increase public<br />

participation in township government.” He hoped to fund such an<br />

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14 THE JOURNAL NOVEMBER <strong>2012</strong><br />

AMERICAN REPERTORY BALLET continued<br />

Stephen Campanella as Solider Doll - Credit-George Jones<br />

How has ARB’s Nutcracker evolved since you began performing<br />

in it?<br />

It has undergone several overhauls over those 50 years, from a<br />

version choreographed largely by the founder of Princeton Ballet,<br />

Audrée Estey, plus choreography after the original Petipa-Ivanov ballet,<br />

to a version choreographed by the previous artistic director, Graham<br />

Lustig, to yet a third and current version. The current director,<br />

Douglas Martin, brought back the much-loved First Act Party and Battle<br />

scene choreography of Ms. Estey; choreographed much of his own<br />

Snow Scene and Second Act with ARB’s Ballet Mistress, Mary Barton;<br />

and used some of the Petipa-Ivanov choreography.<br />

In a personal note, I am often called to perform in the Party Scene<br />

as the father of the family in which I started out as the youngest boy.<br />

The following students are performing in the Act I Party Scene,<br />

Snow Scene, and/or in an Act II divertissement of ARB’s Nutcracker.<br />

They are all in the American Repertory Ballet Workshop (ARBW),<br />

which is the performance division of Princeton Ballet School’s advanced<br />

levels.<br />

Other local participants in American Repertory Ballet’s rendition<br />

of the Nutcracker Ballet include:<br />

Emmanuelle Farrell, Plainsboro<br />

Marian Farrell, Plainsboro<br />

Sara Garcia, North Brunswick<br />

Kaila Jones, Plainsboro<br />

Imogen Lea, Cranbury<br />

Utka Ozdemir, Plainsboro<br />

Chelsea PeBenito, East Brunswick<br />

Dominique Rafael, East Brunswick<br />

Nina Reyes, Cranbury<br />

Anna Shpilsky, East Brunswick<br />

HIGHTSTOWN HIGH’S GIRLS’<br />

SOCCER<br />

By Rich Fisher<br />

Heading into the <strong>2012</strong> season, Hightstown High girls’ soccer<br />

coach “Doctor” Don Hess had high hopes for an experienced<br />

team coming off a 10-6-3 season.<br />

At mid-season the record stood at 7-4, which was OK but perhaps<br />

not as impressive as folks might have been expecting.<br />

Dig beneath that mark and look at the play of the field, however,<br />

and the Rams were certainly living up to the expectations of Hess and<br />

assistant Ray Griffis.<br />

We Will Never Forget<br />

Hightstown was beset by two season-ending injuries before the<br />

year even started and had several players fighting nagging injuries<br />

throughout September and early October.<br />

All four of the Rams losses were by one goal and, with any luck,<br />

Hightstown would have had a glittering record.<br />

But as the leaves began to change in mid-October, Hess felt<br />

things were on the upswing.<br />

“We’re getting most of our players back, and I think things are<br />

going to pick up,” said Doctor Don, who won his 200th career game<br />

to open the season. “This is a great group of girls, I really like these<br />

girls and I want to see them finish with the best record possible and<br />

really have a nice season.”<br />

One of the big keys to this year has been goalie Lisa Jerry, whose<br />

dedication to the program last season was typical of what Hess was<br />

talking about with his players.<br />

As a junior, Jerry was splitting time with senior Erin Sobkowiak.<br />

But when the JV goalie went down with an injury and Hightstown<br />

had no one to take her place, Hess asked Jerry to move down, and<br />

she did so without a complaint.<br />

“She didn’t mind playing down,” Hess said. “The JV finished 13-<br />

0-1. It was a case of either<br />

sending her down or breaking<br />

in a new girl, and I hate to<br />

break in a girl who never<br />

played before because that’s<br />

how people get hurt. So we decided<br />

to send Lisa down. We<br />

could always call her over<br />

from the JV field if we needed<br />

her on varsity.”<br />

The time on JV did not slow<br />

Jerry’s progress. Through this<br />

year’s first 11 games, she had<br />

60 saves and three shutouts.<br />

“She’s been fine,” Hess said.<br />

“She’s been playing well. She’s<br />

Hightstown defenders Becca Cordo (left)<br />

and Cate Douglas have been stellar<br />

alternating between sweeper and stopper<br />

this season.<br />

had some stellar games. Especially<br />

with the high target<br />

shots in the upper 90. She’s<br />

very good at getting her hands<br />

on it. And her punts have<br />

been improving a lot, she has really gotten better.”<br />

Jerry has been helped by the strong defense of Becca Cordo and<br />

Cate Douglas, who switch between stopper and sweeper, depending<br />

on the opponent. Sophomore marking backs Melissa Barnes and<br />

Cristina Tous have also done solid jobs.<br />

A key to the midfield was the return of Erin Daley from injury.<br />

The senior forward/midfielder is the team’s top playmaker, and Hess<br />

felt as she got healthier it would help the offense click better. Lydia<br />

Walsh has also been a force as the opposite side winger.<br />

The big threat up front has been sophomore Dakota Mills, who<br />

had six goals and three assists through 11 games, after debuting on<br />

varsity with eight goals and two assists last year. Alexa Lopez and<br />

Walsh have also been finding the back of the net.<br />

“We have a lot of players contributing; of course they look to<br />

Dakota because she’s a big target and has a good foot,” Hess said.<br />

“I’ve moved her back to halfback just to take the mark off her. People<br />

go after her, she gets taken down a lot, and gets banged up a lot.<br />

“We moved her into the halfback spot to make a run through or<br />

put her into space. She holds the school record in the 200, so she’s<br />

got good speed.”<br />

And with his walking wounded returning slowly but surely, Hess<br />

is hoping for a fast finish to the season as well.


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FREE RABIES CLINIC<br />

East Windsor invites all dog and cat owners to a free rabies<br />

clinic on Saturday, <strong>Nov</strong>ember 17 from 1:00 p.m. to 3:00<br />

p.m. at East Windsor Volunteer Fire Company No. 1 at 51<br />

One Mile Road. A second clinic will be held on Saturday, <strong>Nov</strong>ember<br />

24 from 1:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m. at East Windsor Volunteer Fire Company<br />

No. 2 at 69 Twin Rivers Drive.<br />

Owners will be required to show a certificate of previous rabies<br />

vaccination; otherwise vaccinations of one year duration only will be<br />

provided. For safety, all animals must be properly restrained by leash<br />

or carried. For more information, contact the Animal Control Officer<br />

at (609) 448-5678, ext. 229 or visit www.ewpd.com.<br />

LIBRARY FOUNDATION continued<br />

purchased a house tour luncheon ticket, enjoyed our bake sales, or<br />

worked behind the scenes to make ‘Friends’ successful share in this<br />

notable donation.”<br />

Although the public library has doubled its circulation in the<br />

past decade, and increased the number of visits by about 50 percent,<br />

the size of the library space, which is shared with the Cranbury<br />

School, has not increased in 50 years. In addition, security concerns<br />

have reduced the Library’s usable space while school is in session.<br />

The goal of the capital campaign is to raise funds for a community<br />

building without raising taxes. The operating expenses of the library<br />

are currently funded by township appropriation, about 2<br />

percent of residential taxes, which is regulated by New Jersey Library<br />

Law. “The current appropriation will continue to run the community<br />

library in a new energy-efficient building,” stated Ms. Mullen, the Director<br />

of the Cranbury Public library.<br />

More information about the foundation and their Capital Campaign<br />

can be found at www.CranburyLibraryFoundation.org.<br />

REPUBLICANS MOUNT CHALLENGE continued<br />

initiative through a grant or to arrange the videography by an intern.<br />

He also said he would approach Channel 3, the local Comcast channel,<br />

to see if they would broadcast his video-feed.<br />

Connolly also wants to act proactively to fill any unused warehouse<br />

properties. He advocates holding an open house to bring businesses<br />

into the area.<br />

Both challengers feel there are more ways for the town to be business<br />

friendly, such as fast-track processing of applications.<br />

Cindy feels she would do a better job of listening to businesses<br />

and responding to their needs. Tom cites onerous dumpster regulations<br />

but approves of the improvements to the sign ordinances. He<br />

says, “We need to let business owners run their businesses.”<br />

The Smithers/Connolly ticket feels that taxes could be lower and<br />

that the budgetary reserve need not be as high as it is. Tom felt that<br />

“Denise Marabello (Cranbury’s Business Administrator) calls the<br />

shots.” When reminded that the township needed to maintain a reserve<br />

to keep its AAA rating, Tom retorted that he had spoken to an<br />

S & P Bond Specialist who said that the interest difference between a<br />

AAA and AA bond is 5/100th of a percent.<br />

Both candidates (along with sitting township committee member<br />

and Republican Dan Mulligan) opposed the funding of a Public<br />

Works Department storage barn that would cost $343, 000, as they<br />

did not see the return on the investment. Cindy, a Cranbury school<br />

mom, brings a woman’s perspective to the ticket. Tom’s think being<br />

single will give him more time to spend on his constituents. “I’ve not<br />

had a lot of time to date,” he said.<br />

Both candidates emphasize their enthusiasm and energy, as they<br />

stake their claim against their seasoned opponents. Overall all the<br />

candidates speak well of their opposition which is a testament to<br />

Cranbury’s collegiality.<br />

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a free exhibit running Sunday after-<br />

noons from 1:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. through <strong>Nov</strong>ember 18, the<br />

