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discuss later with divorce in Islam. although she would be punished.<br />

Another positive duty enjoined on the husband is that <strong>of</strong><br />

spending leisure time<br />

with<br />

.<br />

and love between them. cii'sha<br />

his wife because this creates happiness<br />

reported that she accompanied the<br />

messenger <strong>of</strong> Allah on a journey. She said. "I had a race with him<br />

and beat. him (b yýrunning on my feet). When I became fleshy, I<br />

had a race with him and he beat me.,, He said, This is because <strong>of</strong> that<br />

race. 11 1 This is an example <strong>of</strong> how the Prophet treated his wife<br />

at times in order to give her comfort and enjoyment.<br />

What has been discussed so far are the wife's rights which are<br />

regarded as the husband's duties towards her. Now we can turn<br />

to the other components <strong>of</strong> the wife's marital role in which her duties<br />

will be at the same time. the husbands rights. The main duty <strong>of</strong> the<br />

wife in Islam as a partner in married life is to contribute to the<br />

happiness and comfort <strong>of</strong> the marriage as well as possible, as the<br />

Qurlan makes clear in this verse:<br />

"And those who pray, "Our Lordl Grant unto us wives<br />

and <strong>of</strong>fspring who will be the comfort <strong>of</strong> our eyes. " 2<br />

The wife must be faithful, virtuous, and honest; she must obey her<br />

; "ý, I<br />

husband in what is right. as the Prophet said, "No obedience is<br />

3<br />

due to a creature in disobedience to the Creator. " The husband<br />

must be obeyed above anybody else unless this obedience is contrary<br />

to the laws <strong>of</strong> Islam in which case the wife has the full right not to<br />

obey him.<br />

This is the basis on which all the wife's obligations rest and<br />

from which they flow. More specifically, she must not allow any<br />

strange men to enter her home without her husband's knowledge, nor leave<br />

1- -ý<br />

home without his permission. Abu Hurairah reported that the Prophet<br />

said., "It was not possible for any woman who believes in Allah to<br />

1'. Ibid<br />

2. Q. 25,74<br />

3. Imran, op. cit., P. 52<br />

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