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The Status of Women as Mothers in Pre-Islamic Arabia In pre-Islamic Arabia (al-Jahiliyyah), Arabs used to esteem their mothers highly. The status of women was Improved if they delivered male children. Children used to pride themselves upon having a mother from an old and respected family of noble descent. It is said that sometimes. women used to marry men from other tribes without leaving their, own. living with their husbands under the protection of their own tribe. If the husband divorcedhis wife, she used to keep the children and give them her family name, as Smith stated: 'But it is also possible that by tribal rule a woman is not allowed to leave her own kin. but may entertain a stranger as her husband. In this case, we may expect that the children., will remain with their mother's tribe and therefore the law of kinship will be the child is of the mother's stock. 1 Sometimes a woman might marry a man from another tribe, and live with him, but under a condition to restore the offspring of the marriage to her people. 2 There are many men who took their mother's name, such ascAmr bin Hind, also as al Mundhir bin Ma7a al-Sama. 3 Sometimes, mothers had such a high status that a man might do anything to protect her and her dignity, and honour. an example of which is 6 Amr bin Kalttrum who started a big war withwAmr bin Hind, the King of Hira because he (Hind) humiliatedoAmrls mother. The* story started when one daygAmr bin Hind said to his companions, 'Do you know any Arab whose mother would disdain to serve mine V They answered, 'Yes, the mother WAmi bin KulthTm. ' Then the King sent to'cAmr bin Kulth-um., inviting him to pay a visit to himself. and 4 -- -- -- - 1. Smith. op. cit.. P. 77 2. Ibid 3. al-ýUfrs op. cit-9 P- 90 -__e-------- -- --- I 47

asking him to bring his mother, Layla to visit his own mother, Hind. So they came and the king entertainedeAmr and his friends in his tent. Meanwhile, the king ordered his mother, as soon as he should call for dessert, to dismiss the servants, and cause Layla to wait upon her. At the pre-arranged signal, she desired to be left alone with her guest, and said, 10 Layla, hand me that dish'. Layla answered 'Let those who want anything to serve themselves. Oh shamell cried Layla, 'Help TagUbp. , help. When'tAmr heard his mother cry. he seized a sword hanging on the wall and killed the King. Women were highly appreciated if they gave birth to brave knights. Women who did so were given the description al-Munji bat of outstanding men). (the mothers One of these mothers was F; timah bint Khurshb 0 who had the perfect sons some of whom were leaders in pre-Islamic times. gave birth to Kt7alid, kalik 2 There was also'Ummgfi7atikah and Khuba/ah who by ý. and Rabi; /Jalafer bin Kulaib. In the tribes, poets often boasted in their poems of having of noble bitth mothers. The best example is Zuhay bin Abr Salama who prided himself upon having a woman such as F7timah bint Khurshub who had brave and courageous horsemen. The mother's status was naturally related to their social status, i. e. being free or slaves. Indeed. free women were more highly esteemed than slaves; children used to pride themselves upon having free mothers. This fact had various effects on children, since many children were subject to degradation and ridicule because of their origin. Despite this fact, sometimes children tried to defend their slave motherso For example, e Antartbin Shaddid the Poet and the brave knight , was a son of a black slave but he defended himself and his black skin and he regarded himself as a Courageous 1. See Nicholson, op. cit.. P. 110 2. Ibid 3. See Pufi, P. 85 3 48

asking him to bring his mother, Layla to visit his own mother, Hind.<br />

So they came and the king entertainedeAmr and his friends in his tent.<br />

Meanwhile, the king ordered his mother, as soon as he should call for<br />

dessert, to dismiss the servants, and cause Layla to wait upon her. At<br />

the pre-arranged signal, she desired to be left alone with her guest,<br />

and said, 10 Layla, hand me that dish'. Layla answered 'Let those who<br />

want anything to serve themselves. Oh shamell cried Layla, 'Help<br />

TagUbp. , help. When'tAmr heard his mother cry. he seized a sword<br />

hanging on the wall and killed the King.<br />

Women were highly appreciated if they gave birth to brave<br />

knights. Women who did so were given the description al-Munji bat<br />

<strong>of</strong> outstanding men).<br />

(the mothers One <strong>of</strong> these mothers was F; timah bint Khurshb<br />

0<br />

who had the perfect sons some <strong>of</strong> whom were leaders<br />

in pre-Islamic<br />

times.<br />

gave birth to Kt7alid, kalik<br />

2 There was also'Ummgfi7atikah and Khuba/ah who<br />

by<br />

ý.<br />

and Rabi; /Jalafer bin Kulaib.<br />

In the tribes, poets <strong>of</strong>ten boasted in their poems <strong>of</strong> having <strong>of</strong><br />

noble bitth mothers. The best example is Zuhay bin Abr Salama who<br />

prided himself upon having a woman such as F7timah bint Khurshub who<br />

had brave and courageous horsemen. The mother's status was naturally<br />

related to their social status, i. e. being free or slaves. Indeed.<br />

free women were more highly esteemed than slaves; children used to<br />

pride themselves upon having free mothers. This fact had various effects<br />

on children, since many children were subject to degradation and ridicule<br />

because <strong>of</strong> their origin. Despite this fact, sometimes children tried<br />

to defend their slave motherso For example, e Antartbin Shaddid the Poet<br />

and the brave knight<br />

, was a son <strong>of</strong> a black slave but he defended<br />

himself and his black skin and he regarded himself as a Courageous<br />

1. See Nicholson, op. cit.. P. 110<br />

2. Ibid<br />

3. See Pufi, P. 85<br />

3<br />

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