Cranbury Historical and Preservation Society has on display dresses,<br />

jewelry, literature, and other historic objects related to Victorian<br />

mourning.<br />

These range from elaborate lace-and-beaded black<br />

gowns, to engraved memorial cards, to a tiny pair of<br />

child’s black kid-leather mourning shoes.<br />

On <strong>Nov</strong>ember 4 at 2:00 p.m., there will be a related<br />

special event co-sponsored by the Cranbury Public Library.<br />

Professional history re-enactor Jane Peters Estes<br />

will present “Grave Matters,” a program offering a<br />

tongue-in-cheek look at customs surrounding death<br />

and dying. Appearing in Victorian costume, Ms. Estes<br />

will talk about mourning customs during the Civil War,<br />

the dying words of famous individuals, and headstone<br />

epitaphs.<br />

For the ongoing museum exhibit, curator Lisa<br />

Beach has pulled items from the museum’s extensive<br />

textile collection, and several local families have made<br />

special loans of some of their own heirlooms. Here are<br />

a few of the unusual mourning customs she discovered<br />

in her research:<br />

For a woman, mourning lasted two years. During<br />

the second year of “half mourning,” it was permissible<br />

to wear gray or purple. Only black was allowed in the<br />

first year.<br />

Etiquette experts were divided on whether it was<br />

necessary for a child to dress in mourning wear, but<br />

capes, bonnets, and shoes that have been passed on<br />

show that some children did so.<br />

Mirrors in households were draped, so the deceased<br />

person’s spirit would not get trapped in the glass.<br />

When mourning<br />

ended, it was considered<br />

bad luck to keep<br />

the clothing, so owners<br />

discarded it or<br />

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faded, likely because<br />

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and wreath<br />

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more quickly.<br />

But many of these exquisitely made Victorian objects<br />

have survived.<br />

“For the Victorians, mourning was a time of great<br />

sadness but much beauty as well,” Ms. Beach said.<br />

Visitors may also tour the museum’s other permanent<br />

exhibits, which include five rooms of household<br />

and decorative items and furniture that help depict life<br />

in Cranbury through the ages.<br />

The Cranbury Museum is located at 4 Park Place<br />

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THE JOURNAL NOVEMBER <strong>2012</strong> 19<br />

LOVE THY SENIOR NEIGHBOR<br />

IN CRANBURY<br />

By Pravin J. Philip, Biz4NJ<br />

On September 24, Catherine Frohbieter, chairwoman of<br />

the Human Services Board of Cranbury appeared before<br />

the Cranbury Township Committee to ask the committee<br />

to “hire a part-time Director to apply for grants, and help run<br />

the various activities held for seniors.”<br />

According to Catherine, the center serves some 75 people,<br />

who attend luncheons once or twice a month. Participants pay<br />

$3.00 for a lunch supplied by Bagel Barn, Teddy’s, or the Cranbury<br />

Inn. The center also holds a seated exercise class on Thursdays at<br />

9:30 a.m. when the school is in session.<br />

Betty Conover, President of the Cranbury Golden Age Neighbors<br />

Club, which has some 70 members who meet in various locations<br />

pointed out that most people are reluctant to accept<br />

responsibility for events and warns, “I’d hate to see it all fall<br />

apart!”<br />

Catherine, the volunteer-in-chief for the Senior Center’s programs<br />

for over three years, intends to retire at the end of the year,<br />

which makes the situation somewhat urgent.<br />

A third non-religious group that serves some 60 seniors is coordinated<br />

by Connie Bauder and other volunteers of the First Presbyterian<br />

Church, who also will drive seniors to meetings. They<br />

organize day trips and have a regular exercise group contracted to<br />

Judith Goetzmann. When asked why more seniors did not use the<br />

Senior Center, Connie<br />

felt that locating<br />

the Senior Center in<br />

a basement without<br />

kitchen facilities<br />

makes it unappealing.<br />

The numbers relating<br />

to seniors are<br />

revealing. The 3,857<br />

people in Cranbury<br />

have a median age<br />

Catherine Frohbieter, Betty Conover<br />

of 46.2, according to<br />

the 2010 census. Of<br />

these, 642, or 17.6 percent, are over 65. These seniors tend to vote<br />

in higher numbers and represent 24 percent of Cranbury’s 2,716<br />

registered voters. The amounts spent by the township on all senior<br />

programs are estimated at $17,000 per year, which is less than the<br />

cost of educating one student.<br />

Over the last several township committee meetings, residents<br />

have repeatedly pointed out that steps need to be taken to keep<br />

older folks in Cranbury after their children have graduated from<br />

school. Senior leaders are disappointed that many residents leave.<br />

Mayor David Cook and the committee have acknowledged the<br />

need to incentivize residents, including seniors, to remain, but the<br />

township is confronted by some hard choices as they grapple with<br />

a tax base that has contracted by $57 million in assessed value in<br />

the last year alone.<br />

Dan Mulligan is the township’s liaison to the Senior Center.<br />

He hopes to work more closely with Catherine Frohbieter and<br />

leaders of Cranbury’s senior community.<br />

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By Pravin J. Philip, Biz4NJ<br />

On September 24, Marilyn Mullen, Director of the Cranbury<br />

Township Library was presented with a Proclamation supporting<br />

the library’s One Book, One Cranbury fundraising<br />

program for the new library building.<br />

In the Mayor’s Report, David Cook reported on a meeting convened<br />

by Congressman Rush Holt that he had attended on September<br />

24 with representatives from the Department of Transportation.<br />

It included area Mayors who were affected by traffic issues on Route<br />

130. It was noted at this meeting that Liberty Way, behind the warehouses<br />

in the area could be used to siphon of some of the traffic.<br />

There were 8 million square feet and 20 million square feet of warehouse<br />

space in Cranbury and South Brunswick that impacted traffic<br />

on Route 130.<br />

David Cook reported that the township’s Bridge and Dam renovation<br />

project funded by the quality of life grant it had received, was<br />

scheduled to start in the first quarter of 2013. Bill Gittings, local architect<br />

and committee volunteer had recommended that related cosmetic<br />

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Glen Johnson, township committee member reported on a<br />

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his behavior and to see how we can make notable consistent improvements.<br />

My thinking was that, based on our meeting, I would develop<br />

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Action: This component of STAR is the most critical, as you must<br />

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THE JOURNAL NOVEMBER <strong>2012</strong> 21<br />

By Glen J. Dalakian, Sr.<br />

USA…USA…USA<br />

At Olympic Games, political conventions,<br />

and other venues, we can hear the chant “USA…<br />

USA…USA,” which usually rises to a roar and has<br />

a warming impact on most who live in and/or love<br />

this country. But what does “USA” really represent,<br />

and has the meaning of “America” changed?<br />

Our founding fathers may not even recognize<br />

where we are today. Please don’t take my<br />

word for it; look at the facts. The people who<br />

founded this great nation came here because of religious persecution and<br />

for the promise of a better place to live. It was rough going, but they<br />

clearly wanted to leave tyranny behind and start in a land where people<br />

could be free from oppression, especially religious persecutions. As this<br />

“new world” grew and politics started to play a burdening role, the new<br />

America found itself in 13 colonies and beginning to feel the same pressures<br />

as the monarchy they left behind began extending its reach across<br />

thousands of miles.<br />

This predicament (remember “No taxation without representation”)<br />

was unacceptable and unjust. Rights were being squashed and the<br />

colonies fought to rise above the injustices they had left behind. So documents<br />

were written and the idea of a new nation was formed. The Declaration<br />

of Independence was signed, which included critical terms like<br />

“all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their creator with<br />

certain inalienable rights” and the Constitution and Bill of Rights were<br />

put in place to ensure human liberties and dignity.<br />

Our founding fathers (most of whom were business owners) knew<br />

the role divine providence played in their successful breakaway from the<br />

most powerful empire at that time. This is crystal clear in the personal<br />

writings of George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, John Hancock, and<br />

other authors of the greatest documents ever written to forge a new nation.<br />

