Against the Current: Sita and Her Foils in - Bad Request
Against the Current: Sita and Her Foils in - Bad Request
Against the Current: Sita and Her Foils in - Bad Request
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The culm<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>g section of Ambai’s story presents <strong>Sita</strong> <strong>in</strong> middle age. <strong>Her</strong> sons<br />
have returned to Ayodhya with Rama, but she has refused to accompany <strong>the</strong>m because<br />
Rama asked her to submit to ano<strong>the</strong>r fire ordeal. Instead, she has ab<strong>and</strong>oned <strong>the</strong> security<br />
of Valmiki’s ashram to w<strong>and</strong>er deep <strong>in</strong>to <strong>the</strong> forest. There, follow<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> sounds of v<strong>in</strong>a<br />
music to a small hut, she encounters an ascetic who identifies himself as Ravana. When<br />
he tells how he escaped death <strong>and</strong> has awaited meet<strong>in</strong>g her aga<strong>in</strong>, exasperated <strong>Sita</strong><br />
assumes he is still <strong>in</strong> thrall to his <strong>in</strong>fatuation with young <strong>Sita</strong>. Announc<strong>in</strong>g that she is<br />
over forty years old, she expresses wear<strong>in</strong>ess with her life’s “many tragedies” <strong>and</strong><br />
resentment at be<strong>in</strong>g imprisoned <strong>in</strong> her body.<br />
Yet Ravana too has aged, <strong>and</strong> now devotes himself to music. He offers to teach<br />
<strong>Sita</strong> to play <strong>the</strong> rudrav<strong>in</strong>ai, a str<strong>in</strong>ged <strong>in</strong>strument whose design is <strong>in</strong>spired, accord<strong>in</strong>g to<br />
tradition, by <strong>the</strong> shape of Parvati’s body. 16 Although Ravana concedes that <strong>the</strong> body can<br />
act as a prison, he contends that it can be a path to fulfillment if used to make music. He<br />
urges her to learn <strong>the</strong> rudrav<strong>in</strong>ai so creativity can fill her life: “Don’t th<strong>in</strong>k of it as an<br />
ord<strong>in</strong>ary musical <strong>in</strong>strument. Th<strong>in</strong>k of it as your life, <strong>and</strong> play on it.” When he attempts<br />
to put <strong>the</strong> <strong>in</strong>strument <strong>in</strong> her lap, <strong>Sita</strong> <strong>in</strong>stead <strong>in</strong>sists that he place it on <strong>the</strong> ground so she<br />
can grasp it herself. When asked why, she describes herself as one with “[a] life that<br />
many h<strong>and</strong>s have tossed about, like a ball. Now let me take hold of it [<strong>the</strong> v<strong>in</strong>a]; take it<br />
<strong>in</strong>to my own h<strong>and</strong>s.” The story with <strong>Sita</strong> lift<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> v<strong>in</strong>a to beg<strong>in</strong> life anew.<br />
Imag<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g her hero<strong>in</strong>e as an older woman <strong>in</strong> Ambai’s day, Ambai imputes to <strong>Sita</strong><br />
a version of a mid-life reassessment. Like today’s “empty nesters,” <strong>Sita</strong>’s responsibilities<br />
for her offspr<strong>in</strong>g have largely ended. Look<strong>in</strong>g back on many years of self-sacrifice, <strong>Sita</strong><br />
sees how she let o<strong>the</strong>rs control her life. The tragedies she suffered have dra<strong>in</strong>ed <strong>and</strong><br />
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