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Family is responsible for educating the children correctly in standard criteria that are away from
aberrance. There is a number of duties and obligations of families.
First, Families are responsible for saving the factors of settlement, amiability, and tranquillity in
home, and removing any sort of violence, malice, and antagonism. The aberrance of majority of
the aggressive children, which would lead to criminality, was the result of the home unsettlement.
An educationist says, “If we visit jails, brothels, and insane asylums‐‐ then visit schools for
counting the unsuccessful, the quarrel makers, the politically extremists, and the abnormal, we
will definitely notice that most of such individuals were deprived of the family settlement. They
must have been lacking tranquil houses in which there should be compassionate fathers and kind
[1] For sociologists, family is a social bond comprising the husband, the wife and their children. It
also includes grandfathers and grandsons as well as some kinsmen provided that they partake in
the same living (Sociology: 92). Others suppose that any matrimony without descendants cannot
be regarded as family (Family and society: 15‐6.).
[2] Refer to Opinions of Aristotle and Plato in philosophy of ethics and behavior: 143.
mothers that do not exceed in dalliance or severity. The corruption of such houses has created
such pictures of social disorder and purposeless and unsettled generations.”[1]
Amiability and compassion to sons have the greatest bearing on the sound composition of
individuals. Mental complexes are the inevitable result in case fathers pay no attention to this
fact. Sons are not ready to accept any advice or guidance unless there is a sort of sincere
amiability among the members of families. Psychologists have proven that the complexes that
emerge in the period of early childhood, especially those complexes that are originated from the
parents’ bad relations with their sons, are the most serious and the preliminary to personal
disorders.[2] Mutual concordance and amiability help in creating the intellectual maturity and the
personal boons. Dr. Gilas Thomas says, “Despite the parents’ big responsibility of guiding and
training their children, it is quite important to realize that such practices should never replace
another essential task that parents must do. This task is the creation of an amiable mood that is
shaded by care, and surrounded by compassion and justice. If parents show dearth in reviving
such a mood in which the norms of composition are illuminated, they will deprive the children of
an uncompensated constituent. Religion, society, and school play a remarkable role in educating
the youth. However, none of these factors can save the impressive emotions the center of which
is home, and the perfumes of which are smelt among families only.”[3]
The family pleasure prompts tranquillity in the children’s minds and helps in facing the life
difficulties. Salama Musa says, “The family pleasure of children prompts tranquillity to the degree
that it does not fade away even if fathers depart the life. When the children of London were
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