Our country was founded by, among others, hardworking businessmen<br />

who knew of corruption, persecution, and watching their own<br />

rights (and those of the people around them) being trampled upon, and<br />

did something about it. They risked their lives and wealth and pivoted<br />

at a critical time in history to lead in the right direction, against all odds.<br />

Why all the history here? Quite simply, because we Americans today<br />

still benefit from their sacrifices, and once again, we find ourselves at a<br />

critically pivotal place in the history of the USA. Election Day is almost<br />

upon us and what we do this <strong>Nov</strong>ember will echo for generations. Never<br />

before have I seen our nation in a position where we may deviate so<br />

greatly from what our founders intended and what has made us the greatest<br />

nation in the world. No matter how you intend to vote, you must realize<br />

that this coming election is the most critical in modern history.<br />

So which side has the best ideas to allow capitalism to flourish and<br />

give entrepreneurs the best chance for success in the years to come? There<br />

are two distinctly different philosophies being proposed about the direction<br />

of our society. The question is, will you do your homework, stay<br />

your emotions, take your vote seriously, speak to those around you, and<br />

Raised in a family-owned dry cleaning operation, Glen J. Dalakian, Sr. learned<br />

the power of small business at a young age. After attending Seton Hall University,<br />

he developed a variety of enterprises in the electronics, entertainment, and<br />

retail industries, generating millions of dollars in revenues in niche markets. He<br />

has traveled the country speaking to audiences in the thousands on business<br />

ownership and marketing. He has consulted on numerous projects and is<br />

known for his commitment to God, dedication to his family, and his enthusiasm<br />

for business. Mr. Dalakian is president of the Colts Neck Business Association<br />

and host of Tandem Radio, a Business Talk Show. A writer and consummate<br />

entrepreneur, he is also the president of CSAV Systems. Contact him at<br />

glenjd@tandemradio.com.<br />

check the facts before you vote?<br />

From a business perspective, which path will favor the efforts of<br />

small business and entrepreneurs? Many companies are waiting to see<br />

what happens in <strong>Nov</strong>ember before they solidify their plans. What will<br />

healthcare look like, how will businesses be taxed, what burdens imposed<br />

by government might small businesses be pressured under? As I<br />

have often said, small- to medium-size businesses are the backbone of<br />

our economy, and with the proper environment, they can have the greatest<br />

positive impact on America’s fiscal strength. This is why business owners<br />

have to take a clear stand and then use whatever influence they may<br />

have to encourage others to vote.<br />

The USA needs to continue to be the bastion of hope and the example<br />

of freedom it has been for so long, to so many. Our unique status<br />

has been achieved in part due to the free enterprise system that our form<br />

of capitalism has allowed to flourish. This is one of the many reasons<br />

why so many from around the globe flock to be here in the USA.<br />

Please exercise your right as a US citizen and make the time to vote<br />

on <strong>Nov</strong>ember 6. As leaders, we must also encourage others to do the same.<br />

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The MOMS Club is an international support group for mothers<br />

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Hightstown, Roosevelt, Monroe Township, Jamesburg, and Cranbury.<br />

“With so many mothers working outside the home today, it can<br />

be extremely hard for stay-at-home mothers to meet each other. The<br />

MOMS Club allows at-home mothers to get together in a supportive<br />

atmosphere,” said Lisa Lamberto, president of MOMS Club of East<br />

Windsor/Hightstown. This group is unique not only due to the fact<br />

that it is the only international organization specifically for at-home<br />

mothers, but also because of the wide range of activities allowed<br />

under the MOMS Club banner.<br />

The group hosts monthly socials with interesting guest speakers<br />

for discussions, park play days, special outings, holiday activities, moms’<br />

night out, and service projects benefiting area children or families.<br />

On September 13, the group was privileged to have national<br />

speaker Mr. Alan Robinson speak on preventing children from being<br />

victimized by sexual predators. He is with Project ALERT (“America’s<br />

Law Enforcement Retiree Team”), a division of the National Center for<br />

Missing and Exploited Children and the Adam Walsh Foundation.<br />

Mr. Robinson speaks around the country and is an expert on the<br />

subject of child kidnapping and exploitation as well as educating parents<br />

about safety, prevention, and security tactics. His three-hour presentation,<br />

“Measures to Prevent Your Child From Being Kidnapped,<br />

Abducted and Sexually Exploited” is based upon 25 years of research<br />

and professional expertise and recognized as an invaluable education.<br />

“Mr. Robinson provided the group with the tools to prevent child<br />

abduction, kidnapping, and sexual exploitation as well as sharing information<br />

on the safe use of technology (PCs and cell phones). Mr.<br />

Robinson dispelled common safety myths, while providing skills we<br />

can teach our children to help prevent them from becoming victims.<br />

We even raised over $100 to donate to the National Center for<br />

Missing Children and Exploited Children in his name.”<br />

The MOMS Club network is looking to expand and invites all athome<br />

mothers to join and get the support they deserve.<br />

For more information, call (609) 630-0880, or visit us on the web<br />

at www.momsclubewh.com, or email us at ewhmoms.east@gmail.com.<br />

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We Will Never Forget<br />

NOVEMBER AT<br />

TWIN RIVERS LIBRARY<br />

Technology One-on-One<br />

By Appointment Only!<br />

Need help with an E-Reader or getting started with Facebook?<br />

Come in for some one-on-one help!<br />

Sahaja Meditation<br />

Wednesday at 7:00 p.m.<br />

Sahaja Meditation is a simple, time-honored technique to help<br />

reduce stress and increase focus and wellness. It helps people become<br />

more centered and better balanced.<br />

Knitting and More<br />

Thursdays at 7:00 p.m.<br />

Do you like to knit, crochet, embroider, or needlepoint? Come<br />

with a smile—all skill levels welcome!<br />

Footlights<br />

Monday, <strong>Nov</strong>ember 19, at 7:00 p.m.<br />

Join the group reading selections from Death of a Salesman by<br />

Arthur Miller<br />

<strong>Nov</strong>ember is National <strong>Nov</strong>el Writing Month<br />

Come “write” in and find your place to write your novel.<br />

Twin Rivers Writers’ Group (Adults Only)<br />

Saturday, <strong>Nov</strong>ember 10 from 2:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m.<br />

Monday, <strong>Nov</strong>ember 26 from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m.<br />

Bring five pages of a work-in-progress to discuss with other writers.<br />

Insurance 101 with Margaret<br />

Saturday, <strong>Nov</strong>ember 13, at 1:00 p.m.<br />

Learn more on a new topic this month.<br />

Living Rich with Coupons Workshop<br />

Wednesday, <strong>Nov</strong>ember 14, at 7:30 p.m.<br />

Living Rich with Coupons is your one-stop source to learn how<br />

to do extreme couponing the right way. The blog provides readers<br />

with resources they need to shop smart so they can get life’s necessities<br />

for a lot less.<br />

Jewish War Veterans<br />

Thursday, <strong>Nov</strong>ember 15, at 7:30 p.m.<br />

The Friends of the Twin Rivers Library will be hosting a small<br />

reception for the Jewish War Veterans. We invite the public to stop<br />

in to say thanks to a veteran!<br />

Cover 2 Cover Book Discussion<br />

Thursday, <strong>Nov</strong>ember 29, at 7:00 p.m.<br />

The Red Thread by Ann Hood<br />

MERCER COUNTY HOLOCAUST/<br />

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HOST KRISTALLNACHT<br />

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The public is invited to join the Mercer County Holocaust/<br />

Genocide Resource Center on Tuesday, <strong>Nov</strong>ember 13, at<br />

4:30 p.m., to recall the tragic events of Kristallnacht with<br />

“A Day to Remember: Survivors and Recipes.” MCCC Culinary faculty<br />

member Frank Benowitz will prepare traditional Ashkenazi<br />

dishes while attendees discuss recipes and survivor stories from The<br />

Holocaust Survivor Cookbook.<br />

More information on these and other events is available by calling<br />

(609) 570-3355. The Holocaust/Genocide Resource Center is located<br />

on Mercer’s West Windsor Campus, 1200 Old Trenton Road,<br />

on the second floor of the library building. For more information,<br />

visit www.mccc.edu/holocaust.


