11.04.2013 Views

Download - University of Salford Institutional Repository

Download - University of Salford Institutional Repository

Download - University of Salford Institutional Repository

SHOW MORE
SHOW LESS

You also want an ePaper? Increase the reach of your titles

YUMPU automatically turns print PDFs into web optimized ePapers that Google loves.

up the principle which is in accordance with the human nature and the<br />

nature <strong>of</strong> the marital Institutian6"<br />

It is sometimes asserted that polygamy involves humiliation for<br />

the woman and depriv as her <strong>of</strong> the right <strong>of</strong> equality with men. For<br />

example, why should not women be given the right to polyandry ?<br />

However, giving women the right to polyandry is inconsistent with<br />

Islamic social systems. Blood bonds and lineage are serious matters.<br />

whom will be the children <strong>of</strong> a polyandrous woman belong to as a<br />

father? Will they belong to four fathers ? Or. will they just belong<br />

to their mother'? Who will be responsible for the children and for<br />

ýthe family ? Will it be the wife or the four husbands altogether ?<br />

-All such suggestions would be unacceptable. Polyandry cannot be<br />

accepted especially in a patriarchal Society where blood and lineage<br />

are considered ritual. Polygamy on the other hand does not involve<br />

such complications nor does it involve ignoring the woman's rights.<br />

As mentioned above, Islam does not force a woman to get maried without<br />

her own consent. On the contrary, Islam gives a woman the' absolute<br />

freedom to accept or reject an <strong>of</strong>er <strong>of</strong> marriage.<br />

1<br />

It should be noted that in the final analysis. it is entirely by her<br />

own 'Choice that a woman marries a man already married and a polygamous<br />

ý,<br />

ýi fe still has the choice that if she feels that she cannot be ar life<br />

ýwith her husband, or is unwilling to live with him. to seek a divorce<br />

from'herhusband. As"the Qurlan says:<br />

"if ye (judges) do indeed fear that they would be<br />

unable to keep the limits ordained by God. there<br />

In no blame on either <strong>of</strong> them if she gives<br />

something for her freedom, "<br />

Finally, as J. L. said about polygamy. "It is a good system<br />

that improves the moral standard <strong>of</strong> the nations that adopt it. It<br />

also' strengthens the family unity and gives the woman more respect<br />

and'. ha ppiness.<br />

1. Ibid<br />

2. Q2 2A<br />

3. ai-SNi. op. cit., P. 78<br />

3<br />

107

Hooray! Your file is uploaded and ready to be published.

Saved successfully!

Ooh no, something went wrong!