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136 BUEEATJ OP AMERICAN ETHNOLOGY [Bdll.103 Simpson affirmed that the girl must be between 20 and 25 years of age and the youth between 25 and 30, When they began to marry younger the oJffspring were " runts," the tribe got smaller and weaker and ultimately became reduced to its present fragmentary condi- tion. They also did not like to have their children marry into a band opposed to their own in the ball games. (See p. 153.) Opposi- tion to marriage in other tribes had a practical consideration anciently because, should war break out between the two peoples, intermarried foreigners of the hostile tribe were generally killed. A youth showed his fondness for a girl by calling often upon her brother, making him an especial companion, and so on. These vari- ous signs having been observed by the old people, a courtship dance was held in the neighborhood and by watching the behavior of the young people, their parents satisfied themselves of the state of affairs. Sometimes attachments between three or four couples would be discovered on the same occasion. Then the father of one of the two parties would call upon the father of the other to talk the matter over. The mothers would also confer, after which all four had a meeting and came to an understanding. Then either the boy or the girl spent three days in the family into which he or she was to marry to see whether they would fit in there, because it was intended that they should spend the first few years of their married life in that particular household. If one of the parties was very young, such a disposition of them might be ordered by the chief. While two young people were engaged, even though they were near neighbors, they did not see each other all the time. The old people meanwhile would visit back and forth, exchange salutations, and then bid good-by as if they had come from great distances and lived far apart. The preliminaries having been satisfactory, the parents of the couple met and fixed upon a date for the wedding. Usually this was some time in the fall, because it was claimed that the nation would be weakened if people had sexual relations in the summer, a belief that was equally impressed on all married persons. If a death took place the wedding would be postponed, the period of postponement being longer in proportion to the age of the deceased. A great quantity of food was now procured—by the girl's family apparently, though Simpson omitted this point—and they began cooking for the marriage feast about midnight, keeping it up until morning. On the other hand the youth's parents made a considerable present of clothing and merchandise to the parents of the girl, consisting of some such articles as the following : One pair of shoes for each, a dress for the mother, a hat for the father, a barrel of flour, one side of meat, and $2 worth of coffee. If the young people eloped
SWANTON] CHOCTAW SOCIAL AND CEREMONIAL LIFE 137 before such presents had been made, the marriage was not recognized as legal, and they legalized it by calling them in and going over the proper ceremony. At that time the head chief and captains made a final inquiry as to whether there was any possible blood connection between the two parties. Sometimes this took an entire day. All obstacles having now been removed, the girl was placed some 25 paces in advance of the crowd and the youth set out in pursuit of her. They followed a circular course, each being assisted by the members of his or her respective family. The harder the race the stronger it was believed would be their love for each other, but if the girl were soon caught, it was considered a sign that her love was weak. There was great excitement and much shouting. Some- times the youth would fall and so enable his intended bride to get a long lead; sometimes she would fall and be caught almost imme- diately. It is claimed that the object of this race was to determine whether either party was indifferent to the match, as would be shown by running in a half-hearted manner. It is said that Little Leader (Hopaii iskitini), captain of the Sukanatcha band, put an end to the marriage race at the time when Sukanatcha was settled. The other marriage laws held on longer. The girl having at last been caught, the two were brought back to the place where the feast was to be held and seated side by side, the boy being placed in his seat by the girl's people and she in her seat by the boy's. The chief or captain now made a speech in which he stated upon whom the obligation fell of decorating the girl, and upon whom the obligation of decorating the boy, the boy's people in the former case and the girl's in the latter. Those not related were directed to decorate both unless unable, for any reason, to do so, when they must remain quiet. Each p^rty brought several yards of ribbon— perhaps from 5 to 7—or 10 to 40 yards of cloth, or dresses, which they laid upon the heads of the two until they were completely covered. This was to indicate their consent, and it was made the occasion of a property contest between the families, each striving to " outdress " the other. Afterwards each family took the property which had been acquired in this way and distributed it to the nearest blood relations. Then they sat down to eat, a long* speech was made by the chief or captain, and the dance followed, in which, if all was harmonious, all of the connections of both participated. If all of the relatives were not present the wedding was outlawed, and this was one of the ways in which trouble was created, usually by some outsiders, and perhaps by some one who had wanted to marry one of the parties to the match. When a married woman came back to visit her parents, her husband did not usually accompany her. Wliether or not she were 54564—31 10
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SWANTON] CHOCTAW SOCIAL AND CEREMONIAL LIFE 137<br />
before such presents had been made, the marriage was not recognized<br />
as legal, and they legalized it by calling them in and going over<br />
the proper ceremony. At that time the head chief and captains made<br />
a final inquiry as to whether there was any possible blood connection<br />
between the two parties. Sometimes this took an entire day.<br />
All obstacles having now been removed, the girl was placed some<br />
25 paces in advance of the crowd and the youth set out in pursuit of<br />
her. They followed a circular course, each being assisted by the<br />
members of his or her respective family. The harder the race the<br />
stronger it was believed would be their love for each other, but if<br />
the girl were soon caught, it was considered a sign that her love<br />
was weak. There was great excitement and much shouting. Some-<br />
times the youth would fall and so enable his intended bride to get<br />
a long lead; sometimes she would fall and be caught almost imme-<br />
diately. It is claimed that the object of this race was to determine<br />
whether either party was indifferent to the match, as would be<br />
shown by running in a half-hearted manner. It is said that Little<br />
Leader (Hopaii iskitini), captain of the Sukanatcha band, put an<br />
end to the marriage race at the time when Sukanatcha was settled.<br />
The other marriage laws held on longer.<br />
The girl having at last been caught, the two were brought back<br />
to the place where the feast was to be held and seated side by side,<br />
the boy being placed in his seat by the girl's people and she in her<br />
seat by the boy's. The chief or captain now made a speech in which<br />
he stated upon whom the obligation fell of decorating the girl, and<br />
upon whom the obligation of decorating the boy, the boy's people in<br />
the former case and the girl's in the latter. Those not related were<br />
directed to decorate both unless unable, for any reason, to do so, when<br />
they must remain quiet. Each p^rty brought several yards of<br />
ribbon— perhaps from 5 to 7—or 10 to 40 yards of cloth, or dresses,<br />
which they laid upon the heads of the two until they were completely<br />
covered. This was to indicate their consent, and it was made the<br />
occasion of a property contest between the families, each striving<br />
to " outdress " the other. Afterwards each family took the property<br />
which had been acquired in this way and distributed it to the<br />
nearest blood relations. Then they sat down to eat, a long*<br />
speech was made by the chief or captain, and the dance followed,<br />
in which, if all was harmonious, all of the connections of both<br />
participated. If all of the relatives were not present the wedding<br />
was outlawed, and this was one of the ways in which trouble was<br />
created, usually by some outsiders, and perhaps by some one who had<br />
wanted to marry one of the parties to the match.<br />
When a married woman came back to visit her parents, her husband<br />
did not usually accompany her. Wliether or not she were<br />
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