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silver since they are preferred to gold and silver. The evil women are not like dust. They are<br />
lowlier than dust.”[6]<br />
Islam dislikes men who marry idiot women in order that families will be saved from decline. Imam<br />
as‐Sadiq (a) relates Imam Ali’s saying, “Beware of marrying<br />
[1] The Ansar ‐the supporters‐ are people of Yathrib who swore allegiance and received the<br />
Prophet (s) and his <strong>com</strong>panions after they had left Mecca; their hometown.<br />
[2] Refer to Wasailu Shia: 14/29.<br />
[3] Ibid.<br />
[4] Ibid.<br />
[5] Refer to Wasailu Shia: 14/14.<br />
[6] Refer to Maanil Akhbar: 47.<br />
idiot women. The <strong>com</strong>panionship of the she‐idiot is an ordeal, and their sons are waste.”[1]<br />
In the same way, Islam warns against marrying insane women so that the society will not <strong>com</strong>e<br />
upon irregular and unsound individuals. Imam al‐Baqir (a) was asked whether it was appropriate<br />
to marry women after they had been loved. “No,” answered the Imam, “It is not undesirable to<br />
copulate with the insane bondmaid on condition that she would not have children.”[2]<br />
The Imams urged Muslims on testing and checking women before taking in marriage, for assuring<br />
whether such women or their families are empty of any mental or physical disability, lest such a<br />
disability will be <strong>com</strong>mon in the society.<br />
Secondly, Islam stresses that women should identify precisely the men they choose as the life<br />
partners. This identification is the responsibility of the women’s guardians. Imam ar‐Rida (a) told<br />
that his father related that the Prophet (s) said, “Matrimony is slavery. You will be slavering your<br />
daughters when you marry them; therefore, check the individuals you are going to give your<br />
daughters to in slavery.”[3]<br />
Islam warns against marrying the drunkard. The Prophet (s) said, “For those who marry their<br />
daughters to the drunkards, they are cutting off the relations of kinship.”<br />
In modern medicine, it has been proven that sons receive genetically the effects of the<br />
intoxicants. Dr. Brogans says, “Alcoholism causes barrenness. Duncan reports the story of the<br />
alcoholic lady that could not be pregnant for years while she had no physiological problem at all.<br />
As she was treated from dipsomania for one year, she could bear a baby. The same thing is<br />
applied to men. The reason is that the alcoholic materials enfeeble the backbone and paralyzes<br />
the brain. The offspring of those who are poisoned by such drugs receive genetically these<br />
poisons. Hence, they are dangerous not only for the drunkards, but also for their descendants,<br />
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