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allow anyone to enter her house whose coming is not liked by her husband. And it is not possible for any woman to go out of the house if her husband resents it. " She should hot squander his possessions; she may notlend or dispose of any of his property without his permission. ' The husband's possessions are her trust, If she has access to any portion thereof. or if she is entrusted with any funds, she must discharge her duty'wisely and thriftily. Abu Omamah reported that he heard the messenger of Allah say: "Shall I not inform you about the best treasure which a man hoards ? A, virtuous wife who pleases him whenever he turns his look towards her, and who obeys him whenever he orders her, who guards herself when he is absent from her. " 3 So, the chaste and virtuous wife is considered as a treasure to the man because the wife is the centre of the family as the Prophet said, All of you are guardians and are responsible for your wards. The ruler is a guardian and the man is a guardian of his family. The lady is a guardian who is responsible for her husband's house and his offspring, and so all of you are guardians and are responsible for your wards. " 4 However, the wife must not be rude to her husband, she should neither withhold herself. from him or hurt his feelingse The sexual gratification is one of the main issues involved in marriage, which is considered as the only lawful way for such gratification. Islam enjoined both partners to participate equally and for the woman not to deny herself to her husband without any 1. Sahih al Bukhari, Vol. 7. op. cit., P. 123 2. Abd al-#Atý*$ op', citg 169, 3. Abu Daud, quoted by Imran, Op. citee P., 44 4. Sahih al-Bukhari and Muslim quoted by Imran, P, 13 2 99
excuses as the Prophet said: "If a man invites his wife to sleep with him and she refuses to come to him, then the angels and their curses on her till morning. " 1 However. a woman should not fast (optional fast) except with the permission of her husband. Abu Hurairah narrated that the Prophet said, "A woman should not fast (optional fast) except with her husband's permission if he is at home (staying with her). 2 This is because fasting may prevent him from practising his marital rights as a husband. The only reason for insisting on this point is because a wife dantigg herself to her husband in this respect - may make him commit adultery. 1. Sahih al-Bukhari, Vol. 7, op. cit., P. 93 2., Ibid 100
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allow anyone to enter her house whose coming is not liked by her<br />
husband. And it is not possible for any woman to go out <strong>of</strong> the<br />
house if her husband resents it. " She should hot squander his<br />
possessions; she may notlend or dispose <strong>of</strong> any <strong>of</strong> his property<br />
without his permission. ' The husband's possessions are her trust,<br />
If she has access to any portion there<strong>of</strong>. or if she is entrusted<br />
with any funds, she must discharge her duty'wisely and thriftily.<br />
Abu Omamah reported that he heard the messenger <strong>of</strong> Allah say: "Shall<br />
I not inform you about the best treasure which a man hoards ? A,<br />
virtuous wife who pleases him whenever he turns his look towards<br />
her, and who obeys him whenever he orders her, who guards herself<br />
when he is absent from her. "<br />
3 So, the chaste and virtuous wife<br />
is considered as a treasure to the man because the wife is the centre<br />
<strong>of</strong> the family as the Prophet said, All <strong>of</strong> you are guardians and are<br />
responsible for your wards. The ruler is a guardian and the man is<br />
a guardian <strong>of</strong> his family. The lady is a guardian who is responsible<br />
for her husband's house and his <strong>of</strong>fspring, and so all <strong>of</strong> you are<br />
guardians and are responsible for your wards. " 4 However, the wife<br />
must not be rude to her husband, she should neither withhold herself.<br />
from him or hurt his feelingse<br />
The sexual gratification is one <strong>of</strong> the main issues involved<br />
in marriage, which is considered as the only lawful way for such<br />
gratification. Islam enjoined both partners to participate equally<br />
and for the woman not to deny herself to her husband without any<br />
1. Sahih al Bukhari, Vol. 7. op. cit., P. 123<br />
2. Abd al-#Atý*$ op', citg 169,<br />
3. Abu Daud, quoted by Imran, Op. citee P., 44<br />
4. Sahih al-Bukhari and Muslim quoted by Imran, P, 13<br />
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