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evacuated during the raids of the Second World War, it was found that the children who enjoyed
that family pleasure could stand the estrangement more than the others could. This proves that
the family satisfactory mood prompts tranquillity in the children’s minds. Hence, those children
could encounter the estrangement satisfactorily. Estrangement increased for the children who
were brought up in troublesome mood. Finally, we expect the children to provide pleasure if they
are brought up in pleasant mood.”[4]
Second, families should supervise the processes of education. Sociologists confirm this necessity.
They emphasize that families must be in charge of the processes of the social education through
which the children acquire the cultural experts and the rulings that make them eligible for
receiving more and more, and fit enough for dealing with the society. Correspondingly,
educationists confirm that parents should afford enough compassion, sympathy, and kindness to
their children for securing them against depression and melancholy. UNESCO provided a
noteworthy report about the defects that may be suffered by the children due to the
[1] Refer to House and school: 27‐8.
[2] Refer to psychological and intellectual diseases: B.
[3] Refer to Children’s daily problems: 48.
[4] Refer to Your and my brain.
deficiency of fathers’ compassion. “Children’s deprivation of their fathers, whether temporarily or
permanently, results in depression and melancholy accompanied by feelings of sinfulness and
malice. It also causes uncontrollable rebellious tempers, self‐faintness, and loss of the feeling of
family compassion. Children that are affected by the deprivation of fathers always swim in illusive
worlds, because they are the substitutes of the actual world that they have lost. In most cases,
they dream of heroic fathers and angelic mothers. In a survey on kindergartens, it has been
noticed that defects, such as difficulty of articulation, ill naturedness and deficiency of emotional
sentiment, occur to the children who depart their parents, despite their good health, maturity,
and accurate intentional motives.[1]
Association and supervision are the best ways of protecting the children. Modern educationists
affirm that the best heritage that should be left to the children is no more than a few minutes a
day.[2] Sociologists who survey the juvenile delinquency have proven that the best way of
eradicating the juvenile aberrance is picking the fathers who wander at night from the streets.[3]
Indisputably, fathers who fulfill their duties to their sons, such as supervision and association, will
find those sons copying their qualities and natures. Fathers are also asked to give away the
luxurious amusement and confine on supervising their sons so that they will be saved against
degradation and negligence.
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