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CONTRACEPTIVE CHOICES:<br />

THERE IS MORE THAN THE PILL<br />

By Ursula Miguel, CNM<br />

Princeton Midwifery Care/Del Val OB/GYN and Infertility<br />

When we discuss contraceptive choices with our patients,<br />

we look at the total picture and the total<br />

woman: her age, her future childbearing plans, her<br />

medical history, any possible contra-indications to hormonal<br />

birth control methods, her ability to take pills regularly, her menstrual<br />

pattern, and many other factors.<br />

A woman’s health-care provider should also be mindful that<br />

certain birth control choices are not acceptable in certain religious<br />

or cultural groups.<br />

Discussing contraception with a woman involves more than<br />

just giving her a pack of birth control pills and a prescription,<br />

and have her return to the office in three to six months.<br />

After a thorough history and physical exam, as well as a needs<br />

assessment, a discussion should follow about the many different<br />

birth control choices available.<br />

Methods include barrier contraceptives, such as condoms and<br />

diaphragms, intra-uterine devices, such as Mirena and Paragard,<br />

combined oral contraceptives, progestin-only pills, Depo-Provera<br />

injections, patches, rings, sterilization, fertility awareness methods,<br />

and natural family planning. A detailed and intimate discussion<br />

of the woman’s sexuality and the possible effect of her<br />

method on her libido should be included. Last but not least, the<br />

talk will dicuss the option of male contraception, which in many<br />

families might be the most feasible option, especially once the<br />

family is complete.<br />

Some of the hormonal birth control choices, such as oral<br />

contraceptives and rings, have non-contraceptive benefits for the<br />

individual woman, such as decreased blood loss, cramps, improvement<br />

of acne, less hair growth on the face, decreased risk of<br />

ovarian and endometrial cancers, ovarian cysts, and others.<br />

There are other methods that might help to treat dysfunctional<br />

bleeding, such as the levonorgestrel IUD. You can decrease<br />

the number of periods per year by using Seasonale or Seasonique<br />

(84 pills with hormones followed by three to seven days without<br />

hormones).<br />

Informative handouts, as well as anatomical models in the<br />

office to explain the mechanism, will help during the contraceptive<br />

visit. Lots of privacy should be provided, and questions<br />

should be encouraged.<br />

The risks, benefits, and effects of concurrent medication<br />

taken should be explained, along with what happens if the<br />

method is forgotten.<br />

Particularly challenging are the needs of the adolescent patient.<br />

Important topics, such as what constitutes safe sex and how<br />

to get access to emergency contraception, are very important.<br />

Postpartum patients need special counseling. They want to<br />

find out which methods are compatible with breastfeeding.<br />

In a country where the rate of unintended pregnancies remains<br />

quite high, women’s health-care providers should make it<br />

a top priority to counsel women and families on safe, effective,<br />

and accessible birth control.<br />

MEET THE CANDIDATES<br />

By Pravin J. Philip, Biz4NJ<br />

Bobby Marlowe<br />

and the Cranbury<br />

Women’s<br />

Club held a “Meet the<br />

C a n d i d a t e ” n i g h t o n<br />

Wednesday, October 10.<br />

Tom Connolly and<br />

Cindy Smithers sat figuratively<br />

in the Republican corner<br />

while Mayor David<br />

Cook and Jay Taylor represented<br />

the Democratic end of the discussion.<br />

Four Broad Themes were Discussed:<br />

From left: Peter Connolly, Mayor David Cook,<br />

Township Committee Member Jay Taylor,<br />

and Cindy Smithers.<br />

• Budget prep, cost control, and revenue management.<br />

• A competing vision on engaging the voting public.<br />

• Differences of opinion on recent grant application and spending<br />

priorities.<br />

• Outsourcing opportunities and their potential to reduce recurring<br />

costs vs. potential reductions in service.<br />

Budgeting and Revenue Management:<br />

Here, the Republicans advocated for “zero-based budgeting,”<br />

which purportedly builds up budgets from scratch each year. This<br />

approach suggests that all the spending assumptions on line items<br />

would be questioned as well as budgeting decisions based more on<br />

spending levels for each in the past year.<br />

The Democrats, Jay Taylor and Mayor Cook admitted that the<br />

practical exigencies of line-item accounting required them to plan<br />

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24 THE JOURNAL NOVEMBER <strong>2012</strong><br />

On September 23, over<br />

200 competitors<br />

joined to challenge<br />

their strength at this year’s<br />

Hightstown Triathlon. The<br />

adult triathlon started early, at<br />

7:00 a.m., at the Hightstown<br />

Memorial Park. The course<br />

began at Peddie Lake with a<br />

quarter-mile swim, a 14-mile<br />

bike ride, and a 5K run (3.1<br />

miles). The triathlon for kids up<br />

to 10 years old began at 2:00<br />

p.m. at the Peddie School. Their<br />

course consisted of a 100-yard<br />

swim, a two-mile bike ride, and<br />

a one-mile run. For those aged<br />

11 to 14 years old, the course<br />

consisted of a 200-yard swim, a<br />

four-mile bike ride, and a twomile<br />

run.<br />

Ryan’s Quest, the official charity partner of the <strong>2012</strong> Hightstown<br />

Triathlon, proudly participated to raise awareness for Duchene Muscular<br />

Dystrophy. Members of their team who participated that day<br />

were Dave Schultz (co-founder of Ryan’s Quest), Brad Davis, Todd<br />

Hoagland, Ryan Loesser, Geoff Haines, John Rossi, Chris Herte, Gary<br />

Zuckerman, Marie Murdza, and Jenn Gentilella. For more information<br />

on the non-profit organization, visit www.ryansquest.org.<br />

Seasoned triathloner Jim Burke took on the adult course and<br />

HIGHTSTOWN TRIATHLON<br />

We Will Never Forget<br />

By Annie Gonzales<br />

volunteered for the kids’<br />

triathlon. He has been participating<br />

in the local triathlons for<br />

eight years. He said his first<br />

brush with triathlons came literally<br />

by stumbling across one<br />

in action while riding his bike<br />

one day. The course ran right in<br />

front of his Mercer County<br />

home, and he rode along other<br />

bikers during the course. By the<br />

time he came home that day, he<br />

was filled with excitement and<br />

immediately began participating<br />

in triathlons. He hasn’t<br />

stopped since. His two daughters,<br />

14 and 11 years old, also<br />

caught the triathlon fever and<br />

have participated in the Hightstown<br />

triathlon.<br />

The Top Team finisher went<br />

to “Team Coachy Oaks” of Hightstown, timed at a great finish of<br />

1:02:23. For a complete list of results, visit www.hightstowntriathlon.org.<br />

Hightstown Triathlon sponsors included The Brace Place, Bicycle<br />

Rack, A Reason to Smile, Princeton Brain & Spine Care, Molto<br />

Bene, Tavern on the Lake, A+ Athlete Sports Medicine, Kettle Fusion<br />

Dynamics, PNC Bank, Kind Healthy Snacks, and 4 Elements Kettlebell<br />

Fitness.<br />

Pictured are: Race Director Jay Meier, Training Coordinators, Kelli and Brad Davis,<br />

Chris Herte, John Rossi, Julie Dohanic, Geoff Haines, Gary Zuckerman, Dave Schultz,<br />

Todd Hoagland. The children are: Seamus Davis, Declan Davis, Aidan Davis,<br />

and Victoria Ros


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TRIATHALON continued<br />

The Winner is Jason Butch (35), of Manalapan, finished at 59: 06.<br />

SCHOOL BOARD NOTES<br />

By Pravin J. Philip, Biz4NJ<br />

Audited Excellence:<br />

On October 2, Bob Stewart of Inverson & Stewart made a presentation<br />

to the School Board to present the results of his annual<br />

audit. He brought glad tidings of great joy to Joyce Picariello, School<br />

Business Manager and the Cranbury School Board<br />

He reported that the school “was in excellent financial shape”. It<br />

spent $2.1 million less<br />

than expected. Most of<br />

this has been set aside<br />

for specific purposes.<br />

Also the school had received<br />

an additional<br />

$194,000 in state aid<br />

and had spent $240,000<br />

less than budgeted.<br />

Speaking as one who<br />

audited 40 school dis-<br />

Bob Stewart<br />

tricts he pointed out that<br />

other districts often get<br />

into trouble giving back money and then having to raise taxes.<br />

In speaking of the school’s fund balances, he asked his audience<br />

to consider it like one would use a savings account to balance a<br />

household budget.<br />

Of $2.8 million in the School’s Fund Balance he reported that<br />

money was set aside as follows: $720,000 set aside to pay bills;<br />

$280,000 set aside for future tuition payments; $849,000 set aside<br />

for capital projects; $485,000 in capital reserve for the year; $200,000<br />

for maintenance projects; $7, 500 used to balance accounts, and<br />

$331,000 for undesignated emergencies.<br />

He noted three “minor recommendations.” One that involved the<br />

way the payroll agency managed its processes. Another that noted that<br />

documents needed were not provided by the Food Service company.<br />

Security, Safety and HIB:<br />

Dr. Genco reported that a recent security drill at the school had<br />

gone well. Dave Gallagher had supervised and that there was an immediate<br />

feedback loop.<br />

A week of respect connected to the Harassment, Intimidation<br />

and Bullying prevention was reported.<br />

Peer Group Leadership:<br />

A successful first grade puppet show held with peer group leaders<br />

was completely student led.<br />

The school was planning to expand its Peer Leader Program.<br />

Teresa Leary had a “huge following of students who wanted to get<br />

involved in doing good deeds.”<br />

A Grandpal program has been started in the Princeton Public Library.<br />

Grandpals from Cranbury are already volunteering in Princeton.<br />

Safety Saves Money:<br />

The school received a rebate of $2,500 from their insurance company.<br />

This though relatively modest was higher than last year’s rebate.<br />

Cranbury has received an award for safety 10 years in a row.<br />

Innovative Staff Substitutions:<br />

Jennifer Cooke, School Board Member and Chair of the Personnel<br />

Committee presented a practical approach to staff substitutions.<br />

Rather than have various substitutes fill in, the school is trying to reallocate<br />

