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Divorce in Islam<br />

Islam considers marriage a lasting relationship, not a temporary<br />

bond for a certain period. It forbade N1, kah al-Mulea (a temporary<br />

marriage for a limited period <strong>of</strong> timq, and protected marriage<br />

with a fence <strong>of</strong> laws and teachings make it a solid, continuous<br />

relationship. Islamic law urged married couples to treat each other<br />

kindly so as to achieve harmony with each other, and to avoid problems<br />

that might damage their life together. (Q, 4 19)<br />

However, marriage may undergo serious problems with devastating<br />

effect on all the family members. In such a case. Islam also extends<br />

its protection to the family, and does not have simply to Collapse-<br />

It has many ways <strong>of</strong> treating the situation whereby it may be jossible<br />

for the family to continue. However, if such problems reach a stage<br />

where it becomes impossible for a couple to carry on ltving to&ether,<br />

then divorce would be the best resort. It has been called by the<br />

Prophet Muhammadj "The most repugnant <strong>of</strong> all things lawful and the act<br />

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at which God's throne shakes. " Permitting divorce in Islam does<br />

not, however, mean undervaluing <strong>of</strong> the marriage bond and accordingly.<br />

<strong>of</strong> the woman herself. Islam did not invent divorce. It had been<br />

known to many other nations. For example. it was known in the<br />

pre-Islamic pagan times and without restriction or limitations as we<br />

mentioned in the first chapter. It was also lawful in Judaism and<br />

in other nations. What Islam did was that it organised divorce<br />

and decreed the rules and regulations that protected the rights <strong>of</strong><br />

each <strong>of</strong> the married couples and in particular, the wife's rights.<br />

As explained above. when Islam permitted divorce. it did not consider<br />

1. See Sahih al Bukhari, Vol. 7. P. 36, where"Ali b AbTi falib tells<br />

Ibn Abbas during the battle <strong>of</strong> Badr that the Prophet iorbade<br />

Nikah al-MutAt<br />

2. See Abdal! X-. rop, cit., P. 223<br />

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