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A tradition reported that. "when a man has got married, he has made his<br />

religion half perfect. Then let him fear Allah for the remaining half. "<br />

The Prophet declared that marriage was one <strong>of</strong> his most sacred<br />

practices and added, "whoever dislikes my way <strong>of</strong> life is not <strong>of</strong> me. " 2<br />

He also said, marry and multiply for I will boast about you over other<br />

nations on the Day <strong>of</strong> Resurrection. even about the least among you. " 3<br />

It may demonstrate the importance <strong>of</strong> marriage that Muslims scholars<br />

have differing views regarding the emphasis placed on it. Some scholars<br />

were <strong>of</strong> the opinion that devoting oneself to worshipping Allah is better<br />

than getting married. while others had the opinion that getting married<br />

is better than such devotion.<br />

*<br />

Anas Bin M; 71ik narrated that a group<br />

<strong>of</strong> three men came to the houses <strong>of</strong> the wives <strong>of</strong> the Prophet asking<br />

how the Prophet worshipped Allah, and when they were informed about<br />

that they considered their worship insufficient and said, "How can we<br />

imitate the Prophet as his past and future sins have been forgiven ?"<br />

Then one said, "I will <strong>of</strong>fer the prayer throughout the year and will<br />

not break my fast. " The third said. "I will keep away from women and<br />

I will not marry forever. " Allah's apostle came to them -and said,<br />

, "Are you the same people who said so and so ? By Allah, I am more<br />

submissive to Allah and more afraid <strong>of</strong> him than you, yet I fast and.<br />

break my fast, I do sleep and I also marry women. So he who does not<br />

,,,, follow my tradition in religion Is not for me. "<br />

4<br />

Islam thus<br />

treated marriage as a fundamental institution. in which husband and<br />

wife exercise their rights to physical and spiritual pleasure and stand<br />

equal in the sight <strong>of</strong> their Lord. Adultery came to be regarded as an<br />

Al-IstaA-ulr, Mahm, ý; d, Tubfat al--! Aru-3.. p. 31<br />

--2.<br />

Maddain Farah, Marriage and Sexuality<br />

<strong>of</strong> Al-Ghazall* Book on the Etiquettes<br />

in Islam,<br />

<strong>of</strong> marriage<br />

A translation<br />

from IDya. P. 48<br />

3.<br />

4.,,<br />

Ibid<br />

Sahih Al-Bukhari, op. cit., Vol.<br />

6<br />

7, P. 1 and Shih Muslim, Vol. 2<br />

-,, op. cit., P. 703.<br />

Farah, op. cit., P. 47<br />

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