one substitute to various vacancies as they are scheduled.<br />

The approach serves to minimize the disruption that having to familiarize<br />

various people.<br />

Charter Chatter:<br />

The School Board considers a letter from Linda Greenspan opposing<br />

changes to Charter School legislation. These changes, promoted<br />

by the New Jersey Department of Education are designed to<br />

authorize Virtual Charter Schools, and could favor out of state virtual<br />

charter schools by holding them less accountable than local Charter<br />

Schools. The Policy Blog NJSpotlight.com has more on this at<br />

www.njspotlight.com/stories/12/0711/1339/<br />

Proposed Planning Consultants:<br />

Principal Genco also outlined a proposed relationship the consulting<br />

firm PLC Associates, endorsed by the NJ Association of School<br />

Administrators. It is hoped that PLC Associates will help the School<br />

Board and Administration plan strategically for the future.<br />

The first phase of expenditure (and the most expensive) involves<br />

data collection. It would cost $5,200. Dr. Genco assured the group<br />

that the entire planning process would not exceed $10,000.<br />

Board President Lynn Schwarz endorsed the plan recognizing<br />

that the specialized skills that the board did not possess would now<br />

be available.<br />

Extended Hours at the Princeton High Library:<br />

Evelyn Spann, Board Member and Liaison to the Princeton<br />

School Board reported that the High School library is not yet available<br />

to Cranbury School students for an additional two hours after<br />

school. Cranbury pays extra for this with Princeton Schools also contributing.<br />

Ms. Spann said that she would follow up and that this was<br />

an administrative/staffing issue that would soon be resolved.<br />

Poor Communication between Town & Gown<br />

Dr. Genco reported on a recent meeting with the Township Administrator<br />

Denise Marabello. Marabello had requested the school<br />

board to provide a letter of support for their application for a beautification<br />

grant focusing on Main Street.<br />

Evelyn Spann did not support the idea of a letter.<br />

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26 THE JOURNAL NOVEMBER <strong>2012</strong><br />

Ican’t stop thinking about Puerto<br />

Rico since we returned from our<br />

first vacation there last month. The<br />

images, impressions, adventures, and experiences<br />

swirl into a kaleidoscope of contradictions<br />

wrapped in enigmas. The bottom line is - we<br />

would return. While there were extremes of positive<br />

and negative, Puerto Rico beckons you back.<br />

Everyone we met, from tourism professionals<br />

to average citizens, could not have been nicer or<br />

more helpful. Despite occasional language barriers,<br />

we managed to communicate, punctuated by<br />

warm smiles and many utterances of “gracias.”<br />

Examining our timeshare options during<br />

the only week we could escape, I recalled hearing<br />

that Puerto Rico is rarely considered for<br />

Caribbean vacations, “which is a shame because<br />

it has such beautiful beaches.” After ample research,<br />

we booked a week at Club Cala de Palmas in Palmas del Mar,<br />

on the east coast near Humacao. Many web searches and three phone<br />

calls to the resort later, we still couldn’t get a handle on exactly what<br />

to expect. Having a rental car to travel the highways and byways was<br />

essential in getting immersive. Juggling maps on our way out of the airport,<br />

immerse we did.<br />

Look at those mountains! The palm trees! The flowers and birds! The<br />

colorful dwellings! Wow, the rum is cheap. Man, they eat a lot of fried<br />

food here. They have a Walmart! What’s with all the stray cats and dogs?<br />

People here don’t use their blinkers. Where’s the<br />

sign that leads to Route 3? These were only the start<br />

of our Puerto Rican revelations.<br />

One must not need a liquor license to sell<br />

booze, because it was available in every gas station,<br />

market, in-home tavern, and even by the side of<br />

the road. Outside the resorts, beers start at 78 cents.<br />

We spent most of our time away from resorts,<br />

choosing eco-tourist spots and popular local<br />

beaches to sightsee. We quickly learned there is so<br />

much to see and do in Puerto Rico, it would take<br />

several weeks to everything on our list.<br />

Club Cala was fab. Our renovated, comfortable,<br />

functional unit faced a marina; the beach was<br />

a minute’s stroll away. Palmas del Mar is a massive<br />

gated community occupying a mountain rising from the beach. It included<br />

our timeshare and a large rectangular plaza with stores, restaurants,<br />

post office, mini-market, and retail shops topped by apartments.<br />

Within Palmas, there are numerous smaller gated communities, each with<br />

its own name, abode style, security guard, and amenities. Condos, townhouses,<br />

and freestanding homes get more elaborate as you scale the community’s<br />

heights. The compound includes a country club, golf courses,<br />

tennis center, school, and a Wyndham Hotel with a small casino. At the<br />

boatyard, a picturesque cove area has more shops and three quaint restaurants<br />

run by a French chef. Everyone gets around Palmas on golf carts. Security<br />

abounds. The beach was phenomenal and except for Labor Day<br />

weekend, sparsely populated.<br />

Our first night was the last for many Palmas<br />

homeowners preparing to leave. We were invited<br />

to a blow-out fiesta with a live band in the plaza.<br />

Judging by that first night, we thought the whole<br />

week would be one big fiesta, but by the end of<br />

Sunday, most regulars were gone, things got quiet,<br />

and we decided to venture forth. Traveling around<br />

was a sometimes daunting challenge, but we dove<br />

into local life with the same fervor we dove into<br />

snorkeling on the small island of Culebra, over a<br />

coral reef in a national park. Culebra and its famous<br />

Flamenco Beach are known for their exqui-<br />

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site natural beauty. It took a 50-minute car<br />

trip, a 45-minute ferry voyage and a tenminute<br />

bumpy van ride to get there, but as<br />

Hubby proclaimed, “We found paradise.”<br />

A young guide on the ferry provided helpful<br />

tips. He told us about a place we want to return to<br />

see, the larger out-island of Vieques. There are only<br />

a handful of bioluminescent bays in the world.<br />

Puerto Rico has three of them and one of the<br />

largest is on Vieques. Best viewed on a moonless<br />

evening, a bioluminescent bay houses millions of<br />

organisms that emit a neon-like glow. Scenes from<br />

“Pirates of the Caribbean” were filmed on a small<br />

pristine beach nearby.<br />

Back on the mainland, we toured the beaches<br />

of Luquillo near the Yunque rainforest, where the<br />

local version of a boardwalk is a string of open-air<br />

eateries, most with pool tables, some more graciously<br />

appointed than others. At Gringos Bar & Grill, Maria let us tastetest<br />

their colorful signature original drinks (sans alcohol). Hubby settled<br />

on a local favorite, a fresh coconut cut in front of us with rum added to<br />

the water inside. Two thumbs up.<br />

Back at Palmas, we countered Yogi from Connecticut at the Wyndham’s<br />

Beach Bohio (cabana). He moved to the island 17 years ago “because<br />

of the weather.” A retired electrician who now augments his<br />

retirement by repairing vacation villas when he feels like it, Yogi was an<br />

invaluable source of information. He introduced us to Rey, who has run<br />

the snack shack for 37 years. A few days later, Rey<br />

stayed open late so we could enjoy another serving<br />

of their fabulous Churrasco beef – an ample slab<br />

with sides for $12.75 – a common luscious island<br />

menu item. While the food/drink value everywhere<br />

was fantastic, like most vacations, it’s the people<br />

you meet who enhance your experience and your<br />

memories. Puerto Rico was no exception. Shoutout<br />

to John at the Palmas Beach Club Country<br />

Club, who created an original concoction before<br />

our eyes and named it the “Laura” after overhearing<br />

me utter, “I don’t know what I feel like having,<br />

but something with mango would be nice.”<br />

We now understand why some here say they<br />

would not return there. As one woman we met vacationing<br />

from Kentucky said, “It’s very third-worldy.” Vacant storefronts,<br />

dilapidated homes, uncollected trash, and sometimes primitive conditions<br />

can’t be ignored. We only toured in daylight and spent our evenings in the<br />

Palmas del Mar compound.<br />

On departure day, our flight was bumped up 40 minutes. At the airport,<br />

we learned it was instead moved back 2 ½ hours. It was our only<br />

chance to step on San Juan proper. We hopped in a cab and asked the<br />

driver to take us to the closest beachfront hotel. We stepped out in front<br />

of the Ritz Carlton and into an entirely different Puerto Rican experience.<br />

Ensconced throughout the posh lobby, pool, and beach area were the wellheeled<br />

beautiful people. Buffed boasting men mingled with bejeweled<br />

women wrapped in white plush hotel robes. I almost bumped into one<br />

hot blonde who stopped abruptly to adjust her<br />

false eyelash. As we surveyed the scene, a friendly<br />

young server struck up a conversation, eager to hear<br />

where we had been. After exclaiming approvingly<br />

that we had indeed experienced some of the island’s<br />

gems, he made the statement that best<br />

summed up our Puerto Rican adventure.<br />

“I watch people come here for seven days and<br />

they walk from their room to the pool to the beach<br />

to the bar and back to their room. They get on their<br />

phones and say, ‘I love Puerto Rico.’ They haven’t<br />

even seen Puerto Rico.” We’re glad we did.


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28 THE JOURNAL NOVEMBER <strong>2012</strong><br />

COMMUNITY YARD SALE<br />

By Annie Gonzales<br />

The 12th Annual Community<br />

Yard Sale, held on September<br />

29, was a great<br />

success thanks to many Hightstown<br />

and East Windsor residents selling<br />

their wares. There were lots of great<br />

finds that included games, antique<br />

furniture, decorative mirrors, sewing<br />

machines, jewelry, locally made<br />

honey, clothes, shoes, blankets, quilts, CDs, records, lamps, and<br />

so much more. Sponsored by the Borough of Hightstown, the yard<br />

sale, headquartered at the Hightstown-Apollo Lodge #41 on Main<br />

Street, was an all-day event. To sign up for next year’s event, visit<br />

www.hightstownborough.com for more information.<br />

Blood drive<br />

First United Methodist Church<br />

Local honey<br />

The Apollo Lodge<br />

We Will Never Forget<br />

MONTHLY CRANBURY REPORT continued<br />

39 vehicle crashes within Cranbury limits, 14 arrests, two DUI incidents<br />

and eight warrant arrests. There were seven criminal and one<br />

administrative investigation underway.<br />

Denise Marabello in her Township Administrator’s report said<br />

that the township needed to renegotiate its police dispatch contract<br />

and that sharing services with Hightstown had saved the township<br />

an estimated $110,000. Also there was a sewer main contract with<br />

Monroe that needed to be negotiated.<br />

Catherine Frohbieter, Chair of the Human Services Committee<br />

appeared before the committee with Betty Conover to request additional<br />

help in administering programs for Cranbury seniors. Glenn<br />

Johnson and Dan Mulligan discussed bringing Human Services<br />

under the Recreation Department, as it had a part time staffing<br />

budget. It may also be possible to get the county involved in providing<br />

support services to seniors. Dan Mulligan is the Township Committee’s<br />

liaison to the Human Services Committee.<br />

On October 8, the meeting began by recognizing and commending<br />

the residents who were instrumental in saving the old school<br />

building.<br />

Cited were: Charles & Clara Amend, Donald Armstrong, Bill<br />

Bunting, Jake Cook, Mary Morgan, Magnus Ostergaard, Kate<br />

Shankweiler, Louis Spence, Mahbubeh Stave, Emma Stultz, Stan Tarr,<br />

Barbara Thomsen, and Norman Wright<br />

On September 24 and October 8, the township committee discussed<br />

which projects to include in the township’s annual grant application<br />

to the New Jersey Department of Transportation. Bill<br />

Tanner, Township Engineer attended both meetings. He confirmed<br />

that the township could only submit two projects and each must<br />

be a different category of project.<br />

He explained that if a grant were to be approved, it would be for<br />

around $200,000. After a lot of detailed discussion the township<br />

committee opted to apply for two projects, one relating to town beautification<br />

and the other for $560,000 to re-pave 4,800 feet of Cranbury<br />

Brickyard Road that connected Route 130 to Monroe. Tanner<br />

confirmed that the state was very interested in improving connectivity<br />

when awarding road repair grants.<br />

There was a heated discussion from several advocates who felt<br />

Petty Road in Cranbury was a disgrace as well as a potential accident<br />

risk. After visiting Petty Road and speaking to Connie Bauder and<br />

other residents there, Bill Tanner reported that the project there<br />

would involve well over $1 million, and could not even begin without<br />

determining the ownership of easements and also conducting a<br />

drainage study.<br />

The township committee voted to apply for funding for the<br />

Cranbury Brickyard road on October 8. This was not well received<br />

by advocates for Petty Road.<br />

The township committee decided to budget an initial phase of<br />

work on Petty Road in the 2013 budget and hoped to apply for<br />

County funding as well.<br />

Other business on October 8:<br />

A motion to appoint a Township Tax assessor was passed.<br />

Township committee member Susan Goetz reported on a Board<br />

of Health clinic for local pets. There were 99 animals seen of 188<br />

dogs licensed. She reported that last year they had 280 dogs so it was<br />

possible that there were unlicensed dogs in Cranbury or a mass exodus<br />

of canines in the past year.<br />

She felt a survey was called for and proposed that the feasibility<br />

of doing it online be considered first. A database of animal owners<br />

was also to be purchased.<br />

Jay Taylor reported a significant uptick in permit fees with $35,<br />

821 for building, and $16,260 for electrical permits.


THE JOURNAL NOVEMBER <strong>2012</strong> 29<br />

CHECK PRESENTED FOR<br />

VETERANS SERVICES<br />

From left, Leonard J. Roseman, chairman, Middlesex County Improvement<br />

Authority; Jason Conway of Provident Bank, the event’s main sponsor; Middlesex<br />

County College President Joann La Perla-Morales; David Brimmer, director of the<br />

Center for Veterans Services; and Chip Wieczorek of Provident Bank.<br />

The Friends of Middlesex County Charity Golf Classic presented<br />

a check for $2,500 to the Middlesex County College<br />

Center for Veterans Services. This gift will help the<br />

center extend services to military veterans and service members<br />

studying at the college.<br />

HOLIDAY FOOD DRIVE FOR THE<br />

GREATER CRANBURY COMMUNITY<br />

The Board of Deacons of the First Presbyterian Church of Cranbury<br />

are organizing a Holiday Food Drive.<br />

“This year, more families than ever before are in need of holiday<br />

food baskets” said Food Drive Co-Chairperson Flo Kremann. “The<br />

church runs a year round food pantry and the number of families<br />

served each month has increased by 40 percent in the last year.”<br />

Items needed for the holiday drive include canned fruits and vegetables,<br />

boxed potatoes, rice, gravy, cereals, cranberry sauce, cake/<br />

muffin mixes, peanut butter, jellies/jams. Items may be dropped off<br />

in collection boxes just inside of Fellowship Hall at the First Presbyterian<br />

Church, 22 South Main Street in Cranbury. The food drive is<br />

going on now through Saturday <strong>Nov</strong>ember 10. Donations received<br />

after the 10th will be used by Skeet’s Pantry.<br />

“Through the generosity of the community and neighboring<br />

churches, we were able to provide over 125 baskets of food last year,”<br />

said Pastor Louis Mitchell. “The Holiday Food Drive and Skeet’s<br />

Pantry are two of our most important missions as a congregation.<br />

Right now the shelves are pretty bare, so we are reaching out to the<br />

community for help.”<br />

To make things even easier, the Cranbury Boy Scouts will distribute<br />

collection bags to homes in Cranbury on Saturday <strong>Nov</strong>ember<br />

3. The bags will be collected the following Saturday and brought to<br />

the church for distribution. Collection boxes will also be setup in the<br />

annex of the Cranbury School.<br />

For additional information on donating food or to offer to volunteer,<br />

please call the church office at (609)395 0897.<br />

CUB SCOUT<br />

TROOP 53<br />

Enterprising boys form East<br />

Windsor Troop 53 out selling<br />

popcorn to raise money.<br />

Scenes such as this were<br />

common throughout the<br />

area in October.<br />

MEET THE CANDIDATES continued<br />

budget to budget, thereby providing for a little more slack even if expenses<br />

on a particular line item had gone down in the previous year.<br />

Both the challengers and the incumbents agreed on the need<br />

to increase ratables, but the Republicans favored a more proactive<br />

approach, while the Democrats pointed to a relatively low five-percent<br />

occupancy rate in warehousing capability.<br />

Engaging the Voting Public:<br />

Tom Connolly’s suggestion to increase community participation<br />

by broadcasting via cable or podcasting meetings on the Internet attracted<br />

spirited comment. Many of the older attendees felt that this<br />

would actually reduce voter participation, as residents would be less<br />

inclined to show up and interact directly with each other and their<br />

representatives. A younger attendee thought the idea would be popular<br />

among younger residents with busy schedules.<br />

Connolly’s co-candidate Cindy Smithers, was in favor of broadcasting<br />

meetings live as it would serve to engage younger voters.<br />

Neither of the incumbent representatives spoke against Tom’s idea,<br />

saying they would look into the issue and possibly explore funding<br />

options with Comcast in the new year.<br />

Petty Road Differences About a Recent Grant Application:<br />

Tom Connolly castigated the incumbents for allegedly making<br />

a hasty decision on which project to seek a Department of Transportation<br />

grant for. He felt that the township committee, at their<br />

October 8 meeting, should have waited for Petty Road residents to<br />

weigh in about their needs.<br />

Connolly’s father Peter Connolly who lived on Petty Road, was<br />

at the committee meeting. The elder Connolly, who described himself<br />

as “possibly the largest tax payer in Cranbury,” felt the Petty<br />

Road residents were justified in seeking repairs to a road that was<br />

both a “traffic hazard and an embarrassment to the entire town.”<br />

The township committee discussed the issue over three consecutive<br />

meetings, and Township Engineer Bill Tanner made alternate<br />

recommendations that were more likely to receive grant funding.<br />

The committee suggested that, though work toward the project<br />

needed to be addressed in the next budget, there were legal and<br />

drainage-related issues that needed to be resolved first.<br />

A Discussion on Shared Services and Outsourcing:<br />

All the candidates disavowed any interest in outsourcing<br />

Cranbury’s Police Department. Cranbury’s is the second smallest<br />

municipality in Middlesex<br />

County.<br />

As for the Public<br />

Works Department, the<br />

Republican challengers<br />

seem willing to outsource<br />

or share more<br />

functions. Also, costs<br />

like the controversial<br />

new storage shed for<br />

The Audience meets the candidates<br />

Public Works Department employees were criticized. Connolly<br />

Pointed out that the township had done just fine for 315 years without<br />

the $300,000+ storage shed.<br />

The incumbents felt that the Public Works employees provided<br />

faster response times and also serviced on the volunteer fire force.<br />

According to Jay Taylor (a recently signed-on volunteer fire fighter),<br />

two staff members receive an extra dollar an hour in their pay for<br />

serving on the undermanned fire company that is staffed by volunteers.<br />

The Public Works Department also manages the township’s<br />

recycling program.<br />

Overall, the meeting served to apprise the voting public on the<br />

issues.<br />

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30 THE JOURNAL NOVEMBER <strong>2012</strong><br />

EW HOLDS CLEAN-UP DAY EVENT<br />

AT ETRA LAKE PARK<br />

From left: Sachin Kamat; Clean Communities Committee Chairperson Barry<br />

Fliegelman; Ajay Singh; Rakesh Roushan; Mayor Mironov; Pankaj Kumar<br />

Pawan; Arpan Ray; Krinid Paludiya and Sachin Tela.<br />

East Windsor Township Mayor and Council, in partnership<br />

with the East Windsor Clean Communities Committee,<br />

held a Clean-Up Day event at Etra Lake Park.<br />

Many individuals participated in this community event.<br />

According to Mayor Mironov, “The purpose of this event was<br />

not only to help clean up the largest park area in East Windsor,<br />

but to encourage and instill community pride in residents and<br />

young people about the condition and look of our community.”<br />

PASSING STRANGERS<br />

Written by Jennifer Worringer, Hickory Corner Library<br />

The Hickory Corner Branch of<br />

the Mercer County Library<br />

System is currently displaying<br />

photographs taken in Brazil, Israel, and<br />

Memphis, Tennessee. The collection of<br />

15 photographs, entitled “Passing<br />

Strangers,” was created by photographer<br />

Amber Palecek, who describes<br />

herself as an “artist with wanderlust.”<br />

One of the most striking photos<br />

shows a child running down the stairs<br />

of his house to enter the sunlit street.<br />

Palecek says, “by capturing the fleetingness<br />

of these heartening encounters<br />

through the stillness of photography, I<br />

am able to preserve the moment and<br />

express an innate curiosity for the<br />

world around me.”<br />

“End of Class” by Amber<br />

Palecek<br />

The Palecek collection of photos will remain on display until<br />

<strong>Nov</strong>ember 30.<br />

If you have artwork you would like to display, please contact librarian<br />

Jennifer Worringer at jworring@mcl.org.<br />

The Hickory Corner Library is a branch of the Mercer County<br />

Library System located at 138 Hickory Corner Road, East Windsor.<br />

Please call (609) 448-1330 for more information.<br />

We Will Never Forget<br />

MCCC FASHIONS ITS FUTURE IN A<br />

NEW FACILITY<br />

By Pravin J. Philip, Biz4NJ<br />

On September 27, Mercer County Community College<br />

(MCCC) added a new facility known as “Trenton Hall” at<br />

137 South Broad Street to its sister facility across the street<br />

at 102 North Broad Street, Trenton.<br />

Mark Matzen, the Chair of MCCC’s Board of Trustees, pointed<br />

MCCC opens new Trenton facility<br />

out that the project was all about “giving people the opportunity to<br />

fulfill their dreams.”<br />

Brian Hughes, Mercer County’s Executive, “remembered taking<br />

courses at this community college.” He spoke in his soft slow drawl<br />

of his renowned father, Richard Hughes, and the “Community College<br />

Bill” that “Chief Justice and Governor Hughes” successfully espoused<br />

in 1960.<br />

MCCC President Dr. Patricia C. Donohue said that the college<br />

was “all about learning and student success.” Since she started out<br />

as a math and physics high school teacher, she also represents student<br />

success in her own self. Soon after Dr. Donohue took over the<br />

helm of the college in 2007, she held a series of focus groups, which<br />

gave rise to the board-approved Master Facilities Plan that guides<br />

maintenance, renovation, and development of all college facilities<br />

for the next 20 years.<br />

Included in the new facility are a Fashion Design Laboratory for<br />

students working towards an AAS degree program in Fashion/Apparel<br />

Design. The building also includes a computer class room featuring<br />

modern MAC computers for graphic arts and fashion design,<br />

along with a student lounge, and a visual arts and fashion storefront<br />

gallery. Dignitaries at the ribbon cutting included Karen Kennedy,<br />

Chair of Mercer County College’s Foundation Board; State Senator<br />

Bonnie Coleman Watson; Senior Managers of the College; and a<br />

slew of other dignitaries.<br />

May we see some I. D. ?<br />

CARDED!<br />

The Hickory Corner Branch<br />

of the Mercer County Library<br />

System in East<br />

Windsor celebrated Library Card<br />

Sign-Up Month on Sunday, September<br />

23. The library was happy to<br />

welcome 12 new library card holders<br />

to the library family. Student<br />

volunteers awarded prizes to new<br />

cardholders, and all patrons were<br />

treated to an exciting concert by<br />

Grammy-winning artist Miss Amy.<br />

Children were invited to make<br />

scratch art bookmarks and enjoy refreshments.


Not to worry…I won’t be giving you any advice on how to<br />

behave on your first date with someone you hope is<br />

special. What I will advise you about, though, is if you<br />

are craving something sweet, you CAN find a special treat which is<br />

both good for you and satisfying to your sweet tooth, as well. A<br />

“date” is a fruit not to be resisted!<br />

Where do we find dates? Dates are the seeds of a<br />

palm tree. Many date palm trees do not bear fruit.<br />

Those trees are male. Only female flowers turn into fruit.<br />

Enough male trees must be kept on date plantations to<br />

supply the needed pollen for the female flowers. This<br />

type of tree is called dioecious. Before mechanization,<br />

the date palm was pollinated by hand. Today, pollen<br />

collected from the male flower is mixed with flour and<br />

dusted over the open female flowers.<br />

The date palm (Phoenix dactylifer) has been a friend<br />

of all tropical desert tribes in Africa and the Middle East<br />

(Mesopotamia) for over six thousand years. From the<br />

date palm come hats, lumber, baskets, ropes, furniture,<br />

and many other household items. Every part of the date<br />

palm tree was put into good use, especially in ancient<br />

times.<br />

No other palm tree in the world can grow in the<br />

hostile temperatures that the date palm can stand, such<br />

as arid heat soaring between 100 to 120 degrees. The<br />

climate is usually so dry that the palms must be well<br />

irrigated, though the water is cut off while the fruit is ripening. The<br />

full sweetness and flavor of a date can be developed only when the<br />

plant is thirsty!<br />

The fruit grows in a peculiar way under the leaves of the palm.<br />

It hangs in heavy clusters beneath a tree that can grow as tall as 82<br />

feet. The Arabs have a word for different stages of the fruit: Kimri<br />

means unripe; khalal is the word used for full sized but crunchy fruit;<br />

and when they are rutab, they are ripe and soft. When dates remain<br />

on the tree to dry by the sun, they are said to be in the final tamr<br />

stage of ripening. This is the stage most of us are familiar with,<br />

where they are easily available in our local grocery stores for<br />

purchase for snacking and baking. You will see them labeled as<br />

medjool dates.<br />

The Jews consider the date as one of the seven holy fruits, and<br />

in the Islamic religion, the Prophet Muhammed is quoted to have<br />

said that dates cure many disorders. He urged Muslims to eat the<br />

date and tend the date palm tree.<br />

Many regional Middle Eastern cuisines incorporate dates,<br />

where their intense concentration of natural sugars makes them a<br />

wonderful addition to any cuisine. Use dates for cooking or baking<br />

or as a superb portable snack. Be sure to pick dates that are dense<br />

and moist. Avoid those that form sugar crystals on the outside of<br />

the date, as their flesh will be dry.<br />

Dates are loaded with potassium, iron, calcium, phosphorous,<br />

and magnesium. Dates are very high in carbohydrates, supplying<br />

us with a quick energy boost. What is best of all is that dates taste<br />

delicious and sweet. Once you enjoy your first food experience<br />

with a date, you will certainly want a second “date” with this fruit.<br />

Recipe of the Month<br />

Date Nut Bars<br />

Ingredients & Directions<br />

1 package (18-1/4 ounces) yellow cake mix<br />

3/4 cup packed brown sugar<br />

3/4 cup butter, melted<br />

2 eggs<br />

2 cups chopped dates<br />

2 cups chopped walnuts<br />

½ teaspoon cinnamon<br />

½ teaspoon nutmeg<br />

In a large bowl, combine cake mix, cinnamon, nutmeg,<br />

and brown sugar. Add butter and eggs; beat on low speed<br />

for 30 seconds. Beat on medium for 2 minutes. Combine<br />

dates and walnuts; stir into batter (batter will be stiff).<br />

Spread into a greased 13-inch x 9-inch baking pan.<br />

Bake at 350° for 35-45 minutes or until edges are golden<br />

brown. Cool on a wire rack for 10 minutes. Run a knife<br />

around sides of pan to loosen; cool completely before<br />

cutting. Yield: 3 dozen.


NOVEMBER<br />

<strong>Nov</strong>ember 2-11<br />

A Little Murder Never Hurt Anybody - “A Little Murder<br />

Never Hurt Anybody” pays homage to the hilarious comedies<br />

of the 1930s and 1940s. As the holiday season approaches,<br />

so, too, do thoughts of family gatherings gone wrong. That’s<br />

the case at the Perry mansion, where bumbling Matthew has<br />

made it his New Year’s resolution to murder his wife, Julia, before<br />

the year is out. But Julia, the family matriarch, vows to<br />

stay alive for her daughter Bunny’s upcoming wedding to the<br />

dashing Donald. As she dodges Matthew’s feeble attempts<br />

to kill her, friends and staff start mysteriously dying all around<br />

them. Is this a murder most foul…or most fouled up? For<br />

showtimes and tickets, visit www.kelseyatmccc.org. $<br />

<strong>Nov</strong>ember 3-4<br />

Coffee and Tea Festival of Atlantic City - Two days of caffeinated<br />

conviviality. There are tastings, lectures, classes,<br />

recipes, and more from the industry’s well-known professionals<br />

and pioneers….and some chocolates and sweet treats,<br />

too, because what goes better with a cup of coffee or tea.<br />

Ballys, 1900 Pacific Avenue, Atlantic City. For tickets, events<br />

and more visit www.coffeeandteafetival.com. $<br />

<strong>Nov</strong>ember 4-18<br />

Fashionably Late - Costumes and Customs of Victorian<br />

Mourning and Grave Matters - Victorian society was fascinated<br />

with death and spirituality. The Cranbury Historical and<br />

Preservation Society has on display dresses, jewelry, literature,<br />

and other historic objects related to Victorian mourning,<br />

ranging from elaborate lace-and-beaded black gowns, to engraved<br />

memorial cards, to a tiny pair of child’s black kidleather<br />

mourning shoes.<br />

On <strong>Nov</strong>ember 4 at 2:00 p.m., professional history re-enactor<br />

Jane Peters Estes will present “Grave Matters,” a program<br />

offering a tongue-in-cheek look at customs surrounding<br />

death and dying. Appearing in Victorian costume, Ms. Estes<br />

will talk about mourning customs during the Civil War, the<br />

dying words of famous individuals, and headstone epitaphs.<br />

The exhibit is at the Cranbury Museum, 4 Park Place East,<br />

Cranbury. Check www.cranburyhistory.org or call (609) 655-<br />

2611. FREE<br />

<strong>Nov</strong>ember 9-December 2<br />

Patterns & Meaning: Alan J. Klawans and Andrew Werth<br />

Art Exhibit - Artists’ Gallery presents “Patterns & Meaning,”<br />

an exhibition of the work of local artists Alan J. Klawans (Willow<br />

Grove, PA.) and Andrew Werth (West Windsor). Using the<br />

formal terms of abstraction, such as color, contrast, composition,<br />

and repetition, Klawans and Werth encourage viewers<br />

to explore the relationship between the visual image and<br />

meaning. Andrew Werth celebrates the 100th anniversary of<br />

the birth of mathematician Alan Turing by presenting paintings<br />

that use “Turing Patterns,” based on his influential paper<br />

describing how certain processes in nature could produce<br />

forms like the patterns on zebras and leopards. Artists’<br />

Gallery is located at 18 Bridge Street in the heart of historic<br />

Lambertville. The gallery is open every Friday, Saturday, and<br />

Special Events Calendar<br />

Sunday from 11:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m. For more information,<br />

visit www.lambertvillearts.com. FREE<br />

<strong>Nov</strong>ember 15<br />

Striving for Balance - The Middlesex Regional Chamber of<br />

Commerce presents an exceptional panel of powerful<br />

women, who will discuss all the topics women face every day<br />

to find balance. Family, work, health, children, finance, and<br />

lots more. Keynote Speaker, author, and Emmy-nominated<br />

journalist Jennifer Lewis-Hall lectures at the luncheon and<br />

there are many breakout sessions. Striving for Balance is<br />

being held at the Hyatt Regency New Brunswick, 2 Albany<br />

Street, New Brunswick. For details on speakers, tickets, and<br />

more, visit www.mcrcc.org or call (732) 745-8090. $<br />

<strong>Nov</strong>ember 23-25<br />

The Nutcracker - American Repertory Ballet brings the<br />

magic, beauty, and fantasy of The Nutcracker to the stage<br />

with Tchaikovsky’s magnificent score, stunning new sets,<br />

thrilling choreography, and a cast of over 100 performers.<br />

Directed by Company Director Douglas Martin, ARB’s professional<br />

company will be joined by students from Princeton<br />

Ballet School to tell the story of a young girl and how a mysterious<br />

gift brings about enchanted dreams and fantastical<br />

scenes. Whether it’s your first time, an annual tradition, or a<br />

once-in-a-lifetime experience, ARB’s The Nutcracker is a perfect<br />

holiday treat for your entire family to be transported and<br />

inspired at the Matthews Theatre Auditorium at McCarter<br />

Theatre, 91 University Place, Princeton. (609) 258-ARTS<br />

(2787) www.mccarter.org. $$<br />

<strong>Nov</strong>ember 23-25<br />

Disney’s Phineas and Ferb Live at the State Theatre -<br />

School‘s out for summer and anything is possible as Phineas<br />

and Ferb create their biggest invention yet! And, before you<br />

can wonder, “Hey, Where’s Perry?” the beloved pet platypus<br />

shifts to his secret double life as Agent P to foil another one<br />

of Dr. Doofenshmirtz’s evil plans. Musical madness abounds<br />

in an escapade so awesome that even Candace can’t help<br />

but join the hilarious hijinks. For tickets and more, visit<br />

www.statetheatrenj.org or call (732) 246-7469. $<br />

<strong>Nov</strong>ember 24<br />

SBHS Project Graduation’s 8th Annual Craft Show -<br />

On the Saturday following Thanksgiving, SBHS Project Graduation<br />

invites you to its 8th Annual Craft Show. The show will<br />

offer something for everyone: jewelry, handbags, clothing,<br />

personal items, gifts for children, home décor, sports memorabilia,<br />

and more, as well as bake sale items and refreshments.<br />

All proceeds will benefit <strong>2012</strong> Project Graduation. In<br />

addition, there will be a Used Clothing Drive on the same<br />

day. Bring wearable and usable clothing for men, women,<br />

and children; shoes; belts and bags; linens; and soft toys.<br />

Project Graduation will receive a donation for the total<br />

poundage that is collected. Please put all items in well-tied<br />

plastic garbage bags. The 8th Annual Craft Fair will be held<br />

at South Brunswick High School, 750 Ridge Road, Monmouth<br />

Junction, from 10:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. $2